Chapter 4 part one 4

There is a principle in gift giving, which is to look at the object.For a friend who is short in life, you'd better give him a gift of real value; for a person with a better life, you can give him something interesting. Giving a gift means showing respect, politeness, and respect. What kind of identity is the other party, and what kind of gift do you give.What kind of gift can also express the weight of the recipient in the heart of the gift giver. Relatively speaking, how much ability you have, how many gifts you can give.If you don't have that weight, that heart, don't force yourself.Because, if the gift-giving shows your "superiority" or makes the other party feel "inferiority", it loses the meaning of gift-giving.

Remember: gift giving is a matter of great learning, not only must it be "right", but also "smart". "Practical" is not equal to "affection"; "value" is not equal to "weight". Even if you give something to help someone, you must take the other person's face into consideration. lift up, drop down On the battlefield of life, always remember: A fish cannot leave the water, and if you start out with the masses, you cannot leave the masses.If you start out with a certain major, it's best not to be "transferred" from your major.Even if you are transferred, you must keep in touch and not fall behind.

Of course, you may also be a great talent, able to survive the battle of the near death.At that time, the traitor was defeated.And the one who won the "yellow robe" is naturally you.Where all the "false" belong remember!We don't have to assume that everyone is a bad person.But you must know that unreasonable benefits in this world cannot be taken.It is dangerous to trust others unreasonably.Even if you benefit from it, it might be unethical. --------------------------------------------- The courtier who fights the world wearing a pair of trousers with his master is often the first to be killed.

small stone reform Since Xiaoshi became the special assistant to the chairman, the supervisors of all units became nervous.Because any time a call is made, he may be very busy, and if his reaction is a little slow, Xiaoshi rushes down by himself. After all, he is a doctor of business administration who studied in the United States. Although he is only in his early thirties, he is very efficient. He has not been in the company for a long time, and he has figured out every unit. Of course, if you figure it out, there will be troubles. Didn't Manager Zhang and Manager Wang pack their bags separately?The day before, Xiao Shi had just walked around their unit and flipped through his notebook, and unexpectedly found the dismissal notice the next day.

When Xiaoshi came in, the already shrewd chairman became even more powerful, able to see through everything in the organization. Of course, the chairman is also really great. Although he doesn't have much education, he knows people well and is good at his duties. That's why the company has grown from a factory manager, Ms. Hua, who is in charge of accounting, and a few workers to a large scale with hundreds of people today.Everyone said that without Ms. Hua, the factory manager couldn't be so financially stable. If Ms. Hua hadn't sold her life to the company, she wouldn't be able to stay unmarried until today.

Xiaoshi is not related to the chairman, and he has gained so much power in just one interview!The chairman's reasoning is simple: "The times are different! We need to use modern methods and concepts to manage, so that we can stand the test. Hiring a young man from outside, with no old entanglements, can do things freely and appear objective." In almost every executive meeting, the chairman would praise Xiaoshi in front of everyone, saying that Xiaoshi would help him to carry out a comprehensive rectification for the company, improve the company's physique, and aim to go higher and further.

Xiaoshi's evaluation plan is finally released, and all the supervisors are waiting with bated breath to see how "changing the sky" will be.... "After understanding the work of each department, I feel that the company needs to be fully computerized and transparent, and all the information should be entered into the computer. To check the details of the batch of goods, the account and even the valuation, one button can clearly Come out, not only increase efficiency, reduce human interference, but also prevent fraud!" Xiaoshi handed over a thick plan to the chairman:

"It's written in great detail. Even the computer's capacity and model have been evaluated. It doesn't cost much. You just need to hand it over to the purchasing department and find someone to estimate the price. I will then assist with the installation and teach you how to use it." ..." "Good! Good! Good! Let me take a look!" The chairman nodded frequently, then turned around again: "Miss Hua, you should study too!" What could be done in one month has been delayed for nearly half a year.Did the chairman and Ms. Hua have to study for so long?But every time there is a meeting; he must give a thumbs up and say loudly:

"Dr. Shi's plan is so great, so great. Ha! Ha! Ha! The more I look at it, the more I admire it, I must do it! I must do it!" Everyone guessed that Xiaoshi would be promoted to a first-level supervisor soon, and sure enough, the chairman announced the news at the meeting: "Dr. Shi has stayed in the United States for many years. Our company should actively rely on his talents to explore overseas markets. Therefore, I decided to set up an American office and ask Dr. Shi to serve as the representative in the United States. Buy a house, air tickets for the whole family. Moving and children's education expenses are all borne by the company."

