Chapter 52 May Day Smile Never Gives Up on Suffering——Record of Ren Feili, the Second National Moral Model

People will never forget that on the eve of the International Children's Day in 2006, the People's Premier Wen Jiabao wrote to the children of the China Deaf Children's Rehabilitation Research Center: "... I hope that more children will be able to receive their education through careful treatment and education. Rehabilitation, entering ordinary primary schools; I hope that those children who still have hearing and speech impairments can overcome difficulties with strong perseverance, hear voices, and speak; I hope that all disabled children can receive the care of the whole society, so that they Having a lively childhood enhances their confidence and courage in life."

People will never forget that on September 2, 2009, Wen Jiabao once again came to Xinjian Primary School in Dujiangyan, Sichuan, and said earnestly to the teachers of this school: "We must take good care of the children, especially those orphaned and disabled children." Children are the hope of the motherland and the future of the motherland! Disabled children are also the hope of the motherland and the future of the motherland! In January 1985, childhood sweetheart Ren Feili and L walked into a happy marriage together.Ren Feili's mother, Zhang Yu, and L's mother are colleagues, and both are teachers at Dazhong Primary School in Chengguan Town, Qiyang County, Yongzhou City, Hunan Province.Ren Feili's father, Ren Pide, and L's father both work in Qiyang County government agencies.Parents, relatives and friends of both parties are quite satisfied with this marriage and are full of expectations and longings.Later, they worked together at Hunan Xiangtan Radio and Television University.

In 1987, L was admitted to graduate school. In September 1988, Ren Feili gave birth to a pair of twin daughters, Da Mao and Xiao Mao, prematurely.However, as the children get older, their developmental issues begin to come to the fore.The children are almost one year old, and when it is time to sit, stand, walk, and talk, they still don't know how to do it. Ren Feili began to worry about her daughter. In 1990, she carried her child to Xiangtan People's Hospital, Xiangtan Women's and Children's Hospital and other hospitals.When the examination failed, she took the child to Changsha, and went to the Second Affiliated Hospital of Xiangya, the Provincial Children's Hospital, and the First Affiliated Hospital of Xiangya for examinations. However, the diagnosis conclusions of the three hospitals were the same: spastic cerebral palsy.At this time, Da Mao and Xiao Mao are one year and seven months old.

Soon, Ren Feili and the others thought that when the child was born prematurely in Xiangtan and was under the care of the incubator, the incubator was powered off, and they went back to investigate, but the child's medical record was gone, and the doctor in charge at that time had also left the country, so there was no way to investigate. rise. The word "cerebral palsy" is like a bolt from the blue to Ren Feili's family.This ruthless fact weighed on her and L's hearts like a heavy boulder, causing them to suddenly fall into the abyss of pain.From then on, the two frantically searched for the cause of the disease, took the child around to seek medical treatment, and began a long and endless journey to seek medical treatment.

But another fact is that from the time the child was diagnosed, especially after several times of ineffective treatment, Ren Feili's life and destiny were gradually and completely changed because of the child's illness.It was also at this time that L slowly showed impatience. After returning to Xiangtan, Ren Feili had to find a massage doctor for treatment while working.When colleagues knew that her child was sick, they were very concerned and extended a helping hand.However, some friends and colleagues advised her to send her child to the countryside or to an orphanage so that she could have another child while she was young.But Ren Feili was not tempted.It is precisely this belief that she began to walk step by step in the arduous and bitter journey of seeking medical treatment.

On April 12, 1991, after her parents, relatives, friends, and colleagues pooled more than 6,000 yuan for Ren Feili, she took her two daughters and boarded the train bound for Beijing.The one who went to Beijing with her was one of her cousins ​​who took care of the children with her, except that L was responsible for returning immediately after delivery.Beijing is no stranger to Ren Feili. She had studied at Tsinghua University as early as 1986. After the train arrived at Beijing Railway Station, according to the address stated in the advertisement, the five of them first took the subway from Beijing Railway Station to Fuxingmen, then changed to subway line 1 from Fuxingmen, and sat until the last stop——Pingguoyuan Station, and then take bus No. 311 to Shaojiapo.This is the westernmost part of Beijing. This hospital is actually a qigong research institute, which is said to have special curative effects on the treatment of cerebral palsy.

But more than ten days later, apart from worrying about the pain of her two daughters during the treatment, Ren Feili also gradually discovered that this so-called omnipotent Qigong Institute is not as amazing as they touted in the advertisements. It has special curative effect in the treatment of cerebral palsy.She even found that, apart from increasing the pain, the child has not progressed in anything else. Although Ren Feili began to be highly suspicious of this research institute, but after all, she was unfamiliar with the place, so she only kept these thoughts in her heart, and quietly made other calculations by herself.From then on, as long as Da Mao and Xiao Mao were not cured, she would sneak out, look around, ask around, even the advertisements on the newsstand, to see where the effect of cerebral palsy was cured.At that time, it was not like now that you can find a lot of information you need through the Internet at home.As long as she hears from a patient or a family member of a patient where the treatment of cerebral palsy is effective, she will immediately go to see it. No matter how big Beijing is or how far the road is, she only has one idea, as long as it is helpful for the treatment, she will go to see it. To go, she went to seven or eight hospitals in a row.

"You have worked hard enough, both children have cerebral palsy." One day, a parent of a child with cerebral palsy asked Ren Feili who was worried. "Hey! Then what can I do?" Ren Feili said. "How is the child treated now?" the parent of the child with cerebral palsy asked. "I feel that my big hair is better, and the little one is more serious. She has problems in all aspects, and she doesn't know what to say." Ren Feili said. "It's a problem with intelligence. Acupuncture is the best way to treat this disease, because acupuncture is good for intelligence, and you can also eat some intelligence treasures." Parents of children with cerebral palsy said.As she spoke, she also showed Ren Feili a book on acupuncture and moxibustion.

Hearing about acupuncture, another parent interjected, "There is an old Chinese doctor in Liulichang who uses acupuncture to treat cerebral palsy very effectively, and many people go to the doctor." "Really? Is Liulichang far from here?" Ren Feili asked. "Hey, that's a long way from here." The man said. "how far?" "I don't know how far it is, but I know it's outside the Hepingmen. There is a famous cultural street, and there are many shops selling antiques, calligraphy and paintings." The man said. So, Ren Feili had to spread out the Beijing map to find Liulichang.The next afternoon, when Xiao Mao wasn't getting treatment, she carried Xiao Mao to the city to find Liulichang and the old Chinese doctor.Take bus No. 311 to Pingguoyuan Subway Station, then take Subway Line 1 to Fuxingmen and then transfer to a bus.At this time, she felt that from Fuxingmen Subway Station to the exit, the aisle was so long, and the steps were so high and so many.She was so thin that she couldn't walk.What made her even more strenuous was that Xiaomao's convulsions were so severe that her legs couldn't be separated, and they were tightly clamped together. When she was carrying her on her back, her legs could only be straight, which was extremely difficult for her to carry.So she had to carry Xiao Mao straight on her back, sweating profusely, and her legs were weak.

