Chapter 5 Chapter 4 If you love, you can leave me alone?
I don’t know since when, some people have picked up the emotional games that Westerners hate and condemn as fashionable. When they indulge in the so-called love and indulge in lust, they seem so devoted, generous, and carried away, but they I often forget the children around me who should be the most emotionally involved.Will their consciences discover——
I don't know when the festivals of foreigners gradually became Chinese festivals, and those who worship foreigners are more obsessed with foreigners' festivals than Chinese people's own festivals.Every year on February 14th, it is called "Valentine's Day" in foreign countries. Although we are now criticizing and analyzing the causes of corrupt officials' crimes every day on our TV broadcasts, we find that an important feature is that corrupt officials have lovers. It's already under fire in public now, but being a lover among the masses is becoming more and more fashionable.Every year on February 14th, it is said that the sales of flower markets across the country are unprecedented. On February 14th in 2001, I paid special attention to the TV news, from the morning news of CCTV Oriental Time and Space, to the local Every news program on the station is reporting such news, saying how hot the flower market is on Valentine's Day. I don't know what this kind of publicity and guidance means?My direct feeling is that people are now secretly keen on having lovers—whether you admit it or not, the phenomenon of lovers has overflowed among men and women in our society today.No wonder that when I was at work that day, when everyone was having dinner and chatting, the topics they talked about were almost all about lovers. When friends called to talk about other things, they also had to say half-truths by the way: Don’t forget to tell your lover Make a phone call to buy a rose?If it is a female compatriot who calls, just say half-truth, I will offer you my love today.This is what fake lovers say, but real lovers do real work these days.I don't deny that on Valentine's Day there are young people who are sincerely talking about love, but we Chinese have a lot of lovers who are not moral, and they do more things on this day.A shopping mall in Nanjing also made a famous story on this day, saying that after winning the lottery, they can stay with the opposite sex for free for one night in a five-star hotel in Nanjing. You can move in without any formalities, and a condom will be specially provided for you...
I really don't understand what's wrong with the world?
In fact, can I not understand, that is, the phenomenon of lovers is spreading crazily nowadays, and the phenomenon of inexplicable lovers is flooding our society.Some people in a shopping mall in Nanjing were very angry about doing this. In fact, it was just a hype of the merchants.Think about it, how many lovers are working secretly, they are either performing a midday drama in the office, or directing a dark tryst in a warehouse, or in a park... With a shopping mall like Nanjing that reasonably provides places, who Not overjoyed?
Another drama was staged on the streets of Chengdu that day:
After a hasty lunch, the deputy director of an institution went into a flower shop on Renmin Road, hoping to buy for his lover who worked as a cashier in another institution, that kind of enchantress with silver dew imported from Holland. Roses, the florist took the opportunity to raise money at this time, and one of these flowers sold for 300 yuan.The director combed his hair very slick today, and sprayed a lot of French perfume on his hair. The enchantress rose at 300 yuan a month seemed a bit expensive for him who only earned 2,000 yuan a month, but it was just What he said in his heart, no matter how expensive flowers are on this day today, they can't be said to be expensive, and the more expensive they are, the more affectionate they will be.
Well, it's really good enough!The deputy director came out of the flower shop, and while smelling the enchantress rose in his hand, he hurried to the garden in the middle of the square.That was the place where he and his lover were dating. Originally, they were supposed to go to a farmhouse in the suburbs, where he usually lived for a long time with his lover for pleasure.
The deputy director is 32 years old and graduated from university. The year before last, his wife divorced him because she found out that he had a woman outside.The divorced wife simply asked for nothing, even giving him her 7-year-old son.At the time of the divorce, he was at the critical moment of being promoted from section chief to deputy director. When the leader asked about his family problems, the deputy director candidate told the leader with snot and tears that it was because he usually He was kicked out of the house by his wife because he left early and returned late to work at the unit.But no, colleagues in the unit all proved that this deputy director candidate is the first one to go to work every day, and the last one after get off work, especially he often works overtime at night.When colleagues sometimes call the office to ask for a leave, or to inquire about something, he is always busy in the office with papers and investigation reports that he can never finish.The leader was right when he thought about it. Isn't he the one who writes the most papers and investigation reports in the unit?The bureau chiefs couldn't be more clear about this point. Every time the superiors are in a hurry to ask for some materials, they can't rely on this young and promising section chief!You are good at everything, but you have not learned to care about your family and children. You need to give them more care and love in the future. A person without love cannot be a good leader.The bureau chiefs Chun Chun taught him.He also nodded again and again and said: I must cultivate more love.
The leader doesn't know that the love of this subordinate is already enough.It's just that his love is not what the leaders expected. His love is in the dark place of the world in fashionable words. He not only refuses to give him love, but in the end because of this kind of love, he puts his 7-year-old son to death. Also lost.When the court ruled for divorce, the son should be brought up by him. He didn't take this issue seriously at first. It's fine to have a son. After all, Jing's contribution in seven years is not too little. Besides, the child is old enough to go to school.Therefore, he feels that this will not affect his behavior of showing love outside as before.But later he regretted it a bit, because he could no longer work overtime. Originally, this overtime work was the main content of his love action. All his colleagues in an office building were off work. Within two hours, quickly ask the person from another unit in the same building to come to the office for a tryst, and when the love is over, even if a colleague from the unit happens to come to work overtime, what you will see is that he is very tired in the office. Working—or drinking water non-stop, or doing weird aerobics non-stop; the road to revolution is still long, you have to pay attention to your body!Colleagues always told him with such concern, and he was always modest and prudent: It's okay, just a little while.But no, he didn't look very tired just after the warm-up exercise.
It’s not working now, no one cares about my son, he wants to squat in the office for secret trysts and warm-up exercises, but it’s no longer possible. After returning home from kindergarten, my son calls endlessly and asks: When will I go home? starving.After coming down a few times, the lover on the same floor quit, saying that you should find another suitable time to date, or break up altogether.Where is the other suitable time?I work during the day, and the office is like a teahouse. Don’t say what kind of sex between men and women you want to do secretly. Even if a woman or a man calls in, your colleagues will ridicule you, and you must explain it clearly. is.Can't find the right time and the right place?Then bye.
Look how straightforward they are.If you don't come next time, you won't come to the door again. If you ask again, people will tell you that this is the way to call a lover-just think about it, and see you if you want to see you again.Do you have to let me pester you every day?People say that there are so many lovers!
