Chapter 29 Scene 27 Practice Makes Perfect

In the darkness, the young boy left the girl under him, rolled over and lay on the bed, a stack of coats and sweaters piled up beside him fell down on top of him.The boy gave it a push, pushing the laundry onto the floor.He succeeded.After waiting for so long, he finally did it.There was no doubt that this time he actually ejaculated inside a girl. The boy had two previous near-ejaculation experiences.The first time was at the age of 16, when he was heavy petting with a girl two years younger than him.Back then, he was so satisfied just being able to ejaculate that he never even tried to penetrate the girl.Then last year, also at a banquet like today, he tried again, but this time it ended in failure.He was sure he had penetrated the girl at the time, and he jerked back and forth happily repeatedly before finally ejaculating.But who knows afterwards, the girl told him that he only inserted his penis between her legs, and his semen ended up ejaculating on the bed, or maybe it was on someone's coat.Anyway, no matter what, he definitely succeeded this time today.He is 19 years old and finally lost his virginity.

However, the boy's actions today were obviously a bit hasty.It only took a few seconds from his penetration to his ejaculation.And it was undeniable that he needed someone to help him.The boy was the same today as last time, the tip of his penis couldn't find the entrance of the girl's vagina, but he didn't know it.He thought he had penetrated the girl just like last time, so he jerked back and forth hastily.However, when the girl used her hand to guide the penis into the vagina, it felt so different that he realized that he must have penetrated somewhere else.It was probably inserted between her legs again.The boy was about to ejaculate almost immediately, but he held back until his cock was fully inserted before coming out.It was dark all around, and the boy lay next to the girl after finishing his work, feeling an unprecedented sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.He told the girl how great the sex was, then asked her how she felt.

"Great." There was a mocking tone in the girl's tone. Unless it was a novice, anyone who heard her tone would feel ashamed.When she saw him for the first time at the banquet, she originally just wanted to deal with him and get rid of him.She thought the boy looked too young and inexperienced.However, when the boy tried to approach her, she changed her mind.She thought he was good-looking, and the clothes he was wearing were expensive.Although his speech was childish and naive, he was full of wit when he described some good and bad things about himself, and the girl felt that she was deeply attracted to him.So when he had the cheek to ask for sex, she happened to be almost drunk and the atmosphere was enough to make her want to sleep with him.As soon as they entered the dark room, the boy began to peel off her panties.The boy skipped all the foreplay and immediately put his full weight on her before thrusting his cock between her body and the mattress.She reached out to help him and pushed the cock inside of her, but he came the instant he penetrated.Now, he actually expects her praise?Girls feel shame, boredom, and sexual dissatisfaction.She vowed to pay more attention to first impressions of men next time.

Someone knocked on the door of their bedroom.Because there was no response, someone outside tried to push the door open.But they locked the door from the inside, and the next couple waiting to use the room urged them to hurry up, reminding them that they weren't the only couple who needed the room.The young girl started walking around the bed, and the boy couldn't help but ask her what she was doing.He told the girl that they didn't need to vacate the room yet.Neither could see each other in the dark.The girl said she was looking for her panties.Then she asked him if he remembered where he got her panties.He dropped it somewhere on the floor and he would get up and help her find it, the boy said.He emphasized again that there is no need to worry anyway.The girl is ashamed that she has sex with such a boring person, and she just wants to forget about what happened today.The girl pretended to go to the bathroom, and she asked the boy to help her find her underwear.Reluctantly, the boy put on his underwear and trousers, zipped them up, and got out of bed to help the girl find her underwear.

In fact, he doesn't remember where he got the girl's panties at all.This unknown woman really surprised him, because they had never met before, and she was willing to sleep with him the first time they met.They chatted and danced together and had known each other for about an hour altogether.When the girl walked into this dormitory with him, he knew that she might change her mind at any time, so he had to quickly take off her pantyhose and panties while she was still willing to show meekness.Probably because the action was too tense, the pile of underwear was lost without knowing where to go.