Ren Feili was a little surprised that the old Chinese doctor didn't charge much for acupuncture, basically it was free, and he was kind.Although she was very tired and out of breath, she was still infected by the simple medical ethics at that time. Since then, every afternoon for more than ten days, there will always be the figures of Ren Feili's mother and daughter trekking hard on this route.Every time, when she climbed the stairs step by step with Xiaomao on her back, she felt that she was almost suffocated and was about to fall down.However, she said to herself over and over again in her heart: "No, I can't fall down, I must persevere, and for the sake of my daughter's recovery, I must pick myself up again and go on step by step. I will bear no matter how hard or tired I am." It is the most persistent belief in Ren Feili's heart. This belief supports her from a romantic girl who only knew romance to a real mother, a strong mother.

At that time, Ren Feili was thin and thin. In order to save money for her child's medical treatment, she only ate one steamed bun per meal, but she carried her daughter back and forth during the treatment with such a weak body.Because as the time in Beijing increases, Ren Feili feels that life is getting more and more difficult.Due to the tightness of money, she had to break the money and spend it.The most terrible thing for southerners to go to the north is that it is difficult to get used to the food for a while. They feel that they can't afford the expensive ones, and they have nothing to eat if they are not expensive.Facing the steamed buns, they really had a headache.Not only the two adults, but also the big and small ones.In order to increase nutrition for the children, Ren Feili thought that the little white vermicelli was very good, so she boiled it, then sliced ​​a sausage and put it in the pot. Unexpectedly, the children liked it very much.So, every meal, she gets some small vermicelli mixed with some sausages, and sometimes cooks some egg soup for her daughter, while the adults only buy some mustard, and drink some soup with no "content" left over from the children's food.At that time, in order to facilitate the addition of meals for the children, she herself bought a small kerosene stove and added some kerosene. The treatment in Shaojiapo on the other side of the Apple Orchard in Beijing probably lasted for more than a month. Ren Feili felt that there was little effect.At this time, a patient told her: "There are still several hospitals in Beijing that specialize in the treatment of cerebral palsy, and there is one in Xiyuan, Haidian District, which is the Haidian District Nerve Injury and Disabled Children's Hospital on Xinjian Gongmen Road. The therapeutic effect is good with the methods of guiding leveling, massage, acupuncture, taking Yizhikang, and Jingtan Tablets. I heard that there is a doctor named Ma Ruofei in that hospital who specializes in treating cerebral palsy.” Ren Feili came to the hospital to have a look, and found that it was really different from the hospital in Shaojiapo. This hospital used massage, acupuncture and moxibustion to treat diseases, and also took medicine. It felt less empty than the hospital in Shaojiapo. So I took my child to this hospital for treatment. At this time, Ren Feili changed her strategy, and they rented private houses instead.Because she felt that living in the hospital in Shaojiapo cost her a lot of money, and she had to learn a lesson this time.In order to facilitate sending the child to the hospital, she simply bought a bamboo cradle used by old Beijing to carry the child.That thing is cheap, but practical, twins, one on each side.When not seeing a doctor, he can also push Big Mao and Little Mao around the street. However, when Ren Feili felt that the child's treatment was effective, conflicts arose. She ran out of money and had to terminate the treatment of Da Mao and Xiao Mao in Beijing.So she said to Dr. Ma: "The next time I save up enough money to come to Beijing again, I will visit your hospital." Just when Ren Feili had no choice but to end her treatment in Beijing, she heard people say that the China Rehabilitation Research Center in Majiabao, outside Yongding Gate, Beijing, is good, and that the child does not need injections or medicines for treatment there. There are a lot of advanced rehabilitation equipment there, and many of the rehabilitation teachers have just returned from training abroad. This news was really helpful to her later.Hearing this, Ren Feili, who was already penniless, was moved again.She thought, Big Mao and Xiao Mao, especially Xiao Mao, still have problems with their intelligence. They are both three years old and don't know anything.So, when she was about to leave Beijing, she found the China Rehabilitation Research Center after many twists and turns.When Ren Feili walked into this state-owned rehabilitation center for the first time, she was stunned. The environment there is comfortable, with complete medical facilities and rehabilitation equipment.She thought, it would be great if my child could also come here for treatment.However, Ren Feili, whose monthly salary is only 100 or 200 yuan, was discouraged when she heard that treatment here cost three to four thousand yuan a month. It was already autumn when Ren Feili