Chapter 45 1 cup of water with added oil

Someone asked, can a man and a woman be confidantes? Only by appreciating each other can we become confidants. In addition to appreciating each other, we also need each other.Some people are confidantes of many people, but they have no confidants because they don't need each other.The same is true for men and women, how can men and women be exceptions? So someone asked again, can a pair of confidants of the opposite sex have a pure friendship after a super-friendship relationship? If you add oil to a glass of water, is that glass still pure water? If you still insist that it is a glass of water, you are deluding yourself.Having sex with a bosom friend, there are only two outcomes——

From now on, you will lose a confidant and gain a lover, wife or husband. You are no longer friends. A lover and confidant are hard to find in the world.There are always some concerns that we can't tell our lovers, we can only tell our bosom friends, and some feelings, we can only tell our lovers.A confidant and a lover must be two people. There must be some blindness in love, but friendship is to know the enemy and the confidant. How contradictory are the two? We would rather be confidantes with a person of the opposite sex, just because we understand that he is not the first person to spend the rest of our lives with. Once we go to bed, we have requirements from each other. We know that he does not meet the requirements, so why go to bed with him?

Sometimes, we just need a glass of water.