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Chapter 4 Four

affirm yourself 刘墉 4242Words 2018-03-18
This kind of medicine can concentrate the energy of the whole body and exert it at once. Come out, so ordinary people can fight against masters after taking it. Wu Du Ju Gong San When I was a teenager, I loved reading martial arts novels, and I especially liked the plot where the main character was knocked off a cliff by the palm of his enemies, but survived by luck, and found the Ganoderma lucidum instead.Why do I like "Ganoderma lucidum jelly"?Because it can not only heal the protagonist's injuries, but also instantly increase the skill of a Jiazi. But I still remember the "Five Poisons Jugong San" mentioned in a book.This kind of medicine can concentrate the energy of the whole body and bring it out at once.So for ordinary people, it can compete with masters right now.

remember!There is only one fight.After one blow, his energy was exhausted and he fell to the ground dead!It's just that many martial arts scum actually deceived stupid subordinates, and now the "five poisons gather together" will be sent out to be death squads. What a godly medicine? !What a ruthless martial arts scum!But you know what? I thought it was something made up by a novel, but now it actually appeared, and it is easy to find, it is—— poison! Didn't you say that?Some students study hard at night and only sleep for two or three hours a day, but they still have the energy to dance after school because they have taken the "elixir"!

I also heard in Taiwan that in some entertainment venues, in order to enable young people working there to work overtime, they lure them to take amphetamines, and they are really energetic. So what are the so-called "elixir" and amphetamines? It is the modern "Five Poisons Jugong San"! What are those who trick young people into taking drugs and taking drugs? It is the former "martial arts scum"! Didn't you witness the classmate taking drugs, rushing out of the toilet excitedly, knocking down a group of people, and running away again, is it hard to control yourself?

You've also seen the pitiful images of them begging behind the drug dealers when they were in pain. Then they gradually become carious, shameless, realistic, lonely, pale, helpless, shrink, disappear When you meet again on the street corner one day, you won't recognize them, I'm afraid they won't dare to recognize you either! Yesterday afternoon, my neighbor, Uncle Henry, told me that he was going to move out of state, and he asked for a transfer from the company himself. "It must have been promoted to a very high position?" "No! It's surrender!"

"Then the house must be beautiful?" "No! Worse than now!" "Then why do you still ask for a transfer?" I asked puzzled. "For my son! Pull him away from the original group of bad friends!" When I told you the news, you laughed and said you already knew it!He also said that Henry's son once offered you a taste of drugs very proudly.But what puzzles you is that when his younger brother came over and stretched out his hand, he punched his younger brother hard and said, "If you dare to touch this thing, I will kill you!" Since he was so proud of himself and introduced it to you, why didn't he allow his younger brother, who is only one year younger, to touch it?

Drug addicts are so conflicted.On the one hand, they hope that others will also smoke, so that they are not alone.On the one hand, I know the harm of drug use, so I never let my relatives try it.To be clear. They dragged people into the water, made everyone black, and made it appear that he was not alone.But he never dragged his relatives into the water, thinking: "I can't get out anyway! Don't get stuck in it again!" So you have to think about it: when someone recommends a "elixir" to you, or even offers you to take a sip or eat one for free, is that person really your friend?

no!If he really loves you, he should give you a hard punch like Henry's son punched his younger brother! Maybe you will say: "Try it! Just once, and it won't hurt at all. This is called experiencing life!" It sounds reasonable, but you have to know that observation from another angle is often more clear than being fully immersed. There is a female writer in Taiwan who went to the sea to become a dancer in order to write about the plot of the dancer. I only know that there are many dancers who have left after hearing the news, but I have not seen any of her works. It can even be said: She disappeared!

On the contrary, there is an actor in Hong Kong named Chow Yun-fat who played the role of "Little Ma" in the underworld. Even people in the underworld respectfully call him "Boss" when they meet him. Chow Yun-fat did not join the underworld! By the same token, when you want to know what it feels like, do you really need to risk your life to "try" yourself? Many friends laughed and asked me, "Painters and poets, if you don't drink, how can you be inspired?" I asked them back: "Some people can't paint or write without drinking, but I don't have to drink, so I can't finish painting or writing. Whose skill is higher?"

