Chapter 22 Throw me papaya and give me Qiongju

Vote for me with papaya and reward with Qiongju.It is always good to report to the bandits. Vote for me with a peach, and give me Qiongyao.It is always good to report to the bandits. Vote for me with wood and plum, and return it with Qiong Jiu.It is always good to report to the bandits. —— "Wei Feng Papaya" Sajia has recently lost weight and is quite greedy, and I often subconsciously think of food.When I wrote "Papaya", I thought of the preserved Xuan papaya in my hometown, which is very sweet and nourishing.Li Shizhen wrote: "Papayas are found everywhere. The ones in Xuancheng are the best." The advertisements of the ancients were often concise and to the point, and a good word meant that they were different.It just so happens that the word "Jia" is suitable whether it is used to praise the papaya in my hometown or the "Papaya" in the ancient "Wei Feng".

The dating between men and women in ancient times was actually quite fun.According to "Zhou Li·Di Guan·Mei Shi": it is often chosen in the moon of mid-spring, and then men and women gather in a beautiful place and give each other fruits or flowers. .Everyone gathered together to hold a fruit and flower exchange party.The situation is very similar to the speed-dating salons or blind date conferences that people often hold together nowadays.For a while, I wondered how the tricks of the speed-dating shows on TV came up, and then I realized it was from. As for why it is more fun to choose the month of mid-spring, mid-spring is probably the most prosperous season in the eyes of the ancients, when the flowers and plants are fresh and everything is moist, it is the time when the yin and yang of the world are in harmony, and young men and women are also prone to emotions at this time, so It is natural for them to communicate and find a partner, adhering to the cycle of heaven.This custom is still maintained in some places, and people in some places even like to have sex with men and women when it rains and fogs, thinking that it is the mating of heaven and earth when it rains and fogs.This is not entirely nonsense, the theory in the "Su Nu Jing" is like this-the heaven and the earth intersect to give birth to all things, and the intercourse of men and women gives birth to children.

It is said that "Papaya" is the best among similar poems describing lovers' gifts, not because its ballad evolved into a word that is familiar to later generations - reciprocate, not because it is the word "Qiong Yao" that people are familiar with today source.The benefits of this poem may not be obvious when viewed alone, but it is just that the young man responded to the girl's love and happily gave back his matching jade, expressing his desire to be with the girl for a long time.If you compare it with "Zhaonan · Youmei", you can feel the difference in more detail.

"摽有梅" is like this: There are plums, but they are actually seven.Beg me, a common man, to be lucky. There are plums, but in fact there are three.I beg my common man, let me go now. There are plums, and they are all in a basket.Ask me to be a common man, let him call it. On a good day when a man and a woman are legally dating, a woman throws the fruit she brought to the man she likes, and sings a love song boldly and frankly: plums are falling on the branches, and there are still 70% left on the tree!Pursue my boy, don't miss the good time!Plums are falling from the branches, and only 30% are left on the tree!Chasing my young man, today is a good day!All the plums fell, let him take all the baskets!Boy who pursues me, girl, wait for you to open your mouth!

Girls are always like this, even if they fall in love with a boy first, they hope that the boy will open up to chase after him. In this way, their self-esteem and face will be satisfied, like the woman in the poem, who has clearly expressed her affection, but The man who is always inspiring his favorite speaks first, as if there is no goalkeeper in the restricted area on the field, just waiting for someone else to come and kick the goal. It is also because men take the initiative in this mentality, so people will be more accustomed to and prefer "Papaya".In fact, it’s good to read these two poems together. Both are inspired by fruits; both are in the kind of collective dating place, expressing love with songs.The difference is that "Papaya" is a man pleasing a woman, and "摽有梅" is a woman pleasing a man.

Watching "摽有梅", I was really worried about the passionate girl, and at the end of the poem, I didn't say whether the boy she liked had any response.If the younger sister has a lover and has no intentions, it is somewhat regrettable, after all, it is not easy for a girl to take the initiative.After watching "Papaya", I feel very at ease. The woman threw fruit, and the man soon responded with a clear and enthusiastic response—I gave me a papaya, and I returned it with Qiongju.It is always good to report to the bandits.Vote for me with a peach, and give me Qiongyao.It is always good to report to the bandits.Vote for me with wood and plum, and return it with Qiong Jiu.It is always good to report to the bandits.

Or don't care about the region at all, just think, the crush who threw the plums and the elder brother who gave the jade are from the same place. One day, they met at a large local gathering of men and women. Throw, I inspire and inspire again, and finally let that brother make a move.At first glance, this girl is not bad, since she is interested in me, then I don't hesitate. So he took off the jade pendant on his body and handed it to the girl—My, girl, let's start this relationship immediately. We are all good people.I am happy to see two people in love, and lovers get married.As soon as the man said that he thought it was good, he began to be happy-seeing a good thing and it was done.What's more, this young man is an honest and generous master.People gave him fruits, and he gave them jade in return. He has an advanced awareness of the inequality in gift giving between men and women!commendable.

As I write this, some boys must be depressed, why?You girls dare to go out on a date with a fruit basket on your back. If you really can’t find someone you like, you can just have a fruit picnic. It’s all an outing, and the cost of dating is so low.We male compatriots, at the last time, we have to order "Qiong Yao" or "Qiong Jiu" as a return gift. Although it is inferior jade, it is still silver! It can't be blamed that our girls are too stingy and know how to plan carefully. This is how it was stipulated in ancient customs!A woman only needs to throw the ripe fruit to the man she likes, which is an expression of courtship.As for what kind of fruit it is, there is no limit on the official document!My personal opinion is that those with strong strength and confidence are more accurate in throwing papayas and peaches, while those with weak hands like me who don’t feel good about throwing things throw plums and plums.Not to mention hurting the lover, or hitting someone else by mistake, it is wrong to hurt the flowers and plants.Or throw the big ones at the beginning, and then throw them away when you get tired of playing. This is called spreading the net generally and focusing on training.

The poem "Papaya" is really wonderful!It not only shows us the dating style of ancient people, but also teaches us to know how to reciprocate and reciprocate.The most important thing is to have this historical document to testify, which can fundamentally and greatly protect the interests of women.That is, if you give your boyfriend a razor, he will at least return you a bottle of Issey Miyake. As a creditor, he is confident.Haven't you heard how it was sung in "Papaya" - Bandits report it, and I always think it's good.Translated into modern dialect, how can this little meaning express my love for you? It just means that I want to associate with you.

Strongly advocate modern men to learn from the consciousness of the ancients.