Chapter 28 Scenario 26 Strategy Summary

Friday night.The woman lies in the tub and waits for the last wave of orgasm to recede.Her period just ended a week ago.This is the second time she has masturbated since last week.Both times were on a whim, and I did it when I thought of it.Like today, a minute before the thought popped into a woman's head, she was just washing her breasts with soap and water and wondering if she should clean the bathroom for the weekend?Or ask your spouse to do it for you?Maybe it was soapy palms touching nipples, and in less than a second, that thought came to her mind, and the woman felt a tremor between her legs, and she knew she needed to relax.It took her 5 minutes to finally manage to get her fantasies, fingers and clitoris to work together.Now, her breathing gradually calmed down, and her heartbeat was no longer so violent. The hot water and the body temperature after orgasm mixed into a piece of warmth, and the woman was immersed in this warmth.

For her, it is rare for her to masturbate twice in a row in 5 days. She always masturbates once a week or once every two weeks.The woman suspected it was because she had recently stopped taking the pill.She had only recently convinced her spouse that she really wanted another child.In short, she has never paid much attention to her body, but she quite likes the sudden sexual impulse these days.The woman remembered the night two nights ago when she asked her spouse to help her cum during foreplay, within hours of masturbating, and she gently deflected his attempts to jerk back and forth until he had to do what she wanted Do.Three consecutive orgasms in one week.This result is really good.

The following Saturday, the spouse helped her orgasm again during foreplay.Early Sunday morning, a woman has an orgasm in her dream.This was her fifth orgasm this week.There was nothing more exciting that day than this orgasm, though.She spent the rest of the day commuting to and from her parents' house.Because she was going on a business trip for three days early the next morning, and her parents offered to help her take care of her two daughters.By the time the woman and her spouse got home, it was getting late and she started packing.The spouse wants to have sex at this time. "Bring you a memento on the road," he demanded.But she felt too tired and decided to ignore his request.On Monday morning, the woman left home for the airport.She had been looking forward to this three-day business trip away from the city for a long time.There were three companions who set off with her, one was her boss, the other two were her colleagues, and one of them was her new lover.

In fact, to say that the man was her new lover was a little too much, or rather, a little too early.They met after the woman entered the company, and they have been dating for nearly a year.The first errand for a woman after giving birth to her little daughter is to work for this company.It wasn't long after she joined the company that she got closer to that male colleague.Both of them are not good at interacting with the same sex, and the two gradually feel that the other party is most likely to become their "closest" close friend.Both were in their early thirties, both had young children at home, and both felt their relationship with their spouse was tired and lifeless.The man even knows that his spouse has another lover outside.Within months of the woman's acquaintance with him, the two confessed to each other that they were physically attracted to each other.The man once suggested half-jokingly to let them go to lovesickness, but every time he made a suggestion, the woman could always find some excuses to refuse.What's more, it is not difficult to find such excuses.

They also understand that they will never be able to live together.Both of them are stubborn, strong, and have a clear distinction between good and evil.The two of them hit it off only when they talked about their personal problems, goals, and aspirations.And when they discussed basic principles, attitudes, and life, the two often clashed.A woman loves cats so much she can't imagine life without them; a man hates cats so much.She was pale and sunburned easily; but he was dark and loved the sun, and he spent hours naked in the undisturbed yard.She faithfully pursues vegetarianism; but he loves meat most, and he can't imagine a life without meat.Women are clean, almost to the point of neuroticism; men are still teenagers, putting their feet on the table or crushing their finished beer cans and throwing them on the floor.Women are provocative, mischievous, and teasing; men are straightforward, gullible, strong-willed, ambitious, and unyielding.They both find themselves often irritated by, but also fascinated by, the other's qualities, which attract each other like the poles of a magnet.

The relationship between the woman and the male colleague changed 6 weeks ago.That day, in the sunny field, the woman gave him oral sex and promised to bear him a child in the future.Although when she said this, on the one hand, she wanted to avoid having sex with men at that time, on the other hand, she was sincere.I didn't expect the opportunity to come so soon.Just two weeks after she promised to have a baby for the man, her boss asked if they would like to go on a business trip with him.So the future lover began to persuade the woman that he hoped to have the opportunity to have sex with her when he was in the field.

