Chapter 53 Father-in-law May 2, I want you to live——Record of Zhang Jianxia, ​​the Second National Moral Model

Xingtang, a thousand-year-old county, is located at the eastern foot of Taihang Mountain. Open the "Xingtang County Chronicle" in the Kangxi period: Qie Xiang in the Yuan Dynasty, Gu Shilian in the Ming Dynasty...the place where people of filial piety and righteousness come forth in large numbers.In the setting sun, I looked up at a huge stele of filial piety: double dragons hovering over the top of the stele, with the word "imperial decree" in the middle, and the text "Jing Biao Zengsheng Li Gong Taboo Xianqing Tomb of Duty Son County" is still clear. raccoon.

Xingtang people are famous for their loyalty, filial piety, benevolence and righteousness.The folk customs of thrift and filial piety have traveled through the millennium together with the blood of the ancestors, and have continued from generation to generation to this day.At the beginning of the new millennium, a filial daughter-in-law stood on the tide of the market economy, young and beautiful. Zhang Jianxia has a pair of big eyes that can speak while blinking, and her long hair is neatly tied in a ponytail at the back of her head.When she talked about her parents, it was my father and my mother; when she talked about her in-laws, her husband Wang Liang said our parents, and she also said our parents.Wang Liang often interjected, like a small boring gong in a big drama, ringing at every critical moment.Sometimes the young couple intentionally said a few words in Tang dialect that I couldn't understand, swearing, or blaming me, which made me feel stupid, and I couldn't ask anything.Wang Liang called her "Fat Nier".

Wang Liang said that he and Fat Nier had only been married for two and a half months since they met.I laughed: "This is a flash marriage of the post-80s generation. You two should explain how you met first." Fat Nier giggled and said, "A small waistcoat makes one's heart tremble." In the winter of 2003, Wang Liang and Fat Nier met.The introducers are Wang Liang's grandmother and Fat Nier's aunt.Wang Liang's aunt, second mother, third mother, and several aunts all came, and the grandma's house was crowded.Fat Nier came with her mother, which means she is weak and difficult to fight.More than a dozen women in the Wang family watched Fat Nier endlessly around the sofa.How did my parents make this little face, it's so handsome.Fat Nier pondered, anyway, she is watching, if you want to watch, I will tell you to watch as much as you want.She simply stood up.All the women in the Wang family were shocked. This girl was tall and tall, and she was a natural match with Wang Liang.

Fat Nier said with a smile: "That day, I saw that Wang Liang was very handsome. If he wanted someone, he wanted someone, and he wanted someone to look at me, so why don't he tell his elders to take a good look at me? Talk about it if you see it, and let it go if you don't, anyway. It's the first time we've met." The wrinkles on Grandma's face bloomed like chrysanthemums, and she said, "You two should go to Wang Liang's house to see." At the end of the blind date, there was a scene that Fat Nier will remember for the rest of her life. It was getting late and the cold was coming down.Wang Liang took off the down jacket and put it on his father's shoulders, stretched out one arm for his father, and stretched out another arm.Fat Nier took a peek, the relationship between father and son was so cordial and natural.It was a very cold day, and he had only one cashmere sweater left. How cold it would be if he went out for a while!This dark blue down jacket is treasured in the softest place in Fat Nier's heart.Wang Liang is a filial son, Fat Nier thought.At present, many young people play mahjong all night, and there are also many "cheating old people".Wang Liang is different from such young people.

Love at first sight is a beautiful legend, you can't be obsessed with legends.In this land, filial piety is still the cornerstone of love.If a person doesn't even love his parents, don't expect him to love others. My aunt watched Fat Nier grow up, so my aunt told Wang Liang stories. My aunt said: "If Fat Nier's family changes their rice stubble, they will always send it to the elderly first. Fat Nier is carrying the first pot of dumplings, walking back and forth in the village, giving away grandma's and grandma's. I only eat it by myself. The people in Yizhuang see it for nothing, she has been like this since she was a child. I asked Fat Nierniang, and she said, one mouthful of more old people is more, and one mouthful of young people can make a fortune?"

The aunt said: "Fat Nier's parents are very kind to her grandparents, and everyone in the village knows it. When Fatty Nier's grandfather passed away, grandma was seventy, and she liked to cook and eat by herself. Fatty Nier was only a teenager. Primary school, living with grandma. She never thinks grandma is dirty, she washes clothes for grandma... Alas, she also washes grandma's feet. I am old, and the calluses on my feet are as thick as steel. Just rubbing a pair of small hands, Well, I have been rubbing for ten years. Fat Nier is grown up, she goes to Zhuozhou to go to school and live in school, and she comes back every ten and a half months, she still loves to live with grandma."