The deputy director was appointed, but later colleagues discovered that he did not work overtime either.Someone felt strange and asked him. He said that no one took the son at home: if there is work, he can only take it home and work overtime.Look at people's awareness!Work hard, within two years, the position of director is still yours.Colleagues flattered him quietly in his ear.Can he not be happy?
This time, his new lover had only known each other for 3 months, but it took them a total of less than a week from the first tryst, to the first love, to renting the house. I am amazed—because this little lover is so charming, everything is attached to him: as long as I have you in my arms, everything is enough... The lover is different, every word is full of intoxicating fragrance.He works in an agency, and although he can be considered a deputy director, he is actually a pauper.But people don't think he is shy. I used to be a dead man with a lot of money, but he gave all his time and money to other women. I only want your heart...Look at this little sweet, he always likes to call it like this My lover, fortunately, the lovers don't know each other, otherwise the little sweets will fight with him because of this title.
Little Sweets, Big Dog—at the gate of the park, the two embraced each other warmly when they met. At this time, the deputy director did not think about the image at all. He and her had only seen each other for two days, and it seemed that they had been separated for three to five years. This is probably why the relationship between lovers is so attractive.
"Here you are" - he gently put the enchantress Rose into her arms.
"Here you are" - she tucks a Japanese cartoon puppy into his suit.
"Hee hee hee... how funny."
"Hey hey...interesting."
So romantic, so lingering.
Then they sat down in a pavilion at the corner of the park and embraced and kissed passionately again...
"It's really not strong enough. If I knew it earlier, it would be better..."
"What? You're not strong enough? You want to..." He just slipped half a sentence from her mouth with a smile, and she caught him.
He laughed happily: "My silly little sweet, I mean, it's better to go back to that hut and drive a through train instead of doing electric discharges in this big park?"
"Oh——, you are too bad, too bad, noisy..."
She was so charming and charming when she was smiling, he couldn't help pressing his mouth and body tightly against her.
"Ah, where's my bag? My bag was stolen by Xiao Lun!" She suddenly realized that her small satchel was gone. When she looked up, she saw a little boy turning quickly into the rockery, "Hurry up!" Catch the thief! Quick!"
He let go of her body, and quickly chased her into the depths of the rockery as if he had suddenly become a fighting hero. "I have a gold card and 2,000 yuan in cash in my bag." She shouted and reminded him that if he didn't meet Xiao Lun today, this Valentine's Day would be boring and frustrating.
Chase, must catch him!Hateful thief!What a romantic rendezvous spoiled by you bloody wretch, damn it!Hate is power.He speeds up to chase...
He saw the thief, and the thief saw him.
"Bastard! Put the bag down! You nasty thief! Watch me tear you up, you bastard!" He was still chasing after him, and cursed loudly.
Suddenly, the thief stopped.
"Bastard! I'm sorry you can't escape anywhere!" Panting, he snatched the woman's bag from the thief, and let go of it all at once. "why you?"
It's him.A teenager, a dusty, dirty kid—it was him.His son, a son who has been away from him for three years and has been wandering around.
The father and son stood in place for a long time, neither of them thought they would meet here, and in this embarrassing situation...
"It's him! It's him!" His lover with the enchantress Rose came along with the public security officers on duty in the park at some time.It was her cry, and he and the thief son seemed to wake up from a nightmare.
He violently signaled that he wanted his son to run away, but the police officers and the woman who took the enchantress Rose had already firmly grasped his son.
"Damn thief..." The woman snatched the satchel, quickly counted the items inside, then breathed a long sigh of relief, walked over and took her lover's arm and said, "Fortunately, nothing was lost. Hey, you What's the matter? His face is so ugly... Are you tired from running? This vicious thief!"
The woman regained her warmth.And he still stood there sluggishly.
"Quickly tell me, where is your family? What's your father's name? If you don't tell me, I'll send you to the detention center! Tell me quickly!" the public security officer interrogated with a livid face.
The thief didn't say anything, but just stared at the man who was being held by the woman's arm.
The public security officer was a little strange: "Why are you staring at him all the time? Have you lost their things?"
He shook his head.
"You really don't have a home or parents at such a young age?"
He still didn't answer the public security officers' questioning, but kept his eyes on the man whose woman was holding his arm.
The police officer became even more surprised: "Who is he from you? Is he your father?"
Two lines of tears suddenly flowed from the thief's eyes... and then burst into tears.Well, you son of a bitch, are you two working together to harm me?Wuwuwu, the woman who understood threw the Demon Girl Rose in her hand to the ground and stepped heavily on it, then spat at her lover, turned her butt and covered her face and walked away, Demon Girl Rose It is said that this year's Valentine's Day flower market is favored by those lovers, because its purple and blue are as mysterious and exciting as the lovers who meet under the moonlight, which will make people excited.It's so close to how extramarital affairs and polygamy feel, it has a certain toxic beauty to it.
The word lover is called lover in English. It was first popular among the aristocrats in Western society, and then gradually became popular in all walks of life, and became a special term for men and women who have sexual love outside of marriage.The Chinese interpret the word "lover" very elegantly and purely at first. According to the Xinhua dictionary, it refers to a man and a woman who are in love.But the Chinese often have deviations in the application of imported things, and the same is true about lovers. Now when people talk about the word lover, it actually refers to lovers and mistresses.What are lovers and mistresses?Learn more about the explanation in the Xinhua dictionary: a lover is a man and a woman, one or both of whom have a spouse, and they maintain a sexual relationship, and the man is the woman's lover; a mistress is a man and a woman, one or both have a spouse. Together, they maintain a sexual relationship, and the woman is the man's mistress.According to the above explanations and deduction of the actual Chinese national conditions, most of the so-called lovers that people verbally refer to actually refer to lovers and mistresses who violate the morality of marriage.
There has always been a contradiction between love and law.Sentient people usually easily forget the law when they are in love, and things like morality at that time are even more sidelined.
In the eyes of lovers, there is no third party in the world!
In the lover's love, there is no second kind of emotion beyond this in the world!
In the world of lovers, everything in the world other than two people is superfluous - the great Russian poet Pushkin has long used these classic words to summarize all the secrets and rules of the game in the world of lovers.
Chinese people are getting richer now, and the emotional world has also become rich and colorful, so the phenomenon of lovers has become an alternative and prosperous phenomenon in the last decade or two of the 20th century.We will not explain whether the meaning of its existence is progress or backwardness, but there is one thing that must be reminded and warned people, that is, there are many lovers today, and many of them lose their father's love and mother's love because of the lover's phenomenon. also greatly increased, and can be summarized as a sharp increase, and the increase in the latter phenomenon often brings serious consequences.
