Chapter 37 Family Hexagram (37th) Sunda up and down

"Family": Li privet. "彖" says: "Family", women are in the right place. It is called two. The male is in an upright position. It is called five. Men and women are upright, the righteousness of heaven and earth is also.There is a strict ruler in the family, which is also called parents.Fathers and fathers, sons, brothers, younger brothers, husbands and wives, and husbands and wives will have a righteous family, and if the family is upright, the world will be settled. "Xiang" says: wind comes out of fire, "family".A gentleman is persevering in his words and in his deeds.

The reason why the fire is strong is the wind; when the fire is strong, the wind comes out.The reason why the family is upright is me; the family is upright and I am with it. Ninth day: Having a home at leisure, regretting death. "Xiang" said: "There is a home at leisure", and the ambition has not changed. In the way of the family, being lenient hurts righteousness, and fierceness hurts kindness.But is it inappropriate?Said: "A gentleman has substance in his words and perseverance in his actions." To the end, there is substance in words, and persistence in deeds!Although there are shrews and violent children, none of them dare not be respectful, and they have not abandoned their kindness, so this is the best.Zeng Zi said: "There are three things that are most important to a gentleman: moving his appearance, he will be far away from being slow; being upright in color, he will be more trustworthy; and his words will be far more contemptible." If so, where is the leisure?The use of the ninth day was just at the beginning of the family, and the use of the ninth day was just at the completion of the family, so everyone has regrets.The reason why the husband is "idle"?But virtue is not enough.If virtue is not enough, but if you forget to be idle, your will will change.And it has not changed and is idle, so "regret death".

Sixty-two: Wuyousui, giving in the middle, Zhenji. "Xiang" said: "Auspicious" on June 2 is also "Xun" along with it. If there is middle-feeding, but nothing will happen, this is the righteousness of a woman. Ninth Three: The family is full of regrets, auspicious.The woman is hee hee, always stingy. "Xiang" said: "Family is slamming", and it is not lost. "Woman hee hee", also means the festival of losing home. Using the yang to live in the yang is too much use of rigidity, so it is regrettable and dangerous.People see that they are regretful and dangerous, but if they try to be lenient, the family will be ruined.Therefore, tell Yisi people that they will be lucky in the end, and abstain from being stingy in the end of infidelity.

June Fourth: Rich family, good luck. "Xiang" said: "The rich family is lucky", and Shun is in power. "Family" has four yangs and two yins, and the yins do not lose their place, so as to listen to the yangs.The yang governs and the yin listens to it, and the family desires cannot be ruled out.The rich governed extremely well, so June 2 "Zhenji" was its rule; June 4 "rich family" was its extreme.If you manage extreme wealth, you will be rich for a long time, which is called "great auspiciousness". Ninth Five-Year: Wang Jia has a family, so don't sympathize, auspicious.

"Xiang" said: "A king has a family", and he loves each other. "Fake", to also.Wang Zhi has a family, but the family is also big.The king regards the world as one family, and the "family" family is close to each other, and the family of the world is far away but forgets each other. Knowing that the trouble lies in mutual profanity, so the strict farewell is to preserve the meaning of forgetting each other, knowing that the trouble lies in forgetting each other. and also.Therefore, the simple "don't shirt" expresses the feeling of mutual love. "Family" has four yangs, but only ninety-five people have the virtue of a monarch, so it is called his virtue and discusses the family of the world.The emperor and his ministers want him to be like a father and son, and the father and son want him to be like a king and his ministers. This is the meaning of a sage.

Upper Nine: Youfu, Prestige, and Final Auspiciousness. "Xiang" said: "Auspicious" in "weiru" is also called reflexive. Those who believe in the upper nine are three.Those who have no response from family members are only three and the top.Everyone is hard and soft, but I am the only one who is strong and soft (1), so I will never forget fear throughout my life.Fear of power is like disease, and the people are above them, so those who are afraid of others are also afraid of them, and those who are arrogant about others are also arrogant. This is called "reflexive".Those who say the end, the beginning is not necessarily. "Woman hee hee", the beginning is pleasant;

(college note) (1) The only two have just met each other: "Su Shiyi Zhuan" says "the only two have just met", which is wrong.