Chapter 19 The more attractive the lover, the better

The more attractive the loved one, the better.The greater the charm, the more rivals will be.The more rivals you have, the more opportunities you have to show your own advantages.Because no one is perfect, if you want to highlight your strengths, it is best to find a love rival with corresponding weaknesses to be your control group. Considering this requirement, there must be more rivals in love, so that there are more control samples for you to choose from. If you are a person with not many advantages (usually you are), at least you still have the opportunity to squeeze into some unpopular people. project final.

Rivals are very diverse, which is one of the benefits of a lover's great charm. Loved ones, the less attractive the better.Charm is neither bust nor house, so why bigger is better! ? The charm of a lover is different from the charm of a star.The charm of a star is enough as long as it can stimulate your imagination of "the happy state when you are close". This kind of charm needs to be large and powerful, but it only needs to be as bright and dazzling as festival fireworks, and it does not need to be long-lasting ,firm. But the charm of a lover is different.The charm of your lover, in addition to stimulating your imagination of "the happy state when you are close", must also really force you to pursue that happiness, urge you to practice that happiness, and support you to guard that happiness.

This kind of charm does not have to be widespread, it is enough to cover all your senses.To ignite the intensity of that moment, you only need to light up a match in the dark night of your life. But this charm must be stubborn and indestructible, like a small wound that cannot heal for a long time after a sharp arrow pierces the flesh, and scars still remain after healing. Therefore, the charm of your lover should be small - small, concentrated, sustainable, until you can't stand it. The more attractive the loved one, the better.Since the lover is the other half we have lost for a long time and finally found, the size of the lover's light must be proportional to our own light.

We all secretly wish we were hugely attractive, but as everyone knows, we're mostly bleak people who don't give us a second glance when crossing the street unless we're killed. We have not one-tenth the charm we would like to have. Then, when God gives us the other half, it actually gives us a chance to expand our own charm. This is why when we fall in love, people will immediately become radiant. It is our significant other who instills light into us.There are only a few opportunities like this in a person's life. When choosing the one you love, how can you not choose the one with strong charm? !

Loved ones, the less attractive the better.Love is something not to be shared, not to be shared, not even intended to be shared. The lover is not used to show off. Showing off the pleasure obtained by the lover is not the pleasure of love.At best, it can only be regarded as the pleasure brought by "success". A person with great charisma can of course also be a good lover at the same time.However, a lover with great charm can easily make us unable to resist showing off, tempting us to enjoy the fun of showing off, but neglecting to look behind the light, that we should treat each other with love, not treasure, our spouse.

The love that wins by showing off will shrink inexplicably in the end. Like the story of the French movie "Too Beautiful", the huge charm of the lover finally becomes an obstacle to love.