Chapter 17 Bian Jinwu said: Both daughters are like her mother (1)

Bian Jinwu's two daughters are very interesting. When they were young, they looked like their mother, and when they grew up, they looked like their father again.Of course it is good to look like their father, and if their father looks good, they will be beautiful.People who watched them grow up said: These two girls really grow up.People in the courtyard called them "two golden flowers". Although Bian Yinxuan and Bian Yinyu looked like their father, and their father resembled their grandma Hou Cuicui, and their cousin Bian Yinxuan also resembled her grandma Hou Cuicui, they looked very different from their childhood cousins, and they were so beautiful. They are completely different, they are them, and the cousin is the cousin. If you don't say anything, outsiders will not be able to tell that they and the cousin are from the same family, and they look like the same person; are very close.In fact, the fundamental difference between them and their cousin lies in their temperament and demeanor, which are innate spirits. They look different on the outside, but they are actually different in spirit.The spirit seeping into the eyebrows can also change the shape, form, and content, making the originally similar eyebrows present a fundamentally different complexion.In other words, the beauty of Bian Yinxuan seeps into the bone from the outside, and flows from the bone to the outside. , without the power that spins out from it, it looks boring, monotonous and straightforward.If the outside complements the inside, the appearance on the outside has changed somewhat, and before you know it, you have another image that is different from your cousin.

The internal differences between Bian Yinxuan, Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinxuan are innate, they are not as sensible and well-behaved as Bian Yinxuan.They look like their father, but their father's listless temperament has not been inherited at all.They have always been talkative and noisy since they were young, and they dared to shout and shout. When they were together, they played wildly and became crazy, even more energetic than boys, shouting, and their high-pitched voices irritated their parents' eardrums.Bian Yinyu is nearly five years older than Bian Yinyu, but when Bian Yinyu grows up to be able to walk and run, Bian Yinyu no longer regards herself as an older sister, but her younger sister as her younger sister. She starts to be equal to her younger sister everywhere. I can't tolerate my sister having special care and treatment.The younger sister is not to be outdone, she will never accept the old clothes worn by her older sister, she must wear new ones like her older sister.In this aspect, my father has little control, occasionally participating once or twice, giving them an extreme balance, and he dare not neglect at all.The mother always has a bit of power when she takes care of things and manages things. Sometimes she can't help being partial to the younger daughter when it comes to eating. If the older daughter doesn't do it, she will preach; So he agreed to the little daughter's request, and also spoke the truth with a straight face.Whether the mother said it or not, the daughters should resist or resist. They knew that it was useless to vent their anger on the mother, so they vented to each other, sneered at each other, tired of arguing and saying they were tired, and the two fought coldly for an hour or two. Afterwards, the reconciliation was as good as before, and they were having fun again.Not for themselves, they would often quarrel over some trivial matters. When they quarreled, they all wanted to be strong, with high-pitched voices that refused to give in to each other, and everyone wanted to suppress the other.In the absence of their parents, they quarreled wantonly, and sometimes the neighbors were disturbed by the quarrel and had to come out to stop it.If the parents are there, they will naturally stop them at the beginning of their quarrel. If the father can't stop it, the mother can stop it. They don't quarrel on the surface, but they have to fight to the end in private; When it comes to victory or defeat, usually, it is the elder sister Bian Yinxuan who ends the game.In fact, the ending is whoever shuts up first, and whoever shuts up first is the one who fails. After such a test, in the end, the elder sister can't quarrel with the younger sister.

