Chapter 29 Unintentional encounter, intentional affair.

——There are vines in the wild, and there are zero dews There are vines in the wild, and there are zero dews.There is a beautiful person, clear and graceful.Encounter, meet my wish. There are vines in the wild, with zero dew.There is a beautiful person, as graceful as Qingyang.Meet each other, and live together with your son. —— "Zheng Feng Wild Grass" In the evening, drink tea at Xinhua Street in the ancient city, the famous Aventure Street.Seeing crowds of people passing by like water, red men and dolls are like fish swimming in the deep sea, spying on each other with ambiguous and unspeakable expressions.Here, there is a default consensus that Aventure.So it's funny to see these people have the urgency of a beast, but look forward to an affair with the caution of a fish.For a moment, I wanted to escape this noisy occasion and leave with the sweet fragrance of Pu'er tea in my throat.

The shadows of the Qingshi alley shimmered, and I saw the lonely road on the way to the inn at night, and I remembered the little poem that I always liked very much: I am a cloud in the sky, Occasionally projected on your wave heart - You don't have to be surprised, let alone rejoice—— It disappeared in an instant. You and I meet on the sea of ​​night, You have yours, I have mine, direction; It's fine if you remember, or you'd better forget, The light that shines at this intersection. It is said that this little poem was written by Xu Zhimo in response to a poem by Lin Huiyin, comparing the encounter between him and Huiyin in England and even the world to the accidental meeting of two points on the sea in the dark night.Lin Huiyin rejected Xu Zhimo's courtship very rationally, and Zhimo also buried this love affair deeply in his heart. She will be his April day in the world until death.

An Aventure is meeting the right person in the right place, looking up with surprise, and the heart is full of flowers in an instant, just like a woman under the peach blossom tree. She didn't expect to meet anything, but she bumped into love when she raised her head.The man was standing not far away, she smiled, then lowered her head quickly, and asked, "So you're here too?" Although in the future that woman may be reduced to an old woman who cares about life, that delicate and refined man Maybe it's just a useless man with a cowardly heart who has been devastated in life.

This is Aventure, love is like fallen petals.But I don't know which petal will fall on me.But now, Yan Yu is an apple tree sticking out of the wall in the countryside. People with a little flexibility dare to climb up the wall to pick it, eat two bites before throwing it away, and too many people use the banner of love at first sight to cover up the flood of lust. The real love at first sight is like this - a man is walking in the field full of dog tail flowers, instead of sitting in the bar listening to Paganini's violin music, sipping red wine, his eyes are searching for the target like a radar, On the surface, he had to be indifferent; when he met a woman, she was dressed in plain clothes and had clear eyebrows, looking forward to the streamer, rather than deliberately dressed, coquettish, with charming eyes like silk; he held her hand instead of taking the opportunity to grab her He hugged her waist and approached her mouth; it was suitable for his heart, but he didn't think it was suitable for a one-night stand. He pulled her to the secret place just to whisper his lovesickness, not to make love immediately.

Compared with the entanglement between men and women in the present world, the love poems in this book are so pure and kind that it makes people's eyes hurt. The style of "Wild Grass" is really as fresh and natural as the wild grass swaying in the wind. The gist of the poem is this: The grass in the field is green and green, and the tip of the grass is glistening with dew. Meeting a beautiful woman with clear eyes is so beautiful, meeting by chance without agreement, so happy as one wishes. The grass is dense and green, and the dew in the grass is white. I met a beautiful woman with gentle and delicate eyebrows. I didn't make an appointment to meet her by chance, and I hid my heart with her.

The poem starts with vines, pointing out that the encounter is in the countryside full of weeds.It was a mid-spring morning, just before dawn, before sunrise.The air was fresh, and the dew was still hanging on the grass. At this time, in the silent wilderness, a woman walked leisurely, and was seen by a man who admired her.Behind the delicate and charming beauty is the delicate and charming dew. She is like a flower covered with dew, so beautiful that it makes one's heart soften.Her appearance made the ordinary field with bristlegrass become so beautiful. The scenes depicted in the poems are actually very simple and even ordinary, without deliberate embellishments and beautifications, but the simpler they are, the more directly they touch people's hearts.Flowers bloom on Moshang, women come slowly, and the artistic conception is infinite.This kind of love at first sight is really fascinating, and it has been copied and reproduced by later generations.

