You have been on the phone since after dinner, and you didn’t answer once, twice, and three times, until I yelled: “If you want to make a call, go out and call!” With a bang, you actually Really rush out the door. It was snowing heavily outside, grandma ran to look at the wardrobe by the door, lest you didn't wear a coat.Mom leaned over the window to see which direction you were running.I was sitting in the living room in amazement, thinking of the scene in the movie "Rope": Chunyu Yi shouted to his apprentice who "loved him deeply and took responsibility for him", "Get out of here!" The apprentice of 20 years actually packed up his clothes and turned around to leave.

I always remember the trembling voice of the old actor Wang Yin: "I have raised him for more than ten years, with such a sentence, he will really go away!" How well Wang Yin acted!Isn't the anger, bewilderment and loss in those eyes exactly what I'm feeling at the moment? son!We've been on the phone for you recently, and we've quarreled countless times!Is the phone worth your hurt and your parents' emotions? Maybe it was out of anger, you forget it after you finish speaking!But you have to know how much that will hurt your parents! Remember two days ago, when we blamed you for spending most of your phone bill, you talked back?You said: "I will pay for how much it costs, so it's okay!"

Do you still remember your complaint when your mother asked you to type a letter?You said: "Oh! I have to take out my things; I have to take out yours!" So I thought, maybe one day, when you can make a lot of money and you get into trouble with us, you might say: "Let's do this! Calculate how much I have spent on you since I was a child? How much milk powder did I eat, how much did I wear? How many clothes, I will write a check and pay in one lump sum, nothing will be owed!" Then you can also pack up your clothes like Chunyu Yi's apprentice and walk away, becoming a truly independent man in the world!isn't it?

In the past, I read Fromm's treatise on love, saying that the growth of children points to the separation from their parents; and after separation, it points to the union with another individual to become a new family.I didn't feel much when I read it; but today, seeing you step by step away from us, I began to comfort myself with Fromm's theory: "Is this natural? When the child grows up, he has his own opinions and rebelliousness, in order to break away from his parents and become independent!" The question is, can the kindness of parents be denied by being separated from them?Can the love that parents have given in the past ten years be measured by the value of milk powder and clothes?Why don't you count your own life in it?

When I was your age, I was also rebellious, always comparing myself with others, blaming my family for being too strict, but one day I read a play by Nobel Prize winner Samuel Beckett (Endgame ), which has a paragraph: "The son yells at his father: 'Bastard! Why did you have me?' Father: 'I don't know. ' Son: 'What?What don't you know? ' Father: 'I didn't know it would be you! ' I started to think about what it meant, and realized that there is no choice between children and parents.The most important thing is that this relationship can never be let go.

So you can blame us for inheriting myopia, blame us for being disciplined with Chinese concepts, blame us for not being billionaires, or even blame us for being unreasonable! But, you can't blame us for being your parents. Just like, we never blame you for giving birth to you. To get you, we are only grateful.Remember when you were a child, we often said that you were the cutest when you were a child, and 100% belonged to your parents, and it was different after you went to school. But when you go to elementary school, we say that you are still innocent before middle school! When you go to middle school, we will talk about your son growing up and chatting with you as a friend. It's really interesting!Going to college away from home in the future.About to lose him!

But I believe that until you get married in the future, we will still say: "Although it is rare to come back once, thinking of him makes my heart sweet!" This is love, that is persistence, that is, no regrets! But, I don't know, as you grow up, do you also feel that parents at each stage have different cuteness?Or are you getting more and more bored, and really want to pay off what you owe your parents, and never be controlled again? Don't worry!No matter how old you are, how great you are, how successful you are, how failed you are, we will care about you as much as we love you.

When you come back from the public phone, if you are careful enough, you will find that although we seem to ignore you and go to sleep, there are clear footprints of your mother and me on the snow in front of the door... Homosexuality is often directed, that is, taught, seduced to be gay.Those who are most likely to be hooked are those young men and women who have no heterosexual experience. be careful with exposure A few Chinese friends asked you to teach their children how to play the piano. You probably became addicted to teaching them. On a whim, you planned to print some leaflets, put them on the windshield of the car in the parking lot of the train station.

"Maybe a large number of people will come!" You said excitedly. "I object!" "Why?" You asked in surprise, "Didn't you ask me to work to make money long ago?" I didn't answer you directly, just gave an example: My student, Wang Wei, recently quit his job delivering food in a restaurant.It was a well-paid errand, as long as you ride a bicycle for a few streets and deliver the food ordered by the customer, you can get a tip of five dollars.At the end of the day, I earn several times more than school work-student students. Why didn't he do it?

Because he found it too dangerous!Several friends who delivered food, when they found the address, found that it was deserted and deserted. Suddenly, a sharp knife was put on their throats. "We are in the light and the other party is in the dark. Of course we have no guarantee." Wang Wei said. "You are in the light, others are in the dark." This is why I object to your distributing leaflets.From the list, others can know that you are a student of the Juliet Academy of Music, guess your age and knowledge background, and then know the area where you live from the phone number, and your outline has been roughly drawn.

And what about the other party? You know nothing! So when you go there at an appointment, is it possible that a situation similar to food delivery will happen? Sometimes it's even more troublesome! I remember one time when it was snowing heavily and the postman delivered a registered letter. I asked him to enter the house to sign.Because there used to be a young postman who was invited in by a lady, and then the woman tore her clothes and said, "Are you going to listen to me, or do you want me to call rape?" Before leaving, the postman winked: "There are many wonders in this world, so be careful!" He also said: "When strangers go out, you'd better send them to the door and close the door yourself, because some bad guys come to explore the way first, and secretly stuff a ball of paper in the lock hole when they go out. It seems that the door is closed, but it's not true." Lock it up. And he has figured out everything in the house, and if he comes back to rob and steal, it's hard for you to guard against!" There is another situation that you should know, which is the prevention of homosexuals. In today's era, although we cannot say that homosexuality is illegal, the minimum precaution is not to be seduced by them. When I was in junior high school, I met a scholar-type person in a bookstore. He explained the contents of the books to me like a teacher and invited me to eat. But after getting more proficient, he actually behaved strangely. My former colleague also mentioned what happened to him in middle school. One day, while reading a newspaper on the bulletin board outside Taipei New Park, a man in his twenties, with his hands behind his back, was shaking the key in his hand. Touch and tease him. Later, after reading a paper on homosexuality, I realized that homosexuality can often be guided, that is, being taught and lured into being a homosexual.Those who are most likely to be hooked are those young men and women who have no heterosexual experience. A gentle and clean young man like you is exactly their ideal goal! The times are different and the environment is also different.When I was driving in the past and saw a person on the side of the road asking for a ride, it was natural to stop and let him come up.But today some states have legislated to ban it, because most gangsters take the opportunity to rob.They even hid aside, and the young girl stopped the car before you opened the door, and the muzzle of the gun was already pressed to the temple. It used to be that you could call a taxi from a deserted street corner in Manhattan.Now even if you call a car from home, the other party will ask you to leave your phone number and call back to check before driving over. A taxi driver said it well: "The man in the car is guarding us, but we are also guarding him. In the middle of the night, if a few men stop the car, I will not stop! What can we do? We know nothing about each other!" "Know the enemy and know yourself, and you will never be imperiled in a hundred battles." "Sun Tzu's Art of War" more than 2,000 years ago has given us the best guidance. So you have to work, you can!But you must definitely recognize the target, and you can't expose yourself defenselessly first!