Chapter 32 Bian Hong said: I will make my mother happy in the future (1)

The younger sister, Bian Yincao, whose family life is not much better than her sisters Bian Yinhua and Bian Yinduo, has a child that she is proud of.His son Bian Hong has been an outstanding child since he was a child, no matter in study or in other aspects. Bian Hong looks more or less like his biological father Gao Guoqiang, with a square face, wide forehead, big eyes, big ears, straight nose, sharp lips, and standard facial features.When he was a child, he didn't like to smile very much. He often kept his mouth shut, watching people and things, and always conveying expressions with a pair of bright eyes.When you see his eyes, you know him well; he also knows you well.He looked not only handsome, but also solemn.That kind of seriousness is also his conscientious demeanor, which is reflected in his children, who listen to adults, don't mess around, don't act like a baby, don't be willful, and have an obedient temperament.This is not fear and obedience trained with sticks.His parents divorced when he was less than one year old, and he grew up with his mother day by day. His mother Bian Yincao loved him and loved him, so how could she ever treat him so badly?Bian Yincao didn't have a violent temper, nor was she a spoiled mother, she just did all the duties that a mother should do.Bian Hong's disposition is based on his mother Bian Yincao's calm and quiet nature, and his innate development and expansion. He has not been naughty, troublesome, and tossing like other boys since he was a child. He is stable, but not dull and indifferent. Say what you say, move when you need to.He has winks, understands winks, and does not do things that adults don't want or are unhappy to see; Then he will be able to know whether the adult has suffering or joy; he will no longer add to the suffering of the adult, and destroy it when he is happy.

Often, he also wants to drive away the worries and share the hard work for the adults.For example, when an adult is sad or angry, he will not just blink his eyes in a daze like other children. He will step forward and constantly persuade adults not to be angry or sad. I can't bear to disappoint him; for example, when watching adults work, he will take the initiative to bring cold tea or boiled water in the adult's cup to adults; seeing adults tired from work, it is useless to say that they want to help , he will turn to another aspect, beat the back for the adults, run errands for the adults to fetch and pass things, and his sensible appearance is very similar to that of Bian Yinxuan when he was a child.Before Bian Yincao and Xiaogan got married, Bian Yincao took Bian Cong to live with his parents. Bian Jinsuo and Wang Xiangping were partial to their grandson Bian Cong, just like the old couple Bian Deren and Hou Cuicui did to Bian Yinxuan when they were young.They always said that the child was born rightly, especially when the surname was changed to "Bian".

Bian Hong is not only a well-behaved child, but also a smart child.His cleverness is a gift and a high IQ, which has been fully reflected since he was a child.When he was over one year old, when his mother began to teach him how to read, he showed unusual receptivity. After teaching him to read a word once, he could remember it. Although he couldn't say it, he could recognize it. For example, which word the mother said was "big", he could find "big" from a pile of characters, and the little finger pointed there.Everyone who saw it said that the child was really smart.The later on, the smarter he is. When he was two years old and could speak, he was able to read the words with a bad lisp.If he remembers quickly, his mother will teach him faster and more, and he will be able to recite as much as he teaches him.Not only can he learn, but he loves to learn.Whenever he sees a word he knows, such as subtitles on TV, street notices, banners, etc., he points to the word and opens his mouth to read; when he sees newspapers and books, he hugs them and reads the words he knows ; At the same time, I will also ask adults about some words I don’t know with interest, and when I ask, I will write down a lot of new words.By the time he was three and a half years old, Bian Hong could already recognize more than 2,000 characters, and he could basically read an article in a newspaper, even if he didn't understand the meaning of the article.

The child Bian Hong is sensitive to words as well as numbers. He learned simple addition, subtraction, multiplication and division when he was less than three years old.Compared with children of the same age, this is extraordinary intelligence.When mother Bian Yincao thought of it, sometimes she couldn't believe it was true. She thought, she had caught a cold when she was pregnant with her son!Someone said: This is called going from one extreme to another.Others said that Bian Yincao insisted on keeping the child Bian Hong back then, which was what she deserved in return, and it was predestined.The mother proudly hopes that the child will grow up quickly.

