Chapter 18 when she says no

This piece of news is very tough: "A 39-year-old man surnamed Wang from Taoyuan County, Taiwan, met a waitress surnamed Li in a hotel last May. He used the excuse of taking her home and locked the car door halfway in an attempt to sexually assault Ms. Li. Ms. Li resisted. After nearly five hours, the guarding of the chastity was successful, and Wang was exhausted, so he told Li Nu to 'get out of the car', and the Taoyuan District Court will pursue criminal responsibility." The following message is also very sturdy: "This shows that if you insist on not being raped by others, others will not be able to rape you. Those who were raped probably did not resist later." "All rape, except the victim Being beaten in a daze is all false accusations."

People who leave such remarks should go and see "Thelma and Louise".In the movie, Louise and Selma went on a weekend trip. Selma danced with the strange man who came to strike up a conversation in the tavern, and gave him the wrong signal, so he took the drunk Selma to the parking lot. Tried to rape her.At this moment, Louise pointed her gun at the man, and she said in an excited, painful, and infinitely struggling tone: "When she said no, she really didn't want it!" The man refused to do it. Cursing obscenely, after a "bang" gunshot, the two wild flowers went on the road of no return.Later we learned that Louise had been raped by someone who got away with it.

"Thelma and Louise" is considered a feminist movie, but from this I suspect that feminism in our impression is exaggerated and demonized.CCTV has a noon program called "Global Information List", which randomly interviews men on the streets of foreign countries and asks him to talk about his understanding of feminists. In the end, they will kill their own children and become lesbians." How could the real feminism be so exaggerated?They just built a building in the atomic bomb crater and saved money in a piggy bank on the basis of huge negative equity. The rights they fought for were really pitiful, but it was: "When she said no, she really didn't want to want!"

Men can't tolerate women saying things like this. Men always shape women in an arrogant and self-interested way. Women are either enchantresses, or sluts with a virtuous appearance and a loose heart. A wild rose, singing "Gimme a Kiss."From Ming and Qing novels to Zhang Ziping to Bai Ling and Wei Hui, women want more than men. Even if they don't want to, it's fake. A man should be within the scope of their desire.They probably never intended to tell the difference between "no" and "um, no."In a patriarchal society, the two have the same meaning. If you want something, you must want it, if you don’t want it, you must also want it.

So the man who raped Louise was going to get away with it, and Selma later came to this realization: "He hurt me. If you hadn't stepped up, he would have hurt me badly. And he'd be fine—everyone Seeing us dance, they will say that I asked for it, and my life will be worse than it is now." Resistance is a matter of physical strength and technology, and even if you give up resistance, it does not mean that the previous struggle is another kind of pandering. "No" and "Um, no" are two different things.It seems that in the life guidelines for men in a civilized society, in addition to "don't wear tight pants", "don't pop pimples", and "engage in more recreational and sports activities that are beneficial to physical and mental health", this article should be added: "She When you say no, you really don’t want it.”