Chapter 33 Bian Mengfei said: I am already an adult, I will not follow anyone (1)

In the family, Bian Mengfei is the youngest among those born in the mid-1970s to the 1980s, but his seniority is the oldest. According to the rules, Bian Huan, Bian Hu, Dong Anfan, and Bian Hong all call Bian Mengfei uncle of.But they were born in the city and grew up in the open period. Since they were sensible, they only recognized their age. No one would call Bian Mengfei, who was younger or about the same age, as an elder. They just called "Bian Mengfei" directly.If occasionally the elders corrected them and said that they should be called cousins, they would cover their mouths with joy, or stick out their tongues with mockery and disdain, and would not take what the elders said seriously at all.The contemptuous attitude of the children makes the elders feel old, so they just say a word.Bian Mengfei, like his "junior generation", did not know how to disobey the seniority relationship, so he promised clearly and simply.The children are used to it, and the parents follow suit, so they won't get entangled in this kind of issue.The use of this kind of seniority is only talked about when the elders introduce it to outsiders, and it is in vain.

In the years of growing up, Bian Mengfei's life was as independent as his seniority, and he was not on the same line as them.There are several aspects of difference.First of all, Bian Mengfei's parents were by his side, but he didn't grow up by his parents' side.His parents, Bian Jinrong and Quan Chan, are self-employed. When he was born, his parents' beef noodle restaurant was about to expand. His parents were busy all day, eating and living in the noodle restaurant. He rarely felt the love of his parents at that time.He was taken by his grandma. Occasionally, when his mother came back one night, she hurriedly hugged him and slept all night.It was mainly for the mother to breastfeed him.After he was one and a half years old, he completely weaned off breast milk and replaced it with formula or milk.Since he doesn't need breast milk, his mother seldom visits him, especially his father Bian Jinrong.When he was three years old, his parents opened a clothing store again, and each of them took care of a store, which made him even busier.Parents don't have their own house, so they live in the bungalow they rented, which is naturally close to their front door, but far away from Bian Mengfei's grandma's house.Parents are busy getting up early and returning home late, and their daily work is inseparable from human work. In order to save time and energy, they usually live in their rented house. It is difficult for them to take time to go back to see him, let alone take care of him personally.Parents work as individuals, there are no Sundays and holidays, but they are busier on Sundays and holidays.Parents don't have time to visit him, but grandma wants to take him to restaurants and clothing stores to visit his parents.When he was in the first grade of elementary school, his father had just opened the Hezhong Restaurant, and it was when he was very busy. His parents gave his tuition and living expenses to his grandma, and he went to his school and picked him up. The task of going to and from school is all the business of grandma and grandpa.Thanks to his grandma and grandpa who are just in their early 60s and able to run while picking up and dropping off their children, otherwise he would be a huge problem for his parents.Parents are worried about hiring a nanny. If it is a group of human traffickers, the result can be imagined.

Father's Hezhong restaurant is very prosperous, and the family is getting richer and richer.But my parents still didn't have their own house (because there were no commercial houses for sale at this time), and they still lived in rented houses, but they changed from bungalows to buildings.His father was rich. When Bian Mengfei was in the third grade of primary school, he was transferred to a key boarding primary school. His parents were less worried about him, but more at ease.When he was in the fourth grade of elementary school, his parents gave birth to a younger sister, Bian Mengjia. The younger sister's life as a child was basically repeating his past.It’s just that the living conditions have taken a bigger leap forward. My younger sister has a nanny to take care of me, which saves my grandparents the trouble; my younger sister sleeps in a high-end crib, rides in a high-end stroller, drinks imported milk powder, and has many high-end toys and dolls. And many other goodies that he didn't enjoy as a kid.

The superiority in life is the second difference between Bian Mengfei and them.When he was in the first grade of elementary school, his parents already had a lot of savings. They couldn't be with him often, and they used it to make up for him. Good, drink well, and give him some pocket money.Most of the money was handed over to Bian Mengfei's grandmother and told her to arrange it.The old people are all serious people. If the children's money is called to be spent by the grandson, it will be spent by the grandson.For a long time, Bian Mengfei has always been the most elegant among his classmates, from wearing clothes and hats, learning utensils, to bringing food and drinks, pocket spending, and later his living standard in the boarding primary school.He also has roller skates and walkmans that many of his classmates don’t have. In his spare time at school, he often listens to pop songs, chews gum in his mouth, and skates freely on his feet. He looks free and proud, like a playground A landscape that envies the classmates.The classmates envied him very much, and if any classmate made a request to his parents, he would always use Bian Mengfei as an example.In the family, apart from Bian Hong, Dong Anfan, Bian Huan, and Bian Hu all envied him very much, and thought it would be great if their parents were so rich.