The boy asked her about the color of the panties.The girl replied: "Black." At this time, she was almost convinced that her underwear would not be found.It was impossible to find her panties in a room littered with coats and sweaters.The boy suggested turning on the light and looking for her, but she said that was fine, she would rather leave without her underwear on.After saying this, the girl immediately went to the door and fumbled to turn the handle of the door.The boy staggered over the clothes on the floor, trying to get to her.But she had already opened the door and walked out.The next couple waiting outside the door wanted to squeeze in immediately.The boy had to push them away to get out.When he walked out of the room, the girl had already fled downstairs, and she quickly hid among the crowd.

In order to avoid the young boy just now, the girl stayed close to the oldest man at the party.This man was nearly 30 years old, 10 years older than her. She knew him before and knew that he was good at playing with women.The man was good-looking and handsome, and he told the girl that he was able to attend the banquet because his spouse was visiting her mother on weekends.In the end, the girl spends the rest of the night with the guy.She is completely captivated by him, deeply attracted by his charm, tenderness, humor and sensuality.People at the banquet left one after another, and the man suggested that he send the girl home.She agreed.As they kissed goodbye in his car, the man found the girl without panties.At this time, the girl proposed to share the bed with him.He agreed.So, that night, the next morning, and the next afternoon, she hung out with him all the time, enjoying the kisses, caresses, pampering and stimulation he gave her.He gave her three orgasms and he ejaculated four times himself.The girl once fell asleep between several sexual intercourses, and she dreamed that her relationship with the man continued for a long time afterwards.

After that weekend, the girl and the guy continued to hang out for a while, trying hard to make her dream come true.However, she later found out that the man was having sex with at least one other woman besides her, so she decided not to see him anymore. Almost at the same time, the girl's roommate met and started dating the boy who caused her to lose her panties that night.After several weeks of patience, the girl finally couldn't hold back her curiosity and asked her roommate how the boy behaved in bed.The roommate said that at first the boy didn't understand anything at all.The girl nodded inwardly.Still, her roommate said the boy seemed to be a quick learner.A few days earlier, he had also found his roommate's clitoris. "Then he just needs to learn how to deal with the clitoris," the girl thought.He might learn well, the girl expected in her heart.

For men, sex skills are not an innate ability.This is a skill that must be learned.In this regard, male birds are exactly the same as male mammals.Although phenomena such as estrus, erection, and ejaculation have been pre-set in the growth program and will occur naturally when the time comes, the precise and detailed movements must be acquired by learning.In order for a male to gain the consent of a female to ejaculate inside her, he must learn courtship and stimulation techniques.It also has to learn how to copulate quickly and efficiently so it doesn't miss the opportunity. In the case of a male bird, first he must learn how to stand on the back of the female bird, and he must also learn how to bend his tail to press down on the female bird's external genitalia before ejaculation.Male mammals must learn what to do with their erect penis—where to insert it.Even an animal as intelligent as an adult male chimpanzee can be clumsy as an adult if it doesn't have the opportunity to learn to have sex as an adolescent.Male chimpanzees generally observe other members of their species having sex before practicing it themselves.Its sexual experience is developed in this way.When an inexperienced male chimpanzee is with a female, he will go into heat and get an erection, but he has no idea what to do next.Not only that, but he can't even figure out where to put his penis on the female orangutan's body. In this situation, it is difficult for the male orangutan to successfully complete the task during the first or second or third coitus.Because of this, male mammals must start practicing from adolescence in order not to miss the chance of ejaculation in their lifetime.And human males are no exception.As we can see in this scene, the boy understands his loss, the missed opportunity to ejaculate because he didn't learn sex skills in his teenage years.And this loss can even seriously affect male reproductive outcomes.

Young men in any society learn basic sex skills from experienced seniors or precocious peers by listening or observing.Many societies even recognize pre-teenage sexual experience, and they openly encourage (or at least allow) teenage boys and girls to experiment with sex.If a young boy learns early enough to: persuade a woman to have sex with him, prepare her vagina for intercourse, stimulate her vagina to become lubricated, and allow his own erect penis to find and insert the opening of the vagina, he will not miss out. My first chance to ejaculate.The first time the young boy in scene 27 has the opportunity to learn how to make love is when he is 16 years old.Just this time is not enough.Two years later, he lost his first chance to ejaculate inside a girl.Because at this time, he will neither use his penis to find the girl's vagina, nor know how it feels after the penis is inserted into the vagina. At the age of 19, although he found a vagina with the help of the girl and ejaculated in it, but because he was still inexperienced, he lost the opportunity to establish a deep relationship with the girl, and at the same time lost the opportunity to have sex with the girl again possible.

