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Chapter 16 Lesson 2 Find the right one and marry again - see the four types of women clearly

Some people divide women into four types in terms of personality: 1 command type This type of women is generally outstanding in one aspect, or superior in one aspect. It may be due to noble birth, rich family background, good looks, or extraordinary talent.Therefore, she often relies on these capitals to regard herself as noble and self-centered, and directs others to revolve around herself.She doesn't allow her will to be violated, and she can't tolerate being around someone of the same sex who is stronger than herself.She is like a proud peacock, always spreading her tail alluringly, wishing that all men would only love her.She has a big temper, is moody, speaks without restraint, and shows no empathy.This kind of woman is difficult for ordinary men to control, and she is also looked down upon by ordinary men.

It cannot be said that such women are not good. Because of their extraordinary ability and strong self-confidence, they are usually cheerful, energetic, generous, warm and helpful to others.Getting along with her makes people gain energy and increase their explosive power to attack life.In addition, they have a unique modern temperament and a wild charm, which are deeply loved by men who pursue excitement, youthful spirit, and immature personalities. If a man is fascinated by such a rose (beautiful and piercing), he must learn to properly grasp her emotions: or you are willing to bow down to her, treat her like a bright moon in your hand, and dedicate your life to her; Or you surrender to her and spend time training this naughty little pony.

But the premise of taking all these actions is your treasure, and you have to have the capital to make her admire.Otherwise, you are just a beggar for love in front of her, and what will accompany you will be lifelong misfortune. 2 dependent This type of women is very easy to get close to. They are gentle, considerate, weak in self-awareness, and poor in self-reliance. Among the five elements of metal, wood, water, fire, and earth, they belong to water, and they cannot make a career on their own. Need the help of the other half.They seldom have the pursuit of breaking into the society and conquering the world by themselves. Their biggest wish is to marry well and entrust their life to a good man.

It stands to reason that most men should like this type of classical women, but they are not.Modern people appreciate romance more, but this type of women is more reserved, not exciting enough, and can often serve life without arousing lust.Therefore, they are suitable for men who forget about work and pursue careers. This kind of men do not love children, do not pay attention to women, have no interest and energy to study women. What they need most is a quiet and warm home, a safe haven. 3 communicative Modern women are sociable, especially women with high social status, good looks, and high education.Communication satisfies their vanity and their sense of success.This type of women is trendy and fashionable. If they are high-quality people, they will do a lot, because the times have provided them with opportunities to show their talents.The alluring self-success makes these women have a weak family concept, unwilling to be confined in the small circle of the family, and even refuse to have children.

When a man falls in love with such a talented woman, he has to abandon the traditional family concept, and don't expect her to be around you all day, doing this and that for you.Cooking, washing dishes, buying vegetables, buying rice, paying rent, paying phone bills... the most reasonable way for all housework activities is to share. It is impossible for her to take care of her husband wholeheartedly in life, because she does not have that much patience.But when a man makes such a couple, his emotional life will be very rich, his life will have a kind of artistic beauty, and he will have the feeling of supporting his life.Of course, she is not suitable for a man with a heavy traditional concept, she is really not good at living.

4 practical This type of women was born in a commoner family, and they have been trained to share housework since childhood. They have strong living ability, can manage housework, serve their husbands, and take care of children in an orderly manner. When men fall in love when they are young, they generally don't like this kind of women. They value material things over spirit, which seems very vulgar.But when life falls into the vulgar life of firewood, rice, oil, and salt, this kind of woman is capable. What kind of wife to find, everyone can only choose according to their actual conditions, abilities, and family ideals.

Before you have a clear understanding of your purpose and ideals for starting a family, it is best not to rush into marriage.
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