Chapter 11 eleven

I turned my face and glanced at the motorcycle rider, just "take a look". That kid actually caught up and took out a knife... take one less look Yesterday afternoon, my secretary was almost blinded by a severe beating. On the way to the hospital, her left eye was completely blind. Blood was gushing from a five-centimeter wound. I couldn’t stop the bleeding because the wound Just between the eyes and the eyebrows, half a centimeter deep is like a gap cut by a knife, like a mouth that is vomiting blood. When the doctor sewed her up, she said: "It's so dangerous! You are lucky, if you lower it a little bit, your left eye will never see!"

I followed and rushed to the police station. The perpetrator was being questioned, and his wife was by his side. When they knew that the injury was so serious, they seemed a little shocked. When I asked him why he was so impulsive, his wife said: "Sometimes when he gets angry, he can't control it. It's probably because your secretary's words angered him!" I went back to the hospital with the police. When the secretary took the interrogation record, she said that both of them were riding motorcycles, but there was a small collision. When he reprimanded the other party again, he received this hard punch.

"I saw that he picked up his wife, and I thought he would not be violent." The secretary said, "If he were alone, I wouldn't dare to say more, but I don't know..." Unexpectedly, he was punched, and because the glasses were broken, causing such a big injury, although not blind, scars are inevitable! This morning, when I told this story to my friend, the friend may be based on his recent experience: "One day I was driving on Nanzong East Road. A motorcycle jumped out sideways, and I was startled. If I hadn't reacted quickly, I might have crashed into it. I turned my face and glanced at the motorcycle rider. You know, Just 'look at the limit'! That kid actually turned a corner and caught up; he took out a knife and slashed hard on my car." My friend touched his chest: "It's so dangerous! Fortunately, it's broad daylight Otherwise, I'm afraid it will not be scratched on the car, but on the face!"

Please don't complain about Taiwan's tyrannical spirit today. This kind of thing that caused death just because of "one look" has happened a lot in ancient and modern China and abroad.Didn’t your little uncle take the subway on the first day in New York, because he bumped into a black man and gave him a sideways look, his mouth was cut and he got stitches? I even remember when I was a child, your grandmother always told me not to look at the little Taibao, not even a glance. "If you look sideways, if you feel contemptuous, of course he will hit you; if you look secretly, if you feel cowardly, he may take the opportunity to bully you; as for looking straight at him and feel fearless, he may also think You meddle in your own business." Your grandmother said, "The more this kind of bad person, the more inferior and sensitive he is, you just think of him as an abnormal person, why bother to act like a hero and suffer immediate losses?"

As for ancient times, there were many such people!Humiliate Han Xin and tell him to crawl over the seal from under his crotch, and he is a street hooligan.The Historical Records "Jing He Zhuan" even records a young man named Qin Wuyang: "When the thirteenth year kills people, people dare not disobey them." What is "disobedience"? As long as Qin Wuyang thinks your eyes are "unpleasant", it is considered "disobedience"!Isn't this the same as the current rogue Taibao? But thinking about it, Han Xin became a famous player in history.Qin Wuyang has become a "famous and ugly" in history.When he walked into Qin Shihuang's palace, his face changed drastically with fright and he trembled all over.

In this way, what good is it to show off your quick tongue and courage?What kind of hero is he? When you meet an unreasonable person, unless you can absolutely surpass him, or have the backing of a righteous crowd, just bear with it! "The mountain does not turn, but the road turns!" No matter how strong the mountain is, it is still conquered by people, because people know how to make way for the road to turn. "The mountain doesn't turn, the road turns!" Today you endured the humiliation and suffered a loss, as long as you grasp the power of justice, you will meet him again one day!He divided the fish he caught into four piles and said: "Man fish, woman fish, child fish, old man fish

love back You must often hear me talk about the scenery of Lanyu, but I want to tell you: what impresses me most about Lanyu is not the landscape, but the family I met by the sea! It was an evening, and I was walking on the beach of Lanyu, and I saw a family squatting on the ground to sort out the fish they had just caught. They carefully divided the fish into four piles.It can also be said that there are four levels. "Why put the fish separately?" I asked curiously at the time. In blunt Mandarin, he pointed to the best pile of fish and said, "Men fish," and pointed to the remaining two piles: "Female fish!Baby fish! "Finally pointing to the fish that was obviously few and poor, he said: "Old man fish!Old people eat! "

Fifteen years have passed, and the picture of the family by the sea is still clearly reflected in my eyes, and it can even be said that it is deeply burned in my heart. I often think: Why did the old man eat the worst food, and why did the old man raise his head and smile at me? Today, I went to a friend's house as a guest, and I caught up with this shock again! After dinner, I pointed to the leftovers on the table and politely said to the host: "You have prepared too much, what a pity to leave these!" Unexpectedly, the owner, who was only six or seven years old, said without hesitation: "It's not a pity! Grandma ate it!"

