Chapter 10 Lovers should be suspicious

Lovers should be suspicious.Otherwise, the monotony and boringness of love will be revealed within a month. Lovers should not be suspicious.Falling in love is a labor-intensive activity. The more suspicious you are, the more distracted you become, and eventually you become overwhelmed and become a lover who is struggling.Many lovers who are struggling because of infidelity will feel that this kind of tightness caused by loyalty is completely unworthy. Lovers should be suspicious.Look at the Fanbang princess in the Beijing opera, guessing her husband again and again, and persevering, only to find out out of thin air that she has "sleeped with the enemy" for fifteen years.A dreary royal marriage, immediately climaxed and gilded by politics.

Lovers should not be suspicious.People watching the stage play "Mr. Butterfly", if they dissociate the gilding of racial politics from this love, they will find that the real gender of the protagonist is really just a private matter between the two of them. There have been several incidents in which the real gender of the spouse was discovered after being married for decades. The discoverers had nothing to gain except being stunned and published in the newspapers, but lost decades of marriage.Curiosity killed the cat, suspicion killed the marriage. Lovers should be suspicious.Just as the living should be afraid of death.Love will definitely end without the intervention of external forces, just like people will definitely die without the need for others to kill.Suspiciousness and fear of death do not have to be directed at specific people or things, but a basic attitude towards existence.

Lovers should not be suspicious.No matter how great love is, it is just a giant tower of playing cards in the eyes of flies. Although it is full of red hearts, black hearts, kings and queens, it is very spectacular, but it cannot withstand the blows of flies. . People in love must be suspicious.Being in love makes a person too kind, too good to be true.Before you have time to doubt the other person, you have to doubt yourself greatly-"Is this the same person?" You look in the mirror, confused. People in love can't be suspicious.What we are used to, the paranoia in love is very inefficient, at best it is the blind paranoia of Dr. Watson.As for being as accurate and suspicious as Sherlock Holmes, it is impossible to do it in love, and the mental state of people in love is overwhelming.Therefore, Sherlock Holmes is unable to fall in love.