Chapter 9 Chapter 8 Under the same blue sky, why can't I see the sun alone?

Some people think that everything in the family belongs to their own private property, so he (she) is so domineering and domineering, saying: I or my mother is the emperor who rules everything.When you want to show off your power, you never care about other people's feelings, thinking that there is no right or wrong in the family, in short, Lao Tzu or Lao Niang is the best in the world. Hence the term domestic violence. Such parents think that only they are the sun that brings light and happiness to the family.But he (she) committed the most heartbreaking and unforgivable sin for children.

One day in October 1999, the golden autumn sun shone over Shenzhen, an open and modern new city, and every wealthy Shenzhener could see bright smiles on their faces.However, on the same day, in the Guangming Farm in the same city, a family surnamed Long was covered with rare clouds... On this day, the head of the Long family of a family of five died, and his youngest son also died. .According to the autopsy results of the hospital, they all died of poisoning. The criminal police detachment of the Shenzhen Public Security Bureau quickly investigated the sudden poisoning of the Long family father and son.As a result, Long Meifei, the 16-year-old daughter of the Long family, was listed as the first suspect.

"Long Meifei, do you know who poisoned your father and younger brother to death?" the police officer asked straightforwardly. Long Meifei, a young girl in the blooming season, but from the inside to the outside, it is hard to believe that this young girl is a girl living in the Shenzhen Special Economic Zone. Her thin figure and dark and yellow skin seem to have just returned from poverty. The poor girl who came out of the bend of the mountain. It can be seen that Long Meifei is a girl who has never seen the world. When the police interrogated her, her expression and timid demeanor are enough to prove that she has no ability to hide anything.But her blunt answer still surprised the public security officers present: "I gave the poison..."

"When was the poison given?" "Before breakfast." "What kind of medicine did you use?" "Rat poison." After Long Meifei finished speaking, in front of the police officers, he took out a pack of unused rat poison from under his bed, and threw it on the ground.Her facial expression was unusually calm, as if the death of her father and younger brother were like two dead house mice... The police officers were shocked by her calmness. "Why did you poison your own father and younger brother?" "I mainly wanted to poison my father. My younger brother was always rushing to eat, so he died too."

"You hate your father that much?" "En." Long Meifei bit his lip and said, "If I don't poison him to death, I will be beaten to death by him. I was afraid, so I let him die first..." "It's nothing for a father to beat his own child. Why do you do such a murderous thing?" This time Long Meifei raised her head to look at the public security officer who was interrogating her, with a bit of hostility on her face: "He beat me so hard, almost every day, with a thick bamboo whip..." The little girl lifted a corner of her shirt after speaking. , revealing a few deep purple scars.

"This child is pitiful. Her father beats her all the time. Whenever she beats her, she can hear her screaming, which is very distressing..." the neighbors told the police officers. "Her father is an honest person. He has never blushed with anyone outside, but at home he has a big temper. Whenever something goes wrong, he beats the child." The mother of Long Meifei, who had just lost her husband and son When answering the investigators' words expressionlessly, he added a special sentence: "Xiaomei has a stubborn temper, and she never knows how to escape when she is beaten, so her father beats her harder..."

The murder case of the Long family was not complicated, but what surprised the public security officers was that the underage Long Meifei's desire for revenge in her young heart was really thought-provoking. This is typical of domestic violence. Almost at the same time that Long Meifei poisoned his father and younger brother, a domestic violence incident that shocked the people of the city also occurred in Shenyang City in the far north: The teacher of Nujiang Elementary School suddenly discovered that the second-grade female student Wang Jing was covered with injuries. After the hospital examination, more than 600 needle holes with sewing needles were found on the little girl!

On the same day, after the school reported the case to the local police station, the police station immediately concluded that it was a serious case of domestic violence and child abuse after an immediate investigation.It was her biological father and stepmother who abused Wang Jing. Wang Jing's father, Wang Dezhi, was summoned by the police station and said nonchalantly, "The child is mine. What's the big deal if I hit her a few times for disobedience?" The stepmother, Man Shuyan, even asked the law enforcement officers confidently: "Do you know that this child, her father and I have the right to educate her well! We will not be able to raise her for the rest of my life if she does not succeed in the future! The child is ignorant, disobedient, and not obedient. Can you rely on beating? Who of you dare to stand up and say that you have never beat your own child?"

