Chapter 2 two

When a girl had to part with her boyfriend, she said to her boyfriend with tears in her eyes: "Please forget me, don't miss me. It breaks my heart to know you miss me!" deep in love "The phone at home has been quiet for several days. My son didn't call Thomas, and he didn't even receive a call from Thomas!" Your mother whispered to me. In fact, I don’t need her to tell you, I’ve noticed it a long time ago, especially when you rush into the room every day as soon as you enter the door, lying on the bed in a daze, you must have something on your mind. "I'll ask him!" I said to your mother, "I hope I didn't get into any trouble at school!"

Although your mother said that it was a good thing that you lost more than an hour of calls every day, and stopped me from asking, I still knocked on your door. You turned your face away and remained silent for a while, but then you couldn't help me, and finally spoke out with a single brain.It turned out that it was because Thomas said something racist while chatting with a group of your buddies. You angrily ordered him to apologize to Nina who is of black descent immediately, but Thomas was unwilling, so they fell out.You let out the words—"If Mars doesn't apologize to Nina, I won't talk to him anymore." Thomas also let out his words——"Apologize? who!"

So you, the buddies who used to be inseparable, have become sworn enemies. "The hottest thing is that not only do all the students not mediate, but they seem to be watching the jokes between me and Thomas. Look at me, look at him, and then whisper, or laugh loudly!" You beat the wall hard. I absolutely understand how you feel now!Because disputes with your best friend are inevitable. Disputes with friends are often more irritating than fighting with lovers. Lover is unhappy, feeling is heartbreak.The old friend was not happy and the feeling was a "necessary explosion".Because what friends want is "righteousness", when the other party is unrighteous, you will have "righteous indignation", that is "anger"!Maddening!

The problem is, if there is no love and affection, there will be no heartbreak and righteous indignation.But from another point of view, isn't it possible to verify each other's friendship? The ancients often used "cutting seats" to describe friends breaking up.It is said that Guan Ning and Hua Xin were good friends. One day they were studying at the same table. When they heard the commotion outside, Hua Xin ran out to have a look. Xin said, "You are no longer my friend!" Excuse me, are Guan Ning and Hua Xin really friends? "Not counting!" you are right!How can we be called friends if we broke up because of such a trivial matter?A friend who is inattentive, not only does not bring about change, but instead spurns him, it is worse than a casual acquaintance!

Speaking of this, we have to admire Bao Shuya!During the war, Guan Zhong hid behind, and Bao Shuya explained to him that it was because there was an old mother at home, not because he was greedy for life and afraid of death.When doing business, Guan Zhong eats a lot of money, and Bao Shuya forgives his family for being poor.And when Duke Huan of Qi wanted to kill Guan Zhong, Bao Shuya was more of Chen Guanzhong's advantage. Guan Zhong became a great man in history, who made him successful? It's Bao Shuya! Between friends, the most important thing is to understand, to compare one's heart to another's heart, instead of asking the other party to return for one's own efforts.

When a girl had to part with her boyfriend, she said to her boyfriend with tears in her eyes: "Please forget me, don't miss me. Knowing that you miss me will break my heart!" After a boy left his girlfriend angrily and shook her head away, it was obvious that the woman was wrong, but he looked around: "I'm afraid that after her anger disappears, she will feel uneasy, or even though she is remorseful, she is embarrassed to turn around because of the face of the young lady, so I still want to go back." Let me apologize to her first!" What do you think after hearing these stories?You and Thomas are "guanbao friends"?Or "Guan Hua's friendship"?

