Chapter 11 Chapter 10: Saving Parents, Saving Love

Calling for the rescue of kinship is not just a matter between parents and children. As far as family members are concerned, there is also the relationship between brothers and sisters, grandparents and grandchildren. These are also the category of family ties.And there have been a lot of problems at this level in recent years.Fighting between brothers and sisters is ruthless. For a little benefit, a conflict, and a family property, you can fight to the death. The phenomenon is too numerous to mention. Let’s first follow my narrative to see the fate of the following characters: It was a morning in November last year. Two joint defense team members from Xi’an Town, Nanhai City, Guangdong Province were patrolling the back mountain of Dacha Village near the town as usual. They were walking and found a piece of mud in the woods in front of them. In particular, it seemed to have been turned over by someone, so the two defenders kicked the loose soil with their feet casually, and they were shocked. There was a small head exposed in the loose soil, and they saw it again A small head... The two joint defense team members were scared out of their wits. They thought that Liu's family in Dacha Village said that they had lost two children in the past two days, so they hurriedly ran and called the people in the village to identify the buried in loose soil. People in the village ran to the mountain to identify the two little heads in the house. Isn't this the 5-year-old second and 2-year-old third siblings of Liu's family!

In an instant, the sad news that a pair of younger sisters from Liu's family were murdered spread throughout the nearby villages.Liu and his wife rushed to the scene and saw their own flesh and blood being mutilated to death in a small pit less than 1 meter deep, and they were devastated.Liu has 3 children in total, besides the 2 killed, there is also a daughter who is already 20 years old.Liu, who had always hoped to have a son, only had a son when he was 50 years old, so the couple regarded the youngest son as the apple of their eye.Because this youngest son is not easy to come by, let's not talk about the tight control of the local family planning department!The painstaking efforts of the couple can be seen only by the fact that the couple finally got a son as they wished after 18 years of unremitting efforts after giving birth to their eldest daughter.Two days before the accident, Liu and his wife returned home after work at 6 o'clock in the evening, but they did not see their little daughter and son waiting for them at the door as usual. They searched all over the village that night, but they still couldn't find the child, so they hurriedly reported to the police station, but after a few days, there was still no news of the child.If it weren't for the unintentional discovery of the joint defense team, the Liu family still thought that the child might have been cheated by some human traffickers from other places!

The little brother of the Liu family died terribly. The pit where they were buried alive was only above the head of the 2-year-old boy. Later, the police found that there were obvious signs of children struggling in the loose soil of the pit, especially the little boy’s head. Two-thirds of his buttocks were exposed. The poor 2-year-old was weak and short of breath, and was finally suffocated to death by the thin loose soil. Who did such a cruel thing?The public security officers quickly launched a reconnaissance and soon discovered that the eldest daughter of the Liu family had an abnormal expression after the accident with her younger sister and younger brother, and she was hiding in Tibet, acting suspiciously: so the public security department interrogated her in isolation. On the sidelines, the boss of the Liu family began to panic, and finally confessed her criminal process of mutilating her siblings: The eldest daughter of the Liu family had a boyfriend, and she occasionally heard from him that Murakami was building an apartment.

"Even if your family divides the apartment, it doesn't belong to you. It belongs to your parents." Her boyfriend said to her. "Isn't it mine when my parents die?" she replied. "That's not necessarily true. You still have younger sisters and younger brothers, especially your parents love your younger brother so much. Why don't you pass all the good things in the family to him in the future!" After hearing this, the eldest daughter of the Liu family felt like a slump in her heart. After thinking about it, she came up with a plan that she thought was brilliant: one day, at the age of 20, she took her 5-year-old sister who was not sensible at all and her 2-year-old sister. The younger brother took them to the mountain in the back village and said that he would take them to play, but the little sister and the younger brother didn't know that the big sister had a vicious heart.They were bouncing all the way yelling sister, good sister, good, but when they got to a pit and didn't understand what was going on, the sister who followed them actually lifted a big tree trunk, bang bang a few times Just swung them on their heads... Afterwards, the younger sister and younger brother were unconsciously buried alive in the small pit by their own sister.

Liu's eldest daughter gritted her teeth while reflecting in prison and said: "I think I... don't kill them, I won't get anything passed down by my parents, so I don't think about other things" Liu The tragedy of the family began with this 20-year-old girl. As a 20-year-old sister, she was supposed to have compatriot affection for her two younger siblings. sins.Perhaps it was because she was older than her younger siblings that she understood the word interest, and finally even ignored the basic sibling relationship. This kind of crime of extinction of family affection and humanity is not the only one committed by the elder sister of the Liu family who is much more sensible than her younger siblings.

It is also a child surnamed Liu, with 3 brothers, the eldest is 15 years old, the youngest is 13 and 7 years old.Lao Liu is an employee of a certain mining bureau. In the past few years, the profitability of the mine has not been good, and the life of Lao Liu's family is very difficult.One day he said at home that according to such a day, at most one of the three children will go to college in the future.The father looked at the elder brother who was studying in junior high school, then sighed, and said: It depends on who gets better grades in school... The second child and the third child are still young, both in elementary school, they don't take their father's words to heart, they play and drink as usual.Only the boss didn't sleep soundly that night, he rolled around on the bed all night without closing his eyes, he was thinking: what father said is obviously to let the younger brothers with good academic performance go to college in the future, but my boss seems to be out of luck , because my grades are usually not as good as theirs, and our father is also a junior college graduate of a mining university, but now he can't even keep his job. If I can't go to college in the future, I don't know what to do?

