Chapter 28 Lesson 3 Women's "Love Quotient" Enlightenment - Minefields in Communicating with Men

1 Behavior that annoys men "What kind of behavior annoys men the most"? Here are the eight most annoying behaviors revealed by the answers to the questionnaire: (1) Often complain to men.For example, personal health problems, financial problems, work conditions, etc., but they have never been interested in men's problems and have not paid attention to them.In fact, in a conversation, there is a basic principle, which is to talk about things that both parties are interested in.Men also have a difficult scripture to recite, and he will not take listening to your complaints as pleasure.

(2) Often nagging, only talking about trivial things, or often repeating some superficial jokes and useless opinions.Mozi once taught his disciples not to talk too much, otherwise, they would be like frogs in a pond, barking all day long, but never paying attention to others. (3) Speech is very monotonous, emotions and anger are invisible, indifferent to everything, and there is no emotional response. (4) The attitude is very serious, without interest, incomprehensible and gentle, with a very serious appearance.Some women think: "I would rather keep your mouth shut and be considered a fool than open your mouth and let others see your true nature." But it is still much better than covering up and disguising.

(5) Lack of devotion, proudly independent in social situations, not only does not participate in men's activities, but also does not take the initiative to communicate with men. (6) Overreaction, vulgar tone, and slang and vulgar language. (7) Excessively self-centered, constantly telling men about their trivial matters in life, and never paying attention to men's feelings and reactions. (8) Excessively catering to men in order to win men's favor for themselves. 2 can not take up a man's time Some women tend to like to be late for appointments, and she often has many reasons to explain for herself: "I'm so sorry! I'm too busy."

This kind of explanation is not reasonable at all. If you are busy, don't date a man. Even if you have something temporarily, you should contact him in advance. Using the excuse of being busy is unreasonable.It is not the man's responsibility that you are busy, nor is it that the man asks you to be so busy, but you are only speaking from your own standpoint, only thinking about your convenience, but not thinking about others.Acting arbitrarily and disregarding others like this is equivalent to causing others to suffer losses invisibly, which is to occupy other people's time. Modern society is actually a contract society, and agreement is also a kind of contract.If you can't abide by the spirit of this contract, how can you interact with men?

However, some women don't have this kind of thinking, and don't pay attention to the appointment time with men.For example, this situation can be clearly seen from the banquet. The invitation letter is printed at 6 o'clock, but in fact it is good to start at 7 o'clock. However, not being able to keep the promise is a big taboo when dating a man.No matter how talented you are, if you are always late for appointments as if nothing had happened, you will be regarded as a person who does not believe in what you say after a long time, and you cannot do what you say, let alone imagine other things.In this society where every second counts, time is equivalent to money.Taking a man's time is tantamount to murder.Therefore, when interacting with a man, you must not occupy his time, so as to show your respect for men.You must not think that you don't need to worry about such trivial things as being late, otherwise you will often end up being abandoned.