Chapter 29 Kindness can also be trained

Si Fan, who specializes in fine arts, wishes to become an illustrator.However, due to no work experience, she did not find a satisfactory job after graduation.So, Si Fan started to work in an editorial library, and when she had free time, she practiced drawing skills and cultivated her dreams. One day, a man in his forties came to return the book.She glanced at the cover of the book, and was deeply attracted by the book. It turned out that it was an illustrated book that collected famous Italian fairy tales.Si Fan asked him happily, "Is this book good?" The man was quite surprised when the librarian spoke. He hesitated for a moment and then smiled and said, "Yes. If you are interested in fairy tale illustrations, this It is a book worth reading."

"Really? Then I must borrow it and read it again. Thank you!" Looking at Sifan's smiling face, the man who had turned and walked out came back and asked her: "Do you know how to draw children's illustrations?" "I'm very interested , but I’m still learning.” “Um…really? Then you can find a time to contact me. I want to see your work. Si Fan was taken aback when he saw the business card handed over by this man. He is the president of a publishing house famous for publishing picture books. He borrowed books from the library for the illustrations of a fairy tale book. He was very satisfied after seeing Sifan's works, and Sifan became an illustrator because of this unexpected opportunity. "Amiable" means not afraid to communicate with the outside world. Being able to take the initiative to talk to strangers, you can communicate with more Even better, if it is an older woman who is nice and sociable, people will say that she is "a bit busy", but if it is someone in her twenties , if she is kind and sociable, people will say that she has a "good temper and can act like a baby".

The kindness of a young girl can help her even more.Girls who think they are naturally introverted should know that the most easily changed character is extroversion and introversion.Whether you are extroverted or introverted is not a question of personality, but a question of how to behave, so don't worry about the ancient saying that "nature is hard to change".As long as you dare to show courage, you can also exercise good communication skills.Even in positions that focus on ability to do things, we often see examples of success because of a good attitude towards others. For example, it is conceivable that a writer who concentrates on writing in a study room has a better chance of making a debut than a writer who often gathers with people in the publishing industry.Of course, the variable after debut depends on strength.This is true for writers, not to mention social group life like a game of interpersonal relationships!Those women who are exceptionally sociable are tantamount to mastering the secret of surviving in the desert.Of course, if you want to succeed, strength is an indispensable condition. At the same time, don't forget that excellent communication skills are also a very important part of this strength.Even if others ignore your existence, there is nothing to lose. Thinking like this can knock on the door of the world with a smile.The world belongs to those who dare to knock on the door.