In other people's minds, Bian Mengfei has a good life, so he must be spoiled and proud, so he doesn't know how to study hard.actually not.The superiority in life did not make Bian Mengfei feel that he has advantages everywhere, because his parents accompanied him less and took him to school even less since he was a child, and he was actually a little envious of other classmates in his heart.He doesn't take all the "good" things his parents give him seriously. He understands their parents' compensatory psychology, and he doesn't think there is anything to envy about them.He also felt that outsiders could see this, so he just felt that he was not as good as his classmates.He will learn to work hard to show that he is no worse than others.His studies are fine.

In Bian Mengfei's heart, his parents are not like his parents, they are more like his relatives, who can be close and free, but also have a distance.He is not afraid of his parents, nor can he not disrespect them, as if there is an instinctive polite element asking for them.His parents did not "favor" him, and he was not "pretty" in front of them; the reason he obeyed his parents was that they were his adults, and children should naturally obey adults.Therefore, his personality is two-faced. When playing with his classmates, he belongs to the character that can make trouble, which is the character of his father when he was a child; but when he is in front of his parents, he can't help being a little quiet, which is the kind of deliberate restraint that is not familiar enough.In his eyes, father and mother are not like a husband and wife, they are also like relatives, they are polite but close and casual when they meet each other.The most important thing is that there are two single beds in the parents' bedroom, which is what he has seen since he can remember.And other people's parents have a double bed.As a child, he vaguely felt that there were some things between parents that were different from other people's parents. He couldn't imagine what that "thing" was.When he was in the sixth grade of elementary school, an unexpected discovery gave him a direction to guess.

After school that afternoon, Bian Mengfei didn't want to eat the school dinner, but wanted to go out to eat rougamo and kebabs. He generously offered a treat and took two classmates to accompany him.As soon as he walked out of the alley where the school was located, he saw his father, Bian Jinrong, who was getting off a Santana taxi parked across the road. Immediately afterwards, another beautiful young woman with long hair came out of the car.One of the father's hands is holding the beautiful woman's hand, and the other is carrying a bulging plastic bag with the name of the store printed on it.They walked towards the road, Bian Mengfei immediately hid his head behind his classmates.But from time to time, he turned his head to look at his father and the woman.After the father and the woman entered the alley, Bian Mengfei told his classmates that he didn't want to eat, they wanted to go.After all, he turned around and ran back.He ran into the alley, keeping a distance behind his father.The father and the beautiful woman are still holding hands, looking intimate.He knew that his father came to school to give him snacks. His parents had done this several times. Once, his mother Quan Chan came. Bian Mengfei thought, when his mother came, would there be some other man by her side?This kind of association was produced involuntarily, and it was completely in accordance with the thinking mode of analogy.

When he arrived at the school gate, the woman stayed at the gate, and his father entered the school alone. Bian Mengfei knew that it was because his father didn't want him to see the woman.Walking to the school gate, Bian Mengfei deliberately turned his head to take a good look at the woman.The woman was beautiful and friendly, and smiled at him.Bian Mengfei pursed his lips, wanted to laugh but didn't, because he deliberately controlled it.He couldn't laugh with such a woman who could hold his father's hand, which should only be held by his mother, he thought.Seeing his father, his father patted him on the shoulder as usual, told him to eat well, study well, sleep well, and left.After his father left, Bian Mengfei thought, where will the father and the woman go?He couldn't imagine, but he could feel that it must be an unknown place, just like his father couldn't let him know about this woman.Fortunately, his father and mother are like his relatives. He will not be too concerned about how his father is and how his mother is, let alone ask.I know what's in my heart, but I don't pretend to be in my heart like pretending to be my own business.It's been three years since I took this matter to heart again.