What a treat!Everyone showed envious eyes. It's just that the company's overall computerization, who is responsible for it? "I'm researching" every time someone asks, the chairman said: "It must be done! It must be done!" (think about it) Many people who read this story will say that Xiao Shigong was the master of the earthquake, and the chairman released him to keep him away from the center of power. The Gonggao Zhenzhu in the actual story does not fit the "narrow" interpretation of the Gonggao Zhenzhu.In a narrow sense, high meritorious deeds mean that when a subject's contribution is too high and his power is too great, there is a possibility that the "lord" will be overthrown and replaced, so that the "lord" will be shocked and have to remove this strong minister.

As for the "broad sense" explanation of the master of high meritorious service, it is much more complicated. At least we can summarize it into the following two types: 1. The understanding of the Lord is too deep, or because of being too familiar with the Lord, one is arrogant because of being favored by the Lord, resulting in "the Lord is shocked by his achievements".For example, in history, many courtiers who helped the reckless emperors and conquered the world did not end well.Not because they might seize power, but because when the "lord" became the so-called "true man", in the eyes of all people, he was a dragon; in the eyes of his old friends who wore the same pair of pants, he was still an ordinary person. Being the lord of a dragon is unbearable to be regarded as a mortal, so those old friends who don't know how to kneel on the ground and shout "long live my emperor, long live, long live, long live, long live, long live, long live my emperor" will be eliminated one by one. And in order to prevent the world from blaming him for killing heroes without nostalgia, he often has to be charged with serious crimes so that he can do it openly.And because of these veterans, there are many members of the team, whoever refuses to submit, or even dares to stand up and speak out, may also be eliminated by Yijing. This kind of situation also often happens between husband and wife. Many couples who struggled to get ahead in a poor environment cannot grow old together because when the former poor and lowly boy became the idol of everyone, in the eyes of his wife, he was still an ordinary person.When the world thinks that his knowledge is vast, in the eyes of his wife, it is clear that he has only read those few books.When he was talking at the dinner table, the wife sitting next to him laughed secretly. She had heard the content of his conversation hundreds of times. So one day when a successful man meets a woman who admires him, and compares with a wife who often speaks sarcasticly and hurts his self-esteem, he is likely to give up his wife. 2. Because the way of doing things is too straightforward, it may cause harm to the Lord and even shock the Lord.For example, if a reckless hero succeeds in a revolution, in order to establish order, he needs a good judiciary system; and in order to show the benefits and eliminate the corruption of the old society, he must clean up corruption. At this time, he has to face many difficulties.Among them are old friends who helped him in the revolution. These old friends are likely to be embezzlers, and they naturally become resistance.In order to show selflessness, those who are "lords" often have to operate on old friends. The next question is that the "lord" himself, or his family, may have done something illegal. When the judicial and supervisory system is really established, he himself will inevitably be investigated. At this time, the master has to let go. Slow down the original pace, and even become resistance to reform in the end. Another example is that a large number of illegal construction households, in order to protect their own interests, concentrate their efforts to support the election of a representative of public opinion, but when that representative really enters the parliament, for the sake of good politics and the interests of the whole society, they may gradually change their original position of opposing the demolition of illegal construction .So in the next election, the illegal construction households made great efforts to make him lose the election.The "master" here is the illegal construction households, and the ones with high meritorious service and disobedience are the representatives of public opinion they originally elected. Xiaoshi's high achievements are precisely because of his vigorous reforms.Although it was beneficial to the chairman at first, but later, it may be "exposed to the outside world" because it made the company too "transparent" and caused harm to the chairman. To sum it up, we need to know: 1. When an old partner who works with him suddenly develops almost to the point of deification, he will feel a little overwhelmed because he always hears praise from others.At this time, if you find that he is no longer an old friend who was able to "chat na Yayan", or break up the partnership early and leave him.Otherwise, I'm afraid you will have to flatter everyone. On the contrary, if you are the one who succeeds too quickly, you should always check whether you have committed the problem of "self-importance", because this is often the reason why people "be rich for only three years" or "be rich for three generations". Be a "Master", if there is no master's structure, it will be difficult to last for a long time today. 2. In the eyes of the master, the courtier is his tool, and the law is also his tool. Unless he has the concept and heart of "rule by law" instead of "rule by man", when the tool is beneficial to him, he will Reuse; when it is not beneficial, he will remove it. There is an idiom in China - "Fanglan is in the household and has to be hoeed", which is exactly the reason. If the Fanglan grows in front of the window instead of in front of the door, it will not be hoeed.Instead, it may be "supported". So if you think you are Fanglan, but you can't pay attention to your boss, or even be regarded as a thorn in the side, first think about whether you are "becoming a householder" or blocking the way! "