In the eyes of his father, Bian Jinwu, Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu's quarrelsome and quarrelsome temperaments are unlike any other. In his eyes, his wife Ye Xiuzhu also has a stable personality on the whole, but she can speak but is not arguable.He wondered why the daughters were born to be tomboys, and thought regretfully, Bai was born beautiful.He thought so, and the neighbors said the same, saying that when these two golden flowers quarreled, it seemed that the flowers had thorns, which affected their "beauty".Later, the grandmothers of Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu came from Shanghai and lived there for a while.After seeing the "skin" of the two granddaughters, the grandmother said in a blunt Shanghainese Mandarin: It's okay, their mother was like that when they were young, and it will be fine when they grow up.Grandma said that, but mother Ye Xiuzhu was a little unhappy, nagging that she was not like that, who knew who the two daughters looked like?Grandma didn't see her daughter's self-esteem, and said firmly: It's like when you were a child, I am your mother, do you still remember it wrong?Ye Xiuzhu rolled her eyes and said boringly: You should be like your mother.

In fact, the two daughters are much like their mothers. They love to wear beautiful clothes, cleanliness, beauty, look in the mirror, and eat Shanghai-style food and dishes. I don’t know if these habits are innate or learned from their mothers. here.As long as it is the mother's habit, they will follow suit.In Ye Xiuzhu's view, these exquisite habits are all good habits, and she thinks it's a good thing to look like herself, so she approves it very much.Bian Jinwu doesn't pay attention to food, clothing, and use in daily life. His wife Ye Xiuzhu is not used to it, and loves to talk about him and correct him, but he always "doesn't change after repeated admonitions", and Ye Xiuzhu will always teach him repeatedly.Nagging Bian Jinwu is an indispensable part of their family life, almost every day.Bian Jinwu is used to it. At that time, he hooked his head and listened obediently, never speaking back.It can be said that Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu grew up in the sound of their mother nagging their father. When they grew up, they parroted their tongues, imitated their mother, and developed the habit of criticizing their father.When they talked, the father would smile and say something softly: You two children, how can you say that you are an adult.Or: You two children, why are you so young?His words and attitude will not have any effect on the sisters, on the contrary, they will "attack" him even more based on his words, imitating the tone that his mother often used to say that he is such an adult, how come he doesn't have a long memory?They are also very "snobbish". Their father's always weak appearance is often said by their mothers as "not like a man". They vaguely know that their father is a "boring" person. Look at it differently.At home, they like to go around their mother, be their mother's followers, praise their mother, please their mother, and their father will be ignored by them; if their father speaks to them, their eyes will never look at their father properly. Either turned over or slanted, as if they didn't pay attention to their father; their mother made them move, but their father would never move them.When they were screaming and screaming, the mother could manage things with one sentence, and the father said ten words, but it was as if he hadn't said anything.If a family goes to the street, they are unwilling to walk next to their father who lacks strength, let alone ask him to lead him. They like to stick to their mother who is foreign and elegant. Even if the mother is not in front of him, they will not walk alongside their father. , The two of them held hands, left their father behind, and either walked in front of him or followed him.My father is also used to it, with his hands behind his back, trying to make a dignified gesture of an elder.In their attitude towards their father and mother, they are always united and have never had differences.

The daughter is like her mother in everything. When someone told Bian Jinwu that her daughter looked like him, he corrected her and said: Both daughters resemble her mother.He spoke in a low tone, as if disappointed. Although Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu often had quarrels and quarrels when they were together, apart from quarrels, they played more with tacit understanding.Since Bian Yinyu was two years old, her elder sister Bian Yinyu treated her younger sister like a doll, and played with her whenever she had nothing to do, either teaching her to dance around with her little arms and legs; or teaching her to sing with her tone-deaf voice. A few nursery rhymes she has learned or fragments of songs she has not learned from the radio; either use scarves, pillow covers, handkerchiefs, headbands, parents' belts, and father's big-brimmed hats, according to the characters in some comic strips, The younger sister was dressed up in various shapes, including heroes, old ladies, old men, soldiers, enemies, and villains. Seeing her strange appearance, she was rocked with laughter.When Bian Yinyu grows up and goes to school, she no longer treats her younger sister as a toy. After finishing her homework, she plays house games with her younger sister. Outsiders often play peek-a-boo in the yard, and when anyone is found, they scream.When they are free, it is difficult for them to stay quietly, and they always have to look for things to play.When they are together, they are full of interest and interest every second, and they don't have enough fun; even at night, when they lie in bed, they will not calm down honestly, let alone fall asleep immediately, they will chatter for a long time, If they were heard by their mother, or if their mother came over, they would temporarily pretend to close their eyes. Once the mother stopped talking or left, they would cover their heads with quilts, lower their voices, and continue talking and laughing.It wasn't until they were tired that their hut sank into silence with the night.When Bian Yinyu also went to school, the two of them lived closer together. Although one of them was in elementary school and the other was in middle school, they always accompanied each other to and from school.The elementary school and middle school where they are located are adjacent to each other. After school, Bian Yinyu is always waiting, waiting for her sister Bian Yinyu to come.None of them wanted to be with their classmates, and they felt that they were not as happy as the two sisters talking and laughing together.They have been used to playing together since childhood.The more they get together, the tighter they become.