Even so, a woman does not make it so easy for her lover.At noon on Monday, almost as soon as they arrived at the hotel, the man ran to the woman's room to find her.But she was going to ignore his intentions, reminding her lover that this was their only chance to see the city during the day.The two of them had enjoyed sightseeing in the city throughout the day, and by the time they returned to the hotel, the atmosphere between them had become very intimate.But women make excuses to get ready for work before running into their boss at night.She still refuses to have sex with her lover. They both looked nervous at dinner because they had to pretend to be at a distance from each other in front of the other two colleagues.Both the woman and her lover know that they must not let anyone suspect that they are too close.That night, everyone returned to the hotel very late.The woman reminded her lover that they would be very busy all day next day.She tried to convince him that they both needed to get a good night's sleep and it would be best to wait until the next night before making love.But this time, her lover would not listen to her anymore.

The woman had already seen her lover naked, but the man saw and actually touched the most exciting parts of her body for the first time this evening.The woman kept teasing him and being deliberately noncommittal, so by the time they were both naked, the man could hardly resist ejaculating.He wanted to skip the foreplay and pierce right away, but she resisted him fiercely.The man couldn't control himself anymore, he plunged into the woman's body recklessly, and almost without any back and forth jerking, he ejaculated immediately. After the man withdrew his penis, the woman kept complaining about him.The man apologized to her and said that he would be more gentle next time.The woman said that if he always does that, there will be no next time.But she didn't drive the man out of bed.Within fifteen minutes, the man started stroking, kissing, licking, rubbing her, finally making her orgasm too.Then, within an hour, the man's cock was back inside the woman again, and this time he made love to her patiently and passionately, both of them coming to orgasm almost at the same time.

In the middle of the night, when a sperm battle was about to start in the woman's body, she woke up her lover and told him to go back to her room.The man pushed back, but the woman told him she was worried that in the morning, everyone would find out about their relationship.For the next two days, the two of them maintained a professional distance, both at work during the day and socially at night.However, on two nights in a row they spent hours together in bed, the man staying until the woman called him back to the room.By the time they were about to board the plane home, the woman had sex with her lover a total of six times, three of which she climaxed while his lover was penetrating.Her body was already full of his lover's sperm, from the cervix to the fallopian tubes, and in 48 hours she was due to ovulate.

On Thursday night, the woman came home late, tired, guilty, and restless.She showered, refused to have sex with her spouse on the pretext of being tired and sick, and went to bed.That night, she had an orgasm in a dream. At work on Friday, the woman tries to avoid her lover.But he found all kinds of excuses to test her mind.Finally, when the man was about to give her a kiss, the woman poured cold water on him.She told her lover that their business trip had been exciting, but that now that everyone was back, everything had to go back to normal.She doesn't want to hurt her spouse, let alone risk a divorce.Although they had a very happy few days when they went out, those are all in the past.She wanted to keep her old relationship with him.If he still wants to be her close friend, stop thinking about having sex with her.The woman said she wanted a close friend, not a lover.The hurt look on her lover's face as she said this made the woman feel guilty.But her words worked, and no man has tried to have sex with her since.

