Chapter 19 Chapter 17 Good Persuasion

Wu Borong has been a little bit burnt out recently.First, Pan Yijia was pregnant with her child in silence, and then she parted with Yu Ying.I don't know if it is because when people are not going well, they will definitely not go well in everything. After Wu Borong managed to calm down, he realized that the financial turmoil was coming.The financial turmoil affects exports, and Wu Borong's company relies on exports.As a result, the company almost encountered a catastrophe.Wu Borong was so busy in the company that he couldn't even recognize his own mother, his mobile phone kept ringing, and the news reported by every employee was not good news. He held meetings again and again, thought of countermeasures one after another, and then started If we cut costs, we will have to lay off people any longer.

Wu Borong has managed to earn a little money over the years, so he really doesn't want to lay off people unless it is absolutely necessary.It's not because of how good the conscience is or how high the morality is, but because the company has put in a lot of effort to train these people into backbones.How rare are talents?It's a storm now, but there will always be a time when the storm will pass, and we have weathered the adversity together, and naturally they are willing to work harder for the company.Whenever you encounter danger, you will take the staff to kill. Who will work for you in the future?

No layoffs, more pressure.Fortunately, these employees are very conscious, and everyone has found a way out.When the export was cut off, they looked for domestic sales, and turned around to find the mainland market. The whole company was in a mess, and it became normal to work overtime until one or two o'clock.But no one complained, because Wu Borong was the last one to leave. Even the boss was desperate. What did the employees say? Who didn't know that Wu Borong was losing money? Fortunately, it was such an intensity of pressure, the grief of losing Yu Ying seemed to be suppressed by something.Being so busy, it's impossible to do two things at once.When I think of her, I press down as much as possible, and sometimes I will be called back to report to work as soon as I lose my mind.Sometimes he does it on purpose, deliberately making himself so busy that he can fall asleep with his head on the sofa.

Pan Yijia also knew that the company was at the critical point of life and death, so seeing Wu Borong working like crazy, he didn't have any complaints. Instead, he cooked very good meals at home and sent them over.The food was very fragrant, it was Wu Borong's favorite taste, and the food was well matched.Wu Borong sometimes went back at night and asked her not to do it. She was four months pregnant and had to work in the kitchen by herself, fearing danger. One day, Wu Borong came back early, and Pan Yijia went for a walk in the park. Only the nanny was mopping the floor at home.Sitting on the sofa, Wu Borong said: "Next time Yijia cooks, don't let her into the kitchen, and rush to cook more."

The nanny was mopping the floor, and immediately stood up when she heard this, and said to Wu Borong: "I don't know how many times I have called her, but I can't even snatch her away. She insists that you are the busiest now, that you have a bad appetite, and that you are not doing well." You don’t like food, you’re picky eaters.” The nanny lowered her head again and began mopping the floor, “She’s about to show her stomach, and she’s still cooking there, and she vomits when she smells the oily smoke, and she just vomits on the floor. Stir-fry, after frying, I have to go to the toilet to vomit. I see her working hard, so I wear a mask for her."

The nanny was talking to herself, Wu Borong said nothing.He looked at the wet floor with a little reflection. After looking at it for a long time, it seemed that he could see Pan Yijia cooking while wearing a mask. During this period of time, he basically ignored Pan Yijia.It's not that he didn't hate him in his heart. Using such a method, such a clever means, let him return to her side.He came back, but his heart was cold. It was Pan Yijia's behavior that made him feel cold. He felt that he had never understood this woman before. However, he also had to admit that Pan Yijia was indeed a good wife.She is considerate and understanding, and even on such a big matter, she doesn't make a fuss or put a little pressure on herself, she is quiet but forbearing.

Maybe she really loves it!That's why she chose to use this method. In order to let herself eat one more bite, she could endure the pain.In the past, he always thought that Pan Yijia was a delicate, petite woman, but now he understands that love and marriage will make a woman mature quickly. Wu Borong thought a lot that day, and he felt helpless about the world.Pan Yijia, Yu Ying, and myself are not bad people. Although everyone's starting point is for themselves, no one is a bad person, but those who are entangled will still be hurt.After Wu Borong's deep love this time, he felt that his body really couldn't bear such a toss. Love is really a terrible thing, and it's better not to touch it if you are not fully sure.However, he didn't regret it at all, he just felt that the scene where he was hurting his muscles and bones made him really understand what it means to be alive.