The more the boss thinks about it, the more he feels that life is useless, so why not simply... He thought of an idea—an idea that could fulfill his wish. After returning home from school the next day, the boss called the two younger brothers to a mountain not far from home, and lied to them that they were playing, but ended up playing the same trick as the big sister of the Liu family above, except that the boss of the Liu family used it first. After beating the two younger brothers to death with a wooden stick, they dug a hole and buried them both. After the case happened, the boss was under the age of sentencing when he was arrested by the Public Security Bureau. When asked why he did this, he gave a very simple answer:

"If I don't kill them, I won't be able to go to college." He asked again, "That's your own brother!" He said: "He is my younger brother now, but if I can't go to college because of them in the future, won't this younger brother become my enemy for the rest of my life?" Others asked: "Now that you have killed them, don't you also become their enemy?" He said very calmly: "So why are you talking about kissing..." It is obviously impossible to say that this 15-year-old boy is immature at all. From his thinking, we can see a kind of tension between people in today's society driven and dominated by certain interests. family crisis.

When I was writing this work, I happened to meet a friend who was working in Shenzhen. He told me a story that was even more thought-provoking.There is a pair of brothers from a certain city in Hunan Province. The two brothers suffered from the hardships of life because of their father’s early death. When they died for their sick mother, they went south to Shenzhen with only 5,000 yuan. What is 5,000 yuan enough for?The elder brother said to the younger brother: "Look at Shenzhen, there are rich people everywhere. If we two brothers want to make a fortune, we must dare to take big risks."

The younger brother asked: "What kind of adventure method?" My brother said: "Look, people are playing stocks now. Why don't we use the money to buy some stocks? Maybe our money will double in a few days." The younger brother became anxious when he heard this, and said: "Brother, let's just find a job steadily, and maybe we can have something to eat. How can we be sorry for my mother if I messed up playing stocks? The 5,000 yuan is because my mother is reluctant to treat her illness." The only thing left is..." the younger brother said with tears streaming down his face.

My brother also cried.Because their mother was in the late stage of a serious illness because she knew that she was curing the disease, so the two filial sons not only failed to find a partner, but also ruined their little family fortune.Originally, she could have an operation for the last time, and she might live longer, but she knew that an operation would cost several thousand yuan, so she threw herself into the river when no one was prepared.When the brothers dragged their stiff mother from the bottom of the river with the help of neighbors and carried them back to the hard plank bed at home, they found the 5,000 yuan that their mother had left for them under the bunk. Such money will naturally make people feel sad when they mention it. In this way, the two brothers each found a job opportunity, but the elder brother saw that he made a fortune overnight playing stocks, so he still wanted to make a fortune.So one day he asked someone to secretly buy 3,000 yuan of stocks and leave 2,000 yuan to prepare for the living expenses of the brothers. In the end, within 10 days, he was told that he thought he would get back double the money.When the elder brother thought about it, he simply bought new shares for the several thousand yuan he had brought back.Another month passed, and the Shenfa stock he bought for 6,000 yuan doubled several times in the market, and the 6,000 yuan turned into 60,000 yuan like a magic trick. The elder brother was so happy that he hid in the toilet alone and cried—he dared not let others know, and he was even more afraid of letting his younger brother know. The honest brother is still working in a private company. The restless heart of the elder brother could not be calmed at this time, he told his younger brother that he didn't want to work anymore and was going to start a small business by himself. The younger brother became anxious when he heard it, and said that you can't take risks anyway. My brother said that here in Shenzhen, if you don’t take risks, you will always be poor and never get rich. The younger brother said, we are born as hard-working children of a dutiful family, why do we have to make a fortune?It is enough to have a meal. The elder brother disagrees with the younger brother's idea, saying that you will always be old-fashioned like this. Old fashioned is old fashioned.The younger brother was not convinced.The brothers quarreled for the first time. Finally, the younger brother said: You really want to start a small business, then we will divide the 5,000 yuan left by my mother, and we will each do our own thing. My brother said yes.He immediately took out 3,000 yuan and gave it to his brother, saying that I am a brother, and I should let you order it. You take 3,000 yuan, and I keep 2,000 yuan—in