Chapter 23 Lost illusions about career

Career is not the whole university period of life, "work" is the most topic in life, and it is also the biggest goal we are looking for.There is a university senior who is a civil servant. I asked her why she wanted to be a civil servant. She replied: "For fun! If you play all the time, it's not very interesting. So, being able to do things and have time to play is the real thing. life." Hearing her answer, on the one hand, I was worried about the future of state organs, and on the other hand, I felt that the same rice supports all kinds of people.Compared with the lofty dreams of college students in their early twenties, her career outlook is really unreasonable.However, when I recall her words ten years later, I will have different thoughts. It turns out that she was already so smart at a young age.I say this not because of the current difficulty of employment, so that the status of civil servants has rapidly improved.In the mid-twenties when it is easy for a person to regard career as everything, she already knew how to separate career from life.I am not teaching everyone to despise work.The job you want to choose should at least have the value worth investing most of your time, and it should be something you like, and it should be something you are willing to work hard on.

However, people in their twenties only know how to put all their time and energy into their work, regardless of their own feelings.How much work efficiency can be improved or how much room for development can be gained by working so hard?There are not a few women who regard the workplace as a living base or as a place of entertainment.Remember, work is just a part of life, and it is also a school for learning how to live.On evenings or weekends when you're not working, it's time to research the most enjoyable forms of entertainment.Only in this way can work and rest be balanced. Compared with other things, the most important thing to practice in your twenties is how to enjoy life. If you don't learn this method now, you may be kept in the dark for the rest of your life.The older you are, the more time you have to rest. If you don't know how to use your time, how boring life will be!People who feel that life is meaningless when they are not working have lived their lives in vain.

Don't think that life is over when you reach the age of thirty. If you ask freshmen in colleges, they will think that the good days of seniors and sisters in junior and senior years are almost over.If you ask fresh people who have just entered the society, they will think that the seniors who are about to turn 30 are the same. "At that age, what's the point of life?" People in their twenties believe that only the present time is the real life.Because most of the poetic and picturesque love happens in their twenties, and the most ambitious ones are also in their twenties.Everyone believes that after the age of thirty, the most exciting stage of life has passed, and at that time, you will start to enjoy everything you have accumulated before.Because of this, everyone is very afraid of the arrival of thirty.

They believe that before the age of thirty, they should have a stable position in the company and be fully on the road to success, but now they are still rookies in the company, which makes people feel at a loss.People in their twenties often make mistakes, mostly because of this sense of urgency.In your twenties, you start to be called the "head of class", and you have a successful career like the characters on TV. In fact, you should throw away the image of this professional woman in your mind, as long as you can establish your own direction before the age of 30 , Then when you are older, you can naturally realize your dreams.

I see that most women set up lofty ideals when they were young, and waver in this concept. Unknowingly, when they reach the age of thirty, they have not considered what they really want to do, and they immediately switch from corporate life to married life. Ended his original ideal.In fact, as long as you decide what you want to do, even if you are over thirty and married, you can start from scratch.The reason why you can't do things is not that the environment doesn't allow it, but that you don't have a definite goal.Those who can work in the department they like until they are over thirty years old are still holding on to their first job after graduating from college.

When you are in your twenties, on the one hand, you should not waste your life lazily; on the other hand, you must cultivate a vision of work and life with ease.Your twenties are not a time to realize your dreams, but a time to accumulate nutrients for success after the age of 30.No matter how capable a person is, if he is not humbly accepting experience and lessons, it will be difficult to achieve success after all. In this sense, achievements made in the twenties are likely to become stumbling blocks in the future.Don't appear disheartened because you have no achievements now, or because you have little hope of achieving them in a short period of time.Maybe, a real professional woman can only run up and down busy with wrinkled faces and heavy "swimming rings".