Chapter 5 Fives

In today's era, it is no longer easy to stand out from the crowd. Because everyone is a crane.If you really want to stand out, you often have to rely on "Stunning" Kung Fu! stunning In October last year, when I returned to Taiwan, when I first arrived at the airport, I felt that someone special was about to appear. Then I saw a tall girl entering the VIP room surrounded by many people. She was wearing dark sunglasses, very With a mysterious appearance, I only found out after inquiring that she was actually the red star Brooke Reds. This "beautiful baby" was known to me not long after I arrived in the United States. I first watched her movie "Blue Coral Lagoon", and then heard about the incident of her taking artistic photos when she was a child. I also learned that she entered Princeton University, an Ivy League school. And see her participate in charity circus performances, doing all kinds of thrilling moves on the rope.

At first I only knew that Brooke Laders was an idol worshiped by American boys and girls. Later, when I returned to Taiwan, and even in Beijing last year, I saw her posters everywhere, and I was surprised by her charm. But the "beautiful baby" in front of me, wearing plain clothes, was born quietly accompanied by her mother, didn't even turn her head very much, and couldn't see the brilliance of a big star at all, which made me dubious.It wasn't until I saw many long-awaited reporters at Taoyuan Airport that I was sure that the ordinary-looking girl was really Brook Shields.

Turning on the TV at night, I saw the news of her press conference, and I was shocked. That young and beautiful beauty with thick eyebrows and big eyes is really an inconspicuous girl on the same plane?I just felt that she was evasive all the way, like covering her brocade clothes with a black cloth, not wanting to show any brilliance, and she refused to be interviewed by reporters after getting off the plane. After listening to the news carefully, I realized that Brook Shields dodged the crowd of reporters in the morning and rushed into the hotel. After recharging her energy, she asked someone to arrange her hair and make-up before holding a press conference in the hotel.She showed up, but not exhausted after a twenty-hour flight, but fully rested and prepared, so she got the expected reaction——

amazing! "Amazing People"!This is one thing that girls, boys, pretty or not, should learn.That is, don't expose yourself at your weakest moment and make people have a bad first impression, but choose the most favorable time to show your good side. A good first impression often leads to future success.Even Cinderella in fairy tales is stunning when she steps off a pumpkin-turned-carriage wearing beautiful dresses and delicate glass slippers. If it weren't for this surprise, would Cinderella have won the prince's favor?impossible!It turns out that after changing out of her beautiful clothes and glass shoes, and going to the kitchen again, no one would recognize her as the stunning beauty from the night before.Fortunately, the glass slipper was left behind to find her.

Everyone's condition is similar!Especially today, with popular education and affluent life, everyone's talents can be brought into full play.Coupled with the increasing population and increasing competition, it is impossible to stand out from the crowd, because everyone is a crane.So if you really want to stand out, you often have to rely on "amazing" skills! Maybe you want to say: "I'm not gorgeous! How can I be amazing?" Then I want to tell you: everyone is different, at the right time, show your unique good side, and let others find out by surprise, it is amazing!

"Stunning" can be an instant and beautiful display, which makes people who see it unforgettable.Dai Wangshu, an early modern poet, wrote a poem about a girl passing by in a rainy alley and then disappearing at the end of the alley. It is so beautiful!It's this kind of surprise that the dragon sees the head but doesn't see the end. To be amazing can also be to make a good plan, work hard, and master the climax performance. For example, a host introduces a singer: "Now let us welcome Ms. Tsai Chin. She once sang the theme song of Jin Daban' Last Night. I believe everyone unforgettable! "

Another host said: "I believe many people have watched Taipan Kim's 'Last Night', especially the theme song, which is even more unforgettable. Now let us welcome the original lead singer, Ms. Cai Qin!" Comparing the two, of course, the latter can attract more enthusiastic applause. The reason is very simple-concentrate the climax at the back and elicit it in one go.As for the former, there is the disadvantage of "declining again, exhausting three times"! Because of this, all speakers know that even if they arrive early, they should avoid being exposed. Otherwise, if you go to shake hands with this audience or say hello to that friend, when the speech starts, everyone will be tired. It is far better to arrive on time. Immediately on stage, can cause a sensation, this is stunning!