"It's nonsense! Is there anyone like you who pricks so many needles in the skin and tender flesh of a child? Is this also called education? Tell you, according to the forensic examination, you have violated the criminal law, and arrest you immediately!" the policeman said. He took out the handcuffs and put them on Yujing's biological father and stepmother... Little Wang Jing's fate was supported and supported by many parties, and she escaped from the cloud of domestic violence. Her parents were finally sentenced to imprisonment and received due legal treatment.Little Wang Jing was also taken to school by kind people from Shannan Nanyang International School, and regained the sunshine and warmth of a family.

But in our real society, how many little Wang Jings have not been rescued?They are still suffering from violent abuse like a cage under the dark clouds without sunshine and warmth.According to the survey of relevant departments, at present, about 5 out of 1,000 children and students are abused and violated by domestic violence. One of my comrades-in-arms works in a juvenile detention center in Shanghai. He said that there are dozens of children there who just don’t want to go back to their homes after finishing the labor camp. The children would rather stay in the juvenile detention center for another ten or eight years. Nor do they want to go back to their parents.This phenomenon is a headache for the reeducation through labor department.

There is a 17-year-old girl named Xiao Ling in this juvenile detention center who was sent in during a prostitution crackdown the year before last.This girl is versatile and talented, but unfortunately her family not only failed to make her a useful talent for society, but instead made her enter a place she shouldn't have entered when she was a minor. Xiao Ling's parents are both employees of a state-owned enterprise in Shanghai. In the years before Xiao Ling went to elementary school, the family of three was relatively peaceful. Although the father who liked to drink sometimes beat his daughter, but such a It doesn't happen two or three times a year, which is common in most families.The problem started when Xiao Ling was in junior high school, because Xiao Ling was not admitted to a key middle school, and Xiao Ling's parents, who hoped to become a daughter, used the tens of thousands of dollars they had accumulated over the years to find a good school for their child.Although the school has been found, Xiao Ling's parents will always be very tight about who will spend that money in the future.Coupled with the fact that the company's profitability was not good, Xiao Ling's father resigned and became a professional stockholder. He wanted to gamble on the stock market to win back the prosperity of the Xiao family.However, things backfired. Xiao Ling's father was not only unlucky, but also often lost all his capital. There are inherent risks in going to the stock market, but it is difficult for those who are fascinated to reflect on it.Especially Xiao Ling's father, who had lost money, became more and more bad-tempered and drank more and more after losing again and again. Every time he lost in the stock market, he would definitely come home drunk.No matter who it is at this time, as long as you say one more word, he will be anxious with you. The pots, pans and pans in Xiao Ling's house had been changed many times, but every time the newly added furniture was smashed to pieces by her father, it didn't take long.Later, Xiao Ling and her mother didn’t add new ones anymore, and she didn’t believe it when she said it. Xiao Ling said that her family used to buy bamboo bowls from Kunshan, a suburb of Shanghai, for dinner—no matter how the drunkard smashed it, it usually wouldn’t break. of. Xiao Ling's mother was able to take care of it at first, but after she was laid off, she had to be careful about farting in front of her stockholder husband, for fear of affecting his clever calculations.But this is not very useful, the old loser is still the old loser. If you lose, you lose. If you lose, you can drink some wine to relieve boredom.Xiao Ling and her mother have always thought this way, but it won't work.Her father was like an old cow that had slipped down a slope and couldn't be pulled back no matter how much he yelled.When he lost, he borrowed money from his friends and relatives before investing. The relatives and friends said that if he didn't put quotation marks on his investment, there would be no sense of humor in the world. Lost again.Xiao Ling's mother said nothing to let her man go to the stock market.We are born poor, why do we have to dream and make a fortune?Even the money borrowed from relatives and friends must be repaid!Why do you have to pour your blood and sweat into the Huangpu River? "You bitch know what a fart!" The man, who had drunk a few ounces of Yanghe, went mad with alcohol, grabbed his woman's hair, and beat her until her eyes were blue and her nose was swollen. "If you dare to stop me again, see if I don't trample this house down!" The woman cried all night.The man went straight to the stock exchange the next day. "Dad, I've told you several times that the school asks you to pay 300 yuan for