Wang Liang listened carefully, nodding from time to time. The aunt said: "Fat Ni'er has a lot of nieces and nieces in this generation, and they all go to grandma's house, and all the children are so filial. Why? This is the family style of filial piety. The old saying goes, the old cat sleeps in the house." , from generation to generation. If you are strong to the old, the next generation will be strong to you; if you are not strong to the old, the next generation will not be strong to you either.” Once the love of the new century sprouts in the ancient land, it is out of control.Fat Nier graduated from Hebei Zhuozhou Petroleum School with a major in computer science. She was typing and sending and receiving at a newspaper office in the provincial capital. Before the contract expired, she ran home.Wang Liang said: "My father has hepatitis B, you should think carefully before making a decision." He also said, "I just run a small hotel with more than a dozen rooms, and I don't make much money for a year." Before marriage, I always wanted to hide something, he didn't... Fat Nier looked at him quietly, the 22-year-old girl was completely conquered by a boy of the same age.

In February 2004, Zhang Jianxia and Wang Liang got married.The next year, the young couple had a son Qiqi.When the little guy came to the world, the parents-in-law were overjoyed.The whole family lived happily ever after. Unfortunately, Wang Zhenlong, Fat Nier's father-in-law, suffers from cirrhosis of the liver.Together with her husband, she accompanied her father-in-law back and forth between Shijiazhuang and famous hospitals in Beijing. In April 2007, my father-in-law was admitted to Beijing 301 Hospital and was diagnosed with severe liver cirrhosis combined with small liver cancer.The attending physician of the hepatobiliary surgery said that Wang Zhenlong's treatment time is running out, and the only way is a liver transplant.

Wang Zhenlong lingered on the last part of his life.What is cruel is that this liver cancer patient understands his condition better than his relatives, and the end of his life is already clearly visible.He lives in the county seat of Xingtang County, and his household registration book is marked as a farmer.When we got married, my family gave me ten yuan to buy two pairs of chopsticks, two bowls, and a washbasin.With the remaining money, I bought a jar of salt and set up a small salt stall, and then I started working hard.Then it's transportation, and then you can do whatever you want with the money.Primitive accumulation is getting bigger and bigger like a snowball.His innate shrewdness and cunning are fully displayed, and after twenty years of hard work, he is already a wealthy family.Is this a farewell to Hehemeimei's family?He is just 50 years old, the man is not afraid of death, but he is unwilling!

People who grew up in the hometown of Xiaoyi still have the blood of their ancestors flowing in their veins.The mother-in-law Zhang Shufang stood up and said, "If you want to cut the liver, you have to cut mine first." Her husband Wang Liang said, "I am the eldest son, so I must cut mine." The uncle also came, and the two sons competed for a blood test.However, none of the physical examination results met the transplant requirements.The direct relatives of the living liver transplant are the best. Their blood types are all type A, and Wang Zhenlong is type O, so they cannot be used.A suitable source of liver in the society is still far away.

Undoubtedly, the countdown to the death of liver cancer patients has begun.The days are like a black and white pictorial, harsh and indifferent.His relatives did not dare to face him seriously, and he dropped from 180 catties to 110 catties, one weight a day.Death is no longer a vague shadow, it suddenly becomes very concrete, more and more distinct.A dying life... Like her husband, Fat Nier couldn't eat and couldn't sleep.How nice it is to have a complete family, nothing can happen to anyone.If the sky falls, the whole house will also collapse.Fat Nier said to her husband, "I have type O blood, which is the same as our father's blood type." Of course her husband knew, he had a blood test before she gave birth.The husband felt sorry for his wife and said, "It's not your turn to cut your liver." Fat Nier still went for a blood test.As soon as the results of the physical examination came out, the doctor said that the blood types matched, and that Fat Nier's liver could be used.It is also possible for the donor and the recipient to have no blood relationship, but the recipient has to take anti-rejection drugs for a long time after the operation. Father-in-law, I want you to live and cut your liver to be a filial piety for your husband.Fat Nier decided. In a sense, a person's body, especially a married woman's, is not entirely his own.As with any major surgery, there are exceptions.Fat Nier, you have a two-and-a-half-year-old Qiqi, and your responsibilities are still there, so you can't think about that eventuality.Your biological parents have entered old age, and you are a girl, and you can't think about that eventuality.Perhaps because of this, it is rare for a daughter-in-law to donate a liver to her father-in-law. Facing Fat Nier's decision, the