Chapter 22 Lesson 3 Women's "Love Quotient" Enlightenment - How to Make Yourself More Feminine

Almost all women intend to use "femininity" as the basis for being a woman.For the accusations that she lacks "femininity" from all directions, those strong women always feel ashamed, and try to prove in various ways that she is feminine, and she is no less than ordinary women, and they are desperately trying to be a woman who makes her more attractive. A "good mother" who satisfies her children, a "good wife" who satisfies her husband, and a "good daughter-in-law" who satisfies her mother-in-law.Some men will say that a confident woman can attract men, and a woman who can only obey without her own opinion will only make men intimidated.However, many men will say: "I only feel headaches for those women who like to be the first everywhere. If women occupy half of the sky, or even the entire sky, what do you call it?"

Can people bear it? "So, in real life, a woman who knits when she is free is more likely to be accepted by the people around her than a woman who reads when she is free; win a man's heart. Every woman in contemporary China has the right to shape her own image according to her wishes.Modern female beauty mainly includes career and "femininity".Some people put their main energy or even all their energy on their careers, don't trim their appearance, and don't pay attention to their femininity. This is an extreme.The other extreme is pampering and spending the main energy on grooming and "femininity", neither of which can realize the beauty of modern women.There is a phenomenon in the society that makes people worry, that is, men are becoming more and more feminine, while women are becoming more and more masculine, especially those boys and girls. I don't want to criticize here, and I have no right to say that the creamy taste is a woman's patent. Women can only be as quiet as virgins, and they are not allowed to be presumptuous, and they are not allowed to go one step beyond the threshold.But the world is a harmonious whole, after all, it needs the beauty of men and women to balance.The beauty of modern women is inseparable from the pursuit of harmony. Through the shaping of beauty, all aspects of women's quality will be improved, and their vitality and creativity will be fully exerted.The beauty of modern women is a three-dimensional beauty. It not only requires women to have a beautiful external body, but also requires wisdom, talent, and elegant inner qualities. It requires women to have the character of modern people, and there is no lack of traditional Chinese implicit beauty.

Lesson 3 Women's "Love Quotient" Enlightenment - How to maintain self-esteem in front of men Many women think that men are selfish, domineering, and possessive, so they either hold a hostile attitude towards men, or blindly lower their dignity to cater to each other.This raises a question for women: how to maintain their self-esteem in front of men? (1) As a woman, you must clearly know who you are, know what you want in life, respect yourself, and don't try to play or trap others.Men are only interested in the real you, and they are only attracted to women who value themselves and have affection.A woman in disguise will only scare a man, don't guess what a man needs, it's dishonest, and he will eventually expose it.In fact, it is not so comfortable to constantly have to twist yourself to suit others. (2) Do not treat men

too picky.Don't judge by his appearance, he may be too short, too introverted and can't play tennis, give him a chance, even if you have doubts about him, don't jump to conclusions too early, you will only understand after you go to his date.If things don't go your way, don't keep blaming men, are you responsible too?Review your behavior and attitude, whether you want to control him, or you often talk about your old boyfriend, or you control him too tightly. (3) Be an equal opponent in front of a man, have an equal relationship with him, find out what is important to you, and make sure he feels the same.Know exactly what you need and what you can give up, and say it clearly, don't hide important things.Sometimes, hoping too much for the other party will only hide the true feeling. What is the price?Many bitter couples get divorced because they don't get what they need, and they are willing to destroy their marriage to find what they need.

(4) Sometimes rejecting men is not necessarily a bad thing.Face it, you don't need to feel like a failure when a relationship ends, sometimes rejection is only temporary, don't blame yourself, it's just a fight for freedom.Women often have a variety of ready-made reasons for rejecting courtship from others, which can be roughly as follows: I see you as an older brother, there is a difference in our age, I can't attract you "that way", my life is too complicated now, I have a boyfriend, I don't date co-workers, I'm dedicated to my career, I'm celibate, let's be friends, it's not your fault, it's me.Don't make a man feel like you have a secret agenda in mind, don't start a relationship just because you want to get married.Mutual understanding and loving emotional communication is the key to developing a relationship.Marriage is not an end in itself! No one would buy a car without knowing how to drive! If you regard marriage as your need, whether it is for security or love, disappointment will always be inevitable.A man wants a woman to love him, not for marriage. The crux of the problem is to find someone who has the same needs. If you don’t like making so many commitments, find a man who thinks similarly, and tell your attitude towards marriage honestly. Trapped in an unattainable fantasy.Maybe, you will finally get what you want. (5) Be kind and generous.Women can sometimes make men feel intimidated, so women should be careful not to act or say unexpected things, you don't have to be that smart.A moderate amount of aggressiveness is necessary, but the so-called appropriate level will depend on individual circumstances, it is enough to behave naturally and often keep smiling.Whatever you do, don't try to be too narrow-minded, it will make a man nervous.Don't just think about marriage and children, cherish that independence more, and don't ruin your original plan for his temporary date. (6) Make your relationship as natural and harmonious as possible.Men are actually not as complicated as women think, so don't be so harsh on them, and don't start a relationship with the man model in your mind.Men, like women, are not scourges.Let a man be his way and accept him as he is and you will save a lot of trouble, if you like tough guys don't try to change a man who is indecisive, it will only frustrate both parties.If he says he doesn't want to change himself, the chances of a miracle are slim and you should take his word for it and find another suitable candidate.