When Pan Yijia came up, he saw Wu Borong sitting on the sofa quietly peeling an apple. The apple was peeled very carefully.Wu Borong handed over the peeled apples and said to her: "Eat more fruit, you eat too little, it is not good for you and the fetus, you should eat more now. Don't worry, the company is fine now, just Despite temporary difficulties, we still have strength.” Pan Yijia took the apple in his hand, lowered his head, and gnawed the apple slowly.The taste of the apple is very sweet, so sweet that it makes people feel bitter.No matter how much she sighed, she was suppressed, because she knew that her home was preserved, and this man, whom she could not live without and whose children could not live without, had finally returned home.

Seeing her mother Zhang Lu's aura coming to her home, Yu Ying guessed that it might be because the rumors of her marriage with Cheng Ji had already reached her mother's ears.Afraid of disturbing Xiao Bao, Yu Ying took her mother to a tea house.This trick is also learned from Jiang Lan. Going to a quiet place can avoid making a fuss.But Zhang Lu was not noisy at all, but looked at Yu Ying with heartbroken eyes.Yu Ying had seen this kind of look in her mother's eyes before. When Yu Jing divorced and went home, Zhang Lu stared at Yu Jing with this look, like looking at a dead animal, full of despair and joy. sad.

With such eyes, Zhang Lu made Yu Ying take off her indifferent mask first, and forced Yu Ying to explain to her first: "Mom, life is going to be hard, leaving is not a bad thing, but a good thing." "You have to tell me first why life is so difficult?" Zhang Lu looked at Yu Ying coldly. "Mom, we don't have love." "Well, your dad and I don't have love either. If you divorced because of this, you would have been alone with each other by now, and you don't know which street you are living on." "But, you and Dad look very good." Yu Ying was shocked.