most difficult thing is her husband Wang Liang.Wang Liang watched his wife cry, his father was on one side and his lover on the other, he couldn't let go of either.Fat Nier said: "Time waits for no one, if one more day is delayed, our father will be in more danger, we can't just watch our father die!" The husband said: "It is a major operation to disembowel and disembowel, in case... ..." Fat Nier said: "I've decided, let's talk to our parents." The husband couldn't hold back his wife, so he agreed. When she heard that her daughter-in-law had cut her liver to save her father-in-law, the mother-in-law cried and said, "My dear girl, you will be content if you have such a heart, how can you really use your liver? If you do something wrong, your parents will not be able to live. Qi Qi is still young...no way." The father-in-law curled up like a prawn on the hospital bed, which made people feel distressed.From the moment the doctor announced the liver transplant, he fell into desperation day by day.A drowning person always hopes to catch something, even if it is a straw.Every time a relative goes to have his blood type tested, the fire of his life will be ignited again, and it will be extinguished again and again as the results appear.Liver source, where is the dream source of liver?In this world, perhaps, he would not be too hesitant to use anyone's liver.It is the love of husband and wife for a wife to cut the liver of her husband, and it is the love of father and son for a son to save his father. He can still afford liver sources in society.The daughter-in-law cut the liver of her father-in-law, how can the liver be used?People say that the son-in-law enters the door for half a child, and the daughter-in-law enters the door to kiss the daughter. That is a beautiful yearning for people.Daughter-in-law is daughter-in-law.A maiden is a maiden. "One layer of belly and ten thousand mountains", the ancient rumors that have been passed down for thousands of years naturally have their reasons for being passed down. The father-in-law suddenly sat up on the hospital bed, looked at the tearful family and shook his head, and said, "No, there is no such thing in the world. Let's go home. Fat girl can't cut her liver. If there is an accident, I can't explain to my in-laws. Besides, what about my eldest grandson." Tears were shining in his eyes, and the flame of life gradually turned to ashes. Fat Nier said: "The doctor said that the liver has the ability to regenerate. I am still young, and it will grow out after a while." The father-in-law waved his hands repeatedly and said, "Discharge, discharge." The daughter-in-law's idea of ​​cutting her liver is very firm, and her father-in-law's idea of ​​being discharged from the hospital is also very firm.One day, two days, three days... the daughter-in-law and father-in-law are quietly persisting.The daughter-in-law mobilized her husband and mother-in-law to persuade the father-in-law, but the father-in-law still shook his head. The father-in-law refused to accept the liver from his daughter-in-law, and the family fell into pain.Fat Nier said to Wang Liang: "Everyone has a weakness, where is our father's weakness?" Wang Liang said: "Our father is just reluctant to part with his eldest grandson." My daughter-in-law had ultrasound scans several times during her pregnancy, and they all said she was a granddaughter, and she had another ultrasound half a month before she gave birth, saying she was a grandson.The son hurriedly called his father.Dad said: Has it changed?Haha what a change!Then Fat Nier has to be raised at home.The father's order is hard to break, so the daughter-in-law has to take good care of her at home.It was also a coincidence that it was snowing heavily on the day the eldest grandson was born, and the grandfather who suffered from severe hepatitis ignored everything and went to deliver millet red jujube porridge to his daughter-in-law with a thermos under the snow... Fat Nier smiled and said: "Tell our dad to watch the grandson every day to see if he still wants to die." Wang Liang also laughed: "As soon as our dad sees his grandson, he wants to live." The next day, Qiqi was brought to the hospital. There is a small garden behind the 301 hospital.The mother-in-law and Wang Liang watched Qiqi run and play, and the daughter-in-law talked to her father-in-law alone.Wang Liang didn't know what Fat Nier said to his father, but he knew that Qiqi was in his sight. Green grass, blue sky.This is the best season in Beijing, the weather is neither hot nor cold.In this pleasant environment, it is obviously a bit out of place for the father-in-law and daughter-in-law to discuss the issue of life and death.But they can't do without discussing, what they are facing is life and death.Qiqi is two and a half years old, and like a little drunk, she pounces sideways in the small garden. Grandpa—the baby-like cry is like a shining knife piercing Grandpa's heart.Wang Liang stopped Qiqi tightly. The daughter-in-law said: "Look, look, if you really leave, you will never see your precious grandson again!" The father-in-law remained silent and kept looking at the eldest grandson.The blue sky and the grass are no longer attractive to him. The daughter-in-law