Chapter 46 empty cup of love

Bruce Lee said that the function of a cup is to hold water. If a cup is full of water, the excess water will spill out, so the cup should be empty.This theory seems very mysterious. What Bruce Lee meant was that people who learn martial arts should be like an empty cup, so that they can keep absorbing. As in Kung Fu, so is love. Love should be an empty glass or only half full of water. If the glass is full, it can no longer absorb love. Love should be thirsty and greedy, constantly demanding, never satisfied, like a martial artist who pursues the highest state. Some men complained: "I think I am good to her, but she still thinks I am not good enough."

She should feel that it is not good enough, which means that her glass is not full of water, she still has demands on this man, and she is eager to get more love from him.Because I love him, I have demands on him. A woman says to a man: "Don't love me so much anymore—" She didn't mean that it was enough, her cup was not full of water, but she wanted the man to continue to love her so much.It is not love if it is not greedy for the love of the lover. When this cup is full, no more love can be accepted. Love is as big as it is tolerant, and strong as long as it is. Bitter wine needs a full glass, it is bitter enough, no amount of bitterness can hurt us anymore.And the cup of love is best never filled.