The other party is always speechless. So when someone encourages you to give it a try and tells you how effective the "elixir" is, you can answer like this: "Indomitable, who needs to rely on medicine to support it? Clear and clear, who will be deceived by scum? " I hope that when you visit your girlfriend's house one day, her mother Put a whole lobster on your plate and you can... Lobster and Tap The torrential downpour overnight made our already clogged gutters even more unbearable. The rainwater poured down like a waterfall, and some of it flowed back along the eaves, hitting the glass windows in a hurry, so I couldn't sleep overnight. good sleep.

Seeing that the rain was lighter in the afternoon, I took out the ladder, found another pair of rubber gloves, and called you down from upstairs. "Go clean the gutter! This job is yours! You do the outside! I take care of the inside!" "There's a wasp in the gutter!" said reluctantly.Then I climbed the ladder, looked into the gutter, and shouted again: "Where are the leaves? It's all turned into mud! It's smelly and dirty!" I pretended not to hear, just handed you a plastic bag: "Throw in the cleared things!" Then I turned and left.But don't worry, for fear that the frame of your ladder will not be right, or the soil will become soft due to the continuous heavy rain, causing the ladder to skew.Although I want you to complete the work alone.Still worried about going out to help.

I'm holding the ladder below, watching you grab the dirt out, pass the water hose, and use a powerful spray to clean the corners that can't be reached.Unexpectedly, the dirty mud and dead leaves splashed all over our bodies, and also stained the newly painted outer walls of the house, so we had to take a mop to clean the walls.Unfortunately, another bean-sized raindrop fell from the sky, which made us extremely embarrassed. We all laughed when we saw that the rolling rainwater flowed into the gutter, then turned into the water pipe leading to the ground, and there was no overflow again! "Strange! Never thought the sound of running water was so nice!" You said. "Because it's no longer just a gutter that has nothing to do with you, but becomes 'your' gutter! There you get drenched and muddy, in exchange for smoothness!" I remember once before when I transplanted leeks, I asked you to go out and help. At that time, you didn’t dare to touch the soil and did things with your two fingertips.I believe you will not forget, right? ! I was like: "The rice, bread, and fruit you eat every day, which one doesn't grow out of mud? After we die, we will all turn into mud! We live, stand, and lie down. Is the earth the foundation? You have to respect the land and I will say to you more seriously; Good thing! " To be honest, how many people today are not "distinguishable from five grains"!I am so happy, just to tell you, don't have delicate thoughts.Life can’t be all good times. I was too delicate when I was a child. I’m afraid that it will be difficult to work hard in the future, and it will not be easy to understand the sufferings of others, which will make you lonely. Recently, based on this idea, I often ask you to do some heavy work.I teach you to follow the gardener, watch him work, and say to you: "In the future, you will cut the grass and flowers, and save a fortune to pay for college tuition!" After I repaired the tiles in the bathroom, I also left a lot of cleanup, teaching you to take a sponge and wipe up the plaster spill. I even told you to look at the plumbing inside when the workers were banging on the ceiling in the basement, making your head ashamed! I even forbid you to go to the train station by car, and make you walk a long way. What a cruel master I am! But you also need to know that one day when you encounter problems such as water pipes, faucets, tiles, big gutters, alarm bells, snow windows, lawnmowers, etc., and other spoiled young people are helpless, you can easily deal with it! You might say why do it yourself?You can call in a professional!But like today’s gutter, if you invite someone, can he arrive immediately?The most important thing is for you to understand; this is a professional age, but it is also a do-it-yourself age. A group of professional workers collaborated to build a house, and when they got home, the plasterers might fix the plumbing themselves; the plumbers patched the walls themselves. Why don't they each go to each other's house to fix it? Because of busy work, heavy traffic, and a big place, they don't have time to run around!It can also be said: Because of excessive professionalism, those professionals can only manage big things and not small things! Who cares about trivial matters? Take care of yourself! So don't think that it's a big talent for little use.A truly mature "modern person" is capable of bending and stretching, and knows how to fully help himself! I hope that when you are a guest at your girlfriend's house one day, and her mother puts a whole lobster on your plate, you can eat it accurately without hesitation.Step by step, eat cleanly, let the other party know that you "have seen the scene! Experienced!" And