Chapter 20 Lesson 3 Women's "Love Quotient" Enlightenment-The love quality that people need in the e-era

Take a look at the short clips of modern love here, and read the popular views on love over there. Can you find that although the views on love in the new century are diverse, they generally tend to be pragmatic, rational, and hedonistic. At the same time, in love relationships, Pay more attention to maintaining individuality and pursuing equality between men and women. To adapt to such a popular trend, what kind of love quality is enough to enable us to move forward and retreat freely in modern love? Let's try to list a few. 1 Believe in love, but not superstitious love Believe that true love exists, but expect it to transcend everything is unrealistic.Love may change over time, and its demise does not necessarily mean betrayal, but most likely a natural decline.Having such an understanding of love can make us not superstitious about love, and it is not easy to be hurt and hopeless.

2 can enter and exit You can forget yourself when you are devoted, and let your reason stand out when the result appears, no matter whether the result is the beginning of marriage or the end of love, so that you can grasp the initiative of love and not get lost in the relationship.The so-called "shoot when it's time to shoot, and let go when it's time to let go." 3 Be proactive and open Sitting on the sidelines and waiting for love will definitely miss many opportunities. The modern rule is to seize the opportunity and actively pursue. We can despise those who despise the suitor.It is stupid to close ourselves, and it is futile to close love. As long as we build self-confidence, openness will only make us have love, not ruin it.

4 Capable of love The ability to give, the ability to understand, the ability to tolerate and the ability to bear.Don't expect your lover to share everything for us, we still need to face many things alone; giving is more beneficial to love than asking for it, and it also makes us happier; tolerance has an unexpected effect on love, and it can reach the goal of asking, accusing, and begging. Tolerance may work when the purpose is not met. 5 have a little mental flexibility Enjoy the intimacy of love, accept the alienation of your lover, and you can master the looseness and tightness leisurely.Cherish when you have it, turn around quickly when you lose it, don't have to mourn the past endlessly, and believe that new love is ahead.

6 Learn a little about the psychology of love In the state of being available but not available, feelings are most likely to heat up. Using this can strengthen the atmosphere of love; creating a small obstacle will make the lover's fighting spirit high; the lover needs comfort most when encountering setbacks; fresh tricks are always what love needs .There are many such things, and if they are used well, they will form a benign mutual incentive situation. 7 have a little economic foundation Although material and love are not necessarily directly proportional, a little material foundation is definitely conducive to the healthy growth of love, and it is difficult for a love that does not eat the fireworks of the world to last long. "In the final analysis, love is beyond success or failure. Love is the most beautiful dream in life. Can you say that you have a successful dream or a failed dream?" These are the words of the philosopher Mr. Zhou Guoping, no matter what the state of our love is , It is smart to use this sentence to encourage and comfort yourself.