Chapter 28 I have an appointment with you, but Zining won't come?

--Green Zijin, Youyouwoxin Green Zijin, Youyouwoxin.Even if I don't go, Zining doesn't listen? Qingqing Zipei, leisurely I think.Even if I don't go, Zining won't come? Xi Xi pick up in the city of Xi Que.If I don't see you in a day, it's like March. —— "The Book of Songs·Zheng Feng" Ruoyan's elegant longing, since thousands of years ago, belongs to the sentence in "The Book of Songs·Zheng Feng": "Qingqing Zijin, leisurely my heart." The beauty of this sentence lies in the four overlapping characters: "Qingqing" is vivid and colorful, and the spring light pours down the treetops "Yuyou" is like the end tune in an opera, with affection procrastinating between the lines.

His blue skirt dyed her thoughts blue.Missing has color, like the shadows of green trees on both sides of the river.Missing is like water, and a woman's heart is like a shadow.This sentence is astonishingly beautiful, especially the word "Yuyou", how lingering and long the thought is, which makes all the people who come later feel sympathetic.Because it's hard, we never get tired of having such a lasting yearning for a person. The long life of "yoyo" can satisfy our psychology of emotional exaggeration, and at the same time, it is not without naivety, hoping to get this kind of endless emotion from others.

Years later, a man embellished his ambition with these words.He told us that there are two more sentences behind this: "But for the sake of the king, I have pondered so far."Therefore, this yearning is like a plant implanted in the soil, fuller and more stable.Thousands of years later, the love of a passionate woman finds support in a man who is unparalleled in the world through words.This is not a consolation. An amorous woman from the state of Zheng was waiting for her lover in the city gate. She was eager to see through her eyes, but she couldn't see her lover. She walked back and forth anxiously, not only complaining that her lover didn't go on the date, but also complaining that he didn't even pass on the news.

She sang——Qingqing Zijin, leisurely my heart.Even if I don't go, Zining doesn't listen? Qingqing Zipei, I think leisurely.Even if I don't go, Zining won't come? Pick up and reach, stay in the city gate.If I don't see you in a day, it's like March. (You scholar of pure green clothes, your image is deeply lingering in my heart. Although I can’t find you, why don’t you take the initiative to message me? You scholar of pure green jade, I miss you all the time , Although I can’t go to you, why don’t you come to see me? I waited alone on the tower, and I didn’t see you for a day, like it’s been three months.)

Dating between men and women in ancient times was not free. Even if Zheng was a relatively open place, the degree of freedom is still different from that of modern people. Because opportunities are rare, dating is not so pretentious. Those who have the courage to see the opportunity and go out to date someone are all prepared to make a promise with their body and grow old together for life. It's a pity he didn't come.Her waiting was in vain.I didn't even have to think about it. Can't help but think of Nalan Rongruo's "Linjiang Immortal": Last night, I had a personal appointment, and Yan Chengyu leaked the third watch.A crescent moon and a few sparse stars.In the middle of the night, I still haven't slept, and the people are quiet and the mouse is peeping at the lamp.

It turned out that Qu Tang was blocking the wind and wrongly taught people to hate and be ruthless.There was no sound outside the small railing.At the place where the heart is broken several times, the wind blows and protects the flower bell. The mood of the woman in this word inevitably reminds people of "Zi Jin".The same is not waiting for people, the description in Rongruo's poems is delicate, and the external scenery is used to reflect the inner fluctuations and anxiety of the characters; while "Zi Jin" sheds all the body, omits all external descriptions, and uses the tone of a woman It is very different from the tactful and low-pitched "Linjiang Fairy" to express thoughts directly and frankly.

Compared with Zheng Nu in "Zijin", the woman in "Linjiang Fairy" is not miserable, at least she still has the excuse of "it was Qu Tang's obstruction, which made people hate and ruthless" to comfort herself.Sometimes, it may be a little comforting to know that his relapse was forced by outside interference.But if he changes his mind and shrinks back, just like Bu Feiyan's lover Zhao Xiang, usually you and I would like to melt our bodies into the water and be with you, there is me in you, and you in me, but When the critical moment comes, the oil on the soles of the feet slips faster than a mouse, how can it be human?

In case, unfortunately, he is such a man, you have given him affection, should you continue?Most women will shake their heads, just like we read the stories of Bu Feiyan and Bai Suzhen and sigh: A woman like you is talented and beautiful, and what kind of man can't fall in love with such a cowardly and incompetent man!However, when I was caught in it, it was another matter.Emotions are often a catharsis. People who seem to be invulnerable to all poisons and have high martial arts skills may not be able to withstand diarrhea. Love never understands fairness. It is normal for some families to be happy and others to be worried.The same is waiting, the woman in "The Wind and Rain" finally waits for her lover to return in the stormy evening, while the woman in "Zijin" does not see her lover's arrival for a long time.

Missing an appointment is something that makes people feel dizzy, like she is sitting in front of the window, facing the sea, her beautiful face is silent, knowing that he will not come again this year, just for a moment, the flowers wither, and the heart is broken without a trace. In the eyes of bystanders, Zheng Nv is close to the verge of falling out of love, at least because of a relationship problem.From her own narrative, it can be understood that the man has not come to her for a while, nor has he communicated with her.This unusual sign is most likely a change of heart for her lover.

It doesn't matter if you say she is crazy or stupid, love makes people blind and confused, it can disappoint people, but it can also give people infinite courage and confidence.She sang "A day gone, like March" can hear loss, but not despair. "A day without seeing is like March" is as popular as "Qingqing Zijin, leisurely my heart", which has been transformed into "A day without seeing is like three autumns" by later generations. From this we can see how touching this sentence is— ——How lingering is the longing, so that you can travel through the three autumns in one day, and when you arrive there, your hair is as white as your eyebrows.

We say that Zheng Nu is cute because she does not despair of her relationship, which is an attachment that we cannot achieve.Even at the end of the mountain, she still believed that she could see the garden of her dreams when she turned around this mountain pass.The poem does not explain why the man missed the appointment, and whether he came later.Not explaining, not explaining the ending, is also a kind of expectation. No news is good news.Maybe, she will get her wish, just like Fairy Zixia and Zhizunbao confronted each other on the top of the wall for three days, and finally revealed their feelings in the last kiss.