Chapter 10 ten

You live and you die, it is your own business! It is your inescapable responsibility to capture that stronghold at a few minutes. You decide! In order to move house and pack things, I have been really busy lately, but every time I ask how are you preparing?You said in a leisurely manner: Don't worry!It can be done in two or three strokes.Until today, there are only two days left before the moving company comes to deliver things, and you start to take the cardboard boxes to the bedroom, but you keep asking: "How to seal the bottom of the box? Do you want to send the unwanted books to the library?" "No tape?" What should I do?" "Should I keep the notebooks from the previous year?...'Should the obsolete books be thrown into the trash bag?"

At this time, the answer I gave was the same sentence: "You decide for yourself!" You should be very happy to hear this sentence. I remember the first time I heard your grandmother say to me when I was a child, "You decide for yourself!" There was an inexplicable excitement, just like hearing "The lucky money from Mother Wang, you can keep it for yourself Use." I want to jump up, because that means I can make the decision!What a wonderful thing to be in charge of! To be the master is not to ask for instructions on everything; to be the master is to be able to do it in the way you want to do.To be the master is to have the right to dominate!To be the master is to no longer have to listen to others!

But remember!To be in charge is to take full responsibility for one's own actions, even for others!Because one's actions will affect others, of course one is in charge, and one must also consider the impact on others.For example, I am the head of the family, which sounds very authoritative.But you should also be responsible to your family; for example, your mother is the director of the admission department and also the master, so you should be responsible to her entire department. So this decision has become not easy! Today, I want you to be the master!Be the master of packing your own stuff!You can have power over your own stuff, stay?Do not stay?Take it to your new home, or throw it in a trash bag?It's all in your mind!

Of course, correspondingly, you also have to consider how to get rid of the excess!Or after throwing away something that shouldn't be thrown away, accept the loss it caused!What is especially troublesome is that in the past you asked me how to do this and how to do that, and I explained them one by one, but today you have to solve it yourself! You said that there is no wide tape for sealing the box. I said that I have a roll, but I am using it myself, so I can't share it with you. Please solve it yourself! You can search through boxes and cabinets; borrow from neighbors; ask classmates who can already drive to drive you to buy; you can also walk to a small shop a mile away in the rain.

but!Please don't ask me "what to do?" Today is up to you! Don't think I'm cold, because you have reached the age where you should be responsible for yourself.Your book is not mine, and I can't choose for you!Your carton is not mine either, and I have no resources to spare.The most important thing is: you are not me, let alone my shadow, I cannot be the master for you for the rest of my life! I remember when I went to Chenggong Ridge, the officer once said something: When fighting, the superiors only ask you to capture the target at a few minutes, and do not ask whether your people are overtired, it is impossible to rush so fast!Don't ask if you have enough firepower or enough food, because they consider the overall situation of the battle and cannot take care of your needs one by one.In short, your life and your death are your own business!It is your inescapable responsibility to capture that stronghold at a few minutes.

Yes, responsibility is often inescapable.A mature person must be someone who can be responsible from beginning to end.Because he knew: "Responsibilities are intertwined. The squad leader cannot complete the tasks assigned by the platoon leader, and the platoon leader cannot complete the tasks assigned by the company commander. This is pushed up layer by layer. As long as the people below cannot complete If the mission is not fulfilled, the above goals will not be achieved. And war is related to the safety of the country and the life and death of the people. How can anyone not be responsible? How can those who neglect their duties not accept the most severe punishment?

Looking back, although moving is not a war, if you haven't packed your things when the moving company's car arrives, won't our whole family's actions be affected? And the next day, the people who bought our house will move in. There may also be new owners who are eager to move in to the house they originally lived in. Isn’t this also a link? Speaking of this great dimension, it is still the old saying: "You decide for yourself!" I have a friend who has no money, no influence, and even little talent. But the rich pay for him, and the hardworking work for him, Talented people offer advice to him...

