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Chapter 91 say something nice

mental gymnastics 刘心武 804Words 2018-03-18
When your wife has finished dressing and turns around, you feel that she is very beautiful, and you want to compliment her, but you are afraid that she will look nasty, and you are afraid that your wife will not appreciate it, so you use words such as "Old husband and wife, don't come here again", "I am She won't be upset if she doesn't say it" wait "logic" plugs your throat and you finally don't say... A colleague has won an honor, and you know that it is indeed the result of his long-term hard work, and you want to say to him: "This is well deserved..." But you are afraid that others will think you are hypocritical flattery, so your words burst out. When it reached the mouth of your throat, you swallowed it again...

At the gate of the building, I met the whole family of the neighbors, young and old, all three generations, all dispatched to a nearby small restaurant for dinner.Seeing their harmonious and happy situation, you want to say a few words of blessing to them, but you think that they have never said any auspicious words to your family, and you feel that they may not value your friendly expression at this moment , so you just turned sideways to let their family pass by, and coughed a few times... When shopping in a mall, you meet a salesperson with a really good service attitude. When she puts your purchased goods in a beautiful plastic bag and hands them to you kindly, you want to not only say "thank you" , and added a few words of encouragement, but in the end you still didn't say it because you were thinking "I'm God, that's what she should be"...

you are wrong!When you face others, and non-self-interested, natural, kind, simple and honest good words spring up in your heart, don't hesitate, don't hesitate, don't retreat, don't distort, you have to say the good words quickly!As long as you really speak from the bottom of your heart, do not expect anything in return, are really full of kindness, and really have a clear conscience, then you can speak out your good words openly and clearly.Even if you encounter the situation of "a dog bites Lu Dongbin" and "a donkey's liver and lungs are exchanged for kindness", you have nothing to lose, because you radiate with the brilliance of human kindness, and you give good words to others, even your relatives, that is also true. Necessary sowing.Generally speaking, most people in this world will accept the seeds of goodwill, love, and affinity; when these seeds fall into their hearts, most of them will take root, sprout, bloom, and bear fruit. If... think about yourself, even if you are so strong, so willing to be lonely, so not afraid of bad words, in the end, you still need good words from others...

People need kind words.There are not many good words for non-self-utilitarian purposes in this world, but they are still lacking.Are the good words of refreshing and natural as sweet spring flooding your heart now?Please speak up quickly!
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