"A good life does not mean that there is love. Besides, what is love? Can you eat it or drink it, but you show it to me?" Zhang Lu felt that she really didn't understand the young people today. They have no worries about food and clothing, no matter how high the work pressure is, can it surpass the high intensity of her era? Today's young people have a house, a car, a career, and freedom. They can climb up and earn money if they have the ability.However, everyone loves to toss and get divorced every now and then.What's wrong with son-in-law Cheng Ji?He doesn't bother, doesn't play cards, doesn't gamble and doesn't drink alcohol. He has always been very polite to his family. He is also a top professional and a rare good doctor with a bright future.Such a man doesn't want a daughter, and insists on a divorce, what is this? Yu Jing divorced because that man was really nothing, but after Yu Jing divorced, dragging Ran Ran by herself, is life easier?I have been worrying a lot about Yu Jing's affairs, but now, Ran Ran has just grown up, and Yu Ying is going to divorce again. When Zhang Lu heard the news, she almost fell to the ground on the spot.She really didn't understand what she did wrong, why did God give her such a fate?Her two daughters are both beautiful and generous, and they studied hard when they were young, and never caused trouble for themselves.I didn't expect that after marriage, one would not let myself worry more than the other.Yu Jing is divorced, and Yu Ying is about to file for divorce again, what will outsiders say about her?He will say that he can't teach his daughter, and the daughter he teaches can't keep her husband. Yu Ying didn't know how to explain it. She knew that the older generation had their own moral principles in their hearts, but she really had no choice but to repeat: "I divorced Cheng Ji not because we are all bad people, but because we are all bad people. I can't go on with my life, it's because my personality is not suitable." "It's not suitable for you to marry? Did someone hold a gun to your head and ask you to marry him?" Zhang Lu snapped. Yu Ying was so choked that she couldn't speak for a moment, she could only say: "Mom, can you stop worrying so much, I will take care of my affairs." "What do you know, what will you do? Don't you just think I'm old, I don't understand fashion anymore, I don't know what kind of love you two have?" Zhang Lu was finally irritated, "Yu Ying, let me tell you , you are just relying on yourself to be young, you have the ability, you can earn money, and you don't need a husband, so you just make an excuse so easily that you will divorce if you don't love her." Seeing her mother furious, Yu Ying hurriedly stepped forward to comfort her, but Zhang Lu threw her off. "Don't touch me! If I wasn't your mother, I wouldn't say a word of nonsense, and I wouldn't come to you to displease you! Do I want to be hated by young people at my age? I don't know where I am like your father Hide like that and say nothing?" "Dad is not that kind of person, he just understands me." Zhang Lu sneered: "So, as a mother, I still don't understand my daughter?" "No..." Yu Ying was so anxious that she was sweating profusely. "Yu Ying, I'm not only your mother, but also a woman. I know you're not reconciled to marrying a man you don't like, and want to change." Zhang Lu calmed down, and said after a while, "But, have you I thought about it, what if you can't find someone you like? Are you never going to marry? Are you going to be like Yu Jing all your life, living alone? Yu Jing has a Ran Ran, which is a spiritual sustenance. What do you have? You tell me! You have a small clinic, and that clinic can accompany you for the rest of your life? You are young and not sick, you must be old! If you are sick in bed when you are forty, your father and I will leave, you There is no one around you, it is difficult for you to drink a sip of water, you know how adventurous you are now, how irresponsible you are doing things! Irresponsible to yourself, irresponsible to your marriage!" Yu Ying was tongue-tied, she couldn't have imagined that her mother's thinking was so complicated and she thought so far.In the past, it seemed that my mother was just an old lady talking about trivial things. I never thought that she would have so many thoughts.And when her mother said these words, the wisdom she revealed in her words was enough to make Yu Ying full of respect for her.This is the wisdom a woman has learned in her growing experience, which cannot be found in any book. This kind of wisdom is the crystallization of real life. Zhang Lu took a sip of tea and glanced at her daughter in front of her.The youngest daughter, Yu Ying, has always been the pride of herself and her husband. She was obedient and able to endure hardships when she was a child, and she didn't worry about going to school when she grew up. However, under her very docile surface, there was a very stubborn heart. Things, few people can change.It's just that her stubbornness really won't make her suffer in the future?She no longer wants to see her second daughter suffer. "I don't talk about the thoughts of the older generation, and you won't listen to me if I say it. But, it's true that not everyone has the opportunity to meet together, and those who can meet are people who are destined. What is a hundred years of cultivation? Crossing the same boat, sleeping together after a thousand