Chapter 8 love must be thrifty

In love, you must be frugal.In a first-class love, everything is precious, and everything is only a little bit.Tenderness is precious, wildness is precious, and sensuality is also precious.There can only be a little bit, not too much, and if there is too much, the first-class quality will not be maintained. Therefore, people who are in love must develop the habit of frugality, and never ask for too much, and don't give too much.As the quantity increases, the quality deteriorates, and the lover's tenderness, wildness, loyalty, and sensuality immediately become tiresome. When you are in love, you have to be extravagant.First-class love, it is not necessarily possible to meet once in a lifetime.Even if you happen to be lucky, you don't know how long it will last, maybe two or three days, maybe half a year.

Since we don't know how long it will last, of course we should spend it squanderingly, squandering with all our heart and soul.If you don’t squander it right now, save it and save it. When you want to squander it one day, you may not have a chance. Spend like a death row prisoner with no tomorrow. You who are in love, be thrifty.Sending each other large and small gifts when there is nothing to do is one of the favorite things for people who start to fall in love.As big as sending a car, as small as sending a flower, you can give it away. So I advise you to be frugal, not to give more gifts that save money, but to refrain from the habit of giving gifts indiscriminately. Love, like a living tree, can breathe and be eaten by moths. It will cut off branches here Sprout on the stem and drop leaves on that cut stem.Love is alive, and love will wither. These are the appearance of love, the ecology of love, and the essence that you should touch and examine carefully.

Now you have brought a lot of presents, big and small, some are shiny and hung on the tree, some are piled heavily under the tree, the small bulbs are on and on, and the gold and silver shavings are scattered everywhere, making a lively and beautiful Christmas tree coming. What do you do with making love into a Christmas tree?Don't you know there's only one day for Christmas?Don't you know that the Christmas tree is a corpse that left the earth?When all the pretty decorations are removed, it's a dead tree. Stop thinking of love like a Christmas tree. You who are in love, spend your money.Intense love is a beautiful holiday in a boring life, just like the winter and summer vacations in a boring school.Students who are on winter and summer vacations, if they don’t squander their precious time for a while, how can they have the pleasure of vacation?

In the same way, during the life holiday of falling in love, if you have the idea of ​​​​"restraint" in your heart, it is not good to talk about love.For example: Unknowingly strolling to the river, but out of the principle of thrift, I am afraid that the river water will damage the shoes on my feet, so I refuse to walk in the water.Or, I met an old-fashioned street ice cream vendor, but for the principle of moderation, I am afraid that the calorie intake will exceed the amount that should be consumed, so I politely refuse the beautiful ice cream handed over by my lover.These are all acts of killing the scenery.To fall in love with such a person is worse than falling in love with a pair of waterproof rubber boots, or falling in love with a weighing scale.

Abandon the idea of ​​restraint and spend according to instinct. You don't need to hand in your report card during the holidays.Even if you have to hand it in, it's a report card of love, and the test of love is exactly your squandered ability and tricks.