and her cousin brought Da Mao and Xiao Mao back to Hunan. Although they sought medical treatment everywhere, the condition of the two daughters did not improve at all. In addition, people were exhausted and financially damaged. Gradually, L began to feel pessimistic about the treatment of the children.The focus of the conflict is: L wants to send the children to the countryside or to a social welfare institution, but Ren Feili disagrees and insists on taking them for further rehabilitation. At this moment, a friend reminded her: "Xiao Ren, didn't you say that the conditions of the China Rehabilitation Research Center are good, why don't you write a letter to Deng Pufang, chairman of the China Disabled Persons' Federation, and ask to go there for free rehabilitation. Treatment, maybe there will be a play." Therefore, Ren Feili decided to write a letter to Deng Pufang with a glimmer of hope.She knew that Deng Pufang was the chairman of the China Disabled Persons' Federation, and he had a lot of opportunities to deal with every day, but what could be done about it, the child couldn't be abandoned, the family couldn't be broken up, it's fate. This time, fate favored Ren Feili!No, it should be Chairman Deng Pufang's care that gave her a glimmer of hope. One day at the end of January 1992, Ren Feili received a reply letter from Dr. Li Yuge from the Medical Office of the China Rehabilitation Research Center, in which she told her that the center had a free bed for 29 provinces, municipalities and autonomous regions across the country. The use is arranged by the provincial disabled people's federation... As a result, Da Mao and Xiao Mao were able to go to Beijing Zhongkang for treatment.During the treatment, Ren Feili was also transferred from Xiangtan to Changsha to work. The three-month rehabilitation treatment time passed quickly, because it was time to consider taking Da Mao and Xiao Mao back to Qiyang, so Ren Feili went to Beijing with her mother to pick up the children.When she came to Beijing, it took a long time to go through the formalities. Ren Feili and her mother first booked a basement hotel. Every time she came to Beijing, she did the same. She lived in a rented house for a long time, and lived in a basement for a short time. Maybe before this, the doctor had already told the children that their mother would come to pick them up.Therefore, when Ren Feili saw the children, they were all extremely excited.At that time, doctors and nurses pushed them into the hall. "Uncle, my mother is coming to pick me up, and I'm going home." When Ren Feili heard Xiao Mao say this, she was very happy, thinking how could the child talk so much.She feels that Xiao Mao speaks Beijing dialect very well, which is much better than when he first came here, because before coming to Beijing, they could only call some simple "Dad—Dad—, Mom——Mom." ——" She taught them mouth to mouth before, and they didn't speak very clearly. After receiving her two daughters, Ren Feili immediately took them to the street to buy a beautiful purple dress and put them on on the same day.It is the nature of little girls to love beauty, and Da Mao and Xiao Mao are also very excited when they put on new clothes.However, when Ren Feili happily received her two daughters, she overlooked one thing, because Da Mao and Xiao Mao have been living in a comfortable and constant temperature in Zhongkang, but now the weather is hot outside, Da Mao and Xiao Mao are very I soon felt uncomfortable, and my forehead was still a little hot. When the train arrived in Henan, Da Mao and Xiao Mao's fever got worse, and they were almost convulsed.The conductor was in a hurry and asked for help on the radio... Just after the Spring Festival in 1995, many people hadn't recovered from the strong atmosphere of the Spring Festival, but Ren Feili started to pack her luggage and prepared to take Da Mao south to Guangzhou for treatment.Her heart is sore.The two heavy burdens of losing her husband L and her child were like two mountains weighing heavily on Ren Feili.What worries her the most is that since the treatment of Da Mao and Xiao Mao has little effect, L has gradually lost confidence, and then stopped Ren Feili, saying that it was "waste of effort and money", and even used The eternal and heavy shackles of "marriage" are threatening. The cold wind in early spring is still biting.She not only had to carry Da Mao with difficulty, but also carried a big bag full of clothes.It was because Da Mao's legs were cramped and his back was difficult, so he was struggling so much.When she walked into the train car, she was already dripping with sweat. Ren Feili couldn't remember how many times she took the children out to seek medical treatment.She also often encounters scenes like this.A weak woman took a disabled child out to seek medical treatment, and they gave more sympathy and help.Ren Feili is also a very grateful person. She always repays people with sweet words and a bright smile, and she can only do this for the time being.Therefore, the impression she gives people is that she is optimistic, frank, positive, and she is beautiful. However, when she took Da Mao to Guangzhou Zhongshan Hospital after several twists and turns, the doctor said after careful examination of Da Mao's physical condition: "Your child is not