Chapter 28 A nice woman can calm the world

Ask carefully, ask carefully One of the benefits of growing older and becoming a woman is that your skin is thicker than before.When seeing a doctor in the hospital, I no longer fear the doctor. I can get to the bottom of the problem and understand the condition better. When shopping, if there is a fancy gift, the seller will not hesitate to ask the seller to give it another one.Although it seems nothing on the surface, young girls really can't bear to ask others, they will feel that this is a shameful thing.Not long ago, I was queuing up to buy a buffet in the university cafeteria. I thought that there might not be enough carrots on the side dishes, so I asked the waiter for more.When the students on the side saw my actions, they also stretched out their plates and asked for more food.Before that, almost no students dared to ask for additional vegetables when buying meals.If it does not cause harm or inconvenience to others, then you can solemnly ask for advice or ask others.People usually don't resent your request.Exactly, aren't you in your twenties?It may be difficult to find someone who rejects you!People who are good at asking others for advice and asking others to do things will be more efficient.It took me a long time to figure out how to use the new software by myself. It is better to ask a skilled colleague directly, and I can figure it out within ten minutes.However, this good habit is just for your own convenience.Asking and asking others for advice means that you can actively solve problems without taking detours.Therefore, most of those who dare to ask and ask for help have a dominant attitude towards life.The owner of a company that makes computers doesn't make computers, but he entrusts the work to people who know it.If you want to get more benefits in your life, you should do the training of "please others".As long as you have a thick skin, you can get a lot of things.