Chapter 26 good water to catch good fish (1)

The level of the people around you can reflect your own level. After attending several high school reunions with her fiancé Qicheng, Siyao felt rather disappointed.The fiancé's friends seem to be living an honest and responsible life, and everyone has no ambitions and very conservative ideas.None of them held a higher position in the company, and always pretended to be content with this life.It was only then that Siyao truly understood that the inadequacies that he vaguely felt in Qicheng were also reflected in his classmates.The fiancé just lacks the qualifications to be "a person who can live a good life".Siyao grabbed Qicheng and communicated with him seriously.

"I can't make a lifelong agreement with someone who doesn't have any dreams and goals. Promise me that you will change your attitude towards life from now on, and deliberately meet people who are more capable than you. Although it is said that if you love someone, don't deliberately change him, but this It's about our lifetime happiness." Luckily, the fiancé is not a stickler, and he readily accepts her advice. Since then, Qicheng only chooses parties attended by enterprising and energetic people, and strives to get acquainted with influential colleagues within the company.At first, he felt a little burdened by being around people who were better than himself, but after a while, he began to enjoy being around these people.In such a process, Keisei also began to gradually understand their way of life.It didn't take long for Qicheng to make some achievements in the company, and then moved to another company with a larger scale.Keisei, who has gained self-confidence, is happier and more diligent than before.Siyao, who has been supporting Qicheng by the side, is very satisfied with his change.

Maybe you will regard it as a scheming thing to make friends with people who are stronger than yourself.Do you often meet with friends who are completely useless to you, and every time you even feel that you are wasting time and money, but take it as a sense of loyalty?Friends should have something worthy of their own learning.Only in this way can we improve each other and build a good long-term relationship.People are willing to make friends with people who are similar to themselves, and at the same time, when they associate with such people, they will gradually become like that person.Therefore, what kind of friends you make is enough to show what kind of person you are. At the same time, if you make friends with different people, you will also have the opportunity to change.

Get to know people who are better than yourself. Everyone has different standards for making friends. Some people like to meet people who are worse than themselves, feel the pleasure in their envious eyes, and gain new strength from this satisfaction.But a wise woman not only does not show herself among inferiors, but is ashamed of being one of them.They will try to make friends with people who are richer, more knowledgeable, and smarter than themselves, not only to get their help in the future, but also to broaden their contacts.They do this because they know who they associate with, and what kind of person they will become.In order to practice this virtue, we should first put away our jealousy and hostility, and try to associate with those who are better than ourselves, because they do have something that we lack and should learn from.

Start now to organize your relationships Your twenties are an excellent time to make new friends.Students who are locked up in school every day will naturally have some limitations in making friends, and when they start to make valuable friends after they are in their thirties, they are easy to be squeezed out by others.In your twenties, you should meet the people everyone wants to know, and then determine which people are still worthy of deep friendship in your thirties, and invest more time in them.In other words, first occupy one side for good geomantic omen.You should reduce your chances of associating with those who lament the bleakness of life when you meet them.Objectively speaking, those who have superior living conditions are important, but what is more important are those who take progress as their attitude towards life.We should get to know and like people like this.They always have a smile on their faces, and you can always feel the energy of improvement when you are with them.Now, gatherings of netizens are very popular on the Internet, where you can also meet a lot of people you want to learn from.

However, when you meet someone who can enrich your life, you should be sincere and let go of the idea that you want to get something from the other person.Even if the original intention of meeting is to improve the quality of your life, you cannot regard making friends as an investment that must pay attention to returns, because the other party can completely guess your mind.Once you start socializing, you have to give them your heart.As long as you treat your friends wholeheartedly, I believe everyone will naturally become a strong pillar of your life.Unhappy philosophers should befriend happy fools and keep away from those who complain about the world Whoever has looked up with envy to a sharp critic.After turning around, the most frequent topic is criticism.They believe that critics have "clear minds", and some people even confirm their true self through criticism.There is no doubt that criticism is the driving force behind the development of human society.Without a critique of male-centered social structures, we might never have dreamed of a day where women can vote and women can fight for their dreams.However, criticism cannot be used as an excuse to pass on incompetence to others, nor can it be an obstacle to introspection.Those who can only blame others for their badness and only blame the society, I have never seen any one of them really realize their dreams, because these people only care about finding out the shortcomings of others, but never care about and review their own shortcomings .People who are dissatisfied with the society not only have a bleak future in life, but also spread this dissatisfaction to other friends around them.