suitable for SPR surgery yet." "Why?" Ren Feili asked anxiously. "You see, your child's muscle strength has not yet reached the third level. This operation can only be performed at the third level." The doctor explained, "After you go home, you should carry out rehabilitation training on the child, and it will be enough to train the muscle strength." Ren Feili could only nod helplessly. When she got home, she took her two children to strengthen their rehabilitation training. In addition to massaging the children every day, she also practiced standing, squatting, and leg pressing for them.In fact, these rehabilitation projects have been started since Da Mao Xiao Mao was diagnosed with cerebral palsy, and she has never given up, doing it almost every day. One day, Ren Feili, who was at work, received a call from a friend.A friend said on the phone: "There is a doctor at the China Rehabilitation Research Center in Beijing who is very good at performing SPR surgery. They performed this operation earlier than Zhongshan Hospital. The technology and other aspects are more mature than there. You might as well go there and do it, it might work better." Hearing this news, Ren Feili was overjoyed.She is no stranger to Zhongkang. The center has given her a lot of help. Three years ago, it gave Da Mao and Xiao Mao three months of rehabilitation for free.She decided to take Da Mao to Beijing for treatment first, and quickly got in touch with Beijing. Under Ren Feili's meticulous rehabilitation training, the muscle strength of Da Mao and Xiao Mao recovered quickly and was also very good.After the examination by Changsha Hospital, Da Mao's muscle strength has reached the third level, meeting all the conditions required for SPR surgery. Ren Feili plans to take Da Mao to Zhongkang in Beijing for SPR surgery, and she is full of confidence. Although L does not agree with going to Beijing, she is still determined to treat her child. On April 18, 1995, Ren Feili went to Beijing for the fourth time and Zhongkang for the second time.The difference from going to Zhongkang in 1992 is that the rehabilitation was free that time, but the treatment is paid this time.The scene of her carrying Da Mao on her back and struggling forward can be imagined.But fortunately, Beijing is no longer a stranger to her and Da Mao.This big city, the capital that people yearn for, gives their mother and daughter more love and tolerance. On the second day after arriving in Zhongkang, the doctor began to perform various examinations on Da Mao. After confirming that he met the conditions for surgery, he performed the operation on Da Mao on the fifth day. During the operation for several hours, Ren Feili was alone in the corridor Walking back and forth, she was silently praying for her beloved daughter.This is my daughter's first major surgery. When Da Mao was pushed out of the operating room, Ren Feili found that the child hadn't woken up yet. She followed the operation trolley and kept calling her daughter's name. She was worried that her daughter would not wake up due to anesthesia. It didn't take long. The daughter slowly opened her eyes. This daughter who is less than seven years old is already sensible.She found that Da Mao's big teardrops never flowed from her eyes, and said, "Mom, I didn't cry."The child has become stronger, and Ren Feili is happy from the bottom of her heart, although she feels unspeakable bitterness when she looks at the tired child. When he first came out, Da Mao's wound was still bleeding. "Doctor, what should I do with so much blood?" Ren Feili asked sadly. "Here, I'll give you a Coke bottle, and if the bag is full, put it in the bottle," said the doctor. "Ah, there will be so many more." Ren Feili was surprised. "Don't worry, it will be fine after two days, but be careful not to touch the child's wound." The doctor explained. "Da Mao, it must be very painful now that the anesthetic is over! Hold on, the wound will heal, you know?" Ren Feili said comforting Da Mao. "Yes, Mom." Da Mao replied in a low voice. Looking at Da Mao after the operation, Ren Feili felt as if a knife was piercing her heart.In order to take good care of Da Mao, she never left her. In this operation, a five-inch incision was made on Da Mao's waist, and a total of seventeen stitches were required.Because of the long wound on the waist and the bruises hanging from it, Da Mao can only sleep on his side, let alone turn over easily. If he needs to turn over to defecate, two people need to help to complete it. At this time, Da Mao is in pain. Tears can't help but flow down. Ren Feili, who was waiting by her side 24 hours a day, not only dared not leave the ward easily, but also dared not go to bed, because she was afraid of crowding her daughter.At this moment, my daughter needs care and care too much. There is a wooden box next to each bed, which is used to put clothes for patients and family members.Ren Feili was really sleepy, so she dragged the wooden box next to the bed, lined up the two boxes, and prepared to lie on it for a while.But it didn't take long for her to realize that the wooden box was too hard, and she felt pain all over while lying down, so she had to push the wooden box next to her bed back. In other families, the whole family took turns to take care of the children during