fact, he already has more than 50,000 yuan in his pocket. Very touched. From then on, the two brothers did their own things, the younger brother still worked part-time, and the older brother threw off his arms and went to the stock market.He invested all the money except living expenses in buying those newly listed stocks, and he was lucky enough to succeed again and again.At that time, the stock market was just rising, especially the prices of those original stocks soared like a rocket.In less than a year, this brother changed from 50,000 yuan to a rich man with more than 700,000 yuan in hand, and he was well-known in the Shenzhen stock market, known as the little black fish. After Xiao Heiyu gained power, many stockholders came to him for advice, and he also openly told others about how he and his younger brother only had 5,000 yuan in their possession and later bought stocks without telling his younger brother.These classic stories of his have been praised by many new investors in the stock market.One day, one of my younger brother's working colleagues told him about his brother's legend. Only then did my younger brother suddenly realize that his elder brother made a fortune without telling him, and it was with the money of the two brothers back then! The younger brother found the elder brother and said that you have to give me money. My brother was taken aback for a moment, then smiled and said yes, we brothers still need to talk.Immediately, the elder brother gave the younger brother 10,000 yuan. The younger brother didn't take it, so his face was sullen, and he didn't say anything. My brother was angry: what's the matter with you? 10,000 yuan!If you work for a year, you may not necessarily have so much money! The younger brother smirked at his elder brother, but didn't speak. The elder brother immediately turned his face up: what do you want to do? We divide.said the younger brother. When the elder brother heard it, his face flushed, and he asked, "Score?"what? People say that you have at least 600,000 to 700,000 yuan now, and we don't share it equally, but you should give me at least 200,000 yuan, and I won't leave if I lose even one cent.The younger brother stared at the elder brother word by word and said so. Fuck you, why do you want to break up with me?I thought I got the money back. I gave you an extra 1,000 yuan from the 5,000 yuan left by my mother at that time. Why should I give it to you?Brother shouted loudly. The younger brother's face also turned red: But you had already earned 50,000 to 60,000 yuan without telling me, and it was 5,000 yuan left by Yongma. You said you gave me 1,000 yuan more, but I knew you were less Gave me at least 20,000 to 30,000 yuan!You have been coaxing me and lying to me from the very beginning, this time I am not so stupid, 300,000 yuan is a must!If you give it to us, we will be cleared, if you don’t give it, then one of us will go to accompany parents first... The younger brother said, pulling out a sharp knife from his waist. My brother never imagined that his younger brother, who has always been weak, would force him to die. My brother felt that my brother was too heartless. He worked hard in the stock market and did things with his heart every day. He never had a single day of peace. , although the money is too much, but it depends on luck!No matter what, he couldn't imagine that his own brother would force him like this.What kind of affection, what kind of family, what kind of brothers, shit!Not even a dog. If a dog owner gave it a bone to eat, it would wag its tail happily. It's a good thing for the younger brother. He didn't do anything. Giving him 10,000 yuan for nothing is too little. It turned out that the lion opened his mouth, and it cost 300,000 yuan for one mouth! Okay, you, I will finish my speech today... My brother took out another 20,000 yuan from his pocket and threw it on the table, saying: For the sake of our dead parents, this 30,000 yuan is considered to be the end of our brothers who have been together for more than 20 years Love, you take the 30,000 yuan away, and we will go our separate ways from now on, and we will no longer be brothers.If you still think it’s too little and you’re being foolish, then it’s also for the sake of your parents. Today, if you are there, there will be no me, and if there is me, there will be no you... The elder brother took off the shirt on his body and stretched his neck towards the younger brother: I will let you one last time, you do it first. The younger brother was really stunned by his elder brother's hand, but when he thought that he could only get 30,000 yuan instead of 300,000 yuan, his blood vessels continued to expand, and the hand holding the knife was shaking violently... Suddenly, he closed his eyes and stabbed at his brother's chest... Ah——, with a loud cry, one of them fell heavily on the ground like a sack filled with sand and gravel, but it was not the elder brother who fell, but the younger brother.It turned out that although the younger brother who wanted to kill someone did not have the courage to open his eyes and raise the knife to his own brother, and when the older brother saw that his own brother was really stabbing him with a knife, he felt despair, and also felt that all family and brotherhood were completely