Hi!Are you OK? In the afternoon, the children of the neighbor across the street were playing at the door. "So they also have two older children!" I turned around and called you: "Go out and say hello, let's get to know each other!" "How do I say hello? How presumptuous? It doesn't come naturally!" you say. "You can take a ball, dribble it out the side door, pass in front of them, can't you say 'hi'?!" You don't move until the neighbor walks in, missing your chance to get to know them. I know you don't like hypocrisy, but you also need to know that people get to know each other, in addition to natural fate, there are many opportunities for creation.For example, when we move here, we have to get to know them sooner or later. You just said "Hi" to them earlier, how can you say it's artificial or hypocritical?

Even if it is created in a creative way, it is worthwhile to form a relationship!Then again, why don't you think that they are playing ball at the door just to lure you out and say "Hi" to you? For example, yesterday evening, you saw me chatting with my neighbor Mrs. Barker in her backyard.We got to know each other like this, left each other phone calls, made an appointment to watch and help each other, and everyone had a care. Do you know how the first "hi" came about? Almost at the same time, we greeted each other across the bushes.I believe that we also went to the bush together intentionally, in order to get acquainted with each other.Otherwise, there are a lot of mosquitoes in the evening, so why should the two of them walk there together for no reason?

We all looked at each other from a distance of more than ten feet of bushes, and then invariably found the right moment, looked up, smiled, and shouted "Hi!" Then, I bent through the bushes to her backyard and started exchanged pleasantries. This kind of kung fu of being ready for each other, waiting for the opportunity, and making eye contact is very important.For example, when you attend a reception or a dinner, you must be sharp at all times and respond to the eyes of others.Because of this, you can often see in the movies, people can toast each other more than ten feet away.think about it!If you are not keen, how can you notice so far away?

And the toast with a knowing smile from a distance, no need to speak, raising the wine glass silently and high, expressing one's heart with the eyes, is the most touching! On the contrary, when you see a friend, make eye contact with him, or even call his name, but the other party is slow and unresponsive, how annoying it is!Haven't we all experienced this embarrassing situation, or made others feel this way? When your friend slaps you hard and says, "What's wrong?! I greeted you for a long time, but you didn't respond?" It is because you are not sensitive enough, which hurts the other person's feelings and makes him enthusiastic. "Hi!" He fell into the ice water. "Hi"!It is the most common word, people can say "Hi" to each other on passing cars and boats!They will never meet again.People who are out of touch can get acquainted from now on just because they shout "Hi". "Hi"!is a friendly message from you.Why say "Hi" when there is no friendly meaning?And many successes start from this moment! Because this is a "human" society!All activities, transactions, and achievements are born out of human contact.Others provide what you need, affirm your contribution, and even the value of your existence is based on people's responses. So the more people you know and the better your public relations, the easier it is to succeed! I have a friend who has no money, no influence, and even no talent in terms of talent, but he has become a very popular person.Rich people help him with money, powerful people work for him, and talented people offer advice to him, which makes him achieve great achievements. why?Because he has friendship with these three kinds of people, he introduces people who are rich but urgently need political support to those who are powerful but have no financial support; into a force. And who is the center of power? Of course it is my friend who has no money, no power and no talent! Then again, isn't the ability to make friends with people an outstanding talent? Could it be that my friend waits for the most natural opportunity before getting acquainted with each other? He must have grasped every small opportunity, developed it into a big coincidence, and formed a fate.To know!People who know how to bond, even if they are looking at a shop window on the side of the road, they can exchange greetings with other people who look at the window - there is a common point of attention, which is a kind of fate! In this way, didn't you miss a great opportunity this afternoon? Remember, everyone in this world may have a relationship with you, and may also be your help.There is a saying in China that "meeting three-point love", if you often meet people, how much love can you accumulate? ! Love is often the guarantee of your success, and it is also your pass in trouble! "Don't hesitate! Don't hesitate! Take the opportunity, smile and say, 'Hi! " The world will become so big and so cute!