surgery. Some would accompany the child to the bed, while others would deliver meals, but Ren Feili took care of the child alone. One day, two days, three days... Seven days later, the doctor told her that the child's wound was gradually healing and he could turn over, but he could not get out of bed because the stitches had not been removed.During these seven days, Ren Feili stayed by her daughter's side every step of the way, and hardly slept. At most, when she was sleepy, she sat on the box and lay down on the edge of the bed to take a nap for a while. After lying on the bed for 21 days, Da Mao's wounds gradually healed and the stitches can finally be removed. He no longer needs the 24-hour company of his family, but he still needs to do a long period of rehabilitation there.Because the unit is still waiting for Ren Feili to go back to work, Ren Feili returned to Changsha with this kind of state of mind that has been rare in recent years.After returning home, Ren Feili's concern for her daughter became even stronger. Every few days, she would call Beijing to ask the doctor about the child's recovery. In this way, Ren Feili lived with L for two and a half months in rare sweetness and concern.But what she didn't expect was that these two and a half months of sweetness were exchanged for two years or even longer of pain. July 29, 1995 was the day when Da Mao's treatment in Zhongkang was scheduled to end.On this day, Ren Feili also came to Beijing in a hurry.When mother and daughter meet each other, they feel very cordial.But when the doctor explained some things to her, she felt all kinds of uneasiness, because the doctor said that the effect of Da Mao's SPR operation was not particularly obvious, and a second adductor muscle surgery might be needed. Out of helplessness, Ren Feili had no choice but to push Da Mao with tears in her eyes, carrying four or five bags, large and small, and boarded the train back to Changsha on the 30th.However, when L found out that she used the wheelchair to push Da Mao out of the station, his face became more and more ugly, and L, who was extremely desperate, was about to erupt in silence.When she got home, Ren Feili found that something was wrong with the house, and it had changed dramatically from when she went to Beijing three days ago.They lived in a two-bedroom house with one bedroom and a study. She found that the door of the study was locked, the balcony could not be accessed, and things had been moved. Obviously he had separated the house. In fact, the lock of L not only locks the house, but also locks the window of marriage, family relationship, and human nature. A dull marriage and family relationship are destined to be boring and suffocating to death. The atmosphere is getting more and more tense! The night gradually deepened, and both Da Mao and Xiao Mao fell asleep. ... "The child's illness has been seen for so many years, and the operation has been done. You should give up. You are a person who will not die until the Yellow River. Now you will give up when you reach the Yellow River. There are two roads for you to choose. If you Live with children, I will never live with you in this life, I have been ruined by you for the first half of my life, and I will not be ruined by you for the rest of my life. Think about it, anyway, there are only two ways for you to choose. " L said loudly. At this moment, Ren Feili was heartbroken, her knees softened, and she knelt down for the first time in her life, in front of her own L, tears welled up in her eyes.She felt that her mind was blank, and her only thought was to keep the child at home. Could it be that Ren Feili has no spine?No!For the sake of two helpless lives, she knelt down to her ungrateful husband.Maybe she lost the dignity of a mother and a woman, but she embraced her two children with love.From this point of view, the child is lucky. "I beg you, take a look at the child, just come back from the operation. You throw him to the village now, she needs nourishment now, the doctor said she needs to recover well." Ren Feili While begging L to speak, tears flowed down my face. ... The night was already very deep, but Ren Feili's cries and broken heart did not disappear in the night. In the next few days, colleagues from Ren Feili's unit and colleagues and friends from L's unit shuttled around to do work for her.She felt inconceivable that in this world, I don't know what happened to people, but they all came to do her work.Of course, they were sympathizing with her. It was really hard for her to take care of two disabled children. They might as well grit their teeth, abandon the children, and live their "happy" days. After everything calmed down for a while, Ren Feili decided to temporarily send Da Mao and Xiao Mao to her hometown in Qiyang, and quietly sent them to the home of a colleague of her mother, and told L that they were sent to a family in the country, temporarily easing the conflict. The children were sent away, but Ren Feili couldn't relax in her heart. She missed her two poor daughters intensely.For many nights, thinking about the once beautiful marriage and the ups and downs of seeking medical treatment for her two daughters over the years, she silently shed tears until dawn. Although Da Mao and Xiao Mao were sent to Qiyang's hometown, Ren Feili's