Three years later, in the summer of 1998, Bian Mengfei successfully entered high school.When Bian Mengfei was in the second grade of junior high school, his father Bian Jinrong bought the first batch of commercial housing in Lanzhou. The house was very large, with three bedrooms and one living room.With their own house, the family lived together completely.With his own home, Bian Mengfei has grown up again, and no longer needs an adult to pick him up and drop him off at school.After entering middle school, he stopped going to boarding school, and just like all his classmates, he went home to live and eat at home every day, and lived a normal family life.The family hired a nanny, someone took care of the younger sister, and someone did the housework and meals.The nanny is a laid-off female worker. She knows the basics and can rest assured of everything.Quan Chan can go home on time every day, and the time is relatively fixed, basically around eight o'clock, because fashion stores close at seven o'clock.But Bian Jinrong's restaurant closed at an irregular time, and it was always very late. Therefore, Bian Jinrong sometimes came back, sometimes he didn't come back, and lived in his office.Bian Jinrong's office is decorated like a hotel suite, with a decent style, where people live inside and work outside.His wife Quan Chan has long been used to this habit.At first, his son Bian Mengfei felt a little weird about his father coming home today and not coming home tomorrow. After finally coming back, his father also left early and returned late. Often, Bian Mengfei only heard his father’s voice when he was lying on the bed. Sometimes he woke up early in the morning. , I only heard my mother say that my father had come back, it was time for him to sleep, and I didn't know anything.His father gave him the impression not only of a tourist, but of a ghost.In this way, he gradually got acquainted with his mother, but became more and more unfamiliar with his father.After getting acquainted with his mother, his mother, like all the mothers he thought, would frequently greet him, tell him details, nag about things, care about his life, and pay attention to his studies.Like most children with strong personalities, he doesn't like his mother's so-called petty behavior of loving him, but he likes her mother's way of doing things, thinking that this is what a mother looks like.Gradually, I no longer feel like a relative to my mother; but my father doesn't even feel like a relative.That's it, he will naturally deepen his feelings for his mother.Bian Mengfei didn't think much about his father's appearance, and gradually got used to it as the days went by.It's just that there is no way to improve the feelings for the father; but it can't go down any further, and it will always be a little numb.A year later, Bian Mengfei took the senior high school entrance examination.

One day during the summer vacation after the senior high school entrance examination, near dusk, Bian Mengfei and a few classmates finished playing games in the game hall. They were still very interested in playing games, so Bian Mengfei proposed to invite the students to the newly opened Longsheng Snack Street for snacks.The students were naturally elated.They took the bus for two stops to Longsheng Snack Street.Their rule is to buy only one portion of a snack, and share it with each other, so that you can taste many varieties.So they don't sit down at any stall, and wander around to another stall after eating.While wandering around, a classmate took a picture of Bian Mengfei, pointed to a seat at a stall opposite and said: Isn’t that your dad?Bian Mengfei took this classmate to his father's restaurant to find his father, so the classmate knew Bian Jinrong.Bian Mengfei looked along and saw his father.It was still dark, and people could see clearly.The father and a beautiful young woman sat opposite each other, sideways to them.The father didn't eat, he smoked a cigarette, smiled and watched the beautiful woman across from him eat, and they said something from time to time.The woman has long hair and a pair of sunglasses on top of her head.The classmate had never met Bian Mengfei's mother, so he thought the woman opposite Bian Jinrong was Bian Mengfei's mother, and exclaimed, "Your mother is so young and beautiful!"Bian Mengfei pushed his classmate and said unhappily: "Go, go, that's your mother!"Bian Mengfei furrowed his brows, then unfurled them immediately, took out 30 yuan from his trouser pocket, and handed it to one of his classmates, saying that they should continue eating, as he wanted to find something to do with his father.The classmate took Bian Mengfei's money and went on to eat snacks happily.Bian Mengfei was afraid that his father would see him, so he deliberately went around his father's back, facing the woman opposite him.Bian Mengfei felt that the woman looked familiar. After thinking about it hard, he remembered that when he was in the boarding school in the sixth grade of elementary school, it was this woman who went hand in hand with his father to visit him at school.Thinking of the past, he suddenly felt that there was a secret relationship between father and woman.He felt a sudden surge of hatred, both for his father and for women.I thought my father always came and went in a hurry at home, when did he stay at home so slowly!He resented that a woman could enjoy the time her father gave her.He bit his lower lip, determined to find out what was going on between the father and the woman.He decided to follow his father.