lost. Then, taking advantage of the moment when the closed-eyed younger brother rushed towards him, he turned sideways quickly, and then swept his foot, the younger brother who had lost his center of gravity slammed into a shit.And the older brother took the knife, stabbed the younger brother three times in the back, and immediately blood sprayed all over the room... When the police discovered the case, the younger brother had died.Dozens of days later, his elder brother was arrested in Hainan and sentenced to life imprisonment.When he was in prison, the amount of money that the police seized from him was exactly 5,000 yuan, just like when he went to Shenzhen, except that his younger brother was gone. I would rather not have such a younger brother. I hate him to death. He ruined me and himself... This brother is right.It's just that what he didn't expect was that he would spend the next few decades behind bars with the kind of strong hatred for his own brother. Whenever someone mentioned this to him, he would grit his teeth. ring. The person who harbors such a deep hatred for his own brother is far from the only Xiangzi who was imprisoned in a prison in Guangdong. Tang Guisheng from Wuxi, Jiangsu is another brother who died unjustly in Taihu Lake because of his own sister. Tang Gui happened to be 48 years old when he died. He had a son who was studying in Shanghai. Now every Qingming, the son would go back to Wuxi to burn incense for his father by the Taihu Lake to commemorate the soul of his deceased father who could not rest in peace. Tang Guisheng and his younger sister Tang Guixiang were very close since they were young. When their parents were alive, the two brothers and sisters shared all the delicious food with each other and never cared about it.According to the traditional customs in the south, sons stay at home and marry back their daughter-in-law, and daughters have to marry out and start a new family.When Tang Guisheng's younger sister reached the age of marriage, he saw that his parents left a lot of houses, and his family of three lived in a space. He also saw that his sister's object had three brothers, and the house was very tight, so he said to his sister that you should just marry the object. Come back, what year is it now, it doesn't matter if you bark in the door backwards.As soon as the younger sister discussed with her partner, she agreed to the elder brother's kindness.In this way, the brothers and sisters got married and started their own businesses, and they lived their lives day by day. The children of the brothers and sisters' families grew up slowly. The elder brother Tang Guisheng honestly implemented family planning and had a son, and the younger sister and brother-in-law were very capable. The next set of twins.The elder brother was also very happy to see his sister's family so lucky, and all the nephews were named after his uncle.A pair of twins is like a pair of little tigers, they have grown mighty since they were young, so as not to make their uncle proud, and the whole family who are naturally younger sisters are even more delighted. The brothers and sisters lived in harmony for more than ten years.But just the year before last, Tang Guisheng and his wife gradually fell ill, and their health deteriorated year after year. In addition, his son was about to go to college. Tang Guisheng finally collapsed on the sickbed, but he still fulfilled his wish to send his son to college. Tang Gui, who was lying on the head of the sick bed, sighed, and said to the heaven that he was also a fortune teller, and that his son would be able to glorify his ancestors after graduating from university in the future, and he would be worthy of the Tang family. Although a pair of cubs from my younger sister's family are in good health and strength, they just can't study well, and they didn't get into high school after graduating from junior high school.Tang Guisheng's younger sister Tang Guixiang and her husband were anxious about this, but there was nothing they could do.What year is it now?Children who can't go to high school can only serve as slaves to the rich and do coolies. In the future, even a good marriage will become a problem.The younger sister Tang Guixiang shed so many tears for this, she also complained a lot in front of her brother - of course the one who complained the most was that her man had a pig brain.Scolding is scolding, the son's future has to find a way quickly.What better way can the country people come up with?Yes, your son can't go to college, and he can't become a great talent outside. You can make the pavilions look decent inside and out at home, and you can also recruit a good wife. Otherwise, it's Amu zero dialect: A worthless person.The younger sister wanted to discuss with her brother what to do, but when she saw that her brother was ill at the bedside, she listened to her husband and did whatever she wanted.Which of the houses built in Wuxi now has upstairs and downstairs, front yard and back yard?But for a pair of twin tigers, whatever you cover one tiger, you have to cover the other tiger exactly the same. What made my younger sister Tang Guixiang a little difficult to deal with was that when she and her elder brother Guisheng were brothers and sisters of the Tang family, their homestead was quite