An originally loving father and mother, due to the change of roles, after becoming someone else's lover, they are no longer the loving father and mother of their own children.Or because some people enter the program of life combination as lovers from the very beginning, and they are not loving fathers and mothers from the beginning.
The following two male and female lovers are such typical characters.
Li, in Hangzhou, used to be the deputy factory director of a state-owned enterprise. Later, when the enterprise was restructured, he was arranged by the group company to be the CEO of a subsidiary joint venture company.When Li used to be a deputy in the factory, he was a well-known loving father who regarded his daughter as the apple of his eye and cared for him infinitely.However, since Li became the CEO of the joint venture company, he has a female guardian and secretary of the foreign investor beside him.This female secretary is young and beautiful, needless to say, it is hard for a man not to be conquered by her.Li became the captive of this female secretary in a subtle way day by day—in fact, the female secretary later said that she was captured by him. Anyway, one thing is certain: they are deeply attracted by a certain aspect of each other. And had a gluey love affair.
The next development of the two was lightning-like. The CEO's office was not easily opened when going to work. The little girl in charge of cleaning pushed the door and walked in. Just in time, the boss and the female secretary were in close contact. This poor Anhui migrant girl He lost his job within an hour.
What happened next was also not complicated. Li's affair was discovered by his wife.His wife is the financial director of a well-known company in the city. Of course, she couldn't bear the fact that her man was kidnapped by a goblin. A paper of divorce and a request for property division of 500,000 yuan changed Li's family from three to two. ——The original wife doesn't care about her daughter returning to her original husband. She has two calculations in her heart: one is to throw away a burden for herself to marry in the future, and the other is to keep a pair of heart-piercing eyes so that the damn man will not have a good life.
A woman's premeditation is always stronger than a man's.Li began to be proud of being able to get rid of the burden at home and concentrate on getting along with the young and good-looking newcomer, as well as leaving behind a daughter who was the jewel in his palm, but soon found that the broken family had completely changed—— The daughter who is in junior high school urges her father to go home every day after class to do this and that.
"Didn't you do it on purpose, why do you want me to go back early to do something because there is an aunt at home cooking for you?" Li said to his daughter trying to suppress the anger in his heart.
"But how can she control my studies?" The daughter replied with the most sufficient reason.
"Don't you know that there are a lot of things in Dad's company! I will definitely sort out your homework with you in the weekend, and now Dad has something to do..." Before he put down the phone, his chest was already covered by another towering Her breasts stuck to...
Ding Lingling... the phone started ringing loudly again.
"You hung up before I finished speaking? That goblin must be with you..." The daughter's small voice was loud enough that the voice in the microphone could be heard 10 meters away.
A certain Li put his arm around his lover's slender waist, held the phone in one hand and said angrily, "Shanshan, how can you talk to Dad like that?"
"What do you say? You still want me to call that bitch stepmother? No way!"
Snapped!The phone hung up.
This clown thing!Li stared at the phone with wide-eyed eyes and panted heavily. He pushed the female secretary away and walked back and forth in the office angrily. No, he must teach her a lesson when he goes back!
"Didn't you agree to spend the night at my place today?" The female secretary got upset, twisted her waist, and left the CEO's office.
"Nana, Nana—" Li hurried out.
On that day, Li returned home earlier than any other day, but after waiting for more than two hours, his daughter still did not come home from school. When he called the school, the teacher on duty said that all the students had gone home as early as 4:30.
Beep beep, beep beep... the BP machine at his waist kept beeping.At first glance, it was her lover's secretary.
"What day is today? Do you really have the heart to eat this 3-pound birthday cake by myself?" She asked him in Chinese.
Yo, bad food!How could I forget about this!
"Aunt Wang, you give this note to Shanshan. I have to go out urgently. I will have a good talk with Shanshan another day. This little thing is getting wilder and wilder. Please watch it for me. I'm leaving Ah!" Li pressed the hastily written note on the table, greeted the nanny at home, and went out like a gust of wind.
"Shanshan, where did you go last night? What time did you get home? It's shameful, tell me clearly, where did you go?" At dinner the next day, Li called home, and the person who answered the phone It's my daughter Shanshan.
"Where am I going? Do you really care?"
"Why don't you care? I've been waiting at home for two hours?"
"It's been more than two hours? Do you know how many hours I have been waiting for you? Do you know? You..." Weeping sounded from the other side of the phone, and then hung up with a snap.
Li dialed again, and after three consecutive attempts, his daughter finally answered the call again.
Perhaps realizing something, Li's words became more tender.
"Shanshan, it's not that you don't know that Dad's company has a lot of things to do, and there is no time every day, or your mother wouldn't have abandoned us because of this..."
"Bah, you don't want Mom and me..."
"Why do you kid talk to dad so often?"
"I'm Kan. What's the matter with Kan? Let me be as gentle as that goblin? Bah!" The phone hung up again.
What a little bastard!Li was so angry that he threw the phone in his hand on the table with a bang-throw, and watch me clean you up!
As soon as he left the house, he folded himself at his desk and wrote a few lines hastily, this time leaving a message for his lover who was out on errands.
From the company to the way home, about half an hour's drive.But when Li rushed home, her daughter disappeared again.
"Aunt Wang, don't you know what Shanshan is doing now other than going to school? I don't give you a lot of money for a month. It's only six or seven hundred yuan a month to hire a nanny. I'll give you 900 yuan. I just asked you to help me look after Shanshan, now it’s fine, but you are idle every day!" Li could not help but vent his anger on the nanny Wang Ma.
Wang Ma muttered helplessly: "I'm in charge, but Shanshan doesn't listen to me at all. When she got in a hurry, she called me a watchdog..."
"This bastard!" Li's mouth was twisted in anger, and I have to teach her a lesson today. "Wang Ma, I'll go out and look for it first. If Shanshan comes back, just call me and I'll hurry back home."
"Okay." Wang Ma opened the door to the master tremblingly.