belief in treating her daughter's illness was still firm.Since Da Mao underwent SPR surgery in Zhongkang, Ren Feili had a knot in her heart that she also wanted to do SPR surgery for Xiao Mao.She always felt that both Da Mao and Xiao Mao were her daughters, and the palms and backs of their hands were full of flesh. One had surgery and the other didn't, which was too unfair to the children.No matter what, after the operation, there is still a great improvement. For example, Da Mao's script is inseparable. After the operation, it can be separated, and the heel can touch the ground.In addition, when Da Mao was taken to Zhongkang for surgery last time, the doctor also emphasized that Da Mao needed a second adductor surgery. In early November 1995, Ren Feili returned to her hometown to quietly send her child to Zhongkang for surgery. "Father, besides a few months' wages, I have tens of thousands of dollars borrowed from my colleagues. I still want to send Da Mao and Xiao Mao to Zhongkang for surgery. No matter what, this It will be of great help to their future life, and their situation will be worse if they are not cured." Ren Feili discussed with her parents. "Care it, son, your mother and I support your decision." Ren Feili's father said. "Now L strongly opposes treating the children. I can't take Da Mao and Xiao Mao to Beijing, not even for three or two days, or he will suspect me. I want my father and cousin to take Da Mao and them to Beijing." Ren Feili Say.The reason for this decision was that her father was a doctor, so she knew a lot of things and could make decisions on her own, while her mother was still working on the education front, so it was inconvenient to take a long vacation. "Son, it doesn't matter. Anyway, your father has retired to the second line and doesn't work very much. Let him go." Ren Feili's mother said. "Mom, I'm afraid I don't have enough money, so I want to get a few thousand dollars from you." Ren Feili really didn't want to ask her mother to borrow money anymore, but there was really no other way. "This is no problem, even if you don't say it, we will consider it." Zhang Yu said. A few days later, Ren Feili's father and her cousin took Da Mao and Xiao Mao from Lengshuitan on a train bound for Beijing from Nanning, Guangxi.It was noon when the train passed Changsha.That morning, in order to keep L from knowing about this, Ren Feili told him that I would not be coming back at noon today, and that a friend had something to do at home and needed to help. After "asking for leave", she went straight to Changsha Railway Station.The train stopped at Changsha Station for only five minutes. In addition to giving her father a little money, she hurriedly explained to her father how to get there when she arrived in Beijing, how to find Dr. Li, etc. Looking at the train gradually going away, Ren Feili burst into tears.Whether it is the missing of her daughter or the bitterness of the situation, it is enough to make this strong and stubborn woman cry. During this trip to Beijing, Xiao Mao underwent SPR surgery, and Da Mao also underwent adductor muscle surgery.Due to money problems, they only had surgery in Zhongkang, but did not recover, so they had to return to Hunan immediately. When Ren Pide and the others took Da Mao and Xiao Mao back to Hunan, they still took the same train from Beijing to Nanning, Guangxi. The train still only stopped at Changsha Railway Station for five minutes.Ren Feili still can only use five minutes in a hurry to explain some things to her father and see her beloved daughter. However, when Da Mao and Xiao Mao saw their mother, they cried like tears. "Big Mao, Xiao Mao, good boy, be good, don't cry, you go with grandpa and grandma first, mother has to work here in Changsha, if she doesn't work, mother will have no money, so listen to grandpa and grandma." Ren Feili held back said tears. As the train left, Ren Feili's tears flowed wantonly on her face. During the Spring Festival of 1996, with the help of her mother, Ren Feili tried her best to get her mother-in-law’s consent and confidentiality to send Da Mao and Xiao Mao to the school taught by her mother and mother-in-law to attend preschool; in September 1996, Da Mao and Xiao Mao began to go to Dazhong Primary School.At school, these two children who were still unable to take care of themselves were cared for by their classmates. The senior students often took the initiative to carry Big Mao and Xiao Mao to the toilet and go home.Da Mao and Xiao Mao felt a sincere friendship when getting along with their classmates, and their temperaments began to become lively and cheerful.Whenever Ren Feili went back to Qiyang to see the two children, Da Mao and Xiao Mao would compete to write for her and tell her stories.Ren Feili was indescribably happy watching the progress of the two children. But after one semester, Ren Feili found that Xiao Mao's homework was much worse than normal children's, and even Da Mao's.She can only memorize books, and can't really read word by word. She knows that the two children suffer from "cerebral palsy", poor intelligence and brain coordination, and difficulty concentrating. .Xiao Mao himself was also very anxious, and said: "Mom, I'm sorry, my homework is not good, I must study hard in the future, don't worry about my