Chapter 21 Lesson 3 Women's "Love Quotient" Enlightenment - Respect for a man is the prerequisite for you to be liked by him

For many women to "like" a man, you must remove fear, insecurity and idealization.In short, you have to try to accept men. Accepting each other is the first step to liking.Liking is usually followed by emotional acceptance.Smart women fall in love with men when they get to know them, and they get to know men mainly because they know what their needs are.The most common barrier to accepting and liking a man is a lack of understanding.A lot of women just because they don't really understand men, they will It's hard to like them.And women often think they know men, often from myths or traditional concepts.In traditional roles, men represent initiative, self-overcoming, and they never express their needs.They keep themselves safe by preventing women from seeing things that threaten their masculinity.What many women don't understand is about men's vulnerability and sensitivity.

These range also from fears of helplessness and passivity, of being seduced, of dependence, and of not being able to live up to feminine ideals.Even vulnerable men need to be loved and respected.A man who is truly accepted, understood and liked, what he gives back to women is his care, love and respect for them.Only stupid women make the following mistakes that lower a man's self-esteem and make him hate you: 1 Never talk about their "baldness" If a male friend teased him about being bald, he would often laugh it off.But if a woman mentions it, he will feel extremely unhappy, because he has a sense of fear, fearing that he will lose his attractiveness in the eyes of women.

2 Do not criticize his mother in front of a man Because the mother is the first "opposite sex" that a man is attached to in his life, the mother's malicious criticism will definitely hurt his feelings greatly. 3 Don't belittle his "romantic views" Almost all men regard themselves as big lovers. If women underestimate his romantic temperament or romantic fantasy, it will be a fatal injury. 4 Don't make his eating preferences into a conversation topic The last thing a man wants is to be deprived of his right to enjoy the food he likes, nor to point out that his liking for a certain food may cause damage to his health.

5 Don't praise another man's achievements in front of men Many men are relatively shallow, and mentioning other men in front of him will make him feel that he is underestimated and deliberately ridiculed. 6 Don't Blame Men It is a male nature to cast eyes on other women, but it is often blamed by women, so men don't like women to mention it. 7. Don't criticize his work For example, if you advise him to fight for promotion and salary increase or change jobs, he will think that you lack confidence in his ability, ambition and enterprising spirit.