years of cultivation? You didn't get married for no reason, how could you be so childish?" Yu Ying said: "Mom, we are not kidding. I have thought about it for a long time. Cheng Ji and I are really not suitable. He is very selfish. He only has career and himself, and he has no me at all. I married him, and I didn't get any warmth. , I don’t have any children now, so if I leave him, there might be no way out.” Zhang Lu sighed: "Selfish? Son, I'm not speaking for Cheng Ji, so aren't you selfish? In this marriage, he is wrong in your heart. His fault lies in being selfish, not loving you, and making you feel bad." Warmth, but what about you? You are not wrong, you have paid a lot? Are you not selfish, you just love him, and you make him warm? Don’t regard marriage as a transaction. , You just give as much as you want, take one step and look at two steps, for fear that you will pay a little more than others, as if you will suffer if you love a little more. Aren't you tired of being so fussy?" Zhang Lu went on to say: "Before I got married to your dad, he actually had a girlfriend, but his family didn't agree, so he had to marry me. At the beginning, he also came from a piece of iron, so I slowly warmed him up. I believe People's hearts are not rocks, and I believe this is my life. And I can see clearly that your father is not a bad person, he is worth covering for me, maybe I was giving in the first half of my life, but in the second half of my life, I will spend a lot with him Okay? If it weren't for your dad, I wouldn't even be able to cover my legs at night, wouldn't my life be bleak?" Yu Ying looked at the water glass and said softly: "I can't gamble the first half of my life just because the second half is possible. What if the second half of my life is not happy?" "You haven't even tried it, how do you know whether it's suitable or not? And you're divorced now, isn't it a gamble, is it sure that you will be happy? It's all a gamble, why don't you dare to gamble on marriage?" Zhang Lu patted The hand of the already confused daughter stood up. "Mom, I know you're afraid, but I'm different from Yu Jing. I have money and don't need to rely on men." Yu Ying knew her mother's worry. "Yu Ying, I've pretty much said everything I want to say, and it's up to you to think about it carefully. I'm not worried that after you leave Cheng Ji, the economy will suffer and the standard of living will decline. I'm just worried You're chasing after something you don't have, and you end up getting nothing and missing out on your own happiness." Yu Ying said firmly: "Cheng Ji is not my happiness!" Zhang Lu's complexion changed, and she calmed down: "Yes, Cheng Ji is not the kind of happiness you want, but in my eyes, Cheng Ji is not a bad person. Although he has shortcomings, he is also a person who can take responsibility." Man. Ask yourself, is Cheng Ji sorry for this family, sorry for you?" Yu Ying knew what her mother meant, and in the thinking of her generation, as long as a man is suitable, she is fine, so she remained silent. Zhang Lu knew that talking was of no great use, so she sighed and said, "Yu Ying, you have to know that life is not a matter of a day or two, and love and love will fade away, but character is fixed. You will understand that it is not difficult to find a man you like, but it is not easy to find a man with good character. Yu Ying, it is useless for others to talk too much, you still have to understand it yourself. Anyway, I don’t support you Divorced, if you must leave, I can't help it. But you choose the path yourself and bear it yourself. I'm old and I can't help you. You can do it yourself. " Yu Ying watched the back of her mother disappear little by little in the teahouse, and the sadness in her heart could not be described as heartbreaking.The mother's back was slightly bent, the old and helpless submission made Yu Ying want to run to ask her mother for forgiveness. Yu Ying never thought of those words.The father's support is because of his deep love for himself, and the mother's opposition is also because of his deep love for himself.There is such a big difference in the views of men and women, which is also due to the different division of labor in society.What my mother said was right, I had paid too little in this marriage, and the distance that my mother could see was exactly what I couldn't see. What her mother said gave Yu Ying some new thoughts, and she fell into deep thinking.After all, the union of marriage is not a matter of two people, not only my parents, but also Cheng Ji's family members, as well as many friends, colleagues, and acquaintances.On the surface, marriage is like a tree. It is easy to cut it down, but to clean up the roots is to clean up the intricate social relations. Even if it looks like a small tree, the root system underneath is huge. Zhang Lu came to the city and stayed at Yu Jing's house because she was angry with Yu Ying.Therefore, Yu Ying had to leave work early the next day, and bought a lot of things to go to Yu Jing's house to coax her mother. As soon as I entered the door, I saw Ran Ran wearing very short sportswear dancing and doing exercises with the TV. While dancing, I said to my grandma: "My aunt is so young and beautiful, and she has the ability to make money. If you don't like it, don't be together. You are not looking for me. No good man. Grandma, why are you so sad. " Yu Jing winked at the side: "Nonsense, what