mother." Seeing her sensible daughter, Ren Feili felt sore, hugged the child tightly and said, "Mom's sweet baby, mom won't blame you. However, while you are studying hard, you must persist in doing rehabilitation training. Mom is most worried about it." The most common thing is that while studying, the legs atrophy or deformed due to lack of good rehabilitation training.” Xiao Mao nodded seriously and said, "Don't worry, Mom, I will definitely do more exercises." At this time, Da Mao also comforted his mother and said, "Mom, I will do more rehabilitation training with my sister and study hard." Ren Feili hugged Da Mao with one arm and Xiao Mao with the other, holding back her tears and smiling.She thought, if the two daughters were healthy, how outstanding they would be. Ren Feili has been persisting in seeking medical advice in Changsha, sending medicines, learning materials and school supplies to her children, paying close attention to the learning situation of her two daughters, and constantly encouraging them.The two children are also very sensible and study very hard. Da Mao's academic performance has reached the middle level in the class, and Xiao Mao's grades have also made great progress. This grade may not be a big deal for a healthy child, but for two people with " It's a miracle for a child with cerebral palsy. Later, when L inadvertently learned of this, he became even more indifferent to Ren Feili and the children, and she felt deeply pained but helpless.Since then, their marriage has been turbulent until November 7, 2001. After nine years of persistence and opposition, they finally formally divorced because of the great differences between the two parties on the issue of children's education and upbringing. Ren Feili knew that the family had become difficult to maintain. At this time, she thought more about the future and how to provide rehabilitation for the children. Just after the Spring Festival in 2000, Ren Feili graciously took Da Mao and Xiao Mao back to Changsha from their hometown in Qiyang. She began to earn money continuously, began to seek medical advice for her two daughters, and insisted on making them at home every day. Rehabilitation.Not to be outdone, the self-reliant Ren Feili became more determined in her original choice, sharing the same fate with her daughter. In the days to come, she took pressure and pain as stepping stones, and treated life with an optimistic, tenacious, confident, and warm heart; she bravely raised, treated, and educated a pair of disabled daughters with the greatest maternal love in the world burden. From then on, for the dignity of a mother, she no longer knelt down, but stood up to meet the storms of life. As a weak woman, how can I take on the burden of raising, treating, and educating two disabled daughters?As early as 1993, in order to earn money to treat her daughter, she started to work part-time. She has done direct sales of cosmetics, promoted products for her unit, and made slides, etc., but these were not long-term solutions. Once, a couple in the IT industry who wanted to help Ren Feili said to her: "Let me teach you how to make a web page, maybe it will be useful in the future." Ren Feili quickly learned to make web pages with her existing computer foundation.Usually colleagues and friends will intentionally give up the work in their hands to her.为了给孩子积攒医疗费，只要有活任菲莉会没日没夜地干。为了给同事赶教材她曾连续32小时工作在电脑旁；为了帮朋友做网页，她不知熬过了多少个通宵。当她第一次拿到朋友付给她制作网页的4000元钱时，她高兴地说：“太好了，孩子的肢具费总算有了。”这件事对任菲莉触动很大，她开始意识到在这个飞速发展的信息时代，一个人只有靠知识的力量才能改变自身的命运。现在，她家除了有电脑，还有复印机、刻录机、打印机和扫描仪，这些现代化的办公设施几乎一应俱全。这些现代化办公设备全是补贴这个家庭生活和为孩子治疗的挣钱工具。 把大毛和小毛接到身边后，任菲莉除了教两个孩子语文、数学等基础课外，还花了更多时间和精力教女儿计算机和英语。尽管任菲莉历经艰辛，但她始终自强不息，对生活充满着希望，充满着爱，女儿虽然残疾了，但她要做女儿一生的保护神，用坚强的毅力和母爱改变女儿的命运。为了能让女儿像健康孩子一样受到教育，一有空她就教患脑瘫的双胞胎女儿学习，十多年中，她不仅教会了女儿电脑操作，而且还教女儿掌握了简单的英语对话。她对两个女儿说：“你们都是很懂事的孩子，我希望你们能学会面对现实，更希望你们能自尊自强。要记住，改变我们命运的，不是同情和资助，而是知识的力量。” 那时网络已经流行，家里没电脑的任菲莉为了给小孩治病，经常会到网吧去查资料，并分类整理，有时回来晚了，孩子们担心，她就跟她们解释，妈妈是给她们查资料去了，妈妈想看看哪里可以治病。 也正是这期间，她从网吧看到了商机。深夜，在从网吧回家的路上她还在想，21世纪已经是信息时代，网络必将成为人们工作和生活中不可缺少的一种工具，现在网吧生意这么火，何不自己也开个网吧呢。 说干就干，第二天任菲莉就到附近的几个网吧了解开网吧的一些程序，和需要配备的一些东西。在经过一番考察后，她知道最缺的就是钱。但即便借钱，她也决定开个网吧，家里开销这么大，要请保姆，还要给孩子们康复治疗，不能缺钱啊。现在没有其他的路可以选择了。于是，她就在家附近租了一间小屋子，从一个卖电脑的朋友那赊来了五台电脑，准备边经营边还钱，开起了一个内部网吧，专供一些学生查阅资料。 虽然这个网吧只开了一年多就停办了，但这多多少少帮任菲莉摆脱经济上的困境起了一定的缓冲作用。也就是在开网吧期间，她萌生了开办后来影响和帮助了很多人的“菲莉雅爱心屋”网站。 “这个页面这么漂亮，这是谁做的啊？”一天晚上，任菲莉看到一个学生在看着一个制作很精致的网页问道。 “任姐，漂亮吗？这是我的个人网站。”那个学生说。 “漂亮，我也想做一个。”任菲莉说。实际上她前些日子就有了这个大胆的想法。 “任姐，你想做什么咯？”那个学生问道。 “我想做一个残疾人的网站。”任菲莉说。 “你怎么会想到做残疾人的网站呢？”那个学生对任菲莉的家境并不了解。 “我孩子有病，这段时间我一直在收集治疗的方法，已经整理了好多资料呢，我想这些资料既可为我孩子所用，也可放在网站里，与所有残疾孩子一起共享啊！这样可以为其他患者提供一些资讯和信息，以免去像我这样四处找资料的麻烦。”任菲莉说。 那个学生一听，说：“是可以哦。那你做呗。” “真的可以啊，那还得请教你呢。”任菲莉说。 “任姐，没问题，我教你吧。”那个学生说。 回到家，任菲莉把这个想法也跟大毛和小毛说了。两个女儿对妈妈的决定十分支持。任菲莉也想培养两个女儿的计算机操作能力，以后不仅可以浏览网站，还可以制作网页，维护网站，打理网站。 很快，任菲莉就申请了个免费的域名，利用以前所学的计算机知识和网页制作的知识，她边问边干，很快就把网站建立起来了。 2001年3月19日，任菲莉策划制作的个人网站“菲莉雅爱心屋”建成了。它取母女三人名字中的一个字组成了这个名字。它的LOGO，是任菲莉自己设计的：一个大人，一手牵着一个小孩子。这是她的家庭的象征。这是一个全方位为残疾朋友服务的网站，这在湖南省也是第一家。 任菲莉在网站上写上她建站的目的：“做自己喜欢做的事。为残疾人事业做一点贡献。通过网站认识更多和我同命运的残疾人的父母，相互帮助，相互勉励。” 但是半个月后，任菲莉发现免费申请的域名做的网站十分不稳定，很多时候，会突然一下看不到网站了。这时有朋友告诉她，免费的毕竟是不要钱的，很不稳定，要是真正把这个网站做好做起来的话，那就要去花钱买个域名。 于是，决心把这个事做起来的任菲莉到电信局花1500块钱买了一个空间，注册了一个顶级域名。新空间果然稳定了，她就开始像带自己孩子一样认真呵护起这个网站来。为了让更多的人知道这个网站，起到更大的社会作用，她开始上搜索引擎搞链接。只要遇到技术障碍，她就会立即去找懂网络的同事和朋友。 正是这个网站的建立，拓宽了任菲莉的视野，给了她新的生活。 她们没有资金请人做，一切都靠自己。