Chapter 30 Lesson 3 Women's "Love Quotient" Enlightenment - Mastering the Love Psychology of Young Men

When young men are in love, they often have strong emotional characteristics.Psychologist Hall once vividly compared the emotions of young men to "storms and raging waves".After a detailed analysis, the love psychology of young men has the following characteristics: 1 intensity This is the difference between men and women.Men's emotions are often exposed. It is like a leather tube with doors open at both ends. How much goes in and how much comes out, there is no accumulation of emotions.When men have grievances and pain, they tend to vent at any time, unlike women who develop into grief.When a man sees a woman he admires, he will quickly reach the level of violence at first sight.

2 richness Men's emotions are very rich in the stage of love. Sympathy, pity, melancholy, and guilt are all experienced very clearly and will be stored in the heart, but the emotional expression is often intermittent and performative, so there is introversion and Features of extroverted coexistence.This has something to do with the intensity of the man's emotions. If you are not good at controlling your emotions, you will look extroverted, but if your emotions are delicate, you will look introverted if your emotions are pent up in your heart.It can be seen that men are not only rich in emotion, but also rich in emotional expression.

3 Volatility Another difference in mood between men and women is volatility.This instability is manifested in the fact that men tend to develop from one extreme to the other. When things develop according to their wishes, they will be elated or even ecstatic, and when setbacks appear unexpectedly, they will panic or be discouraged. Sometimes it will cause a big mistake. If the concept of the legal system is not strong and the negative emotions expand to a certain extent, it will often lead to a big mistake. 4 blindness When men fall in love, they are blind.They often don't consider whether the relationship between the two parties is speculative, what the woman's morality is, and so on.A man will fall in love casually, and even he doesn't know what he is looking for in a woman.Sometimes, when other men find Ms. Zhang, he will go to Ms. Li, for fear that he will not be able to find Ms. Li in the future, and others will say that he is incompetent.

5 Shallowness Men often don't have deep emotional experience like women. There are many men who treat love as a game, talk when they want, leave when they want, and change when they see differences. A man can fall in love with several women at the same time, and he has a good impression and admiration for any woman who pays attention to him. Men's love lacks specificity and exclusivity, "hot" is quick, "cold" is also quick, and "sadness" and "joy" are rarely found in "leaving" and "joining".Because their love lacks an emotional foundation, it is difficult to develop in depth.

There are many female college students who are reluctant to fall in love with men of the same age. The reason is that men of the same age are in their youth, blind, superficial, and volatile, so it is difficult to get along with women.