Bian Hong's intelligence and talent have always been consistent. Not only from infancy to kindergarten, but also to primary school, his ability to accept and understand in all aspects is far better than that of children of the same age. Normal learning cannot meet his needs.So, after his third grade in elementary school, he went directly to the fifth grade.He is smart and eager to learn. After skipping a level, his studies are still among the best. If there is a perfect word, then Bian Hong is it.He is a typical child with all-round development of morality, intelligence and physique. He studies well and is well-behaved. He is an excellent model and representative of students, so he was appointed as the monitor by the teacher; Strength, let the students trust him.He is serious and gentle. He will not become estranged from his classmates, self-righteous, and independent just because of his excellent studies or class monitor.Although he is not very active, he is never indifferent. He should play and talk with his classmates; in front of his classmates, he knows the scale, not complacent, bullying, mocking and mocking classmates, and not arguing loudly with classmates; He is upright, and when he sees the uncivilized behavior of his classmates, he will step forward to stop him; he is motivated, active in labor, active in doing good deeds, active in helping classmates, active in all aspects, and has played an exemplary role as a class cadre.In addition, his painting, music, sports, and his grades are also excellent.He is top-notch, he is advanced, and he will win many "little red flowers" every year.An outstanding student like him graduated from elementary school and was admitted to a provincial key middle school without taking the exam.

Bian Hong's excellence is often talked about by adults. They say that his extraordinary intelligence is given by his parents. Both Bian Yincao and Gao Guoqiang are intelligent people who love to learn. It is natural to have such a child; Character makes them more envious and admirable. They sigh and say: how can there be such a naturally outstanding child.After all, it is the result of Bian Yincao's ability to teach his children well.When they saw Bian Yincao, they always wanted to ask her for the secret of educating children, and Bian Yincao said that she had no secrets, that she had done her best as a mother and did her duty as an adult.

Bian Yincao's love for her children is reflected in her life, which is her absolute care and care, and she is not sloppy at all.The mother's love, the child feels it at a very young age. After the divorce, the mother always puts him first at home and abroad. He has changed from being vague to knowing how much his mother loves him.He also has the depth of love for his mother.Bian Yincao's education is simple. In addition to teaching the children culture and knowledge according to the stages, all the behavioral norms she teaches the children are the conventional requirements in the textbooks, and there is nothing special.But she is not instilled in a rigid way, she connects with life everywhere, such as integrity, such as kindness, such as selfishness, whether it is on TV, radio, or on the street, among family members, there are stories and actions, and she immediately uses them .Son sounds impressed.The biggest difference between Bian Yincao and other parents is that no matter how old her son is, she never treats her child as a child. I felt the sincerity of my mother.The mother's words are full of weight, and the subtle influence has given the child a full sense of conviction, from childhood to adulthood.Then, to be a person according to mother's requirements, everything is hard work.And, it keeps growing.

Bian Hong's smooth growth is also inseparable from his family.When Bian Yincao and Xiao Gan got married, Bian Hong was in the first grade of elementary school.Xiao Gan's arrival was actually to add a leader to Bian Yincao.Xiao Gan is upright, kind, and simple, and agrees with Bian Yincao, and has the same heart.His love for Bian Hong is even more than Bian Yincao.For Bian Hong, he gave up having his own child, saying that Bian Hong was Bian Yincao's only and his only.He and Bian Yincao have a tacit understanding of their love for their child Bian Hong.Their wages are not high, but they save money on food and clothing, and all the money they save is for Bian Hong.As long as Bian Hong liked the extracurricular books, they would support the purchase; in order to make Bian Hong develop in an all-round way, they enrolled him in painting and singing classes.Because Bian Hong is growing up, they often restrict their appetites, and their diet is simple. Stewed tofu with pickles and cabbage is their daily taste; but for Bian Hong, they have to cook a small stove, chicken, duck, fish, eggs, milk, daily It is indispensable, and it must not make the child nutritionally deficient.They themselves can't buy a single piece of clothing a year, but they are always willing to buy clothes for Bian Hong to make him look decent.They took Bian Hong to and from school, no matter the wind, the sun or the rain, they never delayed or delayed.They have no conditions to create conditions, only one house, they use plywood to divide the room into two halves, half of which is used as a small house for Bian Hong, in which there are Bian Hong's bed, Bian Hong's writing desk, Bian Hong's small The bookshelf and Bian Hong's beloved car model made Bian Hong feel that he, like most of his classmates, has a space of his own.Bian Hong is an extraordinary student. He often has excessive learning tasks, and his study time is long. At that time, in order not to affect the children's attention, they can not turn on the TV, do not talk, and stay quietly and boringly. In their own tiny "house".In short, for the sake of their children, they can give up everything, sacrifice everything, and pay for their children's needs.This family made Bian Hong content and happy. He grew up smoothly and excellently, from elementary school to junior high school.