Of course, many people use extraordinary means to achieve extraordinary results.For example, when Chen Ziang, the great poet of the Tang Dynasty, first arrived in the capital, no one knew him.One day, someone was selling a guqin on the street and asked for a high price of one million. Chen Ziang bought it without hesitation.The onlookers were surprised and asked the reason for buying the piano, and Chen Ziang said, "Because I am good at playing guqin".People asked again, "Can I play a piece?" Chen Ziang said, "Tomorrow!" The next day, when everyone arrived at the appointed place, Chen Ziang prepared the food and wine early, and said to everyone with his piano in his hand, "I, Chen Ziang, have hundreds of articles that are unknown to everyone. What is this little skill of a musician worth?" "After speaking, he smashed the piano and distributed the article to the congregation.In one day, it is famous all over the capital.

After listening to so many "amazing" stories, how does sports feel? In this vast crowd, how should you present yourself?stunning? remember!Know your strengths first, don't worry!Don't panic!Choose the most appropriate time and occasion, and express it to the fullest!So-- Even if you are Cinderella who has been buried for a long time, there will be a day when you will come out! An honest housewife, a well-behaved doctor and nurse Doctors, even newborn babies, may suddenly discover contracted the disease of the century. disease of the century Early in the morning, you knocked on my door and said that your electric razor was missing, and there was a dance tonight, so you wanted to borrow it from me.

"No!" I said, "My principle is never to borrow a razor from anyone, and I will never lend it to anyone else!" "That's for your son!" You screamed, "Do you think I have AIDS?" "I believe you don't, but how do you know if I have? Is it possible for you and I to get AIDs during dental visits, blood transfusions, and operations? Even if we don't have this opportunity, will your mother suffer from periodontal disease?" Infected during the operation?" I said, "I want to ask more, since you borrowed a razor from me, would you have borrowed it from a classmate, or lent it to a classmate? Is it possible for the classmate and his friends and family members of the opposite sex? Infection? If they borrowed razors from you, might they also borrow from others?" Finally, I emphasized: "Who is safe after this series of pushes?"