said: "You know you have liver cancer. If you don't have an operation, you will see your grandson's head. Dad wanted to live, so he made my liver. There are two paths: one is to live, and the other is to die. You have to be ruthless and leave everyone behind. Look at people who have undergone surgery, some live for one or two years, ten years, and some live for thirty years. They don’t have anything. Our family can’t afford it What exactly are you planning for this operation? You can’t see your grandson when you leave early?” The daughter-in-law is very filial, she has never spoken like this before, so he has to look at her with admiration. The father-in-law said: "Oh, you silly girl, you dare to say anything." The daughter-in-law smiled: "I only said that because I treated you as my own father. If I treated myself as a daughter-in-law and didn't want to replace your liver, what are you talking about? You see other people leaving happily after the operation, so our family I’ve been frowning all day long. Let’s hurry up and go home when it’s done. I’m not afraid, what are you afraid of. Why don’t you just have a knife, and you’ll be fine after the operation.” The father-in-law said: "Silly girl, didn't you think about the risks of surgery?" The daughter-in-law tensed her face and said: "This is called a generation gap. You always think about not being successful, and I always think about being successful. Have you seen a dead person after you have been in the hospital for so long? No, it must be our turn. A dead person? The one in Nanjing is in the same ward as you, with acute liver necrosis, his wife and daughter cut his liver, the operation lasted 19 hours, and he is alive and well. How can there be so many risks?" The father-in-law remained silent, looked up at the sky, and only after a long while did he let out a long sigh.It seems to be muttering to himself, or it seems to be telling the daughter-in-law: "That's right, everyone is very good. Maybe it's okay, maybe it's okay..." The daughter-in-law smiled and said, "Stop thinking about it, let's talk to the doctor quickly. It's always procrastinating, until the middle and late stages, and you can't do it even if you want to." The father-in-law stares intently at his daughter-in-law—a Chinese father-in-law rarely looks at his daughter-in-law like this.At the juncture of his life and death, he looked at his daughter-in-law's face so seriously, and said while watching: "Our whole family has to make a careful calculation. This is not without risk." The daughter-in-law giggled: "I'm not afraid, I've been stabbed to give birth to your grandson. This operation must be under general anesthesia, and everything will be fine when I wake up. Dad, let's prepare for the operation in a down-to-earth manner. Hurry up and recover from the operation as soon as possible. Let's go together." My son is home, grandpa and grandson are together, the whole family is harmonious and beautiful." Seeing that her father-in-law was silent, Fat Nier called her son: "Qiqi——" Qiqi leaned over like a little drunk, and Wang Liang supported her from behind, for fear of falling. Fat Nier knelt down, rubbed her son's little face with her hands, and said, "Qiqi will go home with Dad tomorrow." Qiqi looked at his mother with eyes as clear as moonlight, and said intermittently: "Mother is going home... Grandpa is going home... Qiqi is going home..." Qiqi spoke slowly, a little vaguely, but his grandparents , father and mother understand.There was a sparkle in Grandpa's eyes, and he said, "Go home, go home..." Fat Nier said: "My dear son, go home with Dad to find grandma. Mother has something to do tomorrow." The next day, Qiqi and her father went home to find her grandma.Fat Ni'er began to cooperate with the doctor for examinations: blood draw, CT, B-ultrasound, MRI... During the intervals between examinations, she was still thinking about her son Qiqi. The two people who are connected with a woman's flesh and blood throughout life-the person who gave birth to herself and the person who gave birth to herself. The two people who belonged to Fat Nier were in the Tang Dynasty.Mother helps her take care of her son at home.The test results came out one by one, and each result was in line with the conditions for liver transplantation, and only a few results still needed time.The major surgery is coming soon, she misses her son very much, and of course misses her mother too.This idea crashed against her soft heart day and night like a big wave, and the "what if" during the operation floated vaguely.She wants to go home but has a wish, to take a photo with her son, and a photo with her mother. Fat Nier said: "The doctor said that any major surgery has risks, and there are still things that can't get on the operating table. My son is still young and can't remember his mother. If I catch up with that event, I want my son to grow up. I want to know what his mother looks like... I took pictures with my mother, my mother misses a girl, so I just look at the photos..." She whispered, tears rolling in her eye sockets. I let out a long sigh: "Didn't you say that there is no risk in the operation? Did everything go away when I woke up?" Fat Nier raised her tearful eyes and said softly: "Don't say that, can my father-in-law accept my liver?" The car entered the boundary of Xingtang, the small village where she was born stretched out a warm little hand to her, come home, Fat Nier. Fat Nier's eyes are flooded, home, full of so many daughter's dreams! There are five main rooms in a row in my natal family. Entering the gate is a small corridor leading to the main room, with a vine planted on one side.It has been more than ten years, and the grape trunk is as thick as an arm.Fat Nier loved to eat grapes since she was a child, but there were not many in those years, so her parents planted two for her.The grapes are ripening day by day, little chubby Nier is tiptoeing, pick which bunches are red, and eat them.Fat girl grows up and gets married, and her parents send grapes to her daughter's house, and a few bunches of red... A very sensible black dog.When little chubby Nier is out of school, the black dog always jumps up and down to greet her little master, but that day it didn’t, it was staring under the eaves, grinning and foaming.Is it hot?She was afraid that the dog might get rabies, so she went to the room with a small bucket and poured water on it, but the black dog was still dead.When the mother entered the house and saw her crying on the roof, she exclaimed, what's the matter with Fat Nier? "You go to the temple fair, the dog is dead." Mother said to eat dog meat after death.Little Fatty Nier buried the dog and piled up a small grave.It made my mother dumbfounded. When the wheat is about to ripen, cobs (corn) are planted between the two ridges.Little chubby Ni'er has a small bundle tied around her waist, and inside are stick seeds.Use a small hoe to dig a hole, scatter a few seeds, press the small hoe, step on it with a small foot, and then dig a hole forward.Repeatedly, a small footprint was left between the two ridges.Maimang felt very itchy all over his body.The mother scolded and said: "I didn't ask you to go to the ground, you must go to the ground, and the little girls are dancing monkey rubber bands." Little fat girl doesn't dance monkey rubber bands, if her father does it, she will do it. Fat girl, how could you not be the eyeball of your parents! It's almost time to enter the house. Fat Nier wants to see her mother but is afraid of seeing her. She wants to tell a big lie.You can't tell your parents to cut your liver to save your father-in-law. It's not easy to ask your parents to agree when you hear that your belly has been cut open.Perhaps, parents will agree in the future, but the liver cancer develops very fast, and the father-in-law will die if he waits any longer!Parents are to blame, just blame Fat Nier. "Mother—" Qiqi yelled and rushed forward.She hugged her son and kissed him vigorously. Fat Ni'er kissed her son and looked at her mother, her eye sockets could not help but burst into tears.Mother didn't speak at first, she just laughed, after a while she felt something was wrong, mother said what's wrong, fat girl, aren't you happy to see mother?Nothing.Mother believed it.How can mother not believe it?My daughter never lied to her mother since she was a child.Once a child who can't tell a lie tells a lie, even if it's a big lie, mother will believe it to be true. Fat Nier said: "My father-in-law has liver cancer and is going to undergo a major operation, so I have to take care of him in Beijing." Mother said: "Go, go, Qiqi has me, and your brother and sister-in-law are taking care of the small hotel. You don't need to worry about it. This disembowelment is a big deal, you have to take good care of your father-in-law..." Mother told me over and over again, Fat Nier felt uncomfortable.While playing with her son, she groaned, not daring to look her mother in the eye.My dear mother, your daughter is also undergoing a major operation... Next to Fat Nier's small hotel is a small photo studio.As soon as she and her mother led Qiqi in, the photographer in the small photo studio was surprised, oh fat girl, what are you doing?Fat Nier smiled and took pictures.The photographer also laughed, put on makeup first, Fat Nier would look better with makeup on.Fat Nier said that I never wear makeup.You are different from others. Qiqi is two and a half years old and is being mischievous, but this time she took a photo and was very obedient.Is it the son who likes to take pictures?she does not know.When Fat Nier talked about going home this time, her eye circles were always red.After taking a group photo with her son, Fat Nier wanted to take a photo with her mother, but her mother refused. The mother said, the mother is not photogenic, what are you doing with the money? Fat Ni'er was afraid that her mother would find out, so she didn't dare to force her, tears flowed down her stomach. If you don't take a photo, don't take a photo. Mom will take the photo in a few days.Fat Nier said. Fat Nier is a typical post-80s generation.In addition to reading books, she also plays games online and chats on QQ. She loves playing games for those born in the 80s.The daughter-in-law donated a liver to her father-in-law. This act of transcending blood is somewhat extraordinary and intriguing.Is she in a situation where she has to donate?The whole family had their blood types tested