Hangzhou City under the night is full of attractive scenery, especially the West Lake area is even more charming.While driving, Li looked for his daughter along the lake.He used to come to this area often, first with Shanshan's mother, which is of course very far away. It was Li's first love. Although it was also in the era of reform and opening up, he and his lover kept talking in the West Lake at night. He didn't even dare to hold hands, except when there was no one around, he would sneakily grab Shanshan's mother's hand in a panic, and quickly let go if someone came over.This kind of sentiment seemed very tempting to Li at the time, and of course it was not as exciting as the affair he had with the female secretary by the West Lake later.More than ten years have passed, and people's awareness of openness is quite different.Today, the trysts of men and women by the West Lake are more than just holding hands and kissing, especially in summer, if you don’t pay attention, you may find a couple in the woods or on the grass. I feel like I don't know anyone.It is said that once the night patrol team of the Municipal Public Security Bureau searched for more than 100 couples who had sex with each other on the edge of the West Lake within one hour.When Li and his current lover first fell in love, he was already in his 40s. He was still a little bit purple when he was invited by the female secretary to have sex in a bush by the West Lake for the first time.But it was that time when he and her had physical contact on the dewy grass, Li's relationship changed drastically.This kind of exciting and romantic outdoor outing, compared with the boring bed with his wife at home, gave Li a sense of enlightenment to re-understand life.It was precisely because Li was caught by a young man from the same unit as his wife when he was making out with a female secretary on a boat in the middle of the lake, so things took a turn for the worse, and the divorce war began.
But on this trip today, Li did not have the slightest fascination with the night view of West Lake. When thinking of his daughter who did not return home, Li felt a kind of hostility towards the mysterious night view of West Lake for the first time.When people reach middle age, especially men with successful careers, although they like to get another kind of physical passion experience that they cannot get from their wives outside, most of them are still not willing to destroy their families because of this, especially I don't want to see the next generation I cultivated be destroyed in my own hands.This is the mentality of Li at the moment, and as the time spent searching for his daughter got longer, his mentality became stronger and stronger, and he wished to tear up the dark night and find his daughter back again.
Wang Ma, hasn't Shanshan come back yet?He took out his mobile phone and called home, and the old nanny told him that Shanshan was still not coming home.
Where did it go?For a girl of fifteen or sixteen, nothing good will happen if she is not at home so late.Li speculated whether it was in several dance halls by the lake, so he stopped the car when he saw a dance hall in front of him.Just as he turned off the engine, opened the car door and walked out, he was stunned by the scene in front of him: under an advertising sign in the parking lot, a pair of young boys and girls were secretly doing something there.Li would not care too much if he encountered such a situation in normal times, but today he paid special attention because he came out to find his daughter.Coincidentally, another car drove into the parking lot at this time, and the lights of that car hit the boys and girls in the face impartially when turning the corner.
Shanshan?Shanshan——Li found out that the girl was his own daughter Shanshan.He rushed over in three steps at a time, so that Shan San and the other boy who were squatting there had no time to react to what was going on, when they saw someone standing in front of them.
Li saw clearly: her daughter was holding something in her hand, and when she saw him appear, she panicked and subconsciously hid her hand behind her back.
"What are you doing? You are not staying at home so late, what are you doing sneakily in such a place? Show me what you have in your hand!" Li ordered his daughter angrily.
The boy disappeared into the night as soon as he saw it.
Turn your hands around!Li doubled his voice.
Shanshan hesitated for a while, then slowly turned her hands from behind her back, and spread them out in front of her father—empty with nothing.
Li doesn't believe it!He turned behind his daughter... At this moment, Shanshan nervously stomped her feet a few times.
"Don't move! Stay aside for me!" Li pushed his daughter with his arm, lowered his head and looked for it on the ground. He touched a few pill-like things...
"You! You tell me what this is? Ah, is this ecstasy?" Li crazily pulled his daughter's shoulders, asking her to answer.
The daughter is silent.
"You...are you crazy? Do you know that ecstasy is a drug? How dare you take it at such a young age! Come on, come home with me, and see how I can deal with you shameless thing!" Li Mou Furious, he grabbed his daughter and dragged her into the car, but unexpectedly, her daughter flung her arms like a little donkey and broke free.
"You are shameless!" the daughter retorted.
"You, you, you... what did you say?" Li could not help but tremble all over.
"You are shameless!" the daughter repeated.
Snapped!Li couldn't stand his daughter's presumptuousness any longer, so he slapped his daughter's face vigorously.
Woooooo... The daughter staggered back a few steps, and then burst into tears: "You are shameless! You are shameless! You are shameless."
"Come back, come back to me—" Li did not expect that after being slapped by him, Shanshan not only did not give in, but ran away.This run made Li feel that the problem was serious, but it was too late.
In the following year and three months, no matter how hard his father searched, he never found his daughter.It wasn't until last year when the court notified him to attend his daughter's sentencing meeting for drug trafficking and prostitution that Li saw his daughter again, whom he once regarded as the apple of his eye—but at this time, the apple of his eye had become a drug addict and prostitute.
Because Shanshan was underage, she was sent to the provincial juvenile labor camp for two years.When he was escorted to the labor camp that day, Li, who had been dumped by the female secretary, felt strongly as a father for the first time. He shed tears and hoped to say a few words to his daughter. They don't even recognize him.
One day a year later, when I saw Shanshan in a juvenile correctional institution, she told me that she hated her father to the core, and said the following words quite maturely: I am not against all love between adults, But you can't just leave your dearest person aside just because you have a new love. Isn't this kind of love too selfish and inhuman?We young people are ignorant and easy to go wrong, but you are adults, you know the end of some things from the beginning, but you will continue to do it without hesitation, are you adults enough?What qualifications do you have to teach and educate us?
Shanshan's words made me unable to answer.Indeed, as far as I know, extramarital affairs, lovers, and mistresses are extremely serious in society today. These are all done by adults, and generally those who do these things know that this kind of abnormal sex will not end well. Fruit, yet they are still doing something special.At present, the country's legal and moral education cannot impose severe sanctions on this phenomenon, and the phenomenon of extramarital affairs and lovers still belongs to the category of personal privacy.But the problem is that the love of adults is not as single and independent as that of teenagers and young adults.When adults are looking for new love (let's call it love for now), they usually have the seeds of love before them-the existence of children.So when adults are looking for a new love, they often forget that they are responsible for some kind of natural affection.As Li's daughter Shanshan said, although you adults have the right to find new love, you have no right to irresponsibly abandon your natural responsibility for family love.But in real life, many children like Shanshan, who originally lived in a very good environment, will lose the love of their relatives, ruin their bright future, and even end up destroying their good destiny.