do you know, kid!" "Originally, my aunt won't be wanted anyway, I'm afraid that people chasing her will line up." Zhang Lu was annoyed enough, when she heard what Ran Ran said, she scolded, "Zhui Chau Chau, what good are those men, none of them are as good as your brother-in-law." "Cut, who said that." Ran Ran was about to say what she saw Yu Ying and Wu Borong, but fortunately Yu Ying came in at this time, so she stopped talking.Stopped aerobics, ran to hug my aunt and said, "It's okay, I support you, I'm on my aunt's side." Yu Jing and Zhang Lu said together: "Nonsense, come in!" Ran Ran stuck out her tongue, picked up an apple on the table and walked inside, then turned her head and said to her aunt, "You have to withstand the flames of war!" Zhang Lu still ignored Yu Ying, and Yu Jing didn't want to say much. What she repeatedly said was that everything should be considered carefully. After divorce, a woman's life is not easy. She herself is an example and has suffered a lot. Yu Ying didn't know where her heart was going. She didn't come here to listen to her sister's bitterness. She had heard these bitterness too many times, and her stomach was already sour after listening to it.Yu Jing's tragedy is because she is not financially independent and gave birth to a child prematurely. Those sufferings are all due to the suffering of not being able to rely on a man, and she has to support herself mentally and materially.Yu Ying had to put on a serious look, so she leaned against the back of the sofa with her head slightly tilted. After Ran Ran entered the small room, the door was not closed properly. She stood by the table and was about to change clothes to go out. When she turned her head, she saw Yu Ying's chin slightly drooping with a helpless expression. The peony on the dark background makes her whole face even more beautiful.But Ran Ran didn't come to appreciate Auntie, she was shocked, this side was too familiar, the scene of seeing Lu Jie driving on the street that day flashed through her mind like an electric spark.Those scenes overlapped, and the profile of the woman in the car was exactly the same as that of the woman on the sofa. That's right, the woman who snatched Lu Jie away was my aunt Yu Ying. Ran Ran understood completely. In fact, she should have thought that the familiar profile was her aunt, but because she had never thought about it, even her subconscious mind prevented her from thinking about it.Ran Ran's hands and legs are cold, how can she be my aunt?Doesn't my aunt already have that man, and she wants to get a divorce?The man I saw in the hotel that time was also very good looking.How could my aunt be such a person, why Lu Jie?Standing in the room, Ran Ran felt a surge of anger in her heart, both Auntie and Lu Jie thought she was a fool, that's why they did this without telling her.However, she trusted her aunt unconditionally, and told her all her thoughts, that she was the one who snatched Lu Jie away.It was Auntie, the woman who was full of great truths, saying that Lu Jie was not good here and that was not good, and said disdainfully to herself, "If you can't afford it, don't play it." It turns out that she is a woman who can afford it. Ran Ran felt like someone had dropped a bomb on her world, and it was all broken into pieces at once, with no piece intact at all.Just now Ran Ran was still saying that she wanted to support my aunt, but now her heart immediately changed, this kind of lewd and hypocritical woman is really annoying. No, she will definitely not let this matter go easily, even if Lu Jie doesn't love herself, the feeling of being betrayed by her most trusted relative is not something Ran Ran can bear at this age.Her heart was full of anger, and she must investigate this matter clearly, otherwise, she would go crazy. Yu Ying looked at Yu Ranran strangely, with a murderous look, passing by with a cold snort, and walked out without even looking at everyone.She also said to her sister Yu Jing: "What's the matter, which boy did Ran Ran quarrel with again?" She didn't realize at all that there was a time bomb that had been planted in her destiny, which was counting down and might explode at any moment. No matter how difficult the road of life is, the appearance of the sun will not be much different every day when it rises.Yu Ying's life still has to go on, the pain is just a scar on her chest, and no one sees the blood dripping in her heart. And this society is that no matter how painful your heart is, as long as you don't die, you have to earn money to live.Of course, you can also choose to crash, but the problem is that life continues after the crash, not that time stops after the crash.Impulse is okay, the question is who will clean up the mess after impulse. On the surface, Yu Ying's life is exactly the same as before.I go to the clinic during the day, and when I get home, I take the children to the park downstairs to play.Xiaobao's first birthday has passed, and in this year, it seems that the four seasons have gone through in just a blink of an eye. She knew that in a few days, Li Lan would come to see the child no matter what, and maybe that would be the time for a showdown.Did she give the child back to the woman, or begged the woman to keep the child for herself?No matter what she did, it was a double-sided knife, with sharp blades shining on both sides, and she would hurt others and herself no matter what.Yu Ying knew