Bian Meng was smart and couldn't wait stupidly. He sat down at the adjacent stall, ordered a few skewers of mutton skewers, and waited while eating.He thinks he's cool, like a private detective.What an abomination to a woman, she eats so slowly, and her father waits on her with such patience and energy.The sky darkened again, and it was almost dark, so the father and the woman got up and walked.The father and the woman are holding hands again, looking very intimate.Bian Mengfei bit his lip, anger gathered in his heart, he really wanted to throw stones at them, make a big bump on the back of their heads, and make them make a fool of themselves. Bian Mengfei's follow-up was very successful and rewarding.After the father and the woman bought a watermelon, they entered Longsheng Garden on the street behind the snack street, entered Building No. 1, which was very close to the gate, entered Unit 3, went up to the third floor, and entered Room 303.The woman took out the key to open the door, there is no doubt that this is the woman's home.Bian Mengfei seemed to be blocked by something in his heart, and he didn't know what to think for a while.Afterwards, a great grievance came to my heart, as if he was abandoned here by his father.His eyes were watery, and then wept.He wiped his tears and went down the steps.He stood downstairs, looking at the lighted window of Room 303, his mouth puffed up, looking aggressive.He wants to wait for his father to come out and ask for an explanation!The sky was full of stars, and he got a little impatient to count. When he looked at the window of 303 again, the light had already been turned off.He thought that this window was not the only one, and he had no way of knowing which one was at the back of the building.He looked at the watch on his wrist, it was past twenty-two o'clock.His stomach was rumbling with hunger, and he didn't have the strength to wait any longer.As he walked out, he thought hard, let's see what time his father will come home at night, and see what he will tell his mother!Even if he fell asleep and couldn't hear it, he could ask his mother the next day.If what the father told the mother was wrong, he told the truth to the mother.He thought angrily, no wonder his father came home like a ghost at night! As a result, Bian Mengfei knew everything after just a few mouthfuls of food when he returned home.The mother said something to the father, called the father, and asked the father if he would be back at night.Father said he couldn't come back and lived in the office of the restaurant.Seeing his mother hang up the phone, Bian Mengfei also dropped his chopsticks, and couldn't help telling the truth, not only told the truth, but also told his mother the detailed location of his father.Mother stayed in surprise for a long time.Without saying anything, he turned around and left.Soon, my mother took off her pajamas and put on plain clothes.He only told Bian Mengfei to go to bed early, and left in a hurry.Bian Mengfei knew what his mother was going to do without guessing.He wasn't worried or nervous at all, and didn't think about what unexpected things would happen because of this, but he felt a kind of complacency in his heart, thinking that his father was about to change, and he could not be blamed. Bian Mengfei didn't expect that his "informant" not only failed to change his father, but caused a complete separation between father and mother.The events of that day were a trigger.Fortunately, he passed the high school entrance examination, otherwise it might affect his performance in the high school entrance examination. That day, Quan Chan came to find her husband, asking for trouble.She was in Building 1, Unit 3, Room 303 of Longsheng Garden, saw her husband's heartless expression, and heard her husband's frank confession of his love for that beautiful woman.It has been four years since the husband and that beautiful woman got back together!She wanted to swear, but she didn't utter a suitable swear word; compared with young beautiful women, she looked so old and ugly, she looked imposing, but in fact she was very inferior; she was "old", and the past The vigor was gone, and she wanted to slap and humiliate them, but she had no strength in her body and couldn't do it; she was getting old, but Bian Jinrong was going to leave her, she couldn't figure it out!Her heart was helpless, and she, who was originally a strong character, shed fragile tears. That day, Bian Jinrong couldn't figure it out either. He thought: How did Quan Chan know about him?Especially how did he know about Longsheng Garden?He thought that night might be the most embarrassing night of his life.He thought that the same exposure, confessing himself and being approached in this way, are completely different in nature.It's