Of course, men have a lot to learn, just learn: how to make women have "sexual" interest in themselves?How to make this "sexual" interest last?How to make women willing to have sex with themselves?Where should the penis be placed during intercourse?These technologies alone are not enough.If a man can learn how to influence a woman's orgasmic patterns, he may also be able to influence how she preserves her sperm.On the other hand, women's bodies don't necessarily help men learn these necessary skills.In fact, women's bodies can even be a disservice.why?The key lies in the way women choose their mates and the way women gather information about the opposite sex. So far we have outlined the criteria by which a woman chooses her long-term or short-term mate.Among the more important items are: male status, behaviour, appearance, reproductive capacity and sexual integrity.In most cases, choosing a partner is a process of compromise, and the same man who may be considered the best partner for a woman at one stage may not be the right one for the woman after a while.And women also sometimes have to balance the visible qualities of men (eg, status, appearance, etc.) with the invisible ones (eg, the ability to win the sperm wars). In order to gather intelligence about a man, a woman must subject him to a series of tests.Women will decide whether to accept or reject a man based on how well he passes the test and compares his performance with other mate candidates.She had to make the test challenging, but not impossible to pass.A test that is too easy to pass or too rare for anyone to pass will lose the meaning of the test itself.The female body and behavior are precisely made for such tests.And usually the part of the trait that a man is tested for is precisely to determine whether he has the ability to learn.Because he has to learn to use the female body and respond to the behavior of the female. Some behavioral responses are not always the same, and we always find it difficult to learn such behaviors.Women's responses to stimuli from any given man are notoriously unpredictable.From the initial stages of courtship to the climax during intercourse, all the female reactions cannot be detected in advance.Not only will these reactions vary from person to person, but even the same woman will respond differently from situation to situation. This diversity allows a woman to move on to other, more challenging (but not so difficult to pass) tests on men who meet her criteria for a mate.Of course, these tests can be difficult for inexperienced men.Take, for example, the position of the clitoris.As we mentioned earlier, the clitoris of humans, apes, and monkeys is very small and difficult to find, and the clitoris cannot be directly stimulated by the penis during sexual intercourse.While a part of a man's body can stimulate the clitoris -- usually the penis -- during sex, unless the man has special experience, he won't know how to do it. More importantly, the key to stimulating the clitoris during sexual intercourse lies in the woman's posture and movement.So the power to stimulate the clitoris is in the hands of women, not men.This phenomenon is not only in humans, but also in other mammals.On the other hand, because the power of control is in the hands of women, the conclusions we have drawn about the function of orgasm are not surprising.For men who lack sexual experience, it is not easy to survive in the competition, because they have to learn sex skills desperately.During sexual intercourse, the man's own movements can sometimes stimulate women, but sometimes they cannot constitute stimulation. If a man wants to learn to use the clitoris, the most sexually stimulated organ, one way is through countless "trial and error", and the other way is to Receive direct guidance from women.However, even if a man learns to deal with the clitoris as a result, what works for one woman may not work for another. On the night in scene 17, the girl was planning to find a long-term partner.Her body is eager to test the sexual abilities of the boy she has chosen, since this is one of the steps in her mate selection process.At any rate, the boy had at least learned how to court.He sort of passed the first test the girl gave him, and he also got the chance to take the sex test.But he screwed things up himself.In short, the experienced man later passed the girl's various stages of testing.There may be many reasons why she likes that man, but one of them is indisputable, that is, he possesses superhuman sexual skills. If someone asks women "Why do you like men who can give you orgasms", they will definitely answer: "Because orgasms can bring pleasure".Although this kind of orgasm also has obvious disadvantages: the more men can master the female orgasm pattern, the more difficult it is for women to control themselves.But a woman's choice of a man with better sex skills can bring her not only a sensory gain, but also a biological benefit.In addition, we also said earlier that a woman can control her orgasm, which is her main weapon to affect reproductive results.That being