that it was not good to escape, but she had no choice but to escape from this day. The relationship between husband and wife with Cheng Ji has also entered a cold river period, the cold war, or rather, no one knows how to break the deadlock.Cheng Ji's life was destroyed, and his well-lived life was suddenly out of balance, which made him at a loss.He is used to living according to the trajectory, but now Yu Ying's letting go and breaking the rules, he doesn't know how to maintain this balance. The destruction of life, of course, is a very fatal injury to Cheng Ji.He finally understands that a man's career and family are equivalent to his own two legs, and any broken leg will be a heavy blow, and he cannot stride forward on the road of life.But the marriage that he thought was perfectly fine in the past seemed to have changed overnight.He has no idea what the reason for this change is. Li Momei received Cheng Ji's call for help. At this time, she already understood that in this man's heart, she had become an old friend.When a woman falls to this level, she will never have any passion to happen again, but such a friendship can last a lifetime. Sitting at the coffee bar, the two look like lovers.But both Li Momei and Cheng Ji knew, no, it would never be the case. Cheng Ji looked at Li Momei and said, "You look good, you're getting married, right?" "It has nothing to do with getting married. I always looked good. You used to think that if I didn't get married, I would have to be ashamed." Li Momei was not happy. "Okay, I'm afraid of you." Li Momei saw that Cheng Ji softened, and her mouth was not so hard: "Isn't that what marriage is all about, watching the time go by, waiting to grow old and ugly." "But, it looks like you are waiting happily." Li Momei finally smiled: "Yes! It won't be long before another little guy will come out to cause trouble for me." Cheng Ji was shocked: "So soon, you have a baby, how many months?" "It's only been fifty days, don't use this expression! It makes me look like a monster." Cheng Ji smiled: "Didn't you say that having a child will make you ugly, so you don't want to have it?" Li Momei thought of some stupid things she said before, and she felt it was funny, but she didn't want to admit defeat, so she said: "If you don't have children, your body will become ugly, and you will sag when you are fifty years old, and you will grow old if you don't have children." "What is drooping or not drooping, please speak softly." The two were laughing and chatting there like old friends, Cheng Ji was really happy for Li Momei, she has worked hard to this age, and after finally getting married, she is smarter than anyone else.She knows exactly what she wants, and implements such a plan step by step.She used to be so proud and beautiful, and when she decided to get married, she immediately had a child. Li Momei knew that if she compromised with her life, then she had to compromise completely, and she couldn't let herself feel awkward anymore.After she was pregnant with her child, her husband's love for her made her understand that no matter how intense life is, it is not as comfortable as a down-to-earth life.That kind of love like a Korean drama is like the exquisite and dazzling clothes worn by models on the catwalk. , watch TV comfortably on the sofa at home and be yourself. After Li Momei had a child, the sense of happiness of becoming a mother in the future brought her solid happiness, and such happiness was palpable.Yes, this kind of life may not be what she wanted before, but it makes her very comfortable, and of course she is also very satisfied. Cheng Ji chatted with her for a while, and then told the whole story with Yu Ying. Li Momei thought for a while, and then asked directly: "Does Yu Ying have someone outside? If a woman has no one outside, she shouldn't be determined to get a divorce." "Someone, how is it possible? Yu Ying, probably not! She is very busy with work, I think she is normal." Li Momei was very angry: "Look at her, when did you see Yu Ying? Have you really cared what kind of life she is living? Even if she is really someone, how could you know!" Cheng Ji thought for a while and said, "There seems to be nothing abnormal." "Your normal means cooking, eating, doing housework, and being in front of your eyes every day!" "Then what else!" Cheng Ji felt that he was overwhelmed by these women. What do they want?How do you want to live your life?Do you have to follow them every day and make emotional moves to deal with them?Li Momei and Yu Ying couldn't calm down a bit, couldn't they see that life is life?Don't eat if you want love?Even though Cheng Ji knew he was wrong, he really didn't know how to make up for it.His life is like this, how can it be possible to change the fixed life pattern of an adult?This is simply an impossible task! Like any ordinary man, when he encountered setbacks in life, and when he couldn't find a solution to his reflection, he finally poured out all his anger on the other party.He feels that Yu Ying is unbelievable and unreasonable right now, and has no idea what she is doing!In a word, Yu Ying was too ordinary when she was young, but now that her youth is about to pass, she has to work hard.Emotional, neurotic, what does it mean not to love her?No, no, it's just that she doesn't love herself.When a woman doesn't love a man, she can pick out a hundred flaws in him; when she loves, those flaws are strengths.