a shame to be caught.He looked at the beautiful woman he loved curled up on the sofa, saw her glazed eyes and lost her previous expression, Bian Jinrong thought: her mood must be worse than his own, maybe she felt hopeless. After Quan Chan left, it was already late at night.Bian Jinrong and the beautiful woman fell silent for a while.In the silence of the night, the air was numb and indifferent, and they were trapped in it, as if they couldn't feel their own existence. The woman Bian Jinrong loves is Shi Hongling.From four years ago to now, Bian Jinrong and Shi Hongling are as good as ever, and Shi Hongling has already fallen in love with Bian Jinrong from the bottom of her heart; she can hardly let go of Bian Jinrong.It was they who helped each other step by step to get to this point.At first, Shi Hongling was taken away by Bian Jinrong. Her obedience to Bian Jinrong came from her admiration for Bian Jinrong. The gentleness presented unconsciously made her appreciate it, and she liked it accordingly.I like it but it doesn't rise to the level of love. Love is a state that can only be immersed in deep affection.What's more, Bian Jinrong is a man with a family, and it is a detour to try to overcome such a barrier.But Bian Jinrong and Shi Hongling have almost the same mentality. He likes such a beautiful woman, and his instinct is uncontrollable.He only needs this woman to give him a happy life; all he can do is to be worthy of her and treat her better when they are good; he has no intention of letting this woman infiltrate him An established family life has been established.In this way, Bian Jinrong and Shi Hongling, relying on their sensibility, felt it regardless of indiscriminately. In addition to the mutual appreciation of the senses, the calm relationship they maintain temporarily also has psychological capital as the basis for each other.That is, Shi Hongling is in her youth, and she can afford to waste her age; Bian Jinrong has financial strength and can afford her "conscience".They all thought that if they were new to each other for a while, they would be bored, and then continue to go their own ways without affecting each other.The situation is not as simple as they think, the better they are, the more they like it; the more familiar they are, the more they appreciate it.It feels like it has been added layer by layer on the basis of the original.They have a tacit understanding in their hearts, and they have a tacit understanding in everything; a tacit understanding is the greatest happiness, which makes them yearn for it all the time.They are not willing to abandon each other easily.After more than a year of dating, they finally said the word "love" to each other.Love is obsessive and sinking, love makes them never look back, and they still don't care about injustice. Shi Hongling is not a person without thoughts or brains, she has pursuits, and she doesn't want to be always supported by Bian Jinrong.She wants to have something she likes to do.She likes children and is good at singing and dancing. Her ideal is to be an excellent kindergarten teacher.However, she failed the entrance examination for kindergarten teachers, and her dream was not realized.Bian Jinrong did what he liked and actively supported it.Two years after they got married, he paid for Shi Hongling to go to a normal college to study early childhood education for two years.He said that after Shi Hongling graduated from school, she first went to work in a standardized kindergarten for a year. After accumulating some practical experience, he invested in Shi Hongling and opened a high-level kindergarten. The kindergarten will be fully owned by Shi Hongling. Just do what she likes.Shi Hongling said "yes" happily, thinking that Bian Jinrong was so kind to her and really loved her. In the eyes of Bian Jinrong's friends, Shi Hongling was nothing more than Bian Jinrong's "love child". Bian Jinrong, like many rich businessmen, was just using money to buy enjoyment.When Bian Jinrong fell in love with Shi Hongling, when a friend laughed and talked about such a topic, Bian Jinrong would not shy away from it and express his true feelings for Shi Hongling with a serious face.Friends disdain, not only do not envy, but also kindly persuade him to "rein on the brink", so as not to ruin the great cause he created.He also said that there is no woman who does not love money, and Shi Hongling is only in love with Bian Jinrong's money.Bian Jinrong said nonchalantly that Shi Hongling loves his money because he loves his people; if he has no money, he is just a coward with no ability. Isn't there something wrong with a beautiful woman like Shi Hongling who loves a coward?Then he explained that loving money is not the same as seeking money, Shi Hongling and him definitely