Chapter 22 Finally, consider self-esteem

The same women who like to misuse the term "clear conscience" also like to overemphasize self-esteem.No matter when and where, self-esteem should come first.Many women feel that as the most junior employee in the department, often doing odd jobs hurts their self-esteem, so they give up a formal job; or give up a good project because the client repeatedly asked to modify the plan; Quarreling, and missing a good man because of self-esteem.Young girls will think that standing up for their principles is self-esteem, but it is not. The criterion that distinguishes a "woman" from a "lady" is not self-esteem, but shame.From time to time, I would see some women arguing loudly on the side of the road and attracting a group of onlookers. The reason they yelled at each other was because the other party had hurt their self-esteem.How can we accept this paradoxical situation of making ourselves the joke of passers-by while emphasizing our self-esteem?If you really cherish yourself, you should let go of your self-esteem first and learn to make choices that are most beneficial to you.If it's not something that injures your conscience, it shouldn't injure your self-esteem.If you want to learn how to do things, you must be willing to accept other people's different opinions and objective evaluations, and you should also be willing to help colleagues drink a few times.

If you really don't want to miss a good man, you should let go of your self-esteem first and choose to keep him by your side.There are so many things in the world that are more important than self-esteem, and twentysomethings don't quite understand it.