This evening was the last night the woman would have alone with her spouse before they went to bring their daughter home the next day.She masturbated once in the shower, then walked into the living room naked and demanded from her spouse that she also had a baby.The two fell on the floor together and had sex once, when the woman pretended to have an orgasm.She wanted to orgasm to please her partner, because she almost never had an orgasm during intercourse the last time they made love.This is a warm summer night. After a woman and her spouse have sex, they sit side by side on the sofa and enjoy the relaxation, with a cat lying on their laps.While she was telling her spouse about something that happened on a business trip, a sperm war started inside her.The battle lasted all night, but the situation showed signs of one-sidedness. The next day, as they were driving to pick up their daughter, a sperm burrowed into her egg.It was a fresh egg that had just reached the fallopian tube.The woman always believes that with her help, her lover's sperm will definitely win the sperm war.And she did not break her promise to her lover. This is the third time in this book that we refer to this woman and her lover.The first time, we mentioned that a woman was giving oral sex to her lover in a meadow on a sunny afternoon when she promised him that she would bear him a child one day.Next, we also introduced that in the evening, the woman and the lover went back home and performed oral sex with their spouses respectively.In this scene, we see the woman's body leading a sperm war so she can keep her promise to her lover.Her third child should inherit both her lover's looks, enthusiasm, and abilities, as well as her own shrewdness.Because her body had decided that it would be best for her lover to be the biological father of her third child. We have already explained the function of female orgasm step by step in scene 22 to scene 25.We've talked about what it's like for women to have masturbation orgasms and dream orgasms a few days before sex, and what it's like not to have either; When a woman reaches orgasm or does not reach orgasm, it will have different effects.And in this scene, the woman's body is using a mix of the aforementioned orgasmic effects, and secretly manipulating the sperm wars for the highest benefit.As a result, the female body chooses the lover, not the spouse, as the father of her child.If her body's judgment is correct—a lover's child will benefit her reproductive strategy more than a mate's—her actions will improve her reproductive outcomes. Once a woman's body has determined the best father for her next child, her body begins planning.At this time, a series of impulses will be produced in the woman's body, respectively affecting her to reach orgasm or not to reach orgasm.At the same time, her body was able to fine-tune this cascade of impulses.On the other hand, a woman's body will also predict who is most likely to ejaculate inside her next time, and her body will issue a series of instructions to control the above-mentioned impulse and timing according to its own judgment.Let us now discuss this chain of impulses.Among the weapons that women use in order to pursue reproductive results, the continuous occurrence of various orgasms can be said to be the most important link.Especially when the female body is fueling a sperm war, the sequence of orgasms will play a bigger role. The woman in Scene 26 masturbates more frequently during her infidelity.This similar scene has appeared in this book.The woman in Scene 6 masturbated more than usual in the week leading up to the impending infidelity with her ex-boyfriend.This change can also simply be explained as a phenomenon of high arousal, which simply means that the woman is looking forward to having sexual intercourse with someone other than her spouse.However, we have only to look a little closer to see that this explanation is clearly oversimplified.While the women in both scenarios may be about to have intercourse with their lovers, they only masturbate or have sexual dreams when their spouses are next to ejaculate.In these two scenarios, when women are likely to have intercourse with their lovers soon, they will not have the above two orgasms.In this, women and men are different. Of course, women may also have orgasms from masturbation or dreams before intercourse with their lovers, but usually these orgasms can only be regarded as "mistakes".For example, the woman in Scene 26 had a dream orgasm on Saturday night, and it seemed that the orgasm was for the purpose of having sex with her lover on Monday night.But in fact, at the time of that dream orgasm, the person most likely to have intercourse with her immediately should be her spouse.The woman's spouse had suggested on Sunday night that she "take a souvenir for the road".But she didn't accept it.As we will explain below, her orgasm in the dream was actually a "mistake," but she still had the opportunity to correct this "mistake" later. If the frequency of masturbation orgasm and dream orgasm and infidelity is not only affected by sexual arousal, what is the relationship between the two?Also, if the above two types of orgasms occur because women are expecting infidelity, why do these two types of orgasms more often occur before women have sex with their spouses, rather than before women have sex with their lovers? The answer to the above question is that when a woman expects a sperm war to ensue, she usually follows her own preferences and expects one side to win.In most cases, a woman will want her lover's sperm to win rather than her spouse's.For otherwise, she would not have risked infidelity.What we see in this scene, as we saw in scene 6, is that not only is the woman anticipating the sperm wars, but her subconscious is also