Chapter 29 Lesson 3 Women's "Love Quotient" Enlightenment - Eight Common Mistakes to Avoid in Love

You've just met a boy, you're obsessed with him, you're talking about him in front of all your friends, and he—could be your Prince Charming. But this relationship is still too young, the foundation is not yet firm, and any changes may occur.Be aware that these first few meetings can actually make or break the bond between the two of you. Here are some common mistakes women make when they are in a relationship: (1) Invest too quickly.When you first meet him, don't expect to spend every weekend with him, or insist on giving him advice and rearranging his home.Don't worry, you are not married yet!

(2) Identify the other party too early.The quickest way to break up with your boyfriend is to tell him that you love him and that you want to have children for him.Most likely his response was to run away without a trace.You should let the relationship develop naturally. (3) Self-deception.Do you clearly know the motives behind his every behavior? Is his attitude towards you very flat? Is he dating other girls at the same time? Do you only contact once a week, and you think he is entrusted to you for life? Object? Or maybe you think his violent temper, gambling addiction or even drug use are not serious behaviors!

(4) Overdressed.Exaggerated clothes should be worn on exaggerated occasions, such as discotheques.But don't go roller skating in a bling miniskirt. Clothes can be a criterion for judging people.You're supposed to come across as confident and decent, and attractive doesn't mean overly sexy. In order to show their best side, many women often put on too much makeup, sometimes to cover up their inner panic.But men find natural attractiveness far more desirable than artificial faces.A little makeup is enough to accentuate your charm. (5) Talking too little or too much.You may feel shy or nervous, but he feels the same way you do.Occasionally take some initiative, don't let him ask and answer by himself.A few innocuous questions like: "What do you think of this soup?" or "What does your day include?" can help break the ice, make your relationship more sympathetic, and more evidence that you're interested in him .

However, don't think that you have to keep talking constantly.Silence is gold.Even if you're eager to get to know each other, you don't have to recount your life's experiences on the first few dates.Silence is often one of the charms of women. (6) Mystery.Only by being an honest person can we have the opportunity to establish a sincere and sincere relationship.If you really want someone to date you, don't try to be cool.Men lose patience with affective women.You are not acting in a TV series, but living in real life. (7) Too bossy.If he asks where you like to eat, tell him.But do not attempt to control the entire dating process.Ask for his opinion and choose something to do that everyone agrees with and likes.

(8) TOO CARE OF HIS MONEY.If you order a lobster dinner and tell him your favorite gift is a diamond, eat it up and you'll never see him again. No matter how rich a man is, he doesn't like being told how to spend it, or on whom to spend it. When you order, show that you intend to pay the bill.You should be prepared to pay your share, or be the host.Men like women with insight, not sluts looking for a long-term meal ticket.