successively. The blood types of the mother-in-law, the husband, and the brother-in-law all failed, leaving only one daughter-in-law.She, maybe she couldn't justify it without a blood test, or maybe it was a temporary impulse... So she had a blood test, and it happened that her daughter-in-law matched her father-in-law's blood type, followed by a physical examination, and fate pushed her step by step into an embarrassing situation.As the date of surgery approached day by day, fear gradually descended, and even some patients did not dare to do it.She is not a patient... If so, fate would be too unfair to this kind woman.However, when her young and beautiful body was carried on the operating table, fate gave her another opportunity to carefully consider and choose. The day before the operation, the director of the Liver Transplantation Center called Fat Nier to the office alone, even her husband Wang Liang didn't know about it.The director cut to the chase and said, "The operation will be performed tomorrow, and we will talk to you alone because we are responsible for you." Fat Nier listened quietly, the director had something to say. The director said: "The surgical plan is to cut off part of the liver. Although adequate preparations have been made, if there is an unexpected situation during the operation, no one can rule it out with absolute certainty. You still have the opportunity to choose now, you can donate or not. If If you don’t donate, some of your test results haven’t come out yet, we can definitely give you a reason from a medical point of view. Never let anyone know that it’s because you don’t want to, but your test results are not eligible for liver transplantation, yes Our doctor terminated the operation." At the end, the director emphasized: "Anyone includes your husband." Looking at the serious angel in white, Fat Nier was very moved.That is to say, liver donation must be completely voluntary by the donor.If she has the slightest hesitation, she doesn't have to donate, and she doesn't have to worry about any factors such as feelings. Fat Nier was very calm, with an equally serious expression.She said: "Donating a liver is my own decision. Even if there are risks, I will not regret it." Before the liver transplant operation, what she remembers most is this private conversation. As the husband of the donor and the son of the recipient, Wang Liang would not only lose his loved ones, but also face his unsuspecting father-in-law and mother-in-law in the event of an accident in the liver transplant operation.He didn't dare to imagine that eventuality, and the signing before the operation ruthlessly ravaged his nerves, almost causing him to collapse.Wang Liang didn't remember whether it was morning or afternoon, but he only remembered the unforgettable scene. Wang Liang asked the doctor, "Are you sure it's all right, doctor?" The doctor said: "We can operate only after ensuring the safety of the donor." At the moment of signing, Wang Liang asked again: "Are you sure it's all right?" The doctor looked at the nervous Wang Liang, smiled and said nothing.Wang Liang's eyes were clouded with tears, his hands trembled, and his pen trembled.He was able to save his father, because he used his wife's liver to save his father... Oh my god, this word is so difficult to sign!My wife is just 25 years old, and there is still a long way to go in life... The night before the operation, Fat Nier fell asleep at 10 o'clock, looking very peaceful.Wang Liang was puzzled. His wife suffered from neurasthenia and always suffered from insomnia, but this time she slept until 6 o'clock in the morning. At 8 am on June 14, 2007, Fat Nier was pushed into the operating room together with her father-in-law.This is not an operating room, it is clearly the gate of hell!Wang Liang took out his heart, and let it go bloody without boundaries.He was looking forward to it, looking forward to it every second, from morning to afternoon... When dusk fell, the angel in white finally appeared and announced: two lives returned to the world. Fat Nier woke up, and the first thing she saw was her husband beside the hospital bed.He said, "You're awake, how are you feeling?" She said, "I'm fine, how is my dad?" He said my dad was fine.The wife laughed, but the husband cried.Tears welled up in his wife's eyes, and she said, "I want to see my son..." She wanted to move, but there were tubes in her body, and she could only move her legs a little.The nurse said that moving early is good for postoperative recovery, so she started to move her legs slowly. The operation removed 69% of Fat Nier's liver. Due to the fluid accumulation, the doctor inserted a drainage tube on the left side of her abdomen to drain the bile out of the body at any time.Later, it was discovered that there was still a bile duct secreting bile, so the doctor blindly pierced another catheter between her two ribs. This drainage tube compressed the nerve, causing severe pain in her body.Women are no strangers to pain. Some pains can be shouted out, but this kind of pain can't, and they don't even dare to breathe out.Fat Nier couldn't lie down, she sat and lay on the table, she could only think wildly.Why do people have to breathe? How nice it is to live without