Chapter 26 Bian Xie said: If you can’t adapt to the society, you should get rid of it (1)

"谞" means intelligence, and Bian Qiao is not only lacking in talent and intelligence, but also a little mentally retarded. This has long been shown, and his parents have long accepted it.They don't expect him to have any great promise, as long as he can live a stable and normal life step by step. Thinking so, when the time comes, the demanding father still can't help but have some hopes for him.At first, my father originally wanted to wait for Bian Qiao to turn eighteen, find him a formal job as soon as possible, and tell him to stabilize and work steadily.Bian Qiao was just 16 years old when he settled down in the city. At that time, his father couldn’t wait to find him a regular job immediately. However, many employers require that the regular workers recruited be over 18 years old, so they kept in touch. Bian Hao didn't enter any unit, so his father gave up temporarily, and simply waited until he was eighteen years old.Bian Qiao started working as a temporary worker.When he was eighteen years old, his father’s original thoughts changed. He thought that Bian Qiao’s junior high school education was too low. Working at the bottom, this is the person who lost him, and he couldn't bear to see his son "endure hardship", so he had to get another education, so that his son would have a foothold in the work unit in the future, so that he would not appear useless; if a person has no place , It's like having no self-esteem, it would be very useless.If you want to make up for your education, don't even think about finding a job.

Through the teachers of Bian Hong School of Business, Bian Qiao was connected to the accounting day class of the business school.According to the requirements, Bian Qiao did not go to high school, so he is not qualified. However, the day classes are not included in the distribution, and they are at their own expense. Naturally, there is room for the requirements, and the rules can be relaxed if they are relaxed.People can come in relaxedly, but just like the students who come in formally, they can get a technical secondary school diploma after graduation.Accounting is a hot topic, and it is indispensable in any unit. With a diploma in accounting, it is not only easy to find a job, but also has a wide range of choices. If you want to find a job in the future, you can find a unit that is good in all aspects.After entering a good unit, Bian Qiao has a good prospect.

No matter how good my father's design was, it was wishful thinking.After half a semester in the finance and accounting class, the teacher invited his father to ask Bian Qiao to drop out of school.The teacher didn't explain the reason first, and handed Bian Zhuo's midterm exam report card to his father. In the seven or eight courses above, Bian Hao not only failed one of the courses, but also had extremely low failing scores.The highest score was in Chinese, and he only got less than 50 points in the test. The rest of the homework ranged from 20 to 40 points.After seeing it, my father's face was burning at that time, as if he had taken the test, and he was so ashamed.Needless to say, I know why the teacher asked his son to drop out of school.Seeing the parents' understanding, the teacher added calmly: Since the establishment of the business school, no student has had such poor grades, and Bian Qiao has broken the record.This is no longer a question of whether he has learned well or not, it is something he cannot learn at all.I originally thought that Bian Qiao was just weak in foundation, but after half a semester of understanding and testing, I realized that his intelligence could not keep up, and it would be useless to continue studying.If he graduates as relaxed as he was admitted, he will not be able to do the job when he gets a job in the future. It will not only embarrass him personally, but also affect the reputation of the school.The father felt ashamed, no need for others to say more, the father nodded and agreed to drop out of school, thinking coldly: this son is hopeless, in the future, he can be messed up to the extent he can by himself Bar.Originally, I thought it was just a daydream to ask him to teach himself a junior college after he got a technical secondary school diploma.When he had nothing to say, the teacher added that it would be better to ask Bian Qiao to attend the additional cooking class offered by their school. Cooking is always popular, and with this skill, he can use it anytime.My father's eyes lit up again, and after asking about the situation, he said that the next class would be called Bian Qiao.

The culinary major is an additional major offered by commercial schools. Unlike other majors in the school, it is not a technical secondary school, but a professional technology category. After completion, only a professional certificate is issued. The schooling period is one year and it is also at its own expense.If you don't pay yourself, you have certain requirements for the students who come in, and Bian Qiao is not qualified.My father thought that asking Bian Qiao to obtain a technical secondary school diploma was equivalent to skipping a grade. Since he did not have that kind of strength and ability, it would be more practical and practical to ask him to learn a technology in a down-to-earth manner.After Bian Qiao dropped out of school, he returned to his original temporary job, waiting for the next cooking class while working.In the second year, Bian Qiao entered a cooking class.