Love is heavy for adults.However, many adults have completely forgotten another kind of responsible love in their passionate love.
In this article, another group is the tragic fate of those illegitimate children who are discriminated against by society and abandoned by their parents.These children are the fruits of their adults' abnormal love, but their parents are irresponsible for them. Such children usually live in the environment that lacks the most true love in the world.
During an interview in a certain city in the Central Plains, I heard the story of such a contemporary "Xianglin Wife": this Xianglin Wife's surname is Zhang Mingli, and she is only 23 years old this year.When she graduated from technical secondary school, she was selected by a private company boss to work as a cashier at a job fair.The boss's business is doing well, and he is considered a respectable entrepreneur in that medium-sized city.There is a saying that if a man has more money, he will turn bad. The boss surnamed Tang is actually not bad. He has been more responsible for his family in the oil business for more than ten years, and he has never heard of a womanizer outside. thing.
Zhang Li didn't even dare to raise her head in front of the boss at the beginning, because people said that she was good-looking and easily aroused men's fantasies, so she made up her mind in her heart: she must keep a low profile and blunt in front of men-this It is also her parents who have been taking care of her.Besides, the boss is a famous person in the city, so what am I?This is Zhang Li's thoughts.
"Zhang Li, the tax bureau is coming to check the accounts this month. You can help me work overtime and sort out our company's accounts so that they don't find out our loopholes." One day, Boss Tang ordered, yes , give me a call after you finish working overtime, and I'll come over again.
"Yeah!" Zhang Li just bowed her head and hummed like she accepted the task in the past - she didn't look at the boss directly, but only heard another talk about how attractive their boss was and how responsible he was to the family. Li worked very hard to clean up those accounts that were easy to be found out by the tax bureau.When everything was ready, Zhang Li looked at the clock on the wall, it was already late at night.Zhang Li remembered the boss's order, hesitated for a moment, but still dialed his cell phone.
The boss will be here in a while.As soon as he entered the room, the boss put a plastic bag on Zhang Li's table: "I just bought it from the KFC store. It's still hot. Eat it quickly. By the way, show me the account book."
Zhang Li hummed and hurriedly handed over the stack of ledgers that had just been sorted out, and then stood there blankly.
"Hey, what's the matter with you? Eat it while it's hot! You've been working so late, or you'll have a stomach problem after a long time." The boss raised his head and looked at Zhang Li in bewilderment, and said as if ordering.