supplementary lessons. If you don't pay the teacher, you won't let me go to class again!" Xiao Ling tremblingly walked up to her father who was sitting there drinking. "No money." Father said in a low voice. "Why do you drink if you don't have money?" "Blaze! Do you want me to care if I drink or not?" The father raised his hand and slapped his daughter Xiao Ling heavily on the face with reddened eyes. "You beat me if you didn't pay me?" Xiao Ling asked with aggrieved tears. "I'll beat you, you bastard! How dare you control your father?" Clap!The father who went crazy raised his palm again, and hit Xiao Ling's face left and right. That was the first time Xiao Ling was beaten by her father since she thought she had grown up. If there is one time, there will be two times.Usually this violence is related to the father losing money in the stock market.But there was one exception, because he won that time.That day, when Xiao Ling came home from school, she saw that the house was quite dull, with all kinds of delicious food and fruits on the table and in the kitchen. "Xiaoling, dad's luck is good today, even his shots go up..." The father danced and talked about his brilliance after seeing his daughter. Xiao Ling gave her father a blank look, and thought to herself: Save yourself, you have lost your family like this, and you still have the face to say you won? "Why, you can't see that your father still has time to change the direction of the wind?" Seeing that his daughter didn't pay attention to his brilliance at all, the father's bright face immediately darkened. "I can't tell." After Xiao Ling finished speaking, she closed the small door and entered her boudoir. "Come out!" My father's temper came up again. Xiao Ling remained silent and continued to do her homework. "Wan Yaowan! Come out! Little Wenzi, I lost in the past because you showed me a bad face every day. Come out—" This emperor who thinks he is the only one at home, can't bear the contempt of his daughter . Xiao Ling couldn't bear this torment anymore.Sitting up from the chair, he opened the small door of the room: "Are you still asking me to do my homework?" "What homework do you do? You bastard didn't even pay attention to the father who gave birth to you and raised you, so why do you do your homework and study?" The bastard's father started talking about the bastard again. After hearing this, Xiao Ling vented the anger that had been suppressed for a long time in her heart: "What do you want me to do if I don't do my homework or study? It's like you go out every day to lose and lose! Throw the whole family into the Huangpu River?" "Bastard, I don't care if I win or lose? I just lost this family, and it's my business to sell you. It's your turn to teach me?" The bastard father has no other skills, beat up his wife and children Come always prevails.He raised his palm and slapped it heavily on Xiao Ling's cheek and head. The force made Xiao Ling stagger, and she almost landed on the corner of the desk.The crazy father didn't give up, he rushed over and grabbed the textbooks and homework on Xiao Ling's desk while swearing and swearing all over the floor... "I'll let you read, read a shit book!" He tore up a few books and stomped on them a few times as if he still felt puzzled. Xiao Ling looked at the mess in front of her, and the only ray of light left in her heart was completely destroyed.She covered her face and wanted to cry, but her voice seemed to be clogged with cotton wool... Her heart felt as if it was being torn apart. You can't stay in this home any more!She rushed out of the house desperately and rushed to the street... Finally, she fell on the stone railing by the Suzhou River and couldn't help crying for more than three hours - she didn't dare to cry because there were passers-by around her The crowd, but she couldn't suppress the tide of tears... This night, Xiao Ling did not stay at home for the first time.Although Shanghai Beach in the second half of the night seemed a bit chilly, there was free air and free space everywhere. The helpless Xiao Ling also discovered for the first time that night that after getting out of that cage-like family, the outside world is not too bad to survive—at least in her opinion, she no longer needs to see her father, the alcoholic, The hideous face of a gambler and a villain all rolled into one. Xiao Ling no longer studied, and no longer went home, and began a homeless wandering career——became a street child ever since.Any wanderer will eventually be captured by evil helplessly and become a new source of evil... The poor girl was later sent to a juvenile prison for two years of reeducation through labor for prostitution.Now her term is about to expire, but she has already expressed to the uncles and aunts in the juvenile detention center that she would rather stay for another two years than go home. Children like Xiao Ling are not rare.Such children are not only unable to get family warmth like normal children due to the violent abuse they have suffered at home, but also often have serious psychological deformities. A prison friend who is the same age as Xiao Ling has already entered the palace for the third time in the juvenile prison.This girl looks