Chapter 9 If you are in love, you will live together

If you are in love, you will live together.Living separately only increases the potential for external development of both parties and makes their mutual ownership more blurred.this is not right.Love is fragile enough that it shouldn't increase the chances of it going wrong. Now that you are in love, you have to ask for blessings. If you are in love, don't live together.Living together only increases the mutual aggression between the two parties in the complex life, and makes the tacit understanding that the two have painstakingly cultivated suffer more trivial disturbances.this is not right.Love is fragile enough that it shouldn't increase the likelihood of it going wrong.

Now that you are in love, you have to ask for blessings. People in love must live together.For passionate lovers, missing each other is a very energy-consuming thing; whether it is missing the other person's body, or missing the other person's mind and style, it is very energy-consuming.The degree of mental exhaustion can make the students stare at the blackboard, not knowing what to say, being forced to stand without shame, and failing the exam; of course, it can also make the commuters arrive late and leave early, fiddle with official documents, forget to press the floor when entering the elevator, and answer the phone I don't know who called, put a spoonful of sugar in the boss's coffee, and gave the customer 200 yuan more change.All these small-scale tragedies continue to be staged, resulting in the pain of loved ones and the happiness of enemies, the waste of social resources, and the danger of personal life.

How can we avoid such a huge mental drain?Cohabitation is a major method.Although people who live together cannot go to school and work together, at least they can calm down in the morning and evening, keep track of their whereabouts, and minimize the faulty words and deeds of missing each other as much as possible. People in love, don't live together.For passionate lovers, missing each other is a very enjoyable thing; whether it is missing each other's body, or missing each other's mind and style, it is very sweet, and it is different from missing each other for a long time.Both really make lovers feel bitter—"I think you're so bitter.", so bitter.But the bitterness of the former is the bitterness of chocolate; the bitterness of the latter is the bitterness of a bad stomach.The bitterness of chocolate is a rewarding bitterness that lures the taste buds into a wild embrace of the coming sweetness; as for the bitterness of a bad stomach, it is of course just a frustrating bitterness, letting you know that you are unlucky and unlucky enough alone.

The person you miss is usually much more graceful than the person in real life.If you live together, at best what you get is the actual other party, just like a steak served on the table, how delicious and firm it is, that is, a steak that will fill you up if you eat it, but will get cold if you don’t eat it.It's downright boring compared to that metaphysical steak you miss when you're hungry. Don't serve the steak, don't-cohabit. In love, please live together.In the huge world, it is enough luck to pursue each other and find each other.Don't expect this kind of luck to happen again and again.So, instead of repeatedly making the hard test of finding each other across the face of the planet, please just live together.Otherwise, if you have nothing to do, you will come to me, and I will come to you. If you can't find it a few times, everyone will be very discouraged—"It turns out that we are not so connected."

If you are in love, don't live together.Cohabitation is very different from marriage.Marriage is like going to jail. It is judged by the court, the sentence is fixed, and the prison is locked and guarded.As for cohabitation, although they are also in prison, they have no legal effect, and the door of the cell is not locked. Prisoners who want to go out can get out of this prison at any time. Without legal protection, and without a prison with locked doors, who would stay in it for decades?It would be great if everyone volunteered to stay for a few months out of curiosity. Either, get married; or else, live apart.Don't live together.

People in love should live together.If you don't know how to deal with the booger after the other party picks their nostrils, it would be too thrilling to love. People in love should not live together.Listening to my lover answering the phone all day, I can't help but guess that the other end of the phone is the ex or ex-ex of the other party, but I have to pretend that I am not eavesdropping on the surface.This kind of life at home is too hard, even harder than going to work.