Her eyes met his for the first time.Zhang Li's heart trembled violently for no reason, and her face immediately turned red like an apple.The boss seems to have noticed for the first time that his little cashier is so beautiful, his eyes stopped directly on Zhang Li...
Zhang Li was even more panicked, and hurriedly lowered her head to pick up the box of KFC and wanted to take it to another table to eat, but maybe she was too panicked, so she didn't grab the box in the plastic bag.
"Ouch!" The food was scattered all over the floor.Zhang Li's face became even more flushed, and she hurriedly squatted down to pick it up.
Boss Tang also bent down subconsciously.
She was so close to his face that she could hear each other's breathing...
Zhang Li was dizzy for a while, and the boss quickly reached out to support her.
"What's the matter with you?" he asked infinitely tenderly.
She felt an excitement like never before.
The sparks of his and her feelings collided so simply, and they burned so intensely that they couldn't be separated.
浓烈的感情下很快有了种子。
“喂，我……有！”—天，她悄悄告诉他。
“真的？”他有些惊慌：“得想办法打掉，要不就麻烦了。”
她第一次感到特别失望。其实他的担心和想法是张莉早已料到的，只是她期望自己将这个消息告诉他时能够得到一种只有他们两人之间才有的升华了的感情。张莉知道这是她作为女人最重要和伟大的一件事——她这么认为。至于结果怎么处理她当然清楚，因为他是有家有室的，孩子都已上初中了。
但张莉感到无比失望：“你就知道打打打，我要是不打呢？”
这本来是一句赌气的话，可他听后却如晴天霹雳。
“你疯了？明天你就给我去打掉！”一向持重的唐老板的脸都变了形：“我后天要出差，走之前你一定要把这事了了，否则时间拖得越长越不好，听清楚了没有？”
“没有——”张莉声嘶力竭地蹲下身子冲着情人喊道，她的眼泪也随之像两串散落的珠子从脸颊上滚下。
女孩子爱赌气，张莉觉得一肚子委屈，本来她并没有把孩子的事看得那么重，可与情人的这番意想不到的对话，使她一下子改变了以往的许多天真的想法：原来他并不真正看重我们之间的感情呀！
好吧，我们走着瞧！张莉扭头就走，无论情人在后面怎么喊她都不听，而且直到第三天他出差走时也没有回过他一个电话，她躲到了一个同学家里。
10天后，他回来第一件事就是把张莉骗到一个地方。
“那天我态度不好，向你表示道歉。可你也不要太任性，这是什么社会？你真把孩子生下来对你以后有什么好处？才二十几岁……”他的口气改变了不少，但说的话仍然让张莉觉得不近人情。
“那你舒服时就没有为我想一想我以后有什么好处？我才二十几岁！”张莉反问道。
他又烦操起来：“以往你可不是这样的！”
“我以往的确不是这样的。可我现在肚子里有了你的种，能跟以前一样吗？”
“别说得那么难听。我看这几天我还是想法托人联系一个医院，然后我跟你一起去行吗？”
他两眼直盯着她。
不知什么时候开始的，张莉以往并不在乎与他之间的那份私情现在完全变成了另一种想法，当那天两人第一次为了怎么处理孩子发生冲突后，她马上感觉到她与他之间的感情发生了动摇和危机。当这种感觉出来后，她似乎一下子改变了原先的想法：决定用肚子里的这点资本来重新审视他们之间的情分。
“我现在不想打掉孩子。”她一字一板地说。
“你——”他的眼睛一下子瞪得像铜铃那么大，你别给我胡来，也不要借此想达到什么目的。我明确告诉你：要我离婚是不可能的，再说我的资产一半是我老婆掌管着，我就是想分给你一份也没那么容易，更何况你要是用肚子里的孩子来威胁我的话，那连门儿都没有！
“你！”张莉感到从未有过的失望，她的眼泪又一次夺眶而出。“我也老实告诉你，我才不管你老婆不老婆，也不稀罕你那些臭钱！可我有权处理我自己身上的每一样东西，知道吗？”
两人又一次不欢而散。一对情深似海的情人，现在成了见面说不上几句话就要吵的冤家对头。
一天，趁没有人时，唐老板给了张莉两万元钱，说：“你暂时不用来上班，我给你租了个地方。以后再说我们之间的事……”
张莉接过钱的那一瞬间，真是欲哭无泪。当天晚上，张莉也没有回家，更没有到他为她准备的秘密住处。第二天她就从亲人和他的身边消失了，她只给自己家乡的父母写了封信，说自己到广东那边另找工作去了。
那位老板开始还有些紧张，并到处托人找过张莉，但时间一长也就慢慢淡忘了张莉和她身体里的孩子。他一直深信不疑地认为张莉最后拿了钱肯定到哪个地方把孩子打掉后便独自到广州什么地方另谋生路去了。
其实张莉什么地方都没去。她在近郊找了个地方租下一间房子后，便靠帮助一个社区居民的家庭做小学生家教生活着。开始时她真的有想死的念头，但当平静之后，一晃两个月过去了，这时她静下心来重新考虑肚子里的孩子时，她犹豫了——时间一长，尤其是独自一人生活，她已经同另一个小生命之间有种难舍难分的感情了。而这种难以割舍的亲情，使她一拖再拖，直拖到她真的有一次走进医院想动手术时，那位多嘴的妇产科医生说：你这是第一胎吧？第一胎的胎儿是最好的，怎么舍得打掉呢？再说刚才检査结果你的孩子非常好，生下准是个活蹦乱跳的大小子。
张莉一听，那双迈进手术室的腿又重新缩了回来。
之后的日子非常快，十月怀胎成熟时，张莉通知了家人。当父母的一看女儿都这么个样了，也只好由着她去医院把孩子生了下来。
是个大胖儿子，长得跟老板唐某一模一样。父母与其说心疼女儿，倒不如说喜欢上了这个没爹的外孙。但这事叫当父母的十分生气，于是张莉的父亲有一天找到了唐某，同时也带去了婴儿的照片。
唐某一看照片，顿时目瞪口呆：“这这……这怎么会弄到这个地步呢？”
“得问你自己。”张莉的父亲没好气地瞅了一眼黑女婿说，事到如今，孩子不能随父姓也就算了，可张莉和这娃儿以后的事你准备怎么处理？