large, and now she can afford to stay at home and set up a separate household with her elder brother. , but now I have to expand the original homestead to build two new buildings for the two tigers. Obviously my sister feels that her homestead is too small.At night, she secretly measured it with her feet for a long time. No matter what, the foundation of a new building had to be two meters away from her brother. My sister was a little embarrassed.But the husband said: "His son has gone to college, and he will definitely not start a family in his hometown in the future. It seems that our two worthless precious sons will have to be buried on this old homestead in the next life." At this time, my brother was seriously ill and was sent to the hospital again, where he stayed for 3 months.My younger sister's son is getting older every day, eighteen or nineteen years old, walking on the road like two big men, when will I wait if I don't look for a partner?From time to time, people who proposed marriage came to ask Tang Guixiang. Being a younger sister is a bit embarrassing: "If you don't build a building anymore, how can the proposer bring the girl from the other family for a blind date? How can a good phoenix fly to the Tang family in a narrow and small old building?" "When will your brother let you go? In my opinion, let's build the house. He is so sick. You can ask him if he disagrees or if he gets angry again. First, you can't afford it, and second, our family The marriage of the two sons must always be delayed, right?" Tang Guixiang felt that what her man said had some truth.So the couple made up their minds, and when the elder brother was hospitalized, the sister-in-law went to the city hospital to accompany the ward, dug out the house foundation of the building in threes and fives, and then took advantage of the winter slack season to call in masons and carpenters. The master built the two buildings while the iron was hot. When the Spring Festival came, my elder brother’s son came home from his school in Shanghai during the winter vacation and saw that his home was crowded like a matchbox by his aunt’s new building.He thought that his father who was in the hospital knew about it, so he rushed to the hospital to look at his father on the sickbed and persuaded him, "Dad, we don't need to build a building and expand our foundation like our aunt's house. Anyway, I will try to find a job in Shanghai in the future. Take you to live in the city of Shanghai, besides, you are sick and your mother is not in good health, no aunt's family has the strength to build a house." "Why does my aunt's house build buildings? I don't know at all. When did her family start work?" The seriously ill father was very surprised by his son's words. "You don't know anything?" The son opened his eyes wide and said, "My aunt's house is not only a house, but two buildings! The wall of one of the buildings has already been attached to the wall of our house." Tang Guisheng became angry when he heard this: "What does she want to do? Before I die, she wants to steal the Tang family's foundation?" "Call her to the hospital when you go back tomorrow, and I'll ask her what she wants to do!" Tang Guisheng had never been so angry with his younger sister.He told his son to go back immediately. But the son failed to call his aunt to the hospital.Tang Gui was so angry that no one could persuade him, he must be discharged from the hospital and go home. "Sister!" Tang Guixiang saw her brother coming home from the hospital on crutches, and knew that something was wrong, so she came over to intercede with her brother: "I wanted to tell you a long time ago, but I was afraid it would affect your treatment..." "If I'm dead, won't I be able to take all of the little land of the Tang family to you?" The elder brother glared at his younger sister angrily and scolded, "If you don't move the wall of the building back two meters for me today, your whole family will be destroyed." Let me move back to the Li family in Wangzhuang" - my sister's husband lives in Wangzhuang. "Brother, you're offended by what you said. Both of us are going to marry wives. Besides, you asked me to do it again and again when I stepped in the door. How can I not follow you?" "Follow me? Follow me, and you see me in the hospital and not at home, so you immediately seize the homestead and build a new building? I'm not dead yet!" The more my brother said, the more angry he became: "If you don't tear down the walls of the building today, I will hang myself On the door frame of your new building!" "Brother, what are you talking about? I have no choice. The two tigers are worthless, so I can only hold on to the air to recruit two marriages. You are so desperate to kill me, and I have no choice but to ignore you, brother." It's time for you..." After finishing speaking, the younger sister Tang Guixiang shook her ass to show her brother. "Seeing that I'm sick, you want me to die early and give it to you? Bah!" Tang Gui was so angry that he picked up an iron handle, rushed to the base of the wall of the new building, panting, and started to scratch, while scratching. While still swearing non-stop. These two tigers of Tang Guixiang are very happy to see them!Picking up their new building is like someone robbing their daughter-in-law, stepping