Before entering school, his parents repeatedly told Bian Qiao that he must study hard and not give up halfway.Bian Zhuo repeatedly nodded and said that he would study hard, and encouraged himself in his heart, saying that he must study well.He also wanted to study hard from the bottom of his heart to win over his parents.However, learning it is not as simple as swearing by oneself, and the mind can't keep up.At the very beginning, Bian Qiao was at the end when he practiced the most basic chopping board (knife skills). He always came in at the end when he practiced again and again. There is a tacit understanding, the hand raises the knife and falls, how fast the hand is, the knife will be as fast; the hand is thinner, the knife will be as accurate.Potatoes and carrots can be turned into strands like hemp filaments under their knives in a blink of an eye; other objects are also in the same shape and orderly.But Bian Qiao, holding the knife in his hand, immediately became chaotic in rhythm and chaotic operation. He survived in a hurry, not only lagging behind in speed, but also the size, length, and thickness of the objects he cut on the chopping board were mixed together, messy and disorderly, and became a mess. A bunch of useless scraps.Skills that others can master a few times, he can't master at all. His little progress is just a little instinctive improvement accumulated from the number of times he practiced, and it is difficult to rise to an essential leap.Every time he falls behind, when he accumulates to the end, he will be left behind by others by a very long distance; the others are an equal team, and he is an independent alternative.The same is true of cutting board technology, and it is also the same when it comes to learning "red case". Frying, frying, cooking, and deep-frying techniques, he can have a slight advantage in none of them, and he still falls behind in everything.Every time he studies, his grades can be imagined.In his class, his grades were naturally at the bottom, and he was still clearly independent.In the end, he couldn't even pass the lowest level three cooking certificate.The teacher's comment to him is that he is not suitable to be a chef.

Although the teacher said so, considering Bian Qiao's one-year self-funded study and his future prospects, he still awarded him a third-level cooking certificate.Knowing that it was the result of the teacher’s accommodation, Bian Qiao’s heart was still full of pride and joy. For him, he had completed his study, he had learned something, and the certificate was a proof of his level, a testimony, which was better than not passing the test. And being recognized was even more exciting for him.For this reason, he has the motivation, just like when he first entered the cooking class, he has the energy to go out, he thinks, he must strive for success in life, try to use what he has learned, and never let others see that he has not tried. Cleared.He did not tell his parents and family members the actual situation. They thought that he had successfully graduated, were satisfied and took active actions, so they tried to find a suitable unit for him.They felt that Bian Zhen had obtained the certificate, so he should choose the unit appropriately.Their ideal idea is to hope that he can enter a hotel restaurant, or a large state-owned restaurant.This is mainly due to Bian Lang. He is in the bank and has contacts with many people who know various industries. Once he spread the matter out, there will be results soon, and there are several units to choose from.Considering benefits and benefits, his father and elder brother chose the Victory Hotel for Bian Qiao.Bian Zhen has no idea himself, and only listens to their arrangements. He will go wherever they tell him to go;It was a sign of his obedience, but also a sign of his incompetence.He thinks everything is as simple as a child's play house, as long as he can put on a posture in it, it will be fine.

Victory Hotel is an old state-owned hotel, safe and secure in all aspects, it is considered a good unit.After Bian Qiao went in, he was assigned to a Chinese restaurant.He is a newcomer, so he naturally starts with the most basic chopping board.However, after only one day of work, he was reprimanded by the head chef. The work under him was slow and rough, so the head chef naturally couldn't catch his eye.The head chef is from Sichuan and has a quick temper. He spoke with a Sichuan accent, grabbed a handful of vegetables cut out by Bian Qiao, in different thicknesses, and lengths, and reprimanded him loudly, saying that this is not like a person who has studied cooking. The job done by a good chef is no different from that of a person who can't chop vegetables!What the hell!The head chef became angrier as he spoke, wishing he could throw the dishes in Bian Qiao's face.He didn't throw it in Bian Qiao's face, and he was so angry that he threw the vegetables to the ground and asked others to cut them again.Afterwards, he was no longer called Bian Zhuoqie, and asked him to do the work of picking vegetables, washing vegetables, washing dishes and dishes, and so on.After working all day, Bian Qiao's hands are either wet or dirty.He was silent and made no complaints.What he thinks is, what he is told to do, he will do it; he does not do a good job, and he should be scolded and reprimanded.In his heart, he was ready to endure everything without limit.