In key junior high schools, Bian Hong is still outstanding, and it goes without saying that he has excellent academic performance.In addition, he often participates in various competitions, such as English, mathematics, composition, etc., whether it is in the city, the province, or the whole country. Every time he will not return empty-handed, he can win awards and Bonuses come back.The bonus was carefully saved by Bian Yincao, and happily said that it would be reserved for Bian Hong to go to college in the future.After finishing the second grade of junior high school, Bian Hong skipped a grade and went directly to high school.The high school is the only experimental middle school in the province, and it is naturally a provincial key middle school.The experimental middle school is a boarding school, so Bian Hong moved from his home to the school.He will only come back once a week, on weekends.

Bian Hong no longer lives at home, and Bian Yincao and Xiao Gan's superficial worries are relieved, and they can enjoy their lives freely.Among other things, when Bian Hong lived at home, they hardly dared to do intimate things at night, at most they just held hands;It's a trivial matter that they are embarrassed to make a noise, mainly because they are afraid of having a "bad" impact on their son, and they make him think about it.Thinking about it carefully, Xiao Gan and Bian Yincao have been married for more than seven years, and their sex lives are few and far between. They all take advantage of the occasional chance that Bian Hong lives in his grandma's house, and such opportunities are rare, only during holidays. There are almost no weekends, because only on holidays can the child Bian Hong have a real full-day rest. On Sundays, he has to go to painting classes and singing classes. They pick up and drop off the children, and the children follow them.Speaking of these, Bian Yincao felt sorry for Xiao Gan, saying that he had been wronged.Xiao Gan didn't regret it at all, and said with a smile, hard work has paid off, and they have survived now. After finishing high school, Bian Hong went to college. After that, it's their time, and they have more opportunities to enjoy a good life yes.Bian Yincao joked with a smile: "The good life is far away, and we still have to save money for Bian Hong so that he can go to college."Speaking of this, Bian Yincao thanked Xiao Gan emotionally again, saying that Xiao Gan found her and really came to dedicate her life.The efficiency of the food factory is mediocre, and the wages and bonuses are low. It would be really difficult for her to raise the children all the time.Her thanks came from the heart.Xiao Gan was still smiling, and joked: I got a child prodigy like Bian Hong, it was like catching a piece of pie that fell from the sky.Bian Hong must be a child who can have a great future, he has become a climate, and I am the one who has a great reputation.Bian Yincao said: That is the reward you deserve.I also thought in my heart that I really want to repay Xiao Gan well in the future.