very quiet on the surface, no one would believe that she is actually a well-known thief in Shanghai.According to my comrade-in-arms, the child was only 13 years old when she was sent in for the first time, but at that time she had already had a history of stealing for 5 years. It is not complicated for children to embark on the path of crime.Once, in order to be able to buy some snacks on the way home from school like her classmates, she secretly took money from the family. Later, her mother found out, beat her, and punished her to kneel in front of her brother.This time, she was deeply traumatized.But because her classmates often laughed at her for being poor, she couldn't help but still take money at home.But every action was always discovered by the mother, and the punishment every time was more serious than the previous one. Later, the mother and father jointly hung her from the door frame for more than two hours. One day, the parents found that 20 yuan was missing, so they hung her from the door frame again without any explanation, and tortured her again.But this time she didn't get the money, it was her brother's good deeds.My brother will beat you even more if he takes it!Isn't it because you spoiled him?Mother said to her angrily. This time the girl remembered it deeply, and gradually formed a mentality in her heart that I would steal it, and if I didn't steal it, I would be blamed anyway.Later, the girl not only stole at home, but even more seriously, she stole among her classmates. She developed it in the store, until she was caught committing crimes in the supermarket more than 20 times. The first time she came out of the juvenile detention center, she vowed to wash her hands and quit, but as soon as she got home, her parents beat and kicked her at every turn, and always insulted her with words like three hands, which completely destroyed the girl's self-esteem. Finally became a devastated habitual thief.The last time the public security personnel sent her to the juvenile detention center, when they checked her body, they found that she had 20 to 30 wounds on her body. "They were beaten up after being caught stealing things again and again..." she said herself. "You don't feel any pain?" She snorted through her nostrils and said, "Pain? What is pain? I haven't felt pain since I was forced out of the house by my parents." In fact, everyone knows that this child's pain is the kind of pain that burns deep in the heart, the kind of pain of losing a family that is far more painful than physical torture! In July 1999, a fierce confrontation was also going on in a certain court in Wuhan, known as the furnace.The plaintiff is a 15-year-old boy, Chen Yaowu, and the defendants are his parents, Chen Shuangxi and Yu Shichun.This is a very special court hearing, because Chen Yaowu is a homeless child, and he sued his parents in the hope of receiving 200 yuan a month in maintenance, until the plaintiff can live independently.Although Chen Yaowu was the original, the audience who attended the court found that he kept his head down all the time in court, and looked a little panicked when he raised his head occasionally.On the contrary, the defendant, Chen Yaowu's father, often showed violent behavior in court, especially after listening to his son's lawyer read the indictment, he stood up from the dock and yelled at his son: "You beast It’s useless for you to accuse me, you are falsely accusing me, even if you win the lawsuit, I have no money. You are a thief, you stole my money and everything from my house, you still have the face to sue me The one who wants to sue is me, you beast!" The court noticed that in this contest between father and son, Chen Shuangxi, the father, seemed confident, while the son of the plaintiff always seemed weak. As an important witness of Chen Yaowu, a representative of the neighborhood committee stood up and said: "Chen Yaowu is a minor, and his parents should have the obligation to support him in life and study, but Chen Yaowu did not get this right from his parents. Now he not only There is no guarantee of food, and even the most basic housing is extremely poor. The quilt is not like a quilt, and the whole body turns purple from the cold in winter. We asked him why your father didn’t care about you, and he said his father never cared.” "Why should I care about him? He's a beast! You look at him now, but he's a frozen snake! He wants everyone to sympathize with him, can you sympathize with him? It doesn't matter where a beast like him is. An animal!" Chen Yaowu's father stood up to speak without waiting for the representatives of the neighborhood committee to finish speaking, and everyone noticed that he always called his son an animal. "Plaintiff, are you often beaten and abused by the defendant?" the judge asked Chen Yaowu. "Well, he often beats me, randomly, as much as he wants. Sometimes he makes me kneel all night, and then kicks me out of the house..." said the son. "Defendant, is what your son said true?" the judge asked again. "I beat him, sometimes with a belt, sometimes with leather shoes, and also with my feet, and even pinched him. But I beat animals!" said the father. Suddenly, another defendant, the plaintiff