Chapter 17 Love is not necessarily a blessing to be enlightened

The French adapted a film based on Yukio Mishima's novel "School of the Flesh", starring Isabella Huppert, who specializes in neurotic women. The character in the play is Domenique, a fashion designer, who lives in a big house, wears good clothes, and lives a good life. He has reached middle age, but his desires are not dead.She met a handsome and sexy waiter by accident in a not-so-reputable place. At first, it was a money transaction, and gradually it became a dubious relationship, and finally transitioned into an intriguing cohabitation.They are not equal, in the world of desire, he is richer than her, so he thought he was dominating her, and dared to say unruly: "I often go out, whether we can continue depends on whether I come back at night. "But in the human world, she is richer than him, she knows how to deal with him, and she drives him out.A few years later, I met him on the street. He was down and out, gave birth to a daughter in his hand, and was wearing cheap clothes that didn't fit.But the bad thing is, just like halfway blindness is more painful than natural blindness, he has seen a better life, stronger desires, and more delicate emotions, but he is unable to continue.There is no revenge more vicious than this.

Is it a good thing to let people know that there are better, stronger, richer people and things in this world?If that person has the ability to pursue and is qualified to continue, it is a blessing; if that person cannot obtain it and manage it, it is a crime.Knowing is worse than not knowing.There is such a passage in the book, Wang Qiyao, who was selected as "Miss Shanghai", went back to the countryside with her grandmother. Looking at Wang Qiyao, the grandmother knew that Wang Qiyao's life would be very difficult, and it would become more and more difficult, because "If a person grows up Well, I am most afraid that she will know it herself, but in a place like Shanghai, everyone will rush to tell you."Once people know this, how can they be willing to take root?

Wang Qiyao is still qualified, and even so, what about those without qualifications?Look, Hu Lancheng, on the way to escape, is merciful all the way, provoking women who are a bit small and beautiful in small places, and earnestly enlightening their sleeping feelings, but he is destined to leave, and they have to stay where they are, but the emotional threshold has been adjusted In the middle of the air, it is rare to meet such a considerate, so talkative, so emotional, and so flirtatious master.From then on, ordinary men are hard to catch, no matter how good they are, they have to pick up and compare with that shadow, and they have to spend the rest of their lives as Madame Bovary looking out of the window.Their life has been difficult since then, and it has become more and more difficult.

I have a female friend who is a fashion designer and has become famous at a young age, but she is in love with a security guard from an ordinary background.She didn't mind his background, took him to look at the clothes, introduced him to the celebrities in the circle, the little security guard gradually gained a certain confidence, and even expressed some opinions on the design of the clothes. At the party, he sat next to her, looking very hapiness.However, I thought, what if he separated from her?I am afraid that it will be difficult for him to have such an opportunity to win the attention of a girl of her status, and it will be difficult to obtain such an intense, conscious, delicate and constructive love.It’s fine if he can forget, but I’m afraid he probably won’t be able to forget that kind of love, which is often the strongest voice in his life, and will be chewed countless times in the foreseeable loneliness in the future.It doesn't have to be as strong a stimulus as love. Sometimes, letting others know about the outside world, knowing that there are more possibilities, and giving birth to an unstable mind from then on, is also a blessing or a misfortune.A writer friend of mine went to a small place to experience life and praised the landlord's son as "intelligent" and "a genius". In a month, the child came with a novel he had written, and he planned to continue writing it.He could have married and had children in a small place in peace and stability, and realized his dream of opening a supermarket, but now it was all ruined.

Therefore, it is not necessarily a blessing to be enlightened in love, and it is not necessarily a curse to remain asleep in desire.Sometimes, it takes wisdom to awaken desire and inspire the spirit; it takes greater wisdom to keep quiet, watch the changes, and let it fend for itself.