secretly preparing a battlefield in favor of the lover. This is when the woman's body judges that the lover is a better biological father for the next child than her current spouse, but the lover is not a very suitable long-term partner.So, for the purposes of reproduction, her body decided to only get sperm from her lover, otherwise she decided not to take any risks that might cost her her current spouse.In other words, the woman had to have intercourse with her spouse both before and after the infidelity, or the spouse would become suspicious.Because of this, a sperm war erupting inside a woman is inevitable.And anyway, her body wouldn't want to miss out on the benefits of triggering the fight.For a woman, the best choice she can make is to help her lover's sperm survive as long as possible in the competition.This we can see from the development of events in this scene, her body is perfectly working towards this goal. A woman's body anticipates imminent infidelity, and her body begins planning its strategies a week before that.The strategic goal is to have uninterrupted, routine intercourse with her mate while trying to minimize the mate's sperm count should the sperm army start a dispute.Technically, a woman's body first creates the urge to masturbate a day or so before she anticipates routine intercourse, thereby strengthening her cervical filter.Then, with every bout of routine intercourse, her body will feel the desire to orgasm during foreplay, and this orgasm will further strengthen her cervical filtering function. The woman in this scene had a total of two sexual intercourses with her spouse in the critical week leading up to her infidelity.She failed to orgasm during both intercourses.So, in terms of how her body was preparing for the impending sperm wars, neither intercourse left much of her mate's sperm in her body.And this woman's orgasm in her Saturday night dream was an extension of the above strategy.Because on the Sunday night before she leaves, her spouse will most likely demand sex.A woman's dream orgasm, on the other hand, strengthens her cervix so that even if her spouse insists on having sex with her—especially if she orgasms during foreplay—she can The number of partner sperm left in the cervix is ​​minimized.But the woman chose to avoid having sex with her spouse on Sunday night. On Monday night, the lover finally ejaculated inside the woman, and at this time, the number of sperms in her body was very low, which was the result of her body's pre-planning.At this point, though, her cervical mucus filter was still strong, as she had had an unwanted dream orgasm early Sunday morning.So she tried to get her lover to delay ejaculation for a day, so as to buy more time to reduce the sperm count of the partner in the body to a smaller number.However, her lover could not wait any longer. When a woman has intercourse with her lover for the first time, she feels the need to orgasm during intercourse because the cervical filter is still too strong.In this way, she can not only correct the "mistake" of the orgasm in the previous dream, but also use it to open the way in the cervical mucus.Her lover, however, has his own strategy to implement.Since he had failed to ejaculate inside her several times in the past, his strategy was to ejaculate first.Because of this, when he finally gets permission to penetrate his lover, he must ejaculate as quickly as possible before she changes her mind. The lover's impatience prevents the woman's body from getting through the cervical mucus during intercourse, and it is difficult for the lover's sperm to swim from the semen pool into the cervix.However, after 15 minutes, the woman finally reached an orgasm under the caress of her lover.At this time, there is still a semen pool left by the lover's previous sexual intercourse in the woman's vagina, and his army of sperm finally passes through the cervical mucus channel in one fell swoop, and swims into the cervix and uterus in large numbers.The lover's tactic yields the best results: He finishes ejaculating quickly, before the woman changes her mind, so his sperm can be stored in large quantities in the woman's body.And the woman's urge to get as many sperm as possible from her lover is thus satisfied.At this time, as long as the lover's sperm army maintains a suitable fighting capacity, they can defeat all the remaining old sperm of the spouse. An hour later, the lover wants to add some more of his fresh sperm, in other words, he wants to have another intercourse, and the woman agrees, so they work together to make each other orgasm during intercourse at the same time.Prior to this orgasm, the woman's cervix contained the advance train of two men's sperm, the cervical filter was then impenetrable, but this orgasm opened the way in the mucus, and the lover's few elite troops were able to pass through the filter, to the cervix and uterus.Also because of this, the lover's first ejaculation of a large number of sperm troops and the second ejaculation of a small amount of fresh sperm can form a mixed team, and easily win the sperm war later when the woman is asleep. In the next two days, the lover added some fresh sperm one after another, and more than half of them passed through the cervical filter layer after the woman had an orgasm.When a woman returns to her own home, she has in her body a large number of strong sperm given to her by her lover.The female body's strategy at this time is to vigorously strengthen the filtering function of the cervix before the partner ejaculates.In this, she has done very successfully.First, not only did she avoid immediate sexual intercourse with her partner, but she also did not arouse his suspicions.Second, she had an orgasm in a dream.In the third step, since she and her spouse have been away for a few days, it