But Xiao Gan couldn't wait until the future. Three months later, Xiao Gan died of illness.Xiao Gan died of intracranial hemorrhage caused by acute myeloid leukemia.From onset to death, less than a month.Everything came out of nowhere.The doctor said that it is rare for Xiao Gan to go from onset to death in such a short period of time. Generally, it takes a year or two for patients.People said that Xiaogan didn't want to burden Bian Yincao and relieve her financial burden, otherwise the hospitalization, treatment and nutrition expenses would be a huge amount.In addition, "go quickly" means that Xiao Gan didn't ask Bian Yincao to expend too much energy in order to take care of him.Having said that, it was Bian Yincao's life that made him feel emotional in the end.Bian Yincao didn't feel sorry for herself, and felt that Xiao Gan was the real suffering. Since Xiao Gan followed her, she had been only giving, and had never enjoyed any blessings; What a great looking!In her heart, she only begged Xiao Gan to enjoy it in the next life. Xiaogan spent more than 40,000 yuan from hospitalization to death, although it was short.It is said that a lot of money is saved, but it is only a huge expense compared to patients and normal life.The food factory was not doing well, and only 5,000 yuan was reimbursed. The 30,000 yuan was contributed by the family partnership. Uncles Bian Jinli and Bian Jinrong contributed the most. The funeral money was donated by family members and individual employees of the unit. Here at Bian Yincao's place, the money in the passbook has been spent and there is not much money left, only less than two thousand yuan.Bian Yincao gritted her teeth in her heart, thinking that she would start from scratch, no matter how hard she endured, she would not be afraid, she still wanted to make everything go smoothly for her son, and any legitimate expenses his son needed were absolutely indispensable. In the following life, saving money is what Bian Yincao always thinks about, and she abides by it unremittingly. What she suffers in return is that her son Bian Hong can study and live as normal as his classmates at school. This is the best she has ever gotten. So comforting, a kind of peace of mind that fulfills the mission.Living like this, her life was bitter, but she was able to pass it smoothly.But after half a year, this stability was broken.The food factory has been losing money year after year, with a backlog of foreign debts, and it is unable to pay wages.But production is still going on, and workers go to work as usual.Bian Yincao couldn't help it for a while, so he used the money in the passbook. Because his son went to high school, he had to pay various expenses from time to time, and the more than 2,000 yuan in the passbook was quickly used up.She has no choice but to turn to the family members for help. Like her second sister Bian Yinduo, she relies on "borrowing" money to maintain herself.But she really borrowed it, thinking that once the factory repaid the wages, she would return the money immediately.In fact, she still has her son Bian Hong's New Year's money for more than ten years and the various bonuses Bian Hong has won in various competitions. Adding up, there are nearly 4,000 yuan.But she has clear boundaries, her son's money belongs to her son, and she must not use it. Bian Yincao's current situation would never be shared with his son Bian Hong. Bian Hong heard about it from the family members by chance, and asked his mother where the money for living in the family came from if she didn't pay her salary.Bian Yincao lied to his son and said that he can rest assured that his mother has money reserves.The son doesn't understand, he is half-believing, but through observation, the mother's simple clothes, light food and drink, and the care about money when buying vegetables and daily necessities can also be measured that the mother is obviously "enduring hardship".He thought that if he made money in the future, he must repay his mother well.He often said to his mother: I must let my mother enjoy the blessings in the future.When Bian Yincao heard this, he was moved and didn't take it seriously, and said to Bian Hong: Mom raised you not for any blessings, as long as you are good, it is the greatest blessing for mother.Bian Hong still said: If I am fine, my mother will be fine.Honoring your mother is the right thing to do.After hearing this, Bian Yincao was only moved. Bian Yincao thought that the factory's failure to pay wages might be temporary, and they would not be told to go to work on an empty stomach.In her heart, like all employees, she was eager but helpless, and could only wait for the result.Seven months later, the factory came to fruition, but it was acquired by another food company.As for the employees in the factory, they don't want them. They want to reorganize, reopen, display a different banner, and need fresh blood.What they want are workers who have learned Western-style pastry and new-style pastry making techniques. Pastry workers like Bian Yincao who only know traditional pastry and only traditional craftsmanship are outdated.Because life is changing and people's tastes are changing, new styles will always take the lead in occupying the market.This is the era of market economy. This blow was just the beginning. Immediately afterwards, the dormitory where Bian Yincao lived was to be demolished, and a modern production workshop was to be built on the spot.They only gave the workers living here a small subsidy, and then "threw out" them.Bian Yincao was caught off guard and had to move to his parents first.The sudden loss of housing and work made Bian Yincao lose his mind for a while.She didn't feel pain from the sudden blow, but her head was full of confusion.After regaining consciousness, she was sad, but also regained her senses.She decided to stand on her own and control her own destiny. Bian Yincao decided to open a bakery.But she needs to absorb new experience in the production process and combine Chinese and Western styles to make pastries.For this reason, she specially went to a training class teaching western pastry making.After that, he actively invested in the preparations for the opening of the business.The initial cost input is a bank loan. In June 2000, Bian Yincao's pastry shop was about to open. At this time, his son Bian Hong passed the comprehensive ability test of the Ministry of Education's recommended students. The seventeen-year-old Bian Hong will go to Tsinghua University as a recommended student. .The future of the son is bright, and the future of the mother is also bright.Bian Yincao thought, who would say that her life is hard?