forward, grabbing uncle Tang Guisheng by the arm, and throwing him to the ground like a chicken. "Little beast! Livestock——" Tang Zhisheng was already sick, so how could he stand up to the fists of two seventeen or eighteen-year-old boys?I was spitting out blood... This is where things get serious.The villagers hurriedly carried Tang Guisheng to the boat and sent him to the hospital in the town. Brother Tang Guisheng had no choice but to stay in the hospital for another month. During this period, he kept asking his son and wife if his sister's building was still under construction? The son and wife were afraid that something might happen to him, so they told him that they had stopped.In fact, not only did the building not stop, but it was completed half a month ahead of schedule.During this period, the sister's family never appeared in the brother's ward. "They are unfeeling to me." Tang Guisheng lay on the sick bed and sighed extremely sadly. Finally one day he was going to be discharged from the hospital, and his son was going back to Shanghai to go to school.When Tang Guisheng saw from a distance the two new buildings of his own sister's house towering high on the Tang family's homestead, and the old building of his older brother leaning there like his dying body, he always kept a good face. Tang Guisheng felt ashamed to go home. Taking advantage of the unprepared day, he jumped into Taotao Taihu Lake with a heart full of hatred for his own sister... Regarding the grievances between the brothers and sisters of the Tang family, this should have ended here, but things are not that simple. When Tang Guisheng's son who was studying in Shanghai learned the truth that his father was forced to die by his aunt's family, the young man who drank college ink for several years did not stop doing anything, and hired two lawyers to take the two of his aunt's family to death. The son sued the court for intentional injury.The villagers all saw Tang Guixiang's two sons beating his uncle that day, and the hospital proved that the direct cause of Tang Guisheng's injury and hospitalization was the injury caused by the beating, which caused internal hemorrhage in the liver.Although he was discharged from the hospital later, the root cause of the disease and the stagnation of Qi caused him to commit suicide by throwing himself into the lake.With all the witnesses and material evidence, Tang Gui was wronged in his life and death, and things became complicated and simplified after he was promoted to law. Tang Guixiang's two sons went to jail because of this lawsuit.Although the punishment was not severe, Tang Guixiang, who thought he had the upper hand in the sibling rivalry, was greatly irritated. His son turned gray when he was in prison for less than two months.Suddenly one day, Tang Guixiang went to her elder brother's house, hugged her nephew who had just returned from Shanghai, and laughed loudly: "My son is back!"I want to find a wife for my son! Tang Guixiang went crazy from then on, chasing after her nephew to marry him a wife all day long, so that the college student never dared to go home again.Today, a well-behaved Tang family can neither see the seniors who support the door nor the descendants who are prosperous. It is a desolate scene. When the villagers of the same clan and village mention this matter, they all shake their heads and sigh. All the villagers sighed and said a series of words during the discussion: These days, it is only true that you are benefiting yourself. Brothers, sisters, sons, and daughters are not as good as benefits.Today's world is a changing world.In this ever-changing world, people's values ​​are undergoing tremendous changes.But no matter how it changes and changes, the kinship among family members cannot be measured by values, and its particularity determines the basic quality of human continued existence.Therefore, I from numerous!In the phenomenon of serious alternative children's problems that have emerged, it is necessary to pay attention to the proposition of saving family ties.We can also attribute the saving of family ties to an extremely important part of building socialist spiritual civilization and governing the country with virtue.The reason is very simple. A society is made up of family cells. Only a small family can make a big family and a country.Family affection and blood relationship connect the smallest social unit of human beings, and also connect the entire human world.Without a harmonious and happy family relationship, human beings will be a huge and terrifying aggressive zoo. If this is the case, human beings will be the fastest extinct species in all animal kingdoms. None of us expected such a world to emerge! However, this is not the case in reality. When we pay a little attention to some people and things around us, we will find too many strange phenomena that are contrary to common sense.Just to name a few figures: In 2000, in Tianjin alone, 500 elderly people asked to break away from their children, on the grounds that the care was reversed, that after the children got married, they demanded money from the elderly, and some of them had been abused by their children for a long time; From January to April 2001, only a certain southern province accepted 205 criminal cases involving