Chen Yaowu’s mother, said to Chen Shuangxi, who was always sitting tens of centimeters away from her, “You are a beast when you keep saying that you are a beast! The child is so old, you can’t beat him What did you care about? You can say that he stole your money, and if you don’t give him food or sleep, can he not steal you? You are not responsible as a father? You are a beast!” Chen Yaowu's mother complained for a while, which caused a lot of noise in the court. "I, I... I'm a fucking bastard!" Chen Yaowu's father was made extremely abrupt by the mocking noise.It turned out that due to the lack of family care, especially the violent abuse by his father, Chen Yaowu was beaten and kicked out of the house by his father many times since he was 11 years old. Chen Yaowu, who was kicked out of his home in October 1997, was unable to live outside, so he sneaked home when his parents were not at home, and took away 4,000 yuan from his father.From then on, his father threatened to sever ties with his son and forbade Chen Yaowu to come home again.It was under such circumstances that Chen Yaowu completely left his home, and began a life of misery with the barrels as his home for more than two years in two waste oil barrels on the top of a large building not far from his home.During this period, the cadres of the neighborhood committee approached Chen Yaowu's father many times, hoping that he would take the poor homeless son home. However, Chen Shuangxi, who claimed to have severed ties with his son, refused to pay any attention to the animal he gave birth to.The lawsuit that the son sued his parents reached the court in this way. Chen Yaowu's case finally came to a successful conclusion under the intervention of the court. The court ordered his father to pay him 200 yuan a month for living expenses.When his son took over the first month’s support of 200 yuan from his parents from the judge, he wrote in a composition that day: I am a little bird wandering outside. In fact, the little bird’s requirements are not high. Some people are willing to leave a few trees and a nest, as long as others don't disturb me needlessly, the beautiful birds will fly and fly with peace of mind... The teacher pointed to his composition and said: Such a wonderful article must not have been written by Chen Yaowu, because his composition has always been full of typos. Someone asked Chen Yaowu, and he said with a rare smile: I like this passage, so I jumped out of my heart... Compared with Chen Yaowu, the girl Xiaona can be called a bad boy by the parents.Because of her badness, she is destined to be the object of discrimination and abuse at home. Xiaona looks the same as her name, and she is very foreign. People who see her for the first time will never believe that such a beautiful girl can't get the warmth and caress of her family.I met her from a friend on the hotline.I don't want her at such a young age to have bitterness in her heart... Xiaona was born in a family of intellectuals, her parents were both teachers in a famous middle school, and her education from her father and mother can be traced back to prenatal education.Xiaona was also an obedient child when she was young, but in junior high school, as her age and body grew, she gradually became the object of pursuit by boys.Her plumpness, her delicacy, and her good temperament all make the eyes of boys, big and small, inside and outside of school shine when they see her.At that time, Xiaona herself couldn't figure out why there was a particularly strong desire in her body at the same time-love to be with the boy she liked; and the indescribable beauty of being with the opposite sex made her often learn Mind wandering, heart full of excitement.Later, she had her first friend, and then she was inseparable from her friend, but at this time, she and him were just walking and chatting together after school, or staying together for nothing.But the matter was reported to her parents by the head teacher. "Why are you embarrassing me? You are not allowed to be with any boy in the future!" The father ordered against his dignity as a teacher. "We didn't do anything together, can't we just chat?" She argued. "What is there to talk about? What good things can you do with boys? If you are our daughter, you will do as we ask - you are not allowed to associate with any male classmates before you go to college!" The mother said even more severely. "You guys are doing this illegally! I want to get in touch with male classmates!" Xiaona's age is exactly the age of rebellion, and her rebellious psychology made her shout out the backlog of dissatisfaction with her parents. Snapped!It was a slap from my mother. "I think you dare?" The mother's face became so ferocious. "If you don't obey the rules, don't step into our teacher's house!" Father came over and added a sentence. Xiaona was stunned. For the first time, she felt that her mother and father were so far away from her.Maybe it was the mother's slap in the face, maybe it was the father's reminder from the teacher's family. After school the next day, Xiaona didn't come home. She found the male classmate in the same class—that is, the classmates. Close friends who call each other.This time, she