Remember: there are no friends in this world who will never have disputes, but there are friendships that are more frictional and brighter. Disputes between true friends do not necessarily have to be the wrong party to reach out first. When the right side, first extend the hand of friendship, and the wrong side will hold it even tighter.Cherish it, and be more grateful! Without saying a word, he scraped off a layer of dirt from the toilet urinal with his thumbnail, and then stabbed me in the mouth... love you, not hurt you When I first came to the United States, I met a Chinese chef in Virginia.He came out of the hospital on leave, and his left wrist was still wrapped in a thick bandage. He said to me very politely:

"I heard that you came out to do cultural work on behalf of the country. It is said that you should cook some delicious dishes for you to taste, but your hand was injured. The doctor said that it will be difficult to carry heavy things in the future!" I asked him the reason for his injury, and he said it was all because he didn't pay attention; he often used a heavy frying pan with one hand, and after a long time, his wrist joint was deformed. When I sighed for him, he smiled wryly and said that it was better than another Chinese student studying abroad.The student went to his restaurant to work, and he asked the student to carry a pot on the stove. Before he finished speaking, the student rushed to pick up the pot. Only then did he realize that there was boiling hot oil in the pot, and he wanted to let go. The oil must have been splashed on his body, he gritted his teeth and slowly put the pot down, his hands were already severely injured, and the muscles and bones were injured, almost useless.

"Why don't you even know that the surface of the hot oil pan is not steaming?!" The chef sighed: "It's spoiled at home! It's like a bird in a cage. It can't live on its own. But when you come to the United States to study, who can not work? ? As a result, he didn’t understand anything, and he was not the only one who had an accident! If parents don’t teach them how to do it at home, wouldn’t they be harming their children?” The boss who renovated us recently also said that there was an international student who came to work with him. He asked the student to get the plasterboard. After a lot of pressure, the cartilage protruded in a short time, and I couldn't do heavy work anymore.So he was asked to lay floor tiles, but not long after the laying, the old injury relapsed, and he couldn't even stand up, so he had to resign.

"It is said that this problem will be with him for a lifetime!" The boss said: "Who is to blame? He can lift four yuan at a time. The important thing is to use the right method. It's just that he has never done any heavy work before, so he can't even lift his muscles. I don’t know how to use it, it must be spoiled by the family!” "Parents don't teach him how to do it at home!" "It must be spoiled at home!" They blame the parents of the injured, which makes me have to review your education methods.This also reminds me of an interesting incident twenty years ago:

At that time, we lived in a large courtyard, and the neighbors were just separated by a board. One day, the husband and wife quarreled, and the husband yelled: "What kind of food is this! Why can't you even put salt?! If you don't improve, I will die. Divorce you!" At this time, I heard the father of the family on the left say to his daughter who is in high school: "Learn a bit! Otherwise, my husband won't be able to catch me!" Was that father's mood at that time the same as I am feeling now?We tell you "study hard, and you don't have to worry about family affairs!" But we may have overlooked one thing—one day, you will have to take care of yourself completely, and that may happen suddenly when you live in college.So one day I didn't know how to open the bottle of dishwashing detergent, but the next day I had to wash the sheets by myself. Wouldn't it be difficult to adapt to another world suddenly? The most serious thing is that you have to go out to work!If you haven't done any heavy work at home, and you haven't touched the spatula, will the tragedy I mentioned earlier happen? So I can't help but reflect: "Loving you, has it hurt you instead?" I remember a high school classmate from a wealthy family who said to me during his military service: "Oh my God! I've eaten urine! And it's the kind of urine that forms a yellow scale, can you believe it? One day the officer asked me to clean the toilet. I have never touched such a thing, but I still hold it The nose was brushed. Who knows, the officer went to check, he didn’t say a word, scraped from the bottom to the top with his thumb nail in the urinal, scraped off a layer of dirt, and then stabbed it in my mouth, my God! Just thinking about it makes me vomit!" But he also said that he could only blame himself for not being able to clean the toilet, otherwise he wouldn't have been insulted like this! In this way, if I ask that from now on, you will be responsible for cleaning the bathrooms and toilets of the whole family, is it an excessive request? For your future, for your safety, we can no longer send millet to your mouth, unless we keep you in a cage like a bird forever. Of course you don't want to be locked up, of course you want to fly! So, please learn to fly, learn to forage, learn to work, and learn to suffer!