the case, is the loss of orgasm control mentioned here just an illusion (rather than the truth)? No man can force a woman to orgasm if her body doesn't want it to.Competent men are at best just assisting a woman to orgasm from the side when she wants to orgasm.Incompetent men will force women to find a way to solve it by themselves. At this time, women are more inclined to achieve orgasm through masturbation or erotic dreams.Therefore, for a woman, an experienced and capable man provides her with assistance rather than coercion.However, women prefer to choose more experienced men, in fact, there are other factors involved. Basically, women gather intelligence about a man by watching him engage in foreplay and intercourse.A man who can turn a woman on and stimulate her to orgasm is a sign of experience with other women.Women will think that other women will also find such a man very attractive and want to have sex with him.The more a man knows how to stimulate a woman, the more experienced he should be—and the more women will find him attractive.And if a woman can mix the male's genes with her own genes, then her offspring will also have the same attractiveness and attract more women, so her reproductive results will be more successful . Interestingly, some species of females also use the same criteria to select mates.If a female sees one or more females mating with a particular male, she is likely to mate with that male as well.From this we can see that a male bird capable of attracting many female birds, his charm is a natural quality. Against all odds, virtually all men will eventually be able to learn the basics of intercourse, and most will even be able to learn the other finer techniques of intercourse.Compared with other opponents with poor academic performance, the sooner he learns the above skills, the less likely he will miss ejaculation opportunities in his life, and at the same time, the more likely he will have sexual intercourse with more women and have more births. produce more offspring.According to the results of the study, men and women who have had most of their sexual experience before puberty, especially those who have had experience with sexual organs, have more sexual partners in their lifetime.If a young boy can seize the opportunity to practice sex skills as early as possible, he will not only be ahead of boys of the same age, but will definitely have more offspring. Of course, just because men don't have the opportunity to practice sex when they're young doesn't mean they won't learn sex skills throughout their lives.If a guy is considered by a girl or woman to be her long-term or short-term partner, even if he is inexperienced, inconsiderate, or not good at making love, she will still tolerate him.In short, choosing a mate is a process of compromise.The girl's roommate in scene 27 teaches the boy the subtle details of sex techniques.Her aim was to develop a partner who, obviously, had to possess the traits she preferred while also being able to help her climax when necessary.While she was educating the boy, she was also testing his ability to learn sexual techniques.The boy did "very well".This means that if they have offspring between them, their son or grandson will at least be able to behave "very well."And more importantly, she was only training the boy to help her orgasm, not to teach him to help other women to orgasm-at least the tricks she taught him would not make other women have the same orgasm as she did.The boy might have learned something from her, but not as much as it seemed. In this scene, we're talking about the sexual development of young men, with the main focus on the various efforts that men make to pass a woman's mate selection test.A woman doesn't need to learn as many basic sex skills as a man, but she still has to learn to recognize her physical urges and how to respond to them.For example, women have to learn: how to masturbate?When to masturbate?When not to masturbate?In order for a woman to have a foreplay orgasm, an orgasm during intercourse, or an orgasm after play, she must also learn: How to choose a man to help her?When to Seek a Man to Help?In addition, she must also learn more techniques to deceive the other party or make the other party feel at ease with her.For the above-mentioned impulses, a woman's body will adjust subconsciously, and in order to satisfy these impulses, a woman must constantly update her skills. At this time, it depends on whether she has the ability to learn quickly.For a woman, even if she can't learn sex skills quickly, her lost opportunities for sexual intercourse are not as obvious as for men.However, this ability to learn can affect her ability to make the best use of the sexual opportunities in front of her.In particular, a woman's learning efficiency can affect whether she can get the most out of the sperm wars. We will also explain the learning process of the above-mentioned women in Scene 31.We shall next discuss the dangers and effects to which a woman encounters when she experiments with a man's sexual powers in the early stages of courtship.