唐某惊恐万状地说：“你说你说，只要你们别闹到我家里，其他的我一定尽力做到。”
张莉的父亲听了唐某这话，便不紧不慢地从口袋中拿出一张纸，放在他面前，然后两眼一动不动地盯着黑女婿看他表情如何。
“这么多哪！”唐某仅粗粗扫了那么一眼，便跳了起来。
“你觉得多吗？”这回轮到张莉的父亲反问唐某：“张莉离开你后，独自生下你的儿子，这一年多你知道她遭受的是什么样的罪吗？娘儿俩过去的一年要你5万元不算多吧？好，我们考虑你有家有室，也不想给你家庭和生意上找麻烦，他娘儿俩也不想从你这儿要什么名分，可总得有个家吧？不多不少，两居室一套，30万元还没有算进装修费用什么的。这孩子是你的，张莉今天弄到这个地步也是你一手造成的，娘儿俩一年开销两万元也不算高消费吧？按照法律规定，18岁之前孩子由你抚养，18年加上他上学开销要你25万元也没有多要吧？这60万元你说算多吗？唐……唐先生你说呢？”
唐某想说什么，可一抬头看见话音不高却两眼威严的张莉父亲时，张了张嘴又闭上了。
一阵并不短的沉默。
“好吧。我答应你的条件。”唐某喘了口粗气。“不过我一下子拿不出那么多现钱，因为我的公司财务是由我老婆把着，所以我只能分期付给孩子和张莉……”
“没关系，只要你在这份保证书上签个字就行。”张莉父亲又从口袋中掏出一张纸。
唐某极不情愿地接过一看，是份关于自愿承担张莉母子俩经济生活保证书，上面条款一是一、二是二，足有那么两大张。其中规定了什么时间由唐某付给多少的一项项非常细致的条款。唐某一看跟他刚才答应的没有大的出人，便同意在保证书上签字。可唐某心里就像吃了只苍蝇那么难受。
第一笔付出25万元后——为张莉和孩子安家买房，唐某以为事情可以这么平息了，但没几天张莉的父亲又打来电话催促让唐某无论如何要到张莉住的地方去一次。
“这次与钱没有关系，但你必须来一次，不然会出人命的……”对方的声音很令人不安。
唐某一听这也頋不得许多了，匆匆开车过去。这是他与张莉分开近两年后第一次见面。当唐某再次看到张莉时，他不由得吃了一惊；才25岁的张莉像一下子老了10岁似的。更令他惊恐不安的是张莉的父亲告诉他：“张莉搬到新家后不知咋被邻居知道了底细，于是有人竟然在楼梯里当着她的面骂她是个养私生子的婊子。张莉本来这几年受的刺激就很大，这回她受不了别人当面的凌辱，便闹着要搬家，不然就割腕自尽。”
张莉的父亲给唐某打电话时，就是他发现女儿要寻短见，便强制把张莉关在小屋里看守着。
“你说这可怎么办？要不从这儿搬到其他地方，她就要寻死寻活，我也不能每天盯着她呀！孩子又这么小……”张莉父亲一脸无可奈何和焦急。
“那就……再搬个地方吧。”唐某皱着眉头，只好如此说道。
“可找个新地方，再怎么快也得十几天、个把月才能把新房子买到手呀！何况你上次给的钱已经全部用在这套房子上……”
唐某全听明白了：“这样吧，先让张莉和孩子搬到我一个朋友家那儿住一阵，等新地方找到了再让她搬进去。我朋友一家人都出国去了，房子空着，是让我帮他看着的。我看今晚就把他娘儿俩先拉过去，要不张莉她……”唐某想说要不张莉又要寻短见可不好管这句话！可当他再瞧一眼吃了安定熟睡的张莉时，便把话又吞了回去。
就这么着，唐某和张莉的父亲将昏睡的张莉和又哭又闹的孩子当晚搬到了新地方。这一折腾，差不多已是凌展3点钟。
唐某没有回家，径直赶到办公室，又马上给家里打了个电话，谎称有份合同要赶出来，因此不能回家。
第二天上班时间到了，公司员工已经各就各位时，唐某还在办公室的沙发里呼呼大睡。
丁零零……一阵急促的电话铃将他惊醒。
“谁呀？什么事？”他有气无力地把电话听筒拿在手里。
“孩子不好了，你赶紧过来一趟吧……”电话里说。
“什么孩子好不好的？你打错了！”唐某生气地将听筒一搁，打了个哈欠。
丁零零……电话铃再次响起。
“喂？你挂什么机呀？孩子真的不好了！浑身都在抽筋，我一个人管不了他们娘儿俩，张莉吃了安定药还迷迷糊糊的，你赶絷过来……”
这回唐某听清楚了：“是他那个没完没了的岳父大人。”
child?孩子出问题了？唐某一听头就大起来。看来不去是不行了，真出了什么事，张莉她家还不知又要怎么折腾我呢！
“小王，我有点事出去一趟，公司有电话你接一下。”唐某简单交待一下公司的事后又急忙驾车赶到张莉娘儿俩新搬的地方。
孩子真的得了急病，浑身抽筋，样子很吓人。唐某只好赶紧让张莉的父亲抱起孩子，自己发动车子，直奔医院。
医生诊断说这孩子得了急性肺炎，得住院治疗。
就这么四五天时间，唐某被自己的私生子亊件折腾得瘦了一圈。可事情远远没有完，张莉因为多年心情忧郁，整天说东做西，根本无法带好孩子。唐某只好给她请了个保姆帮助一起看孩子。
“不行，她是间谍，是唐某派来害我和孩子的间谍，我不要她！让她马上滚！”不出一个星期，张莉说什么也不让小保姆再呆在家里无奈，唐某和张莉的父亲商量，说暂由唐某想法把孩子送到一个托儿所请人照看一阵。并且允许张莉由她父亲带着每天去看一次孩子。
这么着一晃就是三年。而这过程中，唐某由开始对孩子和张莉仅留的一份爱也渐渐淡薄，当孩子4岁需要入托时，生意上渐走下坡的唐某在未与任何人打招呼的情况下，甩手独自一人到了南方，后来再也没了音讯。失去经济来源的张莉母子，仅靠父母每月给的200元钱维系着艰难的日子。张莉虽然身患严重的忧郁症却老怀疑有人要害她的儿子，于是后来孩子托儿所也不去了，天天她带着，一步不离孩子。可偏偏不幸的事发生了，一日，张莉带着孩子上街买菜，当她向菜贩子付钱的空当儿，儿子见有只小猫从他身边走过，便兴冲冲地振向着那小猫直奔马路上去，就在这时，一辆急驶而过的卡车像轧蚂蚁似的从小孩子身上飞过……血地上，仅留下孩子脚上的一只虎头鞋是完整的，那一场景很惨很惨……
“宝儿！宝儿——”张莉当场昏倒在地。当她醒过来时，见了谁都不认识了，嘴里只会喊：“宝儿，我的宝儿……”
她的手里，是那只永远不肯丢下的虎头鞋。
如今，在这个城市的大街上，人们经常能看到披头散发的她，手里捏着那只虎头鞋，嘴里喊着：宝儿，我的宝儿……
知情的人们望着这位疯女人的背影，无不惋惜地摇头道：这位祥林嫂，正是由于她当年痴情的一爱，既断送了一个小生命，又断送了自己一辈子……
喊着宝儿回来的这位当代祥林嫂，如今仍在中原某市的大街上到处游晃着，那些孩子的家长们极其害怕她的出现，因为她见了谁家的孩子都说这是她的宝儿，非得抱住不放。
唉，一个可怜人哪！人们用优伤的目光和口气目送并谈论着这个祥林嫂……
好端端的张莉成了新时代的祥林嫂令人惋惜，这样的祥林嫂与鲁迅笔下的那位祥林嫂虽同有失子的苦命，可当代的祥林嫂无论如何也激不起人们的同情与怜悯，甚至我采访的张莉周围的人都这么说：活该！
其实活该的不止是张莉，还有那个姓唐的男人。正是他们的婚外恋和偷情，使得本无罪过的孩子宝儿慘死车轮底下。
我曾采访过一位情感热线的主持人，她告诉我，现在社会上的非婚情爱太普遍，而由此引发的非婚生育现象也越来越多，俗称私生子。这些私生子大体可分为几种情形，一是像上面的这位新祥林嫂式的，她们多数开始是在毫无准备的情况下，最后因为出于报复男方才把孩子生下的，这些女人把孩子看做是征罚以往或者已经失去的情人的一种筹码；另一种是所谓的真情果实，即男女双方经过周密商定后生下的爱情种子；再有一种是因为种种客观原因，不得不生下的。