When Bian Yinyu was in the second grade of elementary school, one day, her mother Ye Xiuzhu came back from get off work and brought back two pieces of good news excitedly. One was that her original technical school in Shanghai was upgraded to a technical secondary school, and their education will also be upgraded to a technical secondary school. ; Second, they are from Shanghai, and they can settle a child back to Shanghai.After saying these two pieces of good news, Ye Xiuzhu said excitedly: God still has eyes!There are no white branches beside us.Bian Jinwu on the side grinned, and said "Okay, okay" with a smile.Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu were not very interested in their mother's promotion to a technical secondary school, and they were very happy that one of them could return to Shanghai. I don't know how much I heard their mother talking about Shanghai every day; The concepts of "big city" and "prosperity" in Shanghai have been deeply rooted in their hearts since they were young; they have been to Shanghai twice before, and they also have impressions of Shanghai's prosperity and excitement.Of course they also think Shanghai is good.In their minds, Shanghai is unattainable. It seems to be close and far away from them. They are on the sidelines. They can't get in and can't stay away. If they are allowed to go in, they want to stay inside and don't want to come out. In Lanzhou, they thought they were from Shanghai, but when they arrived in Shanghai, they thought they were not.They are of course envious of the authentic Shanghainese, and they dream of being an authentic Shanghainese.After cheering, they realized that only one of them could enter Shanghai, and the other had to stay in Lanzhou honestly.They looked at each other.

Bian Yinxuan asked his sister: Do you want to go? Bian Yinyu replied: Of course. Bian Yinxuan said unwillingly: I want to go too. Bian Yinyu thought for a while, and as if she had found a solution, she opened her eyes and said, "Let's guess, whoever wins will go!" Bian Yinkuo stretched out his right hand and said: Good.But immediately took it back.She tilted her head, thought for a while, and said: It only counts if you win three games in a row, and it won't work if you win one or two games. Bian Yinyu nodded, stretched out her hand, and said vigorously: Guess now! The two started guessing after talking about it.After guessing, their shouts of "guessing and scolding" increased step by step. Every time they guessed, the two of them stared at each other's shot with round eyes to see if it was "scissors", "fist" or "cloth". There are more than a dozen hands, and there is no winner. Either you win one and I win two, or I win two and you win one. No one wins three in a row.They continued to guess, and the shouting became more and more loud.Mother was in a good mood. After watching them guess and scold them for a while, she smiled and waved her hands when she saw that they were endless.Who of you goes to Shanghai is determined by our adults, how can we listen to you!Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu stopped abruptly, and at the same time shouted to their mother: "I'll go!"They believed it, and cheered "ah".The mother looked at them with relief, looking comfortable.