"No one is insured!" You spread your hands. "Yes, you are the safest! The principles you stick to are the safest, and it minimizes your risk!" I took out the money: "Go and buy a new one! Don't save money, life is the most important thing, especially don't die unknown No way!" Seeing you walk out of the house, I breathed a sigh of relief. I am glad to have such an opportunity to tell you to guard against AlDS, otherwise you might go to borrow from your classmates temporarily, and the tragedy may happen like this. Please don't think I'm alarmist! You know it when you look at the numbers in the newspapers.The number of AIDS patients has increased exponentially.They are no longer all homosexual patients.Even honest housewives, well-behaved doctors and nurses, and even newborn babies may suddenly find themselves infected with the disease of the century. Didn't a female doctor accuse the hospital of improper disposal of garbage, causing her to be stabbed by a needle used by an AIDS patient, resulting in AIDS infection?This case has been dragging on for several years, and the female doctor is dying day by day, obviously on the verge of meeting the god of death, even if she gets hundreds of millions of dollars in compensation, what's the use? After graduating from medical school, you are only thirty years old!Just because of a small needle, I have to die early. I believe you have also seen the TV reports some time ago. The New York police distributed "injection syringes" in all corners of the city, and distributed condoms to prisons. What an irony!Knowing that those people inject drugs or have homosexuality, instead of stopping them, they passively give syringes and condoms. What kind of science is this? This is humane philosophy! On the one hand, it prevents and prohibits them, and on the other hand, it helps them.Let them not share a syringe because they can't afford it.Or have same-sex sex under unbearable circumstances, causing infection. It is really sympathetic to see skinny AIDS patients shown on TV.Which of them is willing to be infected?When they borrow a needle or have sex, is it like you are eager to borrow a razor, thinking to yourself: "It can't be such a coincidence, can it? How could it be possible to meet me?" The problem is, because the relationship between people is a network, and everyone has more than one-sided contact, so "coincidence" is easy to happen.Just like you don't hit people with your car, but it's hard to guarantee that others don't understand you.And the AIDS crash is definitely a serial car accident! Abnormal AIDS patients who hold a knife, poke themselves, and then poke others have appeared on the streets. There have also been cases where dentists brought their own medicines, injured their hands and bleeds during treatment, and passed the virus to patients. Due to the negligence of blood screening, there are endless examples of infection during blood transfusion. These are hard to prevent!I have nothing to say.But if you can prevent it, you have to do your best! So I no longer allow you to get your hair cut in the Art Village, which is known as the base camp of AIDS, even though it has the latest and best haircuts there. Would rather spend money on a new razor for you too. Even if one day I find a condom in your pocket, instead of being angry, I may secretly rejoice because you are eighteen years old after all! If you want to play new school, go avant-garde.Can! You also need to have new ideas, new styles, and new principles! And stick to it, protect yourself! The pale mother suddenly slapped the child twice when she found that the child was unharmed... weightless feeling The party you've been planning for so long is finally over this morning!But until two o'clock in the afternoon, I didn't see you, and even the deafening music disappeared.I went upstairs to visit and found you lying on the bed in a daze, listless and lonely. This scene reminded me of the stage plays I used to perform. After the curtain ended with warm applause, I went back to the stage to take a curtain call, and once again received the applause of hero worship.The cast held hands, bowed in the most graceful manner, and watched as the curtain finally fell. Then, I heard the movement of chairs under the stage, and noisy voices, followed by gradually sparse footsteps, and the remaining silence. At this time, the curtain was opened again to dismantle the set and clean the stage. Many actors walked around the stage after unloading. Everyone smiled at each other and took a few deep breaths, as if saying "relieved!" Doing a deep sigh! When you breathe a sigh of relief, it should be the happiest time, why do you sigh instead?What a contradiction, but it is also true! I once saw a child lie under the front wheel of the car amidst the sound of emergency brakes, and the mother who went straight to the past with a pale complexion suddenly slapped the child twice when she found that the child was lucky to be unharmed. The person next to him blamed: "The child is not hurt, you should be happy!" The mother didn't say a word, and suddenly sat on the ground and cried bitterly. Isn't she crying just after letting go of her breath?When she ran to the car, she couldn't tolerate the matter of crying, and only after she relaxed, she would bring it up all at once. Last weekend, students who came to the class from upstate New York asked me to fill out a tuition receipt, saying that their company could pay for it.The reason is that the company finds that retired employees don't usually live long, so they accept the advice of medical experts and encourage those who are about to retire to learn a few leisure skills or develop some hobbies.Sure enough, since the implementation, the life span of retired employees has been extended a lot. The relaxation after great tension and excitement may not necessarily be a complete pleasure. The relaxation often only stays for a short time, and what follows is fatigue or loss. I remember that when I was your age, every time I finished the monthly exam, I would watch a movie, and when the movie ended, it was actually the most frustrating moment for me, because I would suddenly fall into reality: "The results will be issued in two days, will I Won't the exam be too bad?" "How many days can I procrastinate the homework I have done to prepare for the monthly exam?" But this frustration quickly disappeared, because the grades were finally sent out, the homework was finally turned in in time, and there were new homework and exams.The real long-term depression, instead, is a period of time after the results of the entrance examination are released. It should be said to be at a loss, the feeling of weightlessness after a sudden relaxation, because the old goal has been achieved, and the new goal has not yet been set! Someone once asked those who won the first special prize, how do they plan to arrange their lives in the future?Because tens of millions of dollars can't be used up in three lifetimes.But do you know what the most common answer is? They said, "Let's pay off the mortgage on the house, buy two new cars, send some money to our parents, take a vacation to Florida, and drive back to work in the new car!" Yes, they didn't drive around in their new cars, but they went back to their jobs.One of them said it well: "Work is a part of life. What's the point of living if you eat for nothing and take for nothing?" Another put it better: "With enough money, if you still work hard, the more you will be respected! Because you don't work for food, but work for work!" He emphasized: "Every living thing will work for food, only human beings belong to the latter. By!" After hearing so much, you should understand why there is an indescribable depression after the party in this relaxing summer vacation. How can this depression be treated?The answer is simple: "Put in reality, set new goals! Meet new challenges!"