"There are vines and grasses in the wild, and there is nothing exposed." It creates a unique atmosphere for the following "Living with the Son".The previous annotations all understood "Zang" as "goodness" or "beauty". Only Mr. Wen Yiduo thought that "Zang" should be synonymous with "Tibet", which means "hidden". Mr. Wen Yiduo's opinion is quite different. Insightful and imaginative.Just imagine, when a man happens to meet a woman he has admired for a long time on the road, the surprise is self-evident, so the opportunity is not lost, the bold young man takes the girl's hand and hides in a secluded place, ready to sue her. Sincerely.

The face of the woman in the poem is not described too much, but it is still impressive.Her beautiful eyes are the main sign. "Clear and gentle, graceful as Qingyang." The eyes regard Qingming as the beauty, and Yang is also bright.The poem is cut and sung in a man's tone, but we can also get a glimpse of the woman's reaction from these eight characters.Affection needs to be stimulated and instigated, and the joy of the man also infected the woman. She was happy in her heart, looking forward to love, obviously it was the gratification of the two. We must absolutely support the freedom of intercourse between men and women, and we must absolutely believe in the saying that "eating and drinking men and women can save a man's great desire", and we must not be ashamed to refuse when we have the urge to completely own a person.Otherwise, it would not be as good as the bold men and women in "Zheng Feng" and "Qi Feng".For people two thousand years later, this is not progress, but regression.

It's just that we should know that there is a place in our hearts reserved for our sincerity, and it doesn't matter if you play flowers, as long as you are sure that you can still find the person who suits your wish when Qianfan is exhausted. When love fades away all traces, I hope that when I meet you, I meet you in a free and unobstructed wilderness, looking at each other cleanly like dew, my heart is in full bloom, and desire retreats like insects.Just like ordinary men and women in the countryside two thousand years ago. However, when an affair has become a vulgar version of love at first sight, how much heart do we have to carry the joy of a real affair? When we are used to being in a chaotic world and our minds are busy, even if love comes in miracles, can we still be able to survive? See with the clear eyes of a child?

After all, the two people who never tire of looking at each other in that wild country with vines are far away.We look at their backs, because we can't catch up, and feel desolate because we can't reach them. This kind of state of mind is like standing in front of an ancient painting and watching the people in the painting think silently. ——Later, Xu Zhimo said in a letter to Liang Qichao: I will find my only soul mate in the vast sea of ​​people.His courage to challenge the old-fashioned marriage is really commendable. He said that he will be the first person to divorce in China.I just feel sorry for his wife, Zhang Youyi.How miserable and depressing it is for a weak woman to be abandoned by her husband. The pain of marriage is hard for those of us who have not experienced it to understand and understand.After that, Lu Xiaoman was graceful, romantic and affectionate, which was exactly what Xu Zhimo wanted.But her extravagant spending and confused life made Zhimo exhausted from economic affairs. A generation of talented people died in a plane crash just to make money...

sigh! Love will not always be as sweet and innocent as it is written in the poem.She is not the innocent Snow White, maybe more like a vengeful ghost.It's a pity that what we often see is only the positive side of Fengyue Baojian, not the reverse side.It's okay to talk about love, I don't believe in this stuff for a long time.Love is cruel, but it is the feeling of passion for a certain period of time, or only when mutual appreciation and love, and when public activities and private life are harmonious, the relationship is long-term and can produce a feeling of attachment.Love exists, it does exist, but it is just a special passion in a certain period. To put it bluntly, it will not last forever like an orgasm, but it will give you good memories and feelings, but the time of love is relatively longer. .After the climax, I would rather believe that it is the affection of family and attachment.When love is transformed into family attachment, it is actually a rare beauty in the world.