Chapter 47 don't stare at a glass of water

I walked out of the kitchen with a bowl full of soup in my hand. I was afraid that the soup would spill, so I stared at the bowl of soup. However, the more I stared at the soup, the more it spilled out and burned my hands. This kind of experience has been experienced many times. There are people too.The secret to keeping soup from spilling is not to stare at the bowl of soup. In the silver plate competition, none of the competitors will stare at the water glass on the silver plate.The more you stare at that glass of water, the more afraid it will spill, the more it will spill. Too nervous, too determined, often backfired.

The more you want to get a person, the less you should stare at him. The more you are afraid of losing someone, the less you should stare at him. What we lose is usually what we are most nervous about, but knowing that things can also bully us?You always lose your most beloved and most expensive umbrella, like an umbrella, let alone a person? You stare at a person desperately, unwilling to relax, trembling, walking on thin ice, it will only suffocate him, and you will lose him sooner or later. If you want him, don't look at him. If you don't look at him, the more he wants you to look at him.

If you don't care about him, he will become more determined. The more you fear losing, the more you will lose.