did not seek his money.Friends naturally didn't believe his words, saying that what he did was different from others, so let's wait and see whether it is good or bad.Bian Jinrong smiled disdainfully and said, as a person, he likes to do things that are different from others, since he was a child. Bian Jinrong firmly believed that Shi Hongling was not a money-seeking woman, and he did not show it off, but he judged it through the accumulated observations and feelings with Shi Hongling.As soon as they got married, Shi Hongling never asked him for money or things, and he offered her money and things, that was his business.Moreover, every time Shi Hongling accepted his money and things, there would always be a trace of embarrassment and helplessness on her face.Shi Hongling's helplessness is that she has nothing to do and can only accept Bian Jinrong's "support"; if he asks Shi Hongling what she wants, Shi Hongling always shakes her head and says that she doesn't need anything, in a very polite manner; Shi Hongling never asks How much money he has, and he doesn't care how much money he earns every month.A person can pretend for ten days or a month, but it is difficult to pretend for more than a year.Even if those were all fakes, but one time, Shi Hongling's behavior convinced him of Shi Hongling's judgment beyond doubt.That time, because Shi Hongling had dinner with one of her high school male classmates who came to Lanzhou on a business trip and came back late, Bian Jinrong was a little jealous and suspicious, and the two had an awkward relationship.Shi Hongling was wronged, and then disappeared without a sound.It wasn't until half a month later that a friend saw her at the service desk in the lobby of the Xihe Hotel, and they didn't know that she was self-reliant.If it wasn't for Bian Jinrong's timely rescue, he and Shi Hongling would have lost everything.This incident made Bian Jinrong look at Shi Hongling with admiration; if Shi Hongling was someone who wanted his money, she would not have left quietly, and would have found a reason to ask him for a sum of money.Shi Hongling's character has never changed, and it is still the same in the past four years.Such a good woman, Bian Jinrong can only love more and more.He loves Shi Hongling sincerely and with all his heart.Feeling Bian Jinrong's true love for her, Shi Hongling couldn't leave Bian Jinrong more and more.They follow the day, and the day drags them on for a day, and they just live a day, and they still don't care about it. Now, Quan Chan has approached the door and knew everything about them.They had to face the problem they always avoided. In the silent late night, they poured out the truth to each other.In the silence, the words are spoken loudly. Bian Jinrong said that he loved Shi Hongling, but never thought of marrying her.He has two kids and he doesn't want his whole family to fall apart. Shi Hongling said calmly that she never thought of asking Bian Jinrong to marry her, as long as she loves him, she is willing to follow Bian Jinrong for life without knowing her identity. Shi Hongling's words made Bian Jinrong ashamed.He thought, he loves Shi Hongling, why should Shi Hongling be with him for the rest of his life without knowing his identity?Having reached this point, wouldn't it be ridiculous to live with Quan Chan hypocritically? Bian Jinrong has made a decision, and Quan Chan has also made preparations.She absolutely does not agree to divorce.Even if Bian Jinrong no longer has a place in her heart, she would rather stand in the latrine and not shit, than give up her place to that bitch. See how she feels! The collapse of parental relationship made Bian Mengfei hate him, his father, and the woman who lived in Longsheng Garden!No matter how indifferent he was to his father, he didn't want his parents to divorce.He is not his father, but his middle school student's face.A student whose parents are divorced is easy to get people to criticize and talk about it; even if he doesn't say bad things, he won't have a good word; in addition, he has no father, which means he is half a head shorter than others.He hated and wanted revenge.His father had already separated from his mother publicly, and it was not easy to retaliate against him if he didn't go home when he had nothing to do.All he thought of was to take revenge on the woman who took his father away.He thought, his father must often live in Longsheng Garden, taking revenge on that woman, maybe it is equivalent to taking revenge on his father, killing two birds with one stone! Bian Mengfei is a student who has just graduated from junior high school, and the means of revenge he can have are very elementary.He bought a box of braised beef instant noodles and a bottle of white pepper.He took out the oil sauce