Chapter 61 I'm your big sister

2000/05/22 Sanlian Life Weekly Author: Pudding When I was in college, there was a female classmate in my class who was good at telling fortunes with poker cards, and was even better at discussing life with people.Her voice has something of a "spirituality" to it, and she's probably on some radio station right now hosting a hotline or a relationship hotline or something. At that time, I was a self-confessed sentimental guy. I discussed life issues with that female classmate a few times, and I thought that she liked me very much. However, this illusion was quickly corrected.The reason is that she is willing to discuss life with all the male students. To be precise, she is willing to listen to all the male students to talk about their distress, and give advice and encouragement in due course.She makes a gesture of understanding everyone's inner workings, and she wants to guide us through our youth with this gesture.

Not without viciously, I named this gesture "Big Sister's Desire".There is a kind of woman who seems to be giving life guidance to others, who has an extraordinary need to play the role of big sister. When I got my first job, my leader happened to be such a woman.She is a few years older than me, and logically speaking, she is fully qualified to guide me in some aspects, but because I was stimulated by that female classmate in college, I respect female leaders at a distance.However, she didn't stop harassing me. As a hobby, she always uses the phone to guide her friends, telling them how to eliminate unreasonable thoughts, how to maintain family harmony, how to get along with leaders and colleagues, how to seek happiness in life, and so on.I was in the same office as her, and my ears couldn't stand hearing her soft-spoken and calling others as the eldest sister.

Scientific knowledge tells us that hearing has a special response to sound. If it is the noise of a blacksmith shop, the auditory system will consciously capture and amplify the sound because of its monotony. As a result, listening to two people whispering is more exciting than listening to the sound of blacksmithing People are tired. I was tortured like this for a few years, and then I couldn't bear it and changed jobs.When I parted from the female leader, I made her completely my elder sister. If I could record all the phone calls she made during the time I was with her, I might be able to write a book.At that time, a set of books called advice and so on was popular in the street.