After calming down, Ye Xiuzhu discussed with Bian Jinwu, her parents-in-law, family members in Shanghai, and Bian Jinwu's brothers about which daughter to return to Shanghai. They all agreed that it would be better for the youngest Bian Yinyu to go back. , because of his young age, he adapts quickly.This was also Ye Xiuzhu's idea, so it was decided that Bian Yinyu would return to Shanghai.After the results were announced, the rivalry between the two daughters was revealed again. Bian Yinyu jumped up and down with joy, while Bian Yinyu stomped her feet in anger. Then, she went into their sisters' room, lay on the bed, and burst into tears. Shouting that parents are eccentric!Mother persuaded her for a while, and she gave up.It's okay to stop making trouble, and for a while after that, my sister seemed to have provoked her, and she never took the initiative to answer her sister.Bian Yinyu also seemed to owe her sister something, always taking the initiative to show her courtesies.After holding back for a while, Bian Yinqiao's unbalanced energy passed, and he completely admitted the fact that his sister would return to Shanghai; when he thought about it again, what crossed his mind was the sadness that they would be separated in two places in the future.Think: My sister is gone, how lonely she will be!

Half a year later, after the second-half semester vacation of the second grade, Bian Yinyu left Lanzhou and went to Shanghai with her uncle who came to pick her up from Shanghai before school started.Her household registration has been transferred back to Shanghai before, and she has been going to Shanghai since the third grade of elementary school. From now on, she is officially a native of Shanghai.Before leaving, Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu hugged each other like adults and wept bitterly. The parents and grandparents present were all moved, thinking that sisters are sisters, no matter how much they fight in normal times, they will finally see family love.

After Bian Yinyu left, at first Bian Yinyu was still a little uncomfortable with being alone, and became taciturn for a while, which was a quiet appearance she had never had since she could speak.She felt lonely, so she often brought her classmates to play at home. Later, she fixed a friend with her best female classmate, and the two became closer and closer. At that classmate's house, the two of them finished their homework together and played together for a while.Gradually, she seldom thought of her sister in Shanghai. Even if she saw her sister's letter, she just read it, and she couldn't arouse the feeling of missing her.It's not like at the beginning, she was scrambling to write a reply to her sister; when her parents wrote back, asking her if she had anything to say to her sister, she simply shook her head and said "no".Parents said, this child forgets love quickly.As if she had made an agreement, she changed, and her younger sister in Shanghai also changed. She no longer wrote letters to her parents and older sister, but her uncle wrote them for her.In the letter, my uncle said that Bian Yinyu adapted quickly, she was able to chat and laugh with her classmates freely, and she also made a few good classmates.The adaptation process of the two sisters took less than two months.