breathing... The severe pain lasted for three days and three nights, and she gritted her teeth for three days and three nights.The doctor had to seal her up to stop the pain.Once the seal failed, she still had to grit her teeth and bear it, and her lower lip was often bitten. Postoperative infusion is a problem. Fat Nier did not have blood transfusion, and the blood vessels are too deflated.Nurses often missed needles, and had to change three or four nurses every day.The replaced nurse was teary-eyed. She smiled and said, let's do it, just a few needles.Once the director just happened to catch up with him and stabbed him, which made the director's eye sockets red.Fat Nier, it's not that the nurse's skills are bad, it's that your blood vessels are bad. On the third day after the operation, Fat Nier's cell phone rang.Wang Liang handed the mobile phone to his wife, it was his mother's number.She struggled and I got up.Wang Liang said no - you can't get up!She said that I am usually full of confidence and speak loudly.If you can't get up, your mother can hear it as soon as you hear it.Wang Liang's eyes were wet, and he carefully helped his wife up. The mother on the phone said: "How is your place? You are a junior, study hard and take good care of your father-in-law. Your husband and the others are men, and men are rough-hearted. You should run around more." Fat girl and mother Oh, I'm fine, mother has taken care of herself.Mother said Qiqi misses you... Qiqi was missing her mother, so she said, mother—go home—— Son's voice!Fat Nier suddenly wanted to cry, but she held back and said intermittently: "Son, you wait for mother at home, and mother will not leave when she returns. Where do you want to play, mother will lead you there. What do you want to eat? Mom will buy you...KFC, hamburgers. Mom remember...you have to listen to grandma." The son seemed to grow up suddenly overnight, and he responded with all his might.Fat Nier exchanged tears, and quickly hung up the phone. Eleven days after the operation, Fat Nier was discharged from the hospital with a drainage tube.The hotel they stayed in Beijing was on the second floor, but the dozen or so steps seemed so long that she couldn't go up.Wang Liang helped her, but she was still in a cold sweat. In the dead of night, my husband was fast asleep.Fat Ni'er couldn't bear to wake her husband up, and she struggled to get up and went to the bathroom. Inadvertently, the diversion tube came out of the bile duct.The bile was corrosive and dripped in her abdominal cavity, and the severe pain came again...how she was discharged from the hospital, and how she was hospitalized again.The situation is very serious, and another operation should be done, but the doctor can't bear it.The angels in white are not afraid of trouble, injecting a large amount of saline into her abdominal cavity every day, flushing the bile and then draining it out.Fat Nier was sweating profusely every time she rinsed.Oh my god, it's not the pots and bowls that are being washed, it's the woman's abdominal cavity... "What is this pain? I must get better soon. My son is still waiting at home." Fat Nier said. With tears in Wang Liang's eyes, he said: "My fat girl has suffered a great crime. Didn't you see that all the patients were crying... She has two big scars on her body: one is for giving birth to my son, and the other is for saving me. Dad. Fat Nier has a scar constitution, and the incision doesn't heal well, just like a big earthworm. I want to see and remember it for a lifetime. We have made a deal, if there is an afterlife, we will still be husband and wife." The deeds of the daughter-in-law cutting the liver to save the father-in-law have been carried forward by large and small media.However, there has never been any report on Fat Nier's parents.What do Fat Nier's parents think about her body, hair and skin?Probably not indifferent. I insisted on meeting Fat Nier's father, Zhang Wencai. Zhang Wencai, 62 years old, has slightly thinning hair on the temples.The black jacket and shirt set off a bit of spirit.The voice is loud, like ringing the bell of hope.He joined the army in 1969, joined the party in August 1970, became the reconnaissance squad leader in 1971, and then the reconnaissance platoon leader, and worked hard until 1976.The company commander said that you are getting old, what should you do if you can't lift up?He said I'm going home. I looked at the old soldier from the past and asked, "You went home like this?" Zhang Wencai said with a smile: "It's good to go home. My father is not strong, and I am the boss. As the old saying goes, turn to a big mule and a big horse, but not a big son and a daughter (turn, meaning reincarnation in the next life). Big mules are big Ma Guang can just work, the older son and the older daughter not only work, but also take care of their parents and brothers and sisters. There are six brothers in my family, and my brothers want to build a house and marry a wife, so I have to share the burden with my parents." "How does your personality affect Fat Nier?" Zhang Wencai was stunned for a moment, and said: "Maybe it has some influence. That year, I was hospitalized with appendicitis in the army. I was afraid that the elderly would