took the initiative to find him and offered to let him watch a movie with her. In that movie theater, Xiaona fell into her boyfriend's arms for the first time, crying unceasingly. The male classmate panicked and even asked what happened.When she told about how she was abused and beaten by her parents at home, the aggrieved Xiaona cried bitterly, while at this moment he held her in his arms with infinite tenderness and kept comforting her. "Don't cry, go, go to my house, I'll cook something delicious for you..." The boy took Xiaona to his house.In this home with only one grandmother, Xiaona felt the warmth and ease of freedom. "My parents are away from home, and grandma depends on me for everything. You can come here at any time and do whatever you want here. I am the king here..." the boy said to her in a gentlemanly manner. "Then I'm the queen here!" Xiaona laughed through her tears.Compared with her teacher's house, what she breathes here is free air.From loving such an environment, Xiaona gradually came to love being with friends in such an environment. Needless to say, Xiaona, who didn't come home on time like usual, was bombarded by her parents as soon as she got home. Xiaona showed a rare silence, didn't say a word, and cried bitterly all night in the small room. She felt more and more like a prison at home. The rebellious blood in her rebellious age is boiling... She returned to the world of the free kingdom with that male classmate after school one day. It is said that those who have lost love desire it more strongly. Xiaona, who has always been lonely and arrogant, is uncharacteristically active and enthusiastic with her male classmates. She needs someone to love her, someone to hug her, and someone to comfort her.Because of this, she repeatedly attacked the male classmate... But when he returned to his teacher's home, he showed extraordinarily indifferent, except that he had to meet his parents for meals, and he was locked in the hut alone to do the endless homework. The parents whispered outside the door: "This child has become honest, it seems that he has to be strictly controlled." "You are Xiaona's parents? Then hurry to the hospital and take your precious daughter back..." One day, Xiaona's parents suddenly received a call from the hospital.When the parents who didn't know what happened rushed to the hospital to ask about the situation, they almost killed their daughter on the spot - Xiaona had just had an abortion in this hospital... "From the moment I entered the hospital, I knew that I had done something wrong. When I lay on the white operating table in horror and saw the doctor lift up the shiny surgical forceps, I first realized what is called Cruel—those doctors deliberately fiddled with my lower body. It seemed that the more it hurt me, the more they relieved their anger. Every time I screamed, they would say something next to me. I didn’t cry. And when I returned home as if drained of blood, and saw my parents didn’t give me a sip of water, didn’t help me to bed, and slammed the table and threw the bowl in front of me, I also Knowing once what true lovelessness is..." A few years later, Xiaona, who was then a public relations lady of a certain company, said to me. After the abortion, Xiaona was suspended from school by her parents, and then sent to her father's hometown in Shandong to study for two years—actually, it was like being detained, according to Xiaona's own words.Until now, her parents have never smiled at her once, and she has never called her dad and mom again. It was a completely cold world, and I didn’t feel the slightest difference except that the rice in the same pot was hot. What is the warmth and love of a family... From the day I own a house, I will leave it forever, and maybe never come back again... Or Xiaona's words. Xiaona's experience once made me ponder deeply: Why did such a cold world appear in a teacher's family?In fact, it is not complicated. Many of our parents only know how to discipline their children according to their own principles, but they do not know how to respect and understand their children. They seldom pay attention to the psychological and physical characteristics of adolescent children. The conclusion that I am a good child and those who are against me is a bad child has turned the originally happy and happy family into a horrible and abominable cold world. Domestic violence has now become a major public hazard that devastates the young generation. The misfortunes of these children described above are all caused by domestic violence.I don’t know why, it’s because we eat too much fine grains and lean meat, or we stay in front of the TV and watch too many martial arts and police movies all day long. Disobedient children often use fists, kicks and sticks at every turn—domestic violence has become a very serious public hazard in the process of educating children in today's society. No country can match my country's care for the disabled. When a weak life is even slightly injured, the party and the people will give them full attention and care. But real life is never perfect.When conscience is wiped out and selfish desires are inflated, some people will brutally lose their basic humanity.