After that, Bian Yinyu not only got used to the taste of "only son", but also fell in love with being "only son".She was alone with her parents, and she received the only love, care and treatment. Parents gave her all the fun, delicious, easy-to-wear, and useful things that parents wanted to give their children. Unlike before, she had to share with her sister. Sharing, sometimes even arguing about who has more and less, is always difficult to be fully satisfied; but she enjoys abundance, satisfaction, enjoyment, heartiness, freedom, and joy when she enjoys it alone, and she can easily be satisfied. At the same time, Bian Yinyu in Shanghai is also "independent" crazy. It was originally agreed that she would go back to Lanzhou every holiday to reunite with her parents and sister, but the first holiday was winter vacation. Unwilling to come back, the uncle said helplessly in the letter that the child said that he did not celebrate the Chinese New Year in Shanghai, so he only wanted to celebrate the Chinese New Year in Shanghai.Mother felt that Bian Yinyu was fresh in Shanghai, and it made sense, so she didn't force her, and wrote back that she could let her go.In the summer vacation of the second vacation, my uncle sent a letter saying that the child Bian Yinyu said that she would participate in some social labor organized by her class with her classmates during the summer vacation.The mother felt that her daughter's active performance was also a good thing, and she would not return if she did not return.When the third holiday came, it was another winter holiday for Chinese New Year. My mother missed Bian Yinyu very much, so she wrote to say that she would have to go back to Lanzhou this year for this holiday.But the uncle wrote back that the child Bian Yinyu still yelled that he didn't want to go back to Lanzhou, saying that he would go to many teachers' homes with his classmates to celebrate the New Year.Ye Xiuzhu got angry, and said to Bian Jinwu: This heartless child forgets his parents quickly, parents are not as important as teachers!Bian Jinwu comforted her by saying, don't think too much, children, you can't think of it if you are small.Bian Yinxuan pouted and sneered, "It's better if you don't come back, who cares about her coming back."The mother said angrily to Bian Yinyu: You don't want your sister either, you are heartless enough.Bian Yinyu kept the expression on her face indifferently.Uncle Bian Yinyu's character was like Bian Jinwu, and Ye Xiuzhu knew that Bian Yinyu was really making trouble, and her uncle couldn't control it.After thinking about it, Ye Xiuzhu wrote to Shanghai and said angrily, if Bian Yinyu doesn't come back this time, she won't support her, and won't send her money. Let her drink northwest wind.This trick was very effective. Bian Yinyu's uncle wrote in a letter saying that Bian Yinyu was smart and understood the power of money at a young age, so he agreed to go back to Lanzhou for the New Year.A week later, Bian Yinyu came back with his uncle.Bian Yinyu, who has not seen her parents or sister for more than a year, was not surprised when she saw her parents and sister, she looked naturally familiar, except that she spoke a few words of Shanghainese at every turn, she acted as if she had never left Lanzhou at all her home; she came in and out, talking and laughing, very casually.The mother sighed in her heart, this child has a big heart.The older sister, Bian Yinyu, was somewhat reserved, but she was the one who pulled her away.Let go and stay together, Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu can laugh together again like before.My mother said: After all, we have the foundation of growing up together, so we can go back without any effort.After Bian Yinyu left, Bian Yinyu returned to the state of "independence" and transformed quickly. Afterwards, Bian Yinyu and Bian Yinyu got used to their back and forth switching between "independence" and "gathering". I can't remember to mention it, as if there is no each other in my heart. Following his parents alone, as in the past, Bian Yinguan only loved to hang around his mother, who also liked to take her with him wherever he went.Bian Yinkui grew taller day by day, and did not change her beautiful appearance.When she grows up, she learns to dress up, dress, and comb her hair even more. Unlike when she was a child, she can only imitate. When she grows up, she can not only learn, but also create by herself. Even if my mother saw it, she would praise it.In the early and mid-1980s, ballroom dancing was popular, and simple dance halls were set up in employee family homes, cultural centers, and sub-district offices. Live your spare time to the fullest.Ye Xiuzhu, who knows how to enjoy life, will naturally not lag behind, she goes to the dance floor almost every day.Bian Yinkuo also wanted to go with his mother every day, but her mother was a bit educated after all, and she also valued her studies, not to mention that Bian Yinkuo was a high school student at that time, so she didn't dare to delay her studies.Ye Xiuzhu took her with her too, but only took her there once a week, only on Saturdays, saying that weekends should also be relaxing. Bian Yinyu dances with aura, slow three, fast three, slow four, fast four can be learned at once, and later learned tango from some people who can dance tango, and can tap a few steps.She learned, and she got the school.The school is not closed, and ballroom dancing is popular in society, and it is also a hot topic in school.Talking about this, Bian Yinxuan was very energetic, and proudly showed the dance steps she had learned from time to time. Gradually, the students knew that she was a person who could "dance", and many girls wanted to learn from her very much.Bian Yinkuo was very enthusiastic and would ask for advice if he wanted to learn.She is famous for "dancing" in the grade.In the third year of high school, the teacher stopped her dancing and told her not to spread "dancing" in the class anymore, saying that when she was admitted to university, you should go to the university and dance well. After the college entrance examination in 1986, Bian Yinguan was admitted to a normal college in Shaanxi, where he majored in English.In the Department of Foreign Languages, she was beautiful and was called "Xihua". Before long, her dancing skills were widely known, and she became a famous "Dancer". "Tie flower" and "dancing hand" make her unique, and people who pursue her are indispensable.