packets from each bag of instant noodles, opened them one by one, and squeezed them into a plastic bag; then he went straight to Longsheng Garden with a plastic bag of oil sauce packets and pepper powder.In front of the house where Shi Hongling lives.While there was no one in the corridor, he smeared the sauce on the lock handle of the anti-theft door and its surrounding area, and then sprinkled a layer of pepper on it. He knew that this low-level pediatric method would not have any punitive effect. He wanted to imitate the clever boy in the American movie "Home Alone" and toss out all kinds of amazing punishment methods. It was only in reality that he realized that those were all fantasies, fabrications, and exaggerations. In fact, it was difficult to do. arrive.His purpose is to give the woman and the father a heavy blow psychologically, so that they will lose their appetite and can't eat!After successfully smearing it, Bian Mengfei thought that in three days, he would bring a pack of dog poop and let them touch the poop again and smell the smell of it.After that, his viciousness will increase. He will use a toothpick to plug the door lock and see how they get in.He did what he said, and three days later, he came to the door with dog shit again, and he couldn't help being surprised. The layer of oil sauce and pepper powder on the anti-theft door was still the same, especially on the door lock and lock handle. , without the slightest appearance of being touched.Just as he was wondering, the neighbor next door poked his head out and told him that the people in 303 had moved out.The house is temporarily unoccupied.When Bian Mengfei heard this, he felt defeated and was so discouraged that he really wanted to paste all the shit in the bag on the door.He gritted his teeth even more at his father. Retaliation failed, but the desire to retaliate was retained.When he saw his father, he never greeted him or talked to him, and gave him a cold face.One day, when my father went home to get some things, he saw him doing his homework, and he went up and patted his head, as if to please him, and asked him with a smile, if his parents divorced, who would he be with?He rolled his eyes at his father and said to his mother!The father was not angry, and still said gently: Come with me, the son should live with his father.He glared at his father angrily, and said "no" firmly!The father was still not angry, sighed, shook his head, and left helplessly.Bian Mengfei was very happy to see his father's lost appearance, thinking that this was a successful revenge.After his mother came back, he flattered her and told her about it.The mother showed a proud expression and praised him for his conscience.But she quickly denied that her father's divorce was a dream, so she wouldn't easily fulfill her father and that bad woman!Bian Mengfei said to his mother: Yes, just don't leave him, let's see what he does! Later, Bian Mengfei discovered a strange phenomenon. Her mother sold the original two single beds in her and her father's house to a collector of old furniture, and replaced them with a brand new double bed.Bian Mengfei felt strange, as if his mother and father were going to live together.He asked his mother, who smiled slyly and said that this was a necessary preparation to make his father divorced.Bian Mengfei naturally couldn't understand it, and his mother wouldn't explain it to him.That room was locked every day when the mother was not around, saying that her father could not see her changing the bed; she also told Bian Mengfei not to reveal to her father that she had changed the bed.And if someone asks, it is always a double bed.Bian Mengfei naturally turned to his mother and agreed. Quan Chan did what she said.For two years, every time Bian Jinrong received a summons from the court, he left with hope and returned with disappointment. Quan Chan insisted that the marriage was inseparable.Regardless of whether they are in love or not, Bian Jinrong originally had one of the most powerful reasons, that is, he and Quan Chan have not lived in the same room for three years.Not to mention three years, four years are more than half.Their termination was in 1994, when Quan Chan took the initiative to deal with it in order to have another child.Since then, it has never happened again.But Quan Chan resolutely denied it in order not to divorce, and lied that she and Bian Jinrong had been in the same room before she found out that Bian Jinrong was having an affair and separated.Bian Jinrong was angry and called her nonsense, saying that they have been sleeping in separate beds for many years, which is normal, which couple would sleep in separate beds!Quan Chan retorted that Bian Jinrong was lying. If they didn't believe it, they could go to the house to investigate