worry about me, so I didn't write a letter to my family. My second brother was in a regiment with me, and he wrote to tell my family. My mother left her work and went to Taiyuan. My mother first went to the 204 hospital. I was discharged in the morning, and the hospital sent my mother to the army. My mother said, why didn't you tell me? I said I was afraid Mother is worried." He said, laughing haha. "What kind of child is Fat Nier in your eyes?" There was a soft light in Zhang Wencai's eyes.I, Fat Nier, has an easy-going temper. I never blush with anyone at school or work, and I never stop talking to people in the village.She is a class cadre, and I always look at the photos of performances and voluntary blood donation certificates when she was in Zhuozhou Petroleum School.Fat Nier didn't say hello when she donated blood, so she was more assertive. "When did you know that Fat Nier cut her liver to save her father-in-law?" Zhang Wencai's face gradually became solemn, and he said: "We didn't know until after the operation. They came home that day, and Wang Liang helped her, and I felt something was wrong. Fat Nier said that her father-in-law's liver transplant was to make her Liver. My heart hurts so badly, her mother fainted on the spot. I said this matter has already been settled, so I don’t need to say anything, the child’s body is important..." (with tears in his eyes) "It's been more than half a year. Fat Nier's mother sometimes woke up crying at night. I advised her, we still have to pass the time, live the time... It is our duty to give birth to her and raise her. When she is brought up, the duty is completed What should she do, don't use our frame to frame them." I refilled his glass with some water and asked, "You persuade her, who persuaded you?" As a village cadre, I only deal with other people's affairs, and I feel angry about this matter in my heart.We have an old saying here, the father who is easy to bury, the mother who is hard to bury.Such a major operation, if Fat Nier can't get off the operating table, won't you let us regret it for the rest of our lives?At least someone in my family is waiting for her, which is human nature.You decide, we won't stop you.If you don't tell me, I really can't stand it.The young couple went home for the first time, and her mother complained a few times, but never said it again.It's not that we can't think about it, it's not that it's elm lumps.It is enough for the children to live in peace. A kind of deep respect gushes out from the bottom of my heart like spring water, magnanimous old man Xingtang! When we had lunch together, I raised my glass to wish Zhang Wencai and his wife a long and healthy life.Qiqi is 5 years old, and she is being naughty.Grandma is still holding him.I said Qiqi came down to play.Zhang Wencai took up the quarrel and said with a smile: "This is called grandma hugging grandchildren, serious things." I couldn't understand Tang dialect, so Fat Nier explained.Zhang Wencai said again: "When we were in the Tang Dynasty, we still said that the mother-in-law treats her son-in-law, and the relatives have no idea." This time I understood it, and laughed.Seeing my grandma holding her grandson and not letting go, I said, "It seems like I am a human trafficker." Everyone laughed.Fat Nier's mother hugged her grandson, her eyes narrowed into a smile.Wang Liang was busy serving food for his father-in-law and mother-in-law, calling his father and mother, they were real relatives.The two elders enjoy the filial piety of their daughter and son-in-law. Oh, live in peace... In the harsh winter, the streets of Xingtang seem empty. Fat Nier's house is as warm as spring.Near the balcony are several pots of crab claw orchids, each of which is more lush than the other.The thick stems are shiny and shiny, overflowing the edge of the pot and hanging down like a small umbrella.The flower buds are petite and pleasing, and the number is innumerable, quietly blooming into a mess of bright red. Fat Nier said that these are common people's flowers, and they can live by cutting off a branch and plugging them in. I suddenly thought of something, "How much has your liver grown?" Fat Nier smiled, more than 90%.As she talked, she tidied up the messy room, and in just a few minutes, the room changed its appearance.The daughter-in-law whispered a few words to her mother-in-law, not knowing what to do again.The mother-in-law said that Fat Nier is not like a daughter-in-law, but a daughter-in-law. I silently watched the father-in-law Wang Zhenlong.The wrinkles on his face were one by one, very clear.Undoubtedly, the liver of his transplanted daughter-in-law is functioning normally, and it is the daughter-in-law who has continued his life.What does the father-in-law think of the daughter-in-law who donated his liver? He let out a long sigh and said, "Nowadays, there are many people in rural areas who beat their fathers and scold their mothers-in-law, and many of them are unfilial... As a father-in-law, I feel a little guilty about accepting my daughter-in-law's liver, and I also feel a little... Hey, I can't say it, it's very sad. complex." 婆婆插话：“要不是胖妮儿的肝，你早没了。好好活着吧，不能辜负孩子的心哪。” 胖妮儿闻声过来，认真地说：“爹、娘，快别这样说，咱家一个也不能少！” “爷爷——”稚嫩的童音骤然响起来，是淇淇。 爷爷看着大孙子笑，我也跟着笑了。