刚开始搞的时候，“菲莉雅爱心屋”几乎是面对所有残疾病人，包罗万象。但很快就有朋友跟她提建议，你这个网站什么都有，只要是残疾的，聋、哑、盲、瘫等什么都有，这样做不专也做不好，再说你也没那么多精力来做，你要做就做专一点，干脆就做一个脑瘫的网站。任菲莉觉得是这个理，于是她很快就吸纳了朋友们的意见，把“菲莉雅爱心屋”做成了一个专门为脑瘫患者服务的专业性网站。 现在，任菲莉和她的两个女儿有了“菲莉雅爱心屋”，在她们的心里就已经有了新的希望，母女三人决心把它做成全国最有影响的为残疾朋友服务的网站。到目前，这个网站已经比较专，有康复咨询板块、脑瘫专题板块、家长互助社区板块、最新资讯板块等，并且分工很明确，确确实实成了脑瘫患者和脑瘫儿家长共同的家。 那时，两个女儿在妈妈的影响下对网络和电脑也产生了兴趣，任菲莉也趁机教孩子电脑操作，孩子的上肢有障碍，她就拿着孩子的手，一次、二次反复地敲击键盘，有时孩子一紧张手指都练得难以张开，任菲莉就引导她们慢慢来放松。 于是，两个女儿在妈妈的指导下，边听音乐边欣赏一些国内外网站做得漂亮的网页，这使她们对网页的鉴赏能力大有提高。当十年后的今天我们去采访任菲莉母女三人时，这个愿望已经实现，我们在她们的书房看到，两个女儿一人一台电脑，她们坐在轮椅上，可以随心所欲地浏览网页，大毛还可以维护网站，我们还看到了大毛制作出的美丽漂亮的网页，以及自己建立的博客。 那段日子，对于任菲莉和大毛、小毛来说，既是充实的，也是辛苦的，更是痛苦的。因为大毛和小毛对爸爸妈妈之间的事是很敏感的，特别是在任菲莉和L即将离婚的那段日子里，她们的内心也是极其痛苦和担忧的。加之她们当时跟外界接触很少，很多事又懂又不太懂。那时她们每天守着妈妈，并哭着说爸爸走了，妈妈会不会也会走啊。听到这些，任菲莉心中有说不尽的苦楚。她抱着大毛和小毛说：“妈妈不会走，妈妈永远都不会离开你们，永远跟你们在一起，妈妈要做你们一辈子的保护神。”说着说着，任菲莉与两个女儿哭成了一团。就连任菲莉请来照看大毛和小毛的保姆也悄然抹去脸上的泪水。 任菲莉听取医生建议，进一步加大了与两个女儿的沟通，及时了解她们的心理动态，力争做到不让她们背思想包袱。 从此，任菲莉每天耐心地跟两个女儿聊天、说笑话，让女儿看到自己开开心心的样子，她觉得这样比跟女儿做再多的解释和保证都要强。在任菲莉的努力下，大毛和小毛慢慢习惯和适应了过来。任菲莉良好的心态，也决定了大毛和小毛良好的心态。正因为如此，她们这些年一直生活在乐观而快乐的氛围中。 最让任菲莉激动的事发生2003年正月初三上午的佛山。 那时，大毛和小毛正在广东省佛山市残联新希望康复中心接受康复治疗。那个春节，任菲莉与两个心爱的女儿，是在康复中心附近的一间极其简陋的民房里度过的。 这间民房里没有电视，甚至连收音机都没有，为了过好这个年，任菲莉也只是象征性地到街上买了点水果和糖之类的。但她们很快乐，任菲莉看着姐妹俩偶尔争吵，总是开心地笑笑。 吃完早饭，收拾完屋子里的事，任菲莉又开始利用这个空隙做着十几年一直坚持的“功课”，给大毛和小毛做康复训练。 “大毛，我们今天再来练一练独立站立，好不好？”任菲莉对大毛说。 大毛看了看轮椅的周围，还是不敢站立。任菲莉知道，大毛不敢站立，并不完全是因为她胆小，而是她大脑的协调能力差，即便是坐在那儿，突然声音大一点都会把她吓得摔倒。 “大毛，你不要怕，好不好，你看你前面有东西，妈妈也站在你后边了，怎么可能摔着呢，不会的。”任菲莉耐心地鼓励大毛说。 “妈妈，我怕站不起来。”大毛还是担心。 “能的，孩子，你看你的脚开始长肌肉了，你应该有劲站起来，知道吗，你试都没试过，怎么知道不能站起来呢。”任菲莉说。 “妈妈，我怕摔。”大毛说。 “不会的，孩子，有妈妈保护你呢，站一站，好不好，就试一下。”任菲莉说。 大毛再一次看了一下轮椅周围，一时陷入了思索。可能她是在为自己做深呼吸，准备这次在她生命中具有划时代意义的试验。 “妈妈，那我试一下吧。”大毛说。 “好样的，孩子，试试吧。”任菲莉高兴地说。 就在大毛双手离开轮椅的那一刻，泪水立即涌满了任菲莉的眼眶。 “大毛，坚持啊，妈妈给你数数了，一、二、三、四……”任菲莉激动地数了起来。 数到四十三的时候，大毛的膝关节弯了，腿开始发抖似乎快站不住了。 任菲莉知道，这个时候孩子是最需要鼓励的时候，她立即提醒大毛说：“大毛，站直了，赶快把膝关节伸直啦，人都会高一点，不要怕哟，你后面有东西，前面也有东西，坚持，再坚持，四十四、四十五、四十六……” 当任菲莉数到六十的时候，大毛终于坚持不住了，倒在了任菲莉的怀抱中。抱着自己心爱的女儿，这个年近不惑坚强而又善良的女人早已经泣不成声了。 那一刻，她觉得她是世界上最幸福的人，她激动地抱着女儿流出了幸福的泪水，同时也看到了希望，她暗暗下定决心，不管将来还要吃多少苦、受多少累，她仍然会一如既往地坚持、坚持再坚持，但愿将来有一天一双女儿都能站立起来，并能够独立行走。 虽然大毛只是站了短短的六十秒，但这六十秒对于一个对大脑失去控制的脑瘫孩子来说，却是个巨大的突破。此时的任菲莉也感到了作为一个母亲的幸福，她觉得自己十多年来的心血没有白流。作为一个母亲，她是多么渴望女儿们都能像正常孩子一样站立行走啊。 这么多年，任菲莉坚持做到了为孩子治疗，给孩子做康复训练。到目前为止，她光带孩子到北京治疗就前前后后去了八次。 一些人会认为自己家里有残疾孩子，很见不得人。但任菲莉却不这么认为。为了让患脑瘫的双胞胎女儿能早日融入社会，帮助她们克服自卑的心理，她经常抽空特意推着女儿出去散心，这对坐轮椅的女孩常常会引起他人的围观和异样的目光，一开始孩子觉很委屈，不愿意再出门，这时她总会耐心地开导女儿：“别人注视你是关心你，并没有嘲笑的意思，我们要勇敢地面对别人的目光，像妈妈一样面带微笑好吗？” 2001年3月的一天，任菲莉又像往常那样打理完“菲莉雅爱心屋”后，开始到其他网站浏览，了解信息。 当她无意中打开湖南经视网站后，网站首页突然弹出一个消息框。她定眼一看，原来是湖南经济电视台准备举办一个“瞧！这E家子网上家庭秀”的网络比赛的消息。电视台正在向网友发布征集消息，欢迎广大网友报名，主办方要求参赛者必须熟悉网络，并有自己的网站。 看到这个消息，任菲莉异常兴奋又十分担心，但她还是决定去参赛。她觉得，对于脑瘫的两个女儿，求医问药是治标不治本的事，更为重要的是要医治她们的心理创伤，让她们勇敢地面对社会、面对生活，培养她们身残志坚的意识与意志，因为她们以后必须面向社会，必须有一个阳光健康的心态。 “大毛、小毛，妈妈跟你们商量个事儿，妈妈在网上看到一个节目，是湖南经济电视台搞的，叫做网上家庭秀，要一家人参加，你们跟妈妈一起去参加好不好？”任菲莉说。 "it is good." "it is good." 姐妹俩可能觉得好玩，就争先答应着。 “电视台说了，这个节目还要参加网络知识竞赛，还要演小品，你们怕不怕？”任菲莉问道。 “好的，妈妈在，我们就可以。”大毛说。 在征得两个女儿的同意后，任菲莉就拨通了主办方的电话。 “我想带着两个双胞胎女儿参加你们这个活动，但是我带的是两个十三岁的残疾女儿。”任菲莉担心地说。 “没关系，可以的，你带你女儿来试试看啊。”对方说。 然而，当任菲莉带着两个孩子来到报名处时，工作人员还没怎么问她们，她们就被那个场面吓得哇哇大哭。任菲莉想，这孩子见的世面太少了，以后必须多参加这样的活动，必须学会跟很多很多的人打交道。工作人员问她们的时候，她们就只知道撇着嘴巴哭。虽然女儿们的举动弄得任菲莉有点不知所措，但她还是努力积极地争取着这次机会。 回来后，任菲莉就给两个女儿做工作，说：“假如我们要参加比赛，你们就不要哭了，有些东西不会，只要我们认真学就会了，妈妈会教你们啦，只要参与就是好样的，你们已经是十三岁的小朋友了，一定要学会面对生活，面对现实，要有自信，要学会坚强。知道吗？” “妈妈，我以后再也不哭了。”大毛说。 “妈妈，参加比赛后我尽量不哭。”小毛也表态说。 一周过去了，尽管比赛前的网上投票，任菲莉一家一直遥遥领先，很多网民对她们的个人网站“菲莉雅爱心屋”给予了很高评价，但她们却一直未接到湖南经视的参赛通知。任菲莉心里很是着急，便打电话过去询问。 “我们这个比赛其中有一项是户外生存考验，考虑到你们家庭的特殊性，我们想你们恐怕难以完成比赛的全过程。”湖南经视的编导告诉她。 “这次比赛对我的两个女儿非常重要，我只是希望你们能够给予我们一个平等参赛的机会，哪怕是在预赛中被淘汰，我们也心甘情愿。”任菲莉恳切地对编导说。 “那好吧，我到领导那去为你们争取一下。”任菲莉的这些话终于打动了那位编导。 通完电话，身边的两个女儿问任菲莉：“妈妈，这是不是就是竞争？” “是的，我们现在争的是一个平等参赛的机会，这不过只是个开始。”任菲莉说。 “上次他们问我话的时候，我害怕，我哭了。以后，我再也不哭了。”小毛说。 “妈妈，您放心，我会努力的。”大毛也说， 任菲莉看着两个懂事争气的女儿，心里更增添了信心。 很快，任菲莉母女三人就接到了“网上家庭秀”的正式参赛通知。2001年4月，湖南经视“网上家庭秀”正式开赛。整个比赛分为网络知识竞赛、网络默契、网络小品、网络日记、网络户外生存考验等多个项目。 在这个活动中，大毛和小毛发挥很出色，任菲莉也发现她们每参加一个项目都会有很大的长进。 在网络知识竞赛必答赛时，她们一家发挥得很好，拿到了满分100分。 为了演好网络小品，母女三人在家进行了无数次的演练，达到了很好的默契。在这个小品中，大毛、小毛给许多人留下了深刻的印象。对于这个项目的完成，任菲莉很感动也很满意，因为大毛和小毛本来连见到陌生人都害怕得哭的，要在台上演小品，在短短的几天时间里完成这个一百八十度的大转弯，确实不易。 ... 最后，任菲莉母女三人以排名第三的成绩进入到这个活动的决赛。 决赛的最后一项是“网络户外生存考验”。任菲莉抽签提到的地点是在娄底市，要求是到了娄底后，任菲莉一家只能依靠互联网求助，解决吃、住及返回长沙的车票。因为小毛患病，任菲莉在征得组委会的同意后，决定带大毛前往娄底。 出发的那天天气突然变冷，加之下雨，所以显得异常寒冷，任菲莉给大毛穿上了棉袄。但她们母女俩坐了4个小时的车到达娄底后，大毛已经脸发白，嘴巴发紫，四肢冷凉，还有点发烧。 看到女儿这样子，任菲莉十分着急地对大毛说：“大毛，你都病成这样子了，我们不比赛了，妈妈送你上医院，好不好？” “妈妈，妈妈，我们还是不去医院吧，还是把这个比赛比完吧。我只是感冒了，能够忍，没事的。”大毛坚定地说。 任菲莉含着泪答应了女儿。无疑，虽然不忍心看着女儿带病参加比赛，但她心中感到十分欣慰，她觉得，大毛残疾没关系，但她志不残、心不残。其实，在这个娱乐性的比赛中，就不知不觉地给大毛和小毛注入了一种自信，克服困难和坦然面对社会的心态。 于是，任菲莉一手抱着大毛，一手敲打着键盘。她首先进入“娄底信息港”聊天室，她将参赛一事向网友说明，起初人家根本不相信。然后，她告诉网友们上“经视网”看看，大家才信了。很快，便有人表示愿意帮助她们解决住宿问题，并且问清任菲莉所在的网吧地址，说半小时后会开车去接她们，任菲莉高兴地表示感谢。 “怎么这么顺，不会骗人的吧？”旁边的记者提醒任菲莉说。 “我相信他。”任菲莉肯定地说。 半个小时后，真的有一辆面包车停在了网吧门口，任菲莉首先看见一个小伙子从车上取下一个轮椅，然后，从车里抱下一个残疾人。看到这个场景，任菲莉和大毛愣住了。 残疾人来到任菲莉面前说：“我叫谢希文，自己开了一个网吧，也看过你的网站。我曾经在医院看到过很多'脑瘫'患儿的妈妈，很辛苦。可是，你一个人却抚养着两个'脑瘫'女儿，我很敬重你。从昨天起我就一直在等着，希望有机会帮你。现在好了，我如愿了，我已经在迎宾馆为你们母女订了最好的房间，希望你们能舒舒服服地住一天。” 任菲莉握紧这个陌生男人的温暖大手，泪汪汪地说出两个字：“谢谢。” 当他们来到迎宾馆，当迎宾馆的总经理听说此事后，当即让客房部将谢希文订房的钱执意退还给他，他真诚地说：“您作为残疾人，都能想到帮助她们母女俩，我们就更应该这么做了。”不仅如此，这家宾馆还热情地设宴招待了他们。 很快，娄底电视台和电台的记者及时赶到并播出了这条新闻，一时间娄底的网友们沸腾了，大家一致表示希望有机会能帮助任菲莉母女俩。最后，几个网友联合出钱包了一辆车将任菲莉母女俩送回长沙。 在这次决赛后，任菲莉一家获得“网上家庭秀”比赛第三名。赛后任菲莉对两个女儿说：“这一次，我们亲身体验到了，付出努力获取的不仅仅是成功，除此还有更多更为丰富的东西，这才是一个人参与竞争的最重要的收获。” 大毛和小毛听懂了妈妈的话，不住地点着头。 任菲莉激动地搂住两个女儿。 那一刻，她有了一种凤凰涅槃的幸福！ 任菲莉觉得，她们母女三人一路风风雨雨走来，得到了很多人的帮助，虽然她们很难在经济上回报他人，但至少可以将自己的经验和体会让更多的人受到启迪，力所能