when their faucet leaks, you can immediately pick up a wrench, unscrew the screw, and replace the rubber ring!Let people know that you are not spoiled and spoiled, but a young man who is responsible and responsible for the family! A good wife, a good husband, or a modern person who can defend and attack must start from elementary school!Start at home!Help others! He didn't speak, but turned his face slowly, and what he saw was a distorted inner block and a small eye hole on it. look at him again! "Half of your body is wrapped in cloth, how pitiful! It looks like a mummy, I'm afraid I'll have to lie in the hospital for three months!" A month ago, you came back from the hospital to visit a classmate who was burned, and you said to me with sympathy, But when I asked you today, "Have you visited your injured classmate", you were startled for a moment, and then said doubtfully: "Didn't I see him when he just had an accident? You know that!" So let me tell you a story! When I was a TV reporter, I went to the hospital to interview a man who was badly injured by a fire.He has been lying in the hospital for half a year, and has undergone multiple skin graft operations in a row.When I first entered the ward, I only saw half of his face with minor injuries, so I happily said to him: "Not bad! You have almost fully recovered!" He didn't speak, just turned his face slowly.I was shocked!The photojournalist also unconsciously lowered the camera on his shoulders, because what we saw was a distorted piece of flesh with a small eye hole on it. I didn't do any interviews that day, but the few words he said were etched in my heart: 'Disfigured people; often more pitiful than cancer patients.The latter is facing death, while the former is facing life and the crowd! What he meant was that the disfigured people need more courage to face the future life and people's strange eyes. he told me: "Money is not important to me, what is important is friendship. Help me, tell me: you will accept a terrible person like me in the future..." From his black hole-like eyes, I saw a shining tears.I asked in a low voice, "Are there many friends who came to see you?" "..." There were at first, but now there are very few!General friends will always come to visit after hearing about it, but only true friends will come for the second time.The first time was a favor, so I had to come.The second time is friendship, when he really cares.It's just that there are too few friendships! " After hearing this true story, you should understand why I have to ask again when I know you have been there! The strong wind knows the strength of the grass, the toughness knows the loyalty, and the true friend is a friend in adversity!The more difficult we are, the more we need friends, and the more we will remember their help. Do you know that one of the people I am most grateful to today is your fourth aunt?Because when I had cecum surgery in high school, your grandmother was kept out, and your fourth aunt was a nurse, so she was allowed in.The operation was supposed to be completed in half an hour, but because the abdominal cavity was stuck, it took a full two hours to move, and then anesthesia had to be added.I was partially anesthetized, but fortunately she held my hand from beginning to end, comforted me, and even lied to me kindly: "Look! I'll be fine soon!" So if she needs me today, I will go through fire and water for her without hesitation. Why?Because she stretched out her hands to me when I was most helpless! I remember a friend in the political circle said to me: "Do you know? If you have an operation to remove the prostate, the visitors outside the door will line up to the elevator; but if you have lung cancer surgery, the visitors will line up to the elevator, but It's not a visitor, it's a flower basket!" Then, he said: "But I grasped the reality of people and acted unrealistically! I only went to see the chiefs who had lost their power or were seriously ill. As a result, when they made a comeback one day, they looked at me the most! So friends It's not about how enthusiastic you are usually, but whether you can show up in time when you need it!" is not that right!Last year, a high school classmate of mine who worked in TTV suddenly became seriously ill. Although I hadn’t seen him in the past few years, when I found out, I went to the hospital to see him twice in the rush before returning to the United States. New York booked several calls and sent him some medical information. Not long after, I received a fax from him, saying that the operation has been completed and everything went well... And that was actually a letter written by himself in bed after he had undergone major brain surgery and just woke up. I was so moved that I shed tears. On the one hand, I was grateful for the successful return of this old high school friend, and on the other hand, I was excited by this friendship. A real friend is the one you want to visit, once!twice!three times!When he needs you, you are there! A true friend is someone who thinks of you immediately after returning from a disaster.
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