"My mother-in-law will come out to eat later!" said the hostess, she was very surprised when she saw me, and then explained: "She doesn't like to eat together, and she is not happy if she asks her to eat, she only eats what is left, and Happy eating!" child!Now I am sitting at the desk writing to you, thinking of the scene tonight, I can't help but shed tears!I want to ask again: Why? Why? Just because the elderly have no productivity, should they eat leftovers?Should it be bad? Just because the elderly are "voluntary" and "happy"!Shall we leave her alone?

I believe you have read the article "Love to Eat Fish Head" I wrote in "Light a Heart Lamp".Before the old man died, some friends burned her favorite fish head.But he heard the secret that the old man had kept for more than ten years. "Although the fish head is delicious, I have eaten it for half my life, but I have never really liked it. It is only because the family environment is not good, and my husband and children love fish, so I have to pretend to love fish heads." This is an absolutely true story. The old man in the story was fortunate enough to say what was in his heart before he died. The question is how many parents and elders who sacrificed for the family in this world, under the indifference of the younger generation who said "she likes herself", Withered slowly?

yes!They are laughing, because their sacrifices have yielded results, and they are laughing happily! But when the juniors saw that smile, shouldn't they laugh too? Or should I cry with shame? ! Recently, I was evaluating the "Spirit of Chinese Civilization" for PTV. After reading more than one million words of expert papers, what impressed me the most was that the paper mentioned that Western sociologists began to work in China in 1937. Results of years of investigation: "Don't think that there are many big families with three or four generations living under the same roof in rural China. In fact, there are almost none! The main reason is that the life expectancy of farmers is too short. And lack the wealth needed to sustain a large family." Can you believe it?This Chinese often thinks that the saying of multi-generational living under the same roof has prevailed since ancient times, but he is wrong!That is an "ideal", not a fact! Parents and elders live less than fifty years old on average, what a sad thing!The question is, isn't it a shame to be a child if parents can't enjoy their lives in peace and contentment? We used to be poor, we had nothing to say! How lucky should we be to be rich today? !But when we are rejoicing, should we think about whether we are truly filial, or are we creating an illusion? I remember once, when you held a bowl of shark fin as a vermicelli drink, I said very unhappy: "That's for grandma!" You said confidently: "Grandma said she didn't like it, so tell me to drink it up!" Have you ever thought: Does grandma really not like food?Or "love you" and deliberately stay?You should know that a grandma with bad teeth likes shark fin soup that can slip into the mouth! Remember those persimmons we lined our windowsills every winter? Why do you buy more than a dozen persimmons?Because I found out that when I only bought a few, your grandma knew that I loved it, so she always rushed to eat bananas first, and when I asked her to eat persimmons, she said that she had already eaten the fruit. Only when she found that there were so many persimmons that they would go bad if she didn't eat them, would she take the initiative to get them. You must also always see me pick up food for your grandma, and she refuses, saying she doesn't want to eat it, so I stop the chopsticks in the air until the clamp becomes unstable and falls on the table, and she has to stretch out the bowl. Pay attention, when does she not finish eating happily? You must have seen the scene where the dish is too salty and everyone refuses to eat it, but she is rushing to clip it.I used my chopsticks to hold down her chopsticks, forcing her not to eat, because people with high blood pressure can't eat salty! "Look! There is such a son! Don't let the old lady take food!" She complained to the family. Did you notice that she was very happy to say these words? So, today I want to tell you across the sea, I hope you can pay attention to the diet of your father-in-law, mother-in-law and grandma. I am not here, and your mother often works overtime, which becomes your responsibility! When we were young, the elders often treated us with coercion, telling us what to eat and what not to eat!They do this because they love us! And when they are old and become "old children" who need to be taken care of, we have to imitate their previous practices in turn—— With strong love! This is not coercion, but seeing through the politeness of the old people and insisting that they accept the filial piety of the younger generation! In this way, when they pass away one day, we can reduce many regrets!Because we have created a kind of fairness, giving back, and— Love without complaint and regret!