After working for a year, in the second year, logically, he should have tried to make a red case.The head chef said that he hasn't passed the cutting board yet, so let's practice knife skills.Bian Qiao was careful and slowed down in order to chop the vegetables well.Seeing the snail-like movements of his subordinates, the head chef was so amazed that he lost his temper, which obviously couldn't be reversed in a while.Thinking that he is not good at knife skills, he can still get a cooking certificate. Maybe it is because he has an advantage in red knives, so I asked him to try to make a few red knives first.The first time he started, the head chef stood beside him and watched him do it.The dish he was asked to cook was very ordinary, it was sweet-scented osmanthus meat, but Bian Qiao was so nervous that he was a little distracted. His eyes rolled up and turned left and right. It's brewing.The head chef sneered in his heart, thinking how could he be struggling even more than constipation.Once it was done, it opened the eyes of the head chef. A cook who passed the formal examination was slow in movement, hesitant to start, and couldn't even do the basic skill of turning the pot with one hand.At the time, he sighed in anger, but afterwards, the head chef thought forgivingly that maybe his presence made Bian Qiao nervous.This gave Bian Qiao the next chance to practice.During non-business hours, he was assigned a few hot dishes that were easiest to handle.The head chef didn't plan to bring those hot dishes to the table, and didn't watch him cook them, but he wanted to take time and taste them.The result is that every dish he cooks takes several minutes longer than expected, and each dish lacks flavor and is overcooked, which is the most taboo.In fact, it wasn't Bian Zhuo who fried the dishes until they were rotten, it was his slow movements that made the dishes rotten.He was given another chance to "assess", but the taste was barely passable, but the food was still bad, and it was still bad because of his slow motion.A regular cook can't keep up with his movements, so what else can he talk about?The head chef reported the situation upwards, saying that he couldn't have Bian Qiao here.To ask him is to waste his post.The personnel department weighed it for a while, thinking that what Bian Qiao studied was cooking, and he couldn't do the work in the restaurant, so there was no other position for him. If there is no position for him, let him be transferred to another unit.So the unit notified him, and said that if it was not adjusted, he resigned.

Bian Qiao didn't tell his parents about this, and went about it quietly every day, without any fear in his heart.He is still like a child, thinking that if he ignores this, it will be fine and he can muddle along.He didn't tell his parents because he didn't want to rely on them, and he always asked them to make arrangements.He didn't want to ask them to arrange it, but he couldn't arrange it for himself. When he arrived, the Victory Hotel did what it said, so it really fired him.Without a job, he finally explained to his parents.He did not reflect the situation truthfully, and he also had his own face, lying and saying that the restaurant was overcrowded and the staff had been laid off.His naive lie was quickly exposed by his elder brother Bian Lang, who thoroughly understood the situation from the person he had entrusted to him.The elder brother said angrily that it was shameful that he was so stupid, and he didn't want to take care of his affairs anymore.The elder brother still has to take care of his parents. Bian Qiao has sound hands and feet, and his parents will not support him for nothing. He has to be self-reliant.After much deliberation, the parents came up with a good idea. They asked Bian Qiao to work in his uncle Bian Jinrong's recently expanded Hezhong restaurant. After he matured there, it would be more practical to find him a job.In this way, Bian Qiao went to Hezhong Restaurant.However, after working in the back kitchen of "Hezhong" for two months, Bian Jinrong asked Bian Qiao to work as a tea boy.Bian Jinrong's private restaurant has higher staffing requirements than the state-run restaurant. In the back kitchen, Bian Zhen is not qualified for anything, but seems to be in the way.Bian Jinrong shook his head to Bian Jinli and said: Bian Qiao is not a chef at all.

Bian Xie is not a chef at all, what kind of material is he? "Material" reminded my father that as long as people are not stupid (in his eyes, Bian Qiao's mental retardation is not enough to be stupid, but a little stupid), there must be a suitable position, whether it is mental or physical strength. superior.My father thought that if he was asked to work, the position must be suitable for him, otherwise, he would be eliminated.What kind of work is he suitable for?After much deliberation, he thought of himself, and thought that Bian Qiao was his son, so he must have the same adaptability as himself. Thinking of this, Mao Sai suddenly realized that he should ask Bian Qiao to practice in his contracting team. It's a piece of material.Once this idea appeared, the father's expectation became a fantasy.My father had a high starting point, so he even brought a lot of books on budgeting and asked Bian Qiao to teach himself.There is no place for Bian Zhen to confess the pain of holding the book. Under his calm and pretending appearance, bitter water is churning in his stomach.After a while, my father took the most basic test for Bian Zhuo.Father was extremely disappointed.Afterwards, he forgave his son, thinking he should start from a low starting point.