property disputes between brothers and sisters, 23 of which resulted in death and 58 of which resulted in disability or injury; During the Spring Festival in 2001 in cities such as Shanghai, Nanjing, and Beijing, there were more than 380 disputes caused by complaints about the uneven money and goods given by parents due to the marriage of brothers and sisters, which were local civil disputes. All these phenomena show a fact: when people pursue the fashion and happiness of life, they gradually abandon the family affection that should be cherished, and replace it with extreme individualism and utilitarianism.Its evil results make others astonished and unbelievable. It is gratifying that in this busy world, people have no time to take care of thousands of other children, and the more and more serious and complicated social problems caused by it. In the harsh reality, in our same society, there are still so many kind and selfless people exalting family affection and spreading love, which just represents a direction of progress for our national moral level. Let's start with the city of Beijing. There is a couple, the man's surname is Ye and the woman's surname is Chen.They live in Xinzhuang Village, Dongfeng Township, on the outskirts of Beijing.Lao Ye's wife, Chen Rong, was picked up by him on the street 30 years ago - at that time Chen Rong was an orphan who fled from Shandong to Beijing.They later married and had two children of their own. One day seven years ago, when my wife, who was a cleaner in the city, was passing by Wangfujing Street, he heard a baby crying in a garbage dump. I can no longer drop my hands.This orphan named Zhonghua became the first non-biological child of the Ye family.In the next few years, Ye and Chen picked up 4 abandoned babies in the inner and outer suburbs of Beijing.The smallest one was picked up near the Oriental Plaza during the National Day in 2000. At that time, the child was already frozen and was an abandoned baby with cleft lip.But Aunt Chen did not refuse the abandoned baby who was later named Guoqing to enter the house.The Ye and Chen couples may have the most children among the more than 2 million families in Beijing, but no one would believe that they may also be the family with the worst living conditions in Beijing. The family of 9 has only one and a half houses, and the only source of income for the whole family is the money that the couple earns by picking up junk. Someone asked Ye and Chen how they could adopt so many orphans under the extremely difficult living conditions.The Ye and Chen couples put it very simply: We may not be able to give our children anything, but we can use our wholehearted love to help these poor children get the warmth of their families and relatives... The deeds of Ye and Chen moved the people of the capital. Let's go out of Beijing to Hebei: In Cangzhou, Hebei Province, in a village called Xiaozhaozhuang, Ducun Township, a farmer named Su Yuxiang adopted 17 children of inmates in Cangzhou Prison.Su Yuxiang used to be a well-known local peasant entrepreneur who belonged to a well-to-do family. However, since adopting so many homeless children, his business collapsed, and all his savings were used to pay for the children's living expenses. School fees.There were times when Su Yuxiang secretly went to the hospital in Cangzhou City to sell blood in exchange for food for the children when he could not open the pot at home.Even so, over the past few years, Su Yuxiang and his wife have never been intimidated by difficulties. They would rather go hungry and sell their own blood, but also ensure that their 17 children will not be mistreated in the slightest. Su Yuxiang's actions inspired many people around him.A friend of his who lives in Tianjin gave up retirement to enjoy a leisurely life at home, and took the initiative to go to Cangzhou to help Su Yuxiang take care of the life and study of 17 children. Now the affection in this special family is strong and harmonious.Although Su Yuxiang may face the embarrassment of lack of money and rice every day in order to raise so many children, I can't imagine that those children of criminals who were originally displaced and discriminated against by others can find a place that is safer, warmer and full of love than here. home. However, my conclusions are somewhat premature. In Jingbian County, Yulin City, Shaanxi Province, there is also such a middle-aged man. With his good workmanship, he earned 900,000 yuan on the impoverished Loess Plateau and took in 46 orphans.It's not that this man named Ma Guocheng from the Loess Plateau has too much money to spend, in fact, he also has the right to enjoy the money he earns, or distribute it to his brothers and sisters.Everyone knows that Ma Guocheng was a hard-working child since he was a child. He had to eat, gnawed bark, and dug wild vegetables. He never tasted what it was like to eat white flour steamed buns in the long days before the age of 18.After the reform and opening up, he earned money by his handicrafts, but while feeling the social changes, he never let go of one thing, that is, in the northwest region, whether it is in the city or in the countryside, there are too many homeless people. Orphans and weak children on the street and at the entrance of the village... Ma Guocheng will