Chapter 27 Good water can catch good fish (2)

Relatively speaking, we need to consciously stay away from these people as much as possible. Even if they have other strengths, there is no doubt that they will still become poison in your life experience.In fact, people who are full of complaints about the world can hardly gain a foothold in society, and it is doubtful whether they have other "strengths". Positive people will have the answer. Qingqing has recently experienced a painful test.She had just broken up with her boyfriend who had been with her for two years, and she had friction with her boss because of the assignment to work in other places. Both her company life and her private life made her very painful.She had no choice but to use shopping to relieve the stress, but she maxed out her credit card and turned herself into a pauper that everyone respected and kept away from.When Qingqing was sad, she wanted to be comforted by her friends.When her high school classmate Nana learned of her situation, she felt sorry for her and lamented that her life was not satisfactory.

These, Nanai said, were all because of the company's ills.On this day, Qingqing and Nana complained together about the company's unequal treatment, the corporate culture polluted by unhealthy atmosphere, and the backward male supremacy, feeling sad that they were born in such an unfortunate era.Qingqing and Nana invited a few friends who were in a similar situation to comfort each other.However, such gatherings did not improve Qingqing's melancholy mood, but made Qingqing more and more lament about life, which did not help her in any way.One day, Qingqing, who was on a business trip, suddenly remembered Ziting, a classmate who worked nearby.When the two met for lunch, as soon as Ziting saw Qingqing, she said, "You've lost weight and looked better than before." Qingqing, who was worried that she would become ugly due to stress, felt better after hearing this sentence. "It seems that you have worked really hard. A colleague in our office, like you, suffered a bit due to personnel issues, but she is doing well now. At that time..." Zi Zi who had heard about Qingqing's recent situation Ting, tell Qingqing the story around her. That person once had a similar experience as Qingqing, but in the end they all overcame the difficulties one by one.Listening to this person's process of getting rid of difficulties, when she and Ziting finished lunch, Qingqing unconsciously felt an invisible courage and strength.In fact, Qingqing didn't like Ziting very much before this.Qingqing was infatuated with Schopenhauer when she was in college, but Ziting thought he might contribute to depression and didn't like him.Therefore, Qingqing thinks that Ziting and her are not people with similar interests, and she has not been close to Ziting since then.

However, since this exchange, Qingqing always wants to see Ziting again.No matter how busy she is, she will always find time to go shopping or have dinner together when Ziting is free.The more times we meet each other, the less pain Qingqing suffers.Later, Qingqing's situation has improved significantly, and she also met a new boyfriend who treats others well. It is not necessary to get substantial help from friends to be considered a benefit.Some people benefit from just being with her.Almost all of these people have seen the best side of the world.A positive person has more potential for achievement and radiates her energy around.As long as you stay by her side, you can gain strength.The more happy and positive people you surround yourself with, the smoother your life will be.If you want to choose a friend between Nietzsche and Forrest Gump, it is better to choose Forrest Gump.