and ask their son Bian Mengfei.She spoke with confidence, without the slightest hesitation, which left Bian Jinrong speechless. He knew that this woman had done something wrong.He is passive. The fullest divorce conditions cannot be fully used.Relying on other reasons, it is even more beneficial to Quan Chan.Fortunately, time can make up for the sufficient conditions again, and the big deal is that it will be delayed for another two years.Bian Jinrong wanted to wait for enough time before leaving. Quan Chan didn't want to leave, besides being jealous, wanting revenge, and wanting to punish, the main thing was to have hope for Bian Jinrong, hoping that he would change his mind one day.She didn't want to leave Bian Jinrong.In the final analysis, all actions are for this reason.She couldn't leave Bian Jinrong because she was afraid that she wouldn't be able to find a man. She was rich, so it was not easy to find a man?She followed Bian Jinrong because she fell in love with him. How could she give up so easily after following the person she fell in love with for such a long time?Thinking of the years when they started their business and endured hardships together, what kind of emotional commemoration is that.She thought that by procrastinating, she might have killed Bian Jinrong's impulsive energy.Bian Jinrong is a man of loyalty. He calmed down and thought about it, remembering the 20 years they lived together, the hardships she suffered with him, the kindness she treated him, and their common drive, he would not remain indifferent ; He thought in private, maybe, the heart came back.she waits.Whenever she was immersed in such fantasies late at night, she was always moved by her own thoughts. After waiting month after month, two years passed, Quan Chan did not wait for Bian Jinrong's change of heart.She knew that if she waited any longer, the time for the sufficient reason Bian Jinrong wanted would come.She was a little flustered, she couldn't just wait passively, if she wanted to wipe off her self-esteem, she had to actively fight for it.Quan Chan decided to express her thoughts to Bian Jinrong well.Late one night, she invited Bian Jinrong home, and she wanted to have a long talk with him all night.She thinks that late at night is a time that can calm people's minds, and people's hearts are easily moved.And late at night, the child and the nanny are asleep. What Quan Chan didn't expect was that instead of impressing her husband, she impressed her son Bian Mengfei.For this reason, the son changed his original eccentric direction, not only supported his parents' divorce, but also understood Bian Jinrong. That day, Bian Mengfei overheard the long conversation between Quan Chan and Bian Jinrong.That day, Bian Mengfei went to bed early, and after getting up in the middle of the night, he was a little awake. When he was about to fall asleep, he heard the sound of the anti-theft door, and then heard his father's voice.He was shocked.What do you want your father to do in the middle of the night?He was afraid that his father had come to quarrel with his mother, and he was afraid that his mother would suffer, so he immediately regained his energy.Because it has happened before, as soon as my father comes home and meets his mother, they will inevitably have a big fight.When there was a serious quarrel, seeing his father's anger, he always wanted to hit his mother. Strangely that night, father and mother spoke peacefully.Although there was no intense stimulation, Bian Mengfei still listened with great interest.To hear better, he opened the door a little.Bian Jinrong and Quan Chan seemed to be reasoning, each expressing their own feelings and ideas.All conversation revolves around their prospects for life.Although their words were full of sincerity, they were gentle knives, and they didn't give each other a nod.他们互相摆过去，说现在。这样，卞梦飞就知道了他们有过的许多故事，尤其，父母怎么结合的原委，听得一清二楚，记得也一清二楚。虽然有些东西他不能彻底理解，但印象还是有了。他开学就上高三了，他们高中生找“女朋友”都不是什么新奇的事；从网上，他也“见多识广”，爱情的故事看到了不少，他是懂“爱”的。而且，在他班里，就有他喜欢的女生，也有他不喜欢的女生。他想，他要结婚，当然要娶一个他喜欢的女生。尽管他还是不明白为什么父亲不喜欢母亲还是娶了她，但他想父亲有真心喜欢的女人了，他应该去喜欢的。想起夜里听到的，父亲说起自己很少和母亲睡觉的“委屈”，卞梦飞还可怜起父亲来。恍然知道，他自小看到父母屋子里的两张床，原来是母亲的安排，就像她与父亲分居后，又安排了一张双人床一样。她突然觉得母亲有些小人的，和她风风火火的劲头不相吻合。 第二天，卞梦飞就把自己的转向表现了出来。母亲“下班”回来后，还没有换上拖鞋，他就站在母亲眼前，一脸严肃地说：我希望你和卞金荣早些离婚！直呼父亲的大名，是父母分居后，卞梦飞自觉养成的习惯。他想父亲既然不当自己是这个家的成员，就当他是一个外人了。母亲很吃惊他的变化，问他为什么？他就说了三个字：应当的。然后转身就走了，一副少年深沉之气。母亲再追问什么，他就像明星给记者摆谱一样，随母亲问，就是不理睬。大不了找着要学习了的借口，就把母亲的话打住了。 没有因为卞梦飞的希望，父母就早些离婚了。又过去了一年，2001年的8月，卞梦飞盼到大学录取通知书的时候，卞金荣也熬到了那个具有充分离婚理由的时间。在法院宣布前，卞金荣和全婵分别问了两个孩子，父母离婚后，他们愿意跟谁？女儿卞梦佳基本上是母亲守着长大的，自然毫不犹豫地要跟母亲；卞梦飞回答得有点意外，他说：我已经是成人了，我谁也不跟。这时，他刚刚十八岁过了一个月。 在法院，卞梦飞也是这个态度。法院果真就没有判卞梦飞归谁，只说在卞梦飞经济没有独立前，对卞梦飞的经济支持的责任和义务，父母相等。父母以为卞梦飞是恨他们离婚的抵触态度，卞梦飞的一句话就打消了他们的多虑。卞梦飞说：父母离婚，他不会离父母。他永远是父母的孩子。父母听了很感动。 卞梦飞考上的是北京的大学。离婚后，卞金荣给侄女卞银薿打电话，拜托她在北京关照一下卞梦飞。