never forget that once when he was eating in a small restaurant in the county, eight scrawny and scrawny beggars begged in front of him. This Northwest man who had just become rich but had no time to live a happy life went bankrupt and borrowed more than 500,000 yuan to build a Ma Guocheng Orphanage with a total investment of more than 1.4 million yuan... Ma Guocheng's deeds were published in the Beijing Youth Daily.But later in the interview, I found out that in Shaanxi Province alone, there are several good-doers like Ma Guocheng who adopt orphans.They are Ms. Zhang Shuying from the Provincial Public Security Department, Guo Jianhua from Sanyuan Shuzhuang, etc. They not only adopted hundreds of children of criminals serving sentences in Northwest Prisons and vagrants living in the west, but also built the first batch of large-scale orphan village.The fate of the orphan named Heidou that many people have seen many times on the CCTV program is the first child to enter the orphan village.黑豆无爹无妈，乡亲们都因为穷而抚养不起他，这位可怜的小男孩子因此吃东家宿西家，等到张淑英、郭建华他们找到小黑豆时，这5岁的孩子身高不足90厘米，体重仅有15公斤。小黑豆进了孤儿村，不仅有了善待他的爹妈，现在也进了学校读书。 与靖边县遥隔秦岭一山的河南三门峡，这里到处可以听到人们在传颂一位大妈认贼作子的故事。 这位大妈名叫田淑敏，原是东北人，1973年她和丈夫带着11岁的女儿和9岁的儿子响应国家支援三线建设的号召，从沈阳机床厂调到三门峡豫西机床厂工作。说起田大妈认贼作子，还得从她痛失儿子的事开始说起。那是“文革”刚刚结束，有一天田大妈和厂里的一位熟人聊天时谈起自己的丈夫在文革中因受冲击一直没有涨上工资，十几岁的儿子齐伟在一旁听着听着，琢磨起要为父母出气的壮举来——他竟然去偷了厂领导家的东西。结果，小齐伟付出了惨重的代价，他被判盗窃罪处以一年劳教的刑罚。 “我的儿子不是贼，他心眼不坏。”那一次，田大妈虽然心疼地看着儿子进了劳教所，但在她心目中，儿子仍然是世上最好的儿子。 一年后，儿子齐伟从劳教所出来后，即如换了一个身份似的，处处受到外界的歧视和冷落，小偷也成了他的大名。“妈妈，咱家搬家吧！搬得越远越好，永远离开这个鬼地方……”一日，儿子跪在母亲的跟前哭着乞求道。 “这孩子，你疯了？我和你爸整天在单位里有忙不完的工作要做，你瞎搅乱什么呀？”那时一心想着工厂工作的田大妈，根本没有把儿子绝望的哭求放在睱里，还以为浑儿子又不知在想什么混账事。她照常该忙什么还忙什么。哪知饱受外界冷落和歧视的儿子，见亲生父母也不理会自己，从此便自暴自弃。初中毕业后，儿子开始与社会上的那些哥们儿混在一起，整天合伙盘算着联手盗窃财物。1988年，突然有一天，呜呜作响的警车开到田大妈的家门口，几位全副武装的警察用手铐将田大妈的儿子押上了警车。由于儿子涉及重大盗窃案，罪不可赦，1990年5月被政法机关判处死刑。善良、爱子的田大妈犹如惨遭晴天霹雳。当眼见着儿子被押赴刑场撕心裂肺地呼喊着妈妈，救救我！救救我的那生死永别的一幕时，田大妈昏倒在路边，并且一病数日不起…… 那是太突然和太想象不到的灾祸，田大妈久久不能从痛苦和自责中自拔。也正是在这漫长而痛苦的自责中，她想了许多许多，其中最多的是从自己对儿子教育的失职中，联想到了天下还有那么多与儿子—样由于缺乏亲情、缺少关心而走上犯罪道路的孩子。想多了，田大妈越发从对不起自己儿子的那份感情中，转移到了对那些仍在饱受冷漠和歧视的孩子们的命运上。没有爹妈的孩子最可怜，而得不到爹妈关心帮助的孩子也许比他们更可怜，更孤独，更迫切需要亲人的关怀。 我失去了一个儿子，再不能让天下千百万的父母再失去儿子，更不能让同样像我天真可爱的儿子一样的年轻人成为社会的罪人，让爹妈揪心落泪啊！那些日子里，田大妈反反复复想着这件事，她下定决心要用自己的行动弥补一个失败母亲的那份足够悔恨一辈子的缺憾。 秋日，田大妈的身子尚未从失子的悲痛中恢复痊愈，她便坐不住了，赶到数百里外的焦作市监狱，看望了与儿子同案少年罪犯祁永跃。已被判6年的祁永跃先是一愣，继尔扑通一下跪在田大妈脚跟前，痛哭流涕道：“大妈，我这辈子完了！彻底地完了！就是6年后出去了，还会有人把我当人看待吗？你说我活着还有什么意思啊？大妈……” “孩子，你站起来。只要你站起来真心悔过，堂堂正正重新做人，就一定会活得好的。你要有勇气，孩子……”那一天，田大妈看到祁永跃的憔悴頹废的面容和痛不欲生的情景，犹如针尖扎在她的心头。回到家，她再也无法平静那颗受伤的心，顿时胸中升起一股炽烈的母爱之情。她给祁永跃发出了第一封信。她在信中说道： ……孩子，人的一生不可能不犯错，关键是犯了错后不心灰意冷，而是要坚定地痛改前非，用汗水来洗刷污点。永跃，你的齐伟哥已经去了，我没有对他尽到母亲的责任，你婶我将悔恨终身，只要你答应我好好改造，重新做人我肯认你当儿子尽全力帮助你…… 没隔几日，田大妈收到了祁永跃的来信，这是一封一位站在迷途的黑暗中看到一丝希望和阳光的赤诚之信： Mother: 请接受儿一拜吧！你能认我这个罪犯为儿，我感激不尽。从今后，您就是我的亲妈妈。 妈，今后我听您的，好好改造，争取多立功，多減刑，早日获得自由，重新做人……你的来信，领导念给了同狱中的1000多位犯人听，许多人都哭了，他们齐声称您是世上最好的妈妈……您瞧，我又成了一个幸福的人儿！ 如此一去一来，田大妈认贼作子的故事就传开了。在她的鼓励下，祁永跃在半年多时间里，积极改造，立功一次，并减了刑。这让田大妈的脸上第一次露出了笑容。 对祁永跃的帮教成功，使田大妈内心震动很大，这时她不仅更加坚定了认贼作子的决心，而且想到了帮助更多的犯罪少年改变命运。从此之后，田大妈将整个身心投入到了关爱失足青年和那些缺乏亲情关爱的孩子工作上。在她自己的亲生儿子枪决后的10年时间里，先后共收认了5个失足青年为儿，并靠开办闻名三门峡的老田饺子店帮助这些儿子成家立业。田大妈用伟大的母爱和亲情，扬救的不仅仅是5个无家可归的儿子，而是当今社会正缺少的一种崇高的人间真爱，她与这些儿子非亲非故，可他们之间的爱与情远远超过了血缘亲情，美名传遍四方。今年4月，连北京的一位失足少年的母亲也千里迢迢赶到田大妈家，将自己无法管教的儿子送到田大妈家认母作儿。 田大妈的义举是我们这个社会的主旋律，它使我们重新看到了中华民族那种特有的不朽亲情。 可我知道，像田大妈这样将自己全部的亲情与爱给予那些饱受遗弃之苦的孩子们的人和事并不是惟一。 在这里，我当然要特别重提一下在第一章中已经写到的山西大同育孤学校的创办者张洪图先生。 这位科技干部出身的煤老板，利用他的发明创新技术办了一个新型煤厂，赚了不少钱，以其资产完全可以成为能使下几代人都不愁吃不愁穿的富翁。可他没有这么做，他首先想到的是要为那些失去爹妈和家庭的苦孩子建个学校，有个温暖幸福的家。8年了，张洪图执着地这样做，他把办厂赚得的4000多万元钱全部投到了建育孤学校上，先后从全国各地收养了近千名孤儿，2000年夏天我在他那儿采访时，正好是他办的孤儿学校出第一位大学生的日子。我着实有幸与他一起享受了一番收获的喜悦。 张洪图办孤儿学校的事在山西已成为民间一大美谈，因为现在不仅他自己倾囊出资几千万元为社会做了件大好事，而且也吸引了170多名好心人主动放弃优越的工作与生活条件，来到孤儿学校帮助他一起办校、当孩子们的爸妈。我印象中最深的是170多位主动来到张洪图身边的立志当孤儿爹妈的众人中，年轻的大学生占多数。他们有的已经在那儿结婚成家，有的甚至把远方的父母也接来一起在那儿安家落户。大同其实并不富裕，张洪图的育孤学校甚至经常还因一些社会因素而受到来自各方的种种压力，可这些立志与张洪图一起坚持到底的孤儿爹妈、学校老师，却义无反顾地留在那块土地上，留在孩子们中间。漂亮而充满魅力的张威小姐则是其中一个。这位在中央党校读完大学的女孩子，本来在北京是有工作的，她是在自己的伯伯张洪图的精神感召下主动请求留在伯伯身边协助办校的一位年轻教师。 我看这位漂亮的女孩整天在煤场边的学校出没，辛劳地负责着1000多个孩子的学习和整个学校的校务工作，便问她为什么甘心放弃北京的优越工作和生活环境，挑起现在这份又苦又累、默默无闻的活儿时，张威动情地对我说：我来伯伯这儿已经三年了，天天与孩子们在一起，感情深了，我就无法再与他们分开。并不是我不知道留在北京的好处，可现在真的让我留在北京，哪怕是一天，我的心也不会安定的，我会每时每刻地挂念他们。我和孩子们已经融为一家人了，心貼着心，这是无法用价值来换取的人间亲情…… 张威说得真好。 在这个世界上：还有什么比亲情更伟大、更崇髙、更无私、更牵肠挂肚？ No.我曾经问过10个以上有孩子的父母，我说当需要在你和你的孩子之间做一次生命的选择时，你会怎么办？ 他们几乎都是毫不犹豫地说：那还用问？我会眼睛都不多眨一下地让生留给我的孩子，让死留给我自己。 我知道这样的问题对多数成人来说都不是问题。因为我们都珍惜真情，视亲情高于生命，高于一切。 然而，我同样知道，在今天的许多人看来，已经进入极度追求自我与个人化生活、生存方式的物欲世界里，什么亲情爱情，那都不重要，惟有自我才真正重要和优先。于是便有了本文所关注的日趋严重并已经形成的当今社会的一个弱势群体，即那些刚刚来到这个世界就被遗弃，即因为父母不和或本身的某些缺陷，加之教育不当及无视下—代基本权利而导致的那些另类孩子的急剧出现，这个问题如今已越来越成为当今社会的一种不良时代病，且在直接影响着我们民族和国家下一代的人的质量。 这正是本部作品渴望达到的一个目的，希望社会能注意这个严峻的现实已摆在了我们面前：呼唤亲情，珍爱亲情，已经成为我们在走向文明时需要特别关注的重要社会素质课题。因为中国有近1000多万青少年正处在缺少或者完全没有亲情关爱之中，他们或者有的走上了苦难的凄惨之途，或者因生活所逼加入了抢劫杀人之列，有的则在无力支撑中走向死亡……这难道还不足以让我们所有生活在正常的学习和美好生活中的人以及广大社会学家给予重视吗？ 亲情如同构成人的躯体的基本基因一样，假如人类失去了起码的亲情，那么人类自身的生存和发展将最终遭到毁灭。 人类今天已经即将步入把人类自身生命的基因密码破译的时代，克隆人的生物工程也初见端愧，但我想无论人类对自身生命的破译程度如何，即使明天全人类都实现了基因克隆，而亲情和血缘仍然是联系我们情感和这个社会最基本的纽带。假如失去了这个纽带，人类还搞什么克隆呢，干脆制造机器人算了。同时我想，即使全人类进入机器人的时代，同一技术同一结构的同种机器人之间恐怕仍然有种关系是相互依存的，那还是他们之间的基本亲情。那么今天我们人类还没有进入克隆和机器人阶段，为什么就如此淡薄人与人之间的起码亲情呢？ 今天人们最喜欢用一个“爱”字，但人类原始的和起码的爱是从父与子、母与女、父母与子女、子女与父母之间的血缘与血统开始的。那么，从这个意义上讲，我郑重呼吁那些喜欢对异性、喜欢对公众大谈其爱的人们，先回过头对自己身边和对自己的亲人们——特别是对有血缘关系的亲人们真情地喊一声“爱”，因为他们真的太需要你的爱了。 我想谁都应该明白这样一个事实：你要想让另一个人爱你，那你自己起码有对自己亲人的爱，不然你从别人身上获得的爱最终也会失去，因为你不真正懂得什么叫爱。 作为独立的人，我们不能没有亲情。 没有亲情，人类就将停止繁衍，就将迅速地毁灭…… 为这，我呼吁—— 让爱，先从我们亲人之间构筑起来吧！ 让爱，先从我们亲人中间陶冶和光大吧！