Chapter 12 Epilogue Accepting and getting love is everyone's right

It can be said that in the world of human emotions, a word of love contains all the content we want to express and obtain.Love can make people excited, and it can also make people happy.Similarly, love can make people suffer, and it can also make people sad.Perhaps it is for this reason that, apart from the necessary appetite, the word love is the most talked about and loved by human beings. True love does not only refer to the erotic and sexual love between young people or between men and women. The content of love is actually very extensive, almost as much as all objects in nature.What I am pointing out here is one of the most basic and primitive family love of human beings.

What is family love?This is a word that does not need to be explained too much, because it is a kind of affection with blood relationship and genetic sense shared by all biological kingdoms and even plant kingdoms.Of course you must have seen the intimacy of a small fish swimming with a big fish; you have also seen the deep intimacy between a bitch and a puppy; of course you have seen more The heroic scene where the big monkey would rather die in order to protect the little monkey from outsiders... If you pay attention, you can find the lingering love between the towering tree and the young seedlings, and the burgeoning growth under the trunk of the giant bamboo. Hsinchu from the beginning... Aren't these all vivid and tangible expressions of family love?

Of course, no matter whether it is the biological kingdom or the plant kingdom, any kind of family love among them cannot compare with that of human beings.Looking through the history of ancient and modern China and foreign countries, how many times have we been moved by the stories and spirits of those mothers who endured hardships for their sons, and sons who went through fire and water for their mothers.And this mutual selfless devotion that takes place between loved ones is what makes our human society the most powerful living force in the biological and natural worlds. The most prominent range of family affection is between the family and its members.This kind of blood-related love is the main and fundamental part of the whole family relationship. It is inherent, it does not need to be taught, and it cannot be erased. Therefore, it has become one of the moral standards for human beings to measure themselves, and it is the minimum. The most important moral standard.Since ancient times in China, there has been a saying of "self-cultivation, family harmony, state governance, peace of the world and family affairs, state affairs, world affairs, and concern for everything".Home is always the most important and basic center of our life, and the existence of home is firstly due to the existence of kinship that connects this basic human organization.In this sense, the reason why human beings can develop to this day is that the role of family affection has almost assumed the most basic and greatest mission.

Without kinship, the relationship between humans may be the same as that of animals; without kinship, the development of human society may still be stagnant; without kinship, the evolutionary revolution of human beings may always remain in the ape stage.Even if we stop the development and development of kinship from now on, human beings can still degenerate to the primitive age - if there is no kinship, it means that life will no longer reproduce.And this is by no means appalling, imagine this: a mother does not retain care and responsibility for her offspring who is conceived in October, can she have a way to maintain the continued existence of her own life?The answer is obvious.

When I was writing this book, some friends asked me more than once why I didn’t take advantage of the trend of the two university series reportages, which are popular all over the country, and throw out another university series, and suddenly turned to the remote education of alternative children. What about the theme?Of course, it is necessary for me to take this opportunity to make it clear to friends and readers who care about my writing-obviously there is a reason for this: In the second half of 2000, when I was about to start the last series of university reportage writing, I was once invited by a friend to visit the Chinese Orphan School in Datong, Shanxi. Expressed in a chapter!I was among hundreds of orphans in those few days. After hearing and witnessing the fate of these poor children, my heart has never been at peace.I never thought that under the same sunshine, there are so many children living on the edge of suffering.This made me feel extremely sad.Looking at the perplexed and expectant eyes of so many children, I think I should do one thing quickly, which is to do my best to call on the society to care and pay attention to these unusual children.As for the rest of my personal work, it doesn't seem to matter at all, because there is no more urgent task than saving the lives of those vulnerable.

The situation of other children is not unique to our country, but almost every country in the world. The situation in backward African countries is more serious, while the situation in developed Western countries, especially the United States, is as serious.People who have finished reading this book will come to the same conclusion as me, that is: Are those who ruthlessly abandon their children in pursuit of personal pleasure influenced by the decadent ideas of the West?Under the influence of the thought of seeking personal enjoyment, they gradually forgot their responsibilities, and gradually wiped out their conscience. In the end, they could not even give up the minimum family affection, causing their own flesh and blood to suffer.It's very sad.Because even if such a person has the so-called happiness and satisfaction temporarily, he will not end up with a good result in the end.

The problem now is that for the alternative group of children, there are at least three things we need to do: One is to quickly rescue those children living in misery in an effective way, so that they can obtain basic living conditions and a relatively stable living and schooling environment in a short period of time; The second thing is to educate those parents who abandon their own flesh and blood for various reasons, or ignore their basic responsibilities, and arouse their basic conscience and humanity; The third is to mobilize and call on the whole society to take action, pay attention to and protect those street street children, disabled children, abandoned babies, mentally handicapped children and all other children who have lost their love and care——

In fact, don't do much, even if you just ask the child if you are hungry when you see these children, ask him to come in to warm up when you see such a child sleeping on the street, You'd be great if you weren't trying to steal his way... and that's exactly what any of us can do without trying. That being the case, who else would not extend a warm hand of care to these alternative children who are also the future of our motherland? Everyone desires to be loved, and a world without love is fearful, and a world of fear should not belong to children—no matter what kind of child he is, as long as he is a member of human beings, then he has the ability to obtain and accept love s right.

I wish all children living in the great land of China have the love of parents and family, the love of society and the country. I also hope that all children in the world have the same love between parents and family, society and country.