第一种私生子的结局从张莉变成祥林嫂的命运已经很清楚，几乎都是以悲剧而终结的。
似乎用通常的或者同情的眼光看，第二种的爱情种子颇值得赞赏。然而细细思量，我们发现这样的爱情种子一旦生根发芽后，后果更加严重。
在上海市就有这样一对情人，他们早年在一个中学读书，后来因为双方搬家分住在浦东浦西两地，以后又各上南北不同的大学。若干年后，这对从小青梅竹马的旧日情人一见面，情感之火便频频燃烧，且越烧越旺，不用说，他们在几次幽会后便选择了一处房子作为他们偷情相会的地方。男女双方各自都有自己的孩子，但他们不满足，共同认为光爱光恋不足以证明他们之间崇高而神圣的爱情，所以商定要生一个属于他们两人的爱情种子。
为了生下这颗爱情种子，这对情人可谓吃尽了苦头，先不说男方如何浦东浦西两头奔忙，也不说女方挺着肚子东躲西藏，最后仅仅为了在何处生下这孩子一事，着实把他们两人折腾得差点闹翻了天。男人说，既然要生下来，就得找个好地方安顿和疗养，于是就说—起搬到距上海不远的苏州老家去住。女方则不同意，说一去几个月会引起家里怀疑的。what to do?还是男人想了个办法，说你从怀胎到生下孩子，要不被别人发现是不太可能的，惟一不让各自的家人和单位发现你的办法只有一条路，那就是假装出国去了。男人给单位和家人出国的理由还算充足，他说大学时有个朋友在澳大利亚做买卖，请他出去一趟帮帮忙，时间不长，10个月左右。女方則困难重重了，同样的假话骗不了家人和单位，不得不先把单位的工作辞了，后又瞒着丈夫说跟一位在香港工作的同学联系好了，由同学帮忙转到澳大利亚进修一年学习商务。上海人有一段时间特迷信出国，不少人以此为荣，所以不管出哪个国谋哪门职，只要你能出国就仿佛高人一等似的。因此这对男女假称出国的事没有被双方家人和单位看出纰漏，相反都热热闹闹地庆贺了一番。为了做得像模像样，两人各自还导演了一场送别仪式，只是怕亲人难过，没允许家人和单位的人到机场送别。而城内的那种挥泪从此去的场面演得可谓真情实感。
双方的亲人们根本不曾想到，他两人压根儿就没有上机场，而是在上虹桥机场前的高速公路上一拐弯，便入了沪宁高速路，并在苏州下了车，到了他们预先租下的一套新房子里开始等待他们的爱情种子的降生。假出国比真出国还累，先说为了让家人信以为真，你就得打电话联系不是？两人说好了，对家人说，因为工作随时变动，只能由他们给家人打电话，而家人却不能主动打澳大利亚的国际长途；写信怎么办？那男人出了个招，每次由他把两人写给家人或亲友的信先寄到他在澳洲的同学那儿，再由那位同学寄到上海，这折腾来折腾去算是把家人和单位给蒙住了。
随后是生下孩子，这不算太难，难的是孩子生下后怎么办？两人太浪漫，也太激情了，只顾一门心思希望早日看到爱情的种子，却没有往深里想孩子出世后咋办的事？而由于是假出国许多假事做得时间不能太长，那女方在生下孩子不到两个月就赶紧回到了上海，回到上海后她又不得不经常假借跑业务而三天两头往苏州跑。如此风里来雨里去，不出半年，她的身体垮了下来，后来又接连几次大出血，结果在生下孩子的第10个月时，终因敌不住病魔而离开了人世。临死时她把自己在外面还有个孩子的事告诉了家人，并期望父母和丈夫原谅她。对死去的人还有什么可责备的，女方的婆家人从苏州抱回了不是他们的孩子，而那个孩子的生父也因为家人得知此事后要追究他的婚外情责任，最后他也不得不放弃对婚外私生子的抚养责任，如今这对婚外男女的爱情种子成了一个几乎无人真心疼爱的可怜儿。
据说到了去年第五次人口普査时才算落上了户口，这时孩子已经8岁，别的孩子像他这个年龄已经上小学三年级了，他才刚刚插班进一年级。进学校后的孩子本来就有点让人怀疑，他是不是哪个地方有些……，结果——传出原来他是私生子时，同学和老师便天天用异样的目光看他对待他，日子长了，这小孩子越发自卑，最后发展到诱发了一种上学恐惧症——听说爷爷奶奶要送他上学，就浑身哆嗦起来。可怜的孩子，现今他多么想走出家门，可一旦真的走出家门时，他就开始旧病复发——他真的快成一个废物了。
再一种是那些因为种种主客观原因而不得不生下孩子的非婚男女们，他们的命运大多数也好不到哪儿去。
兰州的章某与王某也是一对天天离不开的情人，他们好到最后也不小心弄出了个孩子。王某跟她丈夫在一起做爱时丈夫总嫌她性冷淡，为了在情人面前表现出性主动，所以每次在章某与她做爱时，王某表现得特别热情，甚至有时连章某提出是不是采取些措施时，她也一口拒绝，说隔一层多没劲。
就这样，王某的肚子里很快有了章某播下的种子。一晃就是七八个月，王某的肚子一天天大起来，等到想到医院堕胎时已经太晚了。这会儿章某和王某两位情人才真着急起来。而刮宫恐怕对母亲有生命危险。王某哭丧着脸让章某想法先躲到哪儿把孩子生下来。后来两人编出种种理由，瞒过家人，到了海南生下了孩子。
因为早有准备要将孩子扔掉的，所以王某在出院的那天清晨，乘人不多时，悄悄抱着孩子往医院旁边的一个公园里想把孩子放在那儿，好让路过的人看到这可怜的孩子。但王某不知南方人起得早，待她进公园时，公园里晨练的人已经很多了，她怎么寻觅也没找到恰当处，于是只好把孩子抱了回去。后来又连续几次都没有扔成，日子一长，等王某再有机会想扔孩子时，她的心却怎么也狠不下来——骨肉亲情已经使她无法忍心把孩子弃之荒野。
最后王某只好找到章某再作安排。章某一听就急了，说：“你让我怎么办？老子家的老婆孩子可不是吃素的，别说知道了我与你在外面生下了孩子，就是我们俩的婚外恋一旦揭穿，那非要我小命不可呀！说什么也得把这孩子扔掉。”
王某也急了，说：“就你心狠，活脱脱的一块心头肉，你叫我怎么忍心？”
章某更急了，说：“你这么不忍心不等于要毁我们两人呀？”
“毁就毁，反正那么回事，大不了我们两人都离婚，那样更好，孩子可以堂堂正正跟我们一起生活。”王某说。
“哎，你姓王的啊，从头开始你就是想黑我呀？原来你当初留下孩子就是为了这目的呀？想得美！我跟你早说过，咱们谈情说爱咋都成，但有一条早说清楚的，就是对方不能提出离婚，这你也保证过我才跟你好上的，现在你拿孩子来套我上圈圈，没门儿！”章某的小白脸此时成了一堆猪肝似的，揪住昔日的情人就是一顿暴打。
王某也不是吃素的，心想我辛辛苦苦十月怀胎，现在又整天像偷了东西似的带着孩子东躲西藏，有苦水往肚子里咽，你姓章的这么说话，就别怪姑奶奶我翻脸不认人！
第二天，王某就抱着孩子往章某的单位领导家里跑，说完这是你们单位章某留下的孽根一句话后就扭头走了人。这回章某的单位炸开了，一向自认为风流倜傥的他成了连头都抬不起来的过街老鼠。尤其是他泪流满面地跪在领导面前恳求保密不要将此事告诉他家人的那熊样，后又传遍了机关内外而被当做本年度机关十大新闻之首。
如此之大的风波不可能不漏些风声。章某的家人很快知道了内情，出乎意料的是章某家人十分大度地上他的单位领导那儿笑纳了这个章家的种，其真情实意让人不得不佩服——孩子没有过错，有错的是大人。既然这是章家的孩子，那就由我们章家来抚养。本来束手无策的章某单位领导，一见这种结果，真是阿弥陀佛，求之不得。
孩子倒是抱走了，可章某的名声也彻底地毁了，他不得不辞职离开单位，成了一个无业游民。那孩子被抱回家