Without professional training, it is impossible to ask Bian Qiao to do the construction.His father asked him to run materials with the buyer, thinking that this would not only help him learn things, but also cultivate his flexibility.Unexpectedly, after running with the buyer for more than half a year, he still reacted normally to the skills of purchasing, bargaining and dealing with people. , he just ran along, only watched him talk, never asked curiously, told him deliberately, he always listened honestly, only nodded and hummed, thinking he knew it well, how could he know that he was actually I didn't hear anything, and I didn't understand anything.His father asked Bian Qiao where his mind was and what he was thinking all day long.Bian Qiao didn't think about what to say, he couldn't understand, and felt that the contents were too complicated to use his brain.Father could only sigh in disappointment, not expecting anything from him anymore.Tell him to rely on physical labor and service to keep himself alive like those who are not "material".In the end, his elder brother Bian Lang, who said he would not mind other things, helped Bian Hao find a job as a postman at the district post office.What this job requires is carefulness, calmness, and no need to use your brain. It is simple and easy to do, and Bian Qiao is suitable for it. He can do it after doing it.His job was finally locked. Bian Zhen has a stable job, and the next thing is to hope that he can find a wife in peace and live in peace.If you rely on stability, Bian Qiao's mentality and demeanor can best meet the standard.He has no temper, no personality, no fantasy, neither strong nor extravagant, as long as he finds a wife who matches his temperament, the living conditions of his future small family must be the most typical tranquility and stability; it is a tranquility beyond the hustle and bustle.Speaking of which, it wouldn't cause people to worry too much.Parents think that it is impossible for the introverted Bian Qiao to take the initiative to work hard. Just like finding a job for him, his family will inevitably work hard for him when he is looking for a partner.At this time, Bian Qiao was twenty-three years old and had never had a date. The family members spread his personal problems to the outside world, and many people were enthusiastic and enthusiastic.According to Bian Qiao's conditions, they introduced him to each other.In fact, according to his own conditions, he is stupid, and he is a junior high school graduate. No one wants to be a matchmaker for him. This is a thankless thing.People's enthusiasm is actually due to the fact that Bian Qiao has a father who runs a company and an elder brother who is very capable, and his family conditions are counted on him.Coincidentally, Bian Yue didn't have a date at this time either. During the time at home, there were always strangers and young men and women brought in successively.The male is Bian Yue, and the female is Bian Qiao.At that time, Bian Yue was extremely disappointed after seeing too much, and could no longer arouse her interest.On the other hand, Bian Zhen, who was fresh and interested, would bow his head and listen to all visitors, and every time he saw someone, his heart would beat excitedly for a long time.In his heart, he has no standards at all, and he feels that as long as people like him, he is satisfied; he regards the marriage of the object of conversation as a procedure that must be completed, just like his school and work. Same, it is not life; what it is, he has never thought about it, what he thinks is to be the same as others.Since he was a child, he has no requirements, no knowledge and level, he can't and doesn't know how to choose, he will only be chosen obediently, and let others arrange.This tendon was not taught by anyone, it seems to be born with it.He was not at all disrespectful in his position. When Bian Qiao saw it, his vision was opened, and he had a comparison and a bias.A has nothing special, and she forgets about it afterwards, leaving no impression; B has an oval face with big eyes, which is good-looking, and often shakes her face in front of his eyes; It often echoes in my ears, reminiscent of wind chimes.This is different from what I originally thought. I thought it was the same, but it seems that there is a difference.With a difference, he hopes to be chosen by the woman he thinks of. He thinks simply, whoever chooses first will be the one - first come, first served.However, things backfired, and every time he had a tendency to choose towards him, he didn't leave an impression on them. When it came to that, although he felt a little disappointed in his heart, he couldn't influence his actions.He was driven away by his superiors, and he always wanted to chase other people's tails.He didn't chase other people's tails with all his heart, but he had to look at their faces, and he had to stop when they told him to stop.If he chases one, tell him to stop the other.After working hard for a long time, he and his sister Bian Yue were in the same situation at the beginning, always being excluded.But the attitude afterward was totally different, Bian Yue reacted indifferently from now on, Bian Qiao was still not disappointed. If Bian