seems unlikely that he will make her orgasm during foreplay at this time, so she chooses to masturbate first after returning home the next night, and then immediately asks to have sex with her spouse sexual intercourse. The purpose of this sexual intercourse is to make the spouse think that the child conceived by the woman this month is his.The woman doesn't feel the urge to have an orgasm during intercourse, she just feels the need to fake an orgasm.As a result, very few of the sperm ejaculated by a spouse make it past the cervical filter and reach the battlefield.And even if the sperm troops of these spouses can pass through the cervical filter layer, they will eventually be defeated by the lover's large number of sperm killers and sperm egg retrievers.The result of this sperm war is undoubtedly the victory of the lover's sperm. The women's strategy went extremely well.Of course, none of this was going on in her consciousness.And subconsciously, her body will adjust a series of activities related to emotions, motivations and reactions that are most in line with reproductive interests in order to achieve reproductive results.In the woman's consciousness, on the other hand, she experiences only sexual pleasure, excitement, and the horror of concealing her infidelities and tricks. The behaviors and reactions of the women in the scene when they have infidelity are very representative.According to the average statistics in the UK, women experience masturbation or dream orgasm less than once a week on average when they are not having an affair.During the period of infidelity, the rate of masturbation orgasm and dream orgasm will increase, which will happen once every two days on average.The period when a woman feels most of the above two types of orgasms is usually just before she expects to have intercourse with her partner immediately.And when women expect that they will have intercourse with their lovers soon, the number of the above two orgasms will decrease instead.In addition, when a woman commits infidelity, the number of orgasms she feels changes.On average, women were more likely to orgasm during intercourse with their lover (about 33 percent) than with their spouse (about 22 percent).It can be seen that when the sperm of both parties enter the battlefield, the lover's sperm is more likely to be supported by the female body than the spouse's sperm. These differences suggest that, in addition to being more likely to encounter the stronger cervical filter, the partner's sperm is also less likely to be supported by the woman's body as it traverses the mucus pathway.Generally speaking, the lover's sperm is extremely easy to stand in a favorable position in the sperm war.When women are not having an affair, about 55 percent of women's bodies help to keep a lot of sperm from their spouses.But when she was infidelity, only 38 percent of women were physically inclined to help their spouse, compared with 65 percent of women who were physically inclined to help their lover.In other words, women provided twice as much assistance to their lover's sperm army than to their spouse in the event of an affair. Yet the most impressive aspect of a woman's reproductive strategy is her struggle to keep her lover's sperm while keeping her spouse from suspecting her of an affair.At this time, the strategy adopted by women is roughly as follows: First, no matter whether she is having an affair or not, her number of orgasms or orgasms after sexual intercourse remains the same as before (about 22% of them are orgasms).Second, a woman has an important weapon against her mate's reproductive strategy, which is to increase the number of her masturbation or dream orgasms, both of which are hidden from her mate because they occur in the dark. Find.Third, the secret weapon for women to help the lover's sperm overcome is to reduce the number of masturbation orgasms or dream orgasms before sexual intercourse, and at the same time increase the number of sexual orgasms with the lover, so as to open up the passage in the cervical mucus.But a woman's spouse has a hard time detecting her preference. Now we come to why concealing masturbation or dream orgasms is equally important for men and women.If a man can correctly detect when and how many times his spouse has had masturbation orgasm or dream orgasm in his daily routine sex life, then he can immediately notice when the spouse's above-mentioned orgasm pattern changes slightly The spouse is expecting an affair.Once a man finds out that his mate is sending out such warning signs, he will guard his mate more carefully, making it difficult for her to obtain sperm from other men.Therefore, a woman, like a man, whether her reproductive strategy can affect the sperm wars depends on whether she can secretly change the above two types of orgasm patterns without being discovered by her spouse.In other words, female masturbation and erotic dreams, like male masturbation and nocturnal emissions, must be carried out strictly and secretly.In addition, female masturbation and erotic dreams are associated with infidelity and sperm wars, and this connection makes women feel a subconscious need for secrecy and privacy.This is the same for men.In general, we cannot detect the masturbation patterns of others, which is evidence that reproductive strategies work.Just like all the reasons we mentioned in the previous explanation of male masturbation, most women feel the need to maintain confidentiality and privacy when it comes to masturbation. This is because women are usually curious, confused, and disgusted by masturbation. There is also a prejudice against masturbation. Of course, women won't always have orgasms in secret.Sometimes, like men, she will climax alone in front of her spouse, and then have sexual intercourse with her