Chapter 60 man in two

2000/05/19 Sanlian Life Weekly Author: Hong Huang Men are divided into two parts, the upper half and the lower half.The first half is self-cultivation, and the second half is essence. Women marry a man mostly because of his upper half, and they like the kind of well-cultivated husband.It's easy to know the top half of a man, and sometimes a business card can tell the story clearly.Or a passbook.A careful woman will also pay attention to some details, such as what brand the suit is, which school the diploma is from, how many square meters the house is, and so on. The lower half of a man is the essence.The so-called essence refers to a person's true qualities and his qualities.True color is what is inside him, it is not easy to see if it is hidden inside, and men are generally unwilling to reveal their true colors, especially in front of women, they always put out their decent top half first to hide their true colors.But the true color determines whether a man is kind, peaceful, fair, romantic, gentle, or vicious, twisted, selfish, mean, and violent.This is the same as plants, firewood and huanghuali are incomparable, but during the "Cultural Revolution", I don't know how many old huanghuali furniture were burned, and firewood can now be sold as antiques.There are not many people who can tell the difference between huanghuali and firewood, and women who can see the true colors of men are not encountered every day.

If ethos is internal, then quality is determined through a person's behavior toward other people.His speech, manners, and conduct are all determined by a person's quality, including sex.Society teaches women not to have sex with men unless they are married. It really hurts women.Making love is the kind of thing of "sex origin", which can best show the quality of a man.I have a friend, we all call him "Brother Xu", when he was in a relationship, he often asked his girlfriend to sleep with him, and he said to them: "How can you wait until you get married, how can you understand me if you don't make love to me ? Isn’t it too hasty to marry me if you don’t understand me!” As a result, he was often slapped at the mouth.And I think Brother Xu is one of the few men who is more sincere.

When a woman really falls in love with a man, she is moved by his lower half, not his upper half.But most women have a sense of fear of men's bottom half. They are not interested in the exposure of a man's bottom half, but just want to look decent. The upper half and lower half of a man are often not the same thing, which means that the upper half is decent, but it does not mean that his nature is good.A piece of firewood can also be carved finely, but it is still made of firewood.A friend of mine, a man, went to study in the United States in the early 1980s. He was overexposed in the first year there, and he tried everything he hadn’t done in China.He told me that once he and a group of American classmates took "medicine mushrooms", which is a kind of hallucination drug that American Indians take during ceremonies. After taking it, he began to imagine his upper half and lower body. The first half went up to Jinggangshan with the Red Army, and the second half ran away with a beautiful American girl.This means that his appearance is revolutionary, but his essence is more petty bourgeois.

Let me say that we women should pay more attention to the lower half of men, this is the most fundamental thing.If there is no play in the second half, the first half will definitely not be much better.