Yue was not accepted because of his appearance and personality, then Bian Qiao is the whole person. His stupidity and junior high school education have long been there. His appearance is like his father. Body, no matter how much he ate, he didn’t grow any flesh; he was skinny, but he was still a snake waist, a little hunchbacked, and he felt like he had experienced severe calcium deficiency since he was a child. He seemed to have suffered a lot and was always poor; , and then add in ignorance and ignorance, what kind of state can I imagine.In him, there is no deepness and introversion. He is a glass of plain water, which can be seen through at a glance. It looks like this, and it feels like this when you touch it. , which woman would fall in love with him?Even if there is a sign of family strength, people will weigh it in their hearts. His family has three children, and he is the most unpromising and clumsy. How much material can his parents leave him?When it comes to inheriting the business, it is even more out of his turn.Everyone knows that living a life is a matter of a lifetime, who wouldn't want to live with someone who has the same sentiments, the same mind, and dexterous activities?Bian Xie is a different kind. He doesn't even have the normal conversation and temperament of ordinary people, and he always doesn't match the style with others. Who can match him with normal people? Bian Qiao was not disappointed, he would see what he should see, time passed quickly, year after year passed by.Looking back, they still haven't settled on one.If no one is negotiated, and others have introduced them, the opportunities to meet new people will become less and less.Time followed and continued to go to the days behind.Like Bian Yue back then, at the age of twenty-nine, Bian Qiao is still single; it is also like a copy of Bian Yue.The busy father was in a hurry, and wanted to use his money to buy a wife for Bian Qiao, and to introduce new people, the father directly stated the conditions.What he said by "buy" is to ask the woman to marry without paying a penny, and he will give the woman a red envelope of 50,000 yuan.He thought that women like money, and he could get immediate results by doing so, but it was counterproductive. His conditions made people feel as stupid as having no money here.When those women heard this, they increased their suspicions about Bian Qiao, and they thought that Bian Qiao must not only be a problem of clumsiness and dullness, but that there may be hidden shortcomings behind it, such as hypoplasia, infertility, and lack of sexual function. Invisible disabilities, deadly hidden dangers of disease, and so on.This is an era in which poverty never dies, starvation never dies, and life is moving towards prosperity. People who live on a normal track will never regard money as more important than life. Life is priceless. To sell the fate of his life?The condition that my father made scared people away. Not long after that, something happened to Bian Hong, and the matter of Bian Qiao's marriage was no longer a problem. The focus of the family's worry and busy work was concentrated on Bian Hong.No one took care of Bian Qiao's affairs, he was incapable of performing miracles.After Bian Lang was sentenced, everything was not fully restored.His father was running around busy getting loans and borrowing money, and he was busy taking care of his own company; then Bian Yue followed the divorce as if joining in the fun, and the atmosphere at home was frozen and numb, as if entering a tragic year.In this atmosphere, it is difficult for anyone to think about Bian Qiao's marriage. "Marriage" is a comic concept, out of touch with the time. After two years, life at home gradually entered a normal track.Everyone began to pretend to be about Bian Qiao again. However, Bian Qiao couldn't wait. In 2003, on the day of Bian Xie's 34th birthday, his mother found that Bian Xie lying on the bed was cold and dead.Mother was petrified.There was an empty sleeping pill bottle on the bedside table beside him.Apparently he killed himself by taking a bottle of sleeping pills.Under the bottle of sleeping pills, there was a note, which was Bian Qiao's suicide note.The words on it were crooked and varied in size. It read: "I have no talents, no abilities, and no women to love. Society is made up of families. I am thirty-four years old, and I don't have my own family yet. I just haven't entered society. Since you can’t adapt to society, let’s be eliminated! Parents, don’t be sad for me, I’m back to my birthday on the day of death, so just pretend I wasn’t born.” It is inevitable for the mother to be sad, but not only did the father not show sadness, but he seemed to express the disappointment of hating iron and steel, as if Bian Qiao chose to die to avoid an exam; while Bian Yue's expression was complicated and changing, At first I was sad, but after wiping away my tears, I said coldly: It seems that he is not stupid, so he chose his birthday to die.There was resentment in his tone, resentment that Bian Qiao had created another tragedy for the family.Bian Hong in prison was not sad like his father, but he laughed and said: Just die for that little wish!My father said: He only has that little desire.