spouse.Sometimes a woman orgasms by masturbating in front of her partner, but in most cases she relies on her partner's assistance to orgasm.For example, we have explained one of the situations above - a woman will expect her spouse to give her oral sex to make her orgasm, but in general, men will only use their fingers to stimulate their spouse.Here the orgasm itself is important to the strategies of both men and women.Usually, an orgasm does not mean that the woman wants to give any information, nor does it mean that the man wants to get any information by smelling or licking the female genitals. As mentioned above, if a woman does not have sexual intercourse after publicly reaching an orgasm in front of her spouse, from the perspective of sperm preservation, this orgasm has exactly the same effect as a woman's masturbation orgasm in private or a dream orgasm.According to the study, all three types of orgasm can also enhance the filtering function of cervical mucus.Especially when obtaining these three kinds of orgasms, if the cervical reservoir already contains a large amount of sperm, the effect of this enhanced filtering function is even more significant.In other words, all three types of orgasm will also cause a woman to reduce the number of sperm left in her body during the next sexual intercourse.Even if the next intercourse occurs several days after orgasm, the effect is the same. For a man, witnessing or assisting his spouse to achieve such an orgasm can be reassuring.Assuming that a man's spouse will have sexual intercourse with another man the next day (such as with her lover, or being raped), then, at least at the moment of sexual intercourse, her cervical filtering function is still strong, Any sperm troops that enter her cervix at this point are wiped out.The above assumptions have long been engraved in the subconscious mind of men.Of course, men's strategies are not infallible.His spouse still had a way of countering his strategy, because the orgasms given to her by other men helped her open up the passage in the cervical mucus.In addition, there is another situation that is also very common: if the next time a man's spouse has sex with himself, his strategy will be backfired.In other words, a man who helps his partner strengthen the cervical filter only ends up using it against himself. As mentioned above, it is less favorable for a man to assist a woman to orgasm during foreplay on the whole.Because foreplay orgasms are different from the other intercourse orgasms we've explained above (ie, masturbation orgasms and dream orgasms), usually foreplay orgasms will always excessively reduce the partner's—not other men's— Sperm storage number.Another downside of foreplay orgasms is that the longer a man waits to penetrate, the more likely he is to miss out on ejaculation.Because while waiting for penetration, the two may be disturbed, or his spouse may change his mind and no longer want to have sex with him. As we've mentioned in many of the scenarios in this book, most men would rather have their penis inserted right away to start intercourse, and that's why they don't want to help their partners climax during foreplay.Women, however, have many benefits from foreplay orgasms (see Scenes 24-25), and in many cases they will ask men to help them achieve foreplay orgasms.Therefore, the degree of stimulation and the duration of stimulation provided by men to women in foreplay have become one of the important issues that men and women compete with each other in the process of sexual intercourse. A man is only willing to help a woman orgasm during foreplay if he has the least loss of himself.In other words, he will only provide female stimulation when the female cervical reservoir is completely empty of sperm, or when the male's upcoming sperm is unlikely to be involved in the sperm wars.It is also possible that a woman insists on not letting a man penetrate until she has a foreplay orgasm, in which case the man has little choice.Therefore, men are more willing to help their spouses get foreplay orgasms when they spend most of their time with their spouses, or when their spouses insist on having foreplay orgasms first.This conclusion is not surprising.In most cases, though, men will try to penetrate and ejaculate as quickly as possible, even if they help the woman get an orgasm first during foreplay.Because as long as the ejaculate occurs within a minute or two of a woman's orgasm, his sperm can still pass through the passageway in the cervical mucus. As we have shown many times in this book, the strategies that both sexes adopt for ejaculation and orgasm are almost entirely subconscious. Adjust in response.In fact, most of the behaviors mentioned in this book are subconscious. These behaviors are not the result of rational thinking, but the product of genetic programming.However, despite the importance of subconscious factors here, both sexes can learn through repeated "trial and error" how best to satisfy their feelings.A man has a lot to learn, from the basics of penetration to the subtleties of female orgasm.Women must learn how to orgasm, how to encourage men to help them achieve orgasm, when to fake orgasm, how to fake orgasm, and so on.The subjects that must be learned by both sexes include: How to commit infidelity?How to prevent a spouse from having an affair?How to choose the object (mate)?How to approach and seduce the chosen object?In addition, both sexes must learn how to avoid objects they do not want. While learning the above-mentioned techniques, we must take into account speed, perfection, and minimizing mistakes, and this learning ability will have an extremely important impact on our reproductive results.Below we will explain how men and women learn these necessary skills related to sexual behavior in scenes 27 to 29.