Chapter 6 six

Suddenly there were loud noises, and I rushed out of a red flame. When I went to the yard, I turned around and saw that the flames had already burst out of the roof... Missing is always after breaking up Today I went to Manhattan to visit a museum, and when I got home at 8:00 p.m., when I walked in, your grandmother came to complain: "The grandson lost his temper with me, and he still doesn't come out for dinner!" I turned around and rushed to your room, but I heard her shouting from behind: "Don't scold him, he's scared!" Sure enough, you were sitting on a chair with your face tilted, staring at the ceiling, looking angry.Before I could speak, you called out first:

"Dad! Are you saying I'm not angry? It's snowing heavily today, and my mother promised to pick me up at the subway station, but I waited for more than half an hour, but there was no sign of the car. I called her office and said that I had been away for a long time; When I went to your office, no one answered, I didn’t know you were going to the museum; when I called home, I rang dozens of times, but no one answered. After half an hour, it’s still the same!” You shouted angrily and aggrieved : "Are you saying I'm in a hurry? I almost froze under the arcade, so I had to take the bus back by myself. I was so anxious that I guessed along the way: Did grandma feel sick and went to the hospital, so you all followed? Or was it mom? Did your car skid in the snow and got into an accident? Will you be seriously injured? Make grandma go too? I’ve thought about it a lot, and it’s even worse and more terrifying than this!” You suddenly pointed at the door and stole The grandma who was watching shouted: "Grandma is still laughing! I got out of the car, braved the snow, and rushed in the door. I couldn't breathe, and my heart was about to jump out. Grandma was sitting in the living room watching TV with a smile on her face!" Ask me if I’m hungry? I’m dying of anxiety! How can I still be hungry?!”

"You know that my ears are bad and the TV is so loud, how can you hear the phone?" Grandma walked in and smiled, "Your mother's car broke down halfway through the drive. Fortunately, the police helped her to get home. What's so strange about it!" "Of course no one is to blame me!" You flicked your hands fiercely: "I only blame myself for making a fuss, okay!" Although your series of behaviors were not polite enough, I didn't scold you. I turned around and took your grandmother away, and couldn't help laughing and said to your mother: "It's great! This kid is intimidating!"

Really great!I believe this will be an unforgettable experience in your life!If it were me, I would be angry too!But can you deny that when you saw your grandma at home in good condition, and then saw your mother driving in the door, there was a special joy, and the sudden relaxation after tension, the feeling of a serious illness? I can forgive you very much!Because I have this experience more often than you: When I was young, I was playing with the sand at the door one afternoon, and your grandma got off the tricycle with a pale face. My nine-year-old heart suddenly felt an indescribable fear, and there was nothing wrong with that feeling—my father died of illness.

From a proud child of heaven, I suddenly became a helpless orphan. One night when I was thirteen, your uncle asked me to fetch playing cards, while he was squatting on the ground to fill the stove with oil. Suddenly there was a loud noise, and I rushed to the yard from the red flames. Jumped out of the roof.In an instant, I went from being the little master of a big mansion to a child without a shadow.The big family broke up all of a sudden, and only your grandmother and I were left, building a wooden house with a thatched roof on the ruins. Bad luck struck one after another.To this day, whenever my family sees our house from afar, I feel very excited and grateful to say:

"How wonderful! Home is still there!" I also often think of a story told by a colleague of CTV: "It turned out to be a good day, when I suddenly said that I was going to flee, the enemy had already attacked outside the city. My little-footed grandmother pulled me and ran all night. I ran for more than ten miles. A group of people splashed water with their hands by the stream. Drink, there is a couple beside us, when the husband finished drinking the water, he raised his head and then fell down, screaming with his wife. Suddenly he went crazy with laughter. It turned out that a bullet casing flew from afar , has cut off half of her husband's face!"

I often think of the picture he said, the crazy woman, and the old woman with her bound feet, who dragged her grandson for more than ten miles overnight... this is life!What happiness is eternal?Life and death are always on the line, and existence and non-existence cannot be guaranteed.It's just that people who grow up in happiness often don't know that there will be misfortune in the world, until one day he really loses it! There is a song called "Missing is always after breaking up". I think it is very vulgar but also very real. When we are together, the less we cherish each other and stay together, the more we will regret and miss after we break up!

I am very glad that you have today’s experience, which makes you suddenly have the fear of loss. This kind of fear will benefit you a lot, it will make you have a sense of crisis, make you cherish blessings, make you grateful, and make you love your family more. Know how to grasp all the good things that exist! A hero comes out of a boy! If a boy does not become a hero, the road ahead will be even more difficult... In the first place, don't let it go wrong! This afternoon, I asked you to help pack the picture book. You actually picked up the heavy book from the basement to the second floor, then turned on the air conditioner and TV, and watched popular music programs while squatting on the ground to pack the book.

When I was very unhappy to accuse you of why I carried the books upstairs and took such a thankless posture to pack the books, you replied with a bad attitude: "Why don't you think about it, after I have packed dozens of books, I will naturally develop a better method? And I don't care about moving up and down, I have physical strength!" Regarding your greed for air-conditioning and TV programs, I don't intend to say more, but I want to tell you solemnly: without planning before doing things, you start in a hurry, thinking that you can learn from your mistakes. Thirty years ago, it might have been possible. It was wrong to use it today!

You might say "what's wrong with learning from mistakes?" So I ask, why not do it right in the first place? When a group of people compete, which one wins?Of course it is "the man who is less wrong"!This is like driving a car. If you are not in a hurry, you can say "Look slowly! If you make a mistake, turn around and you will always meet!" But why don't you think about it, if you can look at the map first and draw the route, You don't have to look for it slowly, and you don't have to adjust your words.So save time, you can do other things! "Time!" This is the heart of the matter!Thirty years ago there were few cars, so you could turn around.There are one-way streets everywhere today, if you miss an exit, it will take a long time to find your way back.Moreover, there are many cars, you are at a loss, and you are prone to car accidents.Didn't you see that even the taxis have a note that does not accept "turning around in place"?As a result, this "slow search" is costly and unsafe.

So why the haste? You made the mistake of rushing off today! In this era of efficiency, those who do not plan first and start in a hurry are doomed to fail before they act!Those who rush out without knowing the enemy's situation are doomed to defeat before they shoot, and that defeat is likely to be death. I once read a piece of news in the newspaper that a man died strangely in the driver's seat of a car, with his head sticking out of the window, and was bloody and bloody between the electric pole and his own body.The result of the investigation was that the man was backing up the car in the dark, with his head out the window, trying to see the road behind him clearly, but he backed up the car before he could see the road clearly. Isn't this the tragedy caused by hasty actions? remember!Today's era is completely different from thirty years ago!In the agricultural age, knowledge was passed on from mouth to mouth, and skills acquired through hard work.But now that technology and communication are advanced, even if you have no knowledge at all, you can still get enough information; even if you have no technology, there are appropriate machines for you to use, so people can find shortcuts and achieve success without fumbling at all. In other words, those who are waiting to grope from mistakes will inevitably suffer the fate of falling behind and failing! Please don't say that you are still young, so you have to learn slowly from adults.Because 18 years old is not young, many young people in the world today show their talents before they are 20 years old, which does not let the so-called adults be more beautiful than before, with style, courage and experience! Where did you get the experience? On the books!In the computer!Evidence from your own analysis! Today's technology can use computers to simulate nuclear test explosions, create waves and strong winds indoors, train pilots in simulated flight equipment, and play symphonies on computers! Those young people can achieve amazing things just because they know how to use scientific aids, don't have the burden of past work, and dare to run their imaginations! "Heroes make youth", this sentence has been said for thousands of years, but today it is more correct than ever before!We can even say: if a teenager does not become a hero, the road ahead will be even more difficult!Just like a large group of people running a race, if you can't get to the front at the beginning, you may not be able to perform even if you run fast because the front is crowded with people! Now back to the topic!Do you know how many books like this a worker at Taipei Bookstore can pack in a day? Four hundred copies!what about you?It took half an hour to pack seven books! Why is there such a big difference? Because they use the desktop and the wall to hold the carton to prevent it from sliding, and then stick the adhesive strips accurately.Before working, study the method first, so you can have the highest efficiency! "Fumble